Guest guest Posted June 5, 2002 Report Share Posted June 5, 2002 In a message dated 6/5/02 5:01:19 PM Pacific Daylight Time, writes: > , > K, now I'm the one asking for prayers. came home from college > 3 > weeks ago and I noticed immediately that we have a problem. She is > bulimic. Oh brother! Just what you need! Whoever gave her the idea she was fat? A friend? Teacher? Boyfriend? That's terrible, I feel so bad for you, Donna; as if raising our special needs kids was hard enough, we sometimes forget our " normal " children have problems of their own! Sooo glad you nipped this in the bud EARLY on, and here's hoping for a complete recovery and healthy eating habits thereafter. Geeeez, seems we're ALL needing prayers lately....more so than normal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 In a message dated 6/7/02 9:36:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, DPLigon@... writes: > Hey, just want you to know I am still praying for , we are all > here for you, I believe in recoverery and am believing this for > and the family, I am sure she will do what it takes to get better!! I > can tell you this because I got better!! Just want to give you some > encouragement in case you have a chance to read from us, God Bless > you and your sweet family, Dawn > Thanks Dawn. I can't tell you how much it means to me to have this support, prayers and especially folks' honesty. The number of people that have told me that they too, or their daughter, battled an eating disorder, is staggering to me. This experience so far, has been the most awful thing I've ever had to live through. But having Maddie has taught me to fight the fight and never give up. We had a good day yesterday and she went off to program this morning in MUCH better spirits. I know that there are still plenty of bad days ahead of us, but BOY did I need yesterday!!!! I am reading when I can and listening to your stories. Pam, Happy Bday to your angels. Charlyne? You hanging in there? Lyn, I don't know what to say!!! My sister went through a very nasty divorce, so while it never happened to me, I was close to it and felt the pain it brings. I'm sorry!!! Hang in there; many people need you. Irma, keep on getting better!!!! The kindnesses you are receiving from folks around you is truly a gift, but what goes around comes around....;-) Everyone else? I am still catching up. Hope ALL are well, and thanks again for your prayers. {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 > Thanks Dawn. I can't tell you how much it means to me to have this support, prayers and especially folks' honesty. The number of people that have told me that they too, or their daughter, battled an eating disorder, is staggering to me. This experience so far, has been the most awful thing I've ever had to live through. Gosh, Donna you're an awesome mom, so this is god news that has accepted to listen and follow to everyone that LOVES her. No telling what the set back was, but glad y'all caught it on time. Prayers for a quick recovery for . Has she mentioned how long she has been doing this? Because I remember it was not too long ago she was doing fine. Sorry you're have to go through this with your daughter, it does hurt a parent when we see our child go through some pain or changes.I'm just glad you are not alone and , too. >> But having Maddie has taught me to fight the fight and never give up. Boy! Can I relate to this, (((HUGS))) x12 > We had a good day yesterday and she went off to program this morning in MUCH better spirits. I know that there are still plenty of bad days ahead of us, but BOY did I need yesterday!!!! Yes, life is such full of suprises, but together we shall take it day by day as we continue to search and search. Any day is welcome and thankful. > Irma, keep on getting better!!!! > The kindnesses you are receiving from folks around you is truly a gift, but what goes around comes around....;-) Thank You Donna. Make sure you're taking care of yourself as you're going through these issues. Just remember we care for you. HUGS! Irma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2002 Report Share Posted June 10, 2002 > In a message dated 6/7/02 9:36:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, DPLigon@m... > writes: > > > > Hey, just want you to know I am still praying for , we are all > > here for you, I believe in recoverery and am believing this for > > and the family, I am sure she will do what it takes to get better!! I > > can tell you this because I got better!! Just want to give you some > > encouragement in case you have a chance to read from us, God Bless > > you and your sweet family, Dawn > > > > Thanks Dawn. I can't tell you how much it means to me to have this support, > prayers and especially folks' honesty. The number of people that have told > me that they too, or their daughter, battled an eating disorder, is > staggering to me. This experience so far, has been the most awful thing > I've ever had to live through. But having Maddie has taught me to fight the > fight and never give up. We had a good day yesterday and she went off to > program this morning in MUCH better spirits. I know that there are still > plenty of bad days ahead of us, but BOY did I need yesterday!!!! > I am reading when I can and listening to your stories. Pam, Happy Bday to > your angels. Charlyne? You hanging in there? Lyn, I don't know what to > say!!! My sister went through a very nasty divorce, so while it never > happened to me, I was close to it and felt the pain it brings. I'm sorry!!! > Hang in there; many people need you. Irma, keep on getting better!!!! > The kindnesses you are receiving from folks around you is truly a gift, but > what goes around comes around....;-) > Everyone else? I am still catching up. Hope ALL are well, and thanks again > for your prayers. > {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} > Donna > > Hey Donna, I know this is so hard and I am so glad is going to her program cause this means deep inside she wants to do what it takes, my mom and I have always been close as you and your daughter seem to be too and sometimes I think it was harder on her than myself and also hard on the others that love me. I always felt that love though and know that most of all God is the one that loves us!!! Anyway, just know if I can do anything at all let me know,you know we will all continue our prayers for you all, take care of you too Donna, cause your daughter is probably concerned for you and wants you to be okay too!!! This will get better I truely feel, Dawn (I was thinkin just the other day how strong our kids have helped us to be in all we go through havent they, you ARE strong Donna!!) > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 In a message dated 6/15/02 2:24:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, smilinggail@... writes: > How are things going Donna? Are you hanging in there? Does Maddie sense > that something is going on? You're still in my prayers. Keep us posted > when > you can? > (((((hugs))))) X12 > Gail :-) Hey Gail, Yes, I am hanging in there. This is a very hard journey and pretty scary, but when I look at where we were two weeks ago, it's easy to see the progress. What we see is that she is smiling and laughing again and back to being her interactive self with the little ones. What she sees is that she can eat the food they're making her and still lose weight (she lost two pounds since starting there). She is not allowed to exercise while in this program, so she is eager to get back to it. MY job is to keep her busy for 2 hours after her dinner---we go to movies, take walks, play with Maddie, look at pictures, wash the dog....lots of things. Maddie doesn't really have a sense of what is going on, but the other kids are all helping in any way they can. All in all, good things to report. Today, we go to my BIL's for dinner, IF still wants to. This will be her first social gathering with family members, and so she is nervous. We can't force her, but do think she needs to make that first jump and see that she can do it (not just the social piece will be hard...eating away from home will be). So far, she left this morning saying ok. We'll take two cars just in case and see who lasts the longest, or Maddie....;-) Thanks for asking Gail, and Happy Father's Day to all the Dads and dh's!!! This should be a miraculous one for you and yours Gail!! {{{{hugs}}}} Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 In a message dated 6/16/2002 8:20:59 AM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > > Yes, I am hanging in there. This is a very hard journey and pretty > scary, but when I look at where we were two weeks ago, it's easy to see the > progress. Hi Donna, Glad to hear that things have improved in the last two weeks. It may be a long road but sounds as though she has made great stride in just a few short weeks. Wishing her many more. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 16, 2002 Report Share Posted June 16, 2002 Donna, Wow Donna, is making great progress!!!!! Did dinner at your BIL's go okay? Who did last longer, Maddie or ? Sounds like your job is a good one. Must be the hardest after dinner, but it sure is nice you two get to spend time together doing fun things. Yes, was wonderful having dh home today. Fixed him his favorite dinner and let him nap all day long. Gail :-) << Hey Gail, Yes, I am hanging in there. This is a very hard journey and pretty scary, but when I look at where we were two weeks ago, it's easy to see the progress. What we see is that she is smiling and laughing again and back to being her interactive self with the little ones. What she sees is that she can eat the food they're making her and still lose weight (she lost two pounds since starting there). She is not allowed to exercise while in this program, so she is eager to get back to it. MY job is to keep her busy for 2 hours after her dinner---we go to movies, take walks, play with Maddie, look at pictures, wash the dog....lots of things. Maddie doesn't really have a sense of what is going on, but the other kids are all helping in any way they can. All in all, good things to report. Today, we go to my BIL's for dinner, IF still wants to. This will be her first social gathering with family members, and so she is nervous. We can't force her, but do think she needs to make that first jump and see that she can do it (not just the social piece will be hard...eating away from home will be). So far, she left this morning saying ok. We'll take two cars just in case and see who lasts the longest, or Maddie....;-) Thanks for asking Gail, and Happy Father's Day to all the Dads and dh's!!! This should be a miraculous one for you and yours Gail!! {{{{hugs}}}} Donna >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 20, 2002 Report Share Posted June 20, 2002 Hi Donna, I'm so glad to hear that things are progressing well for in her journey of recovery. With such a caring & loving family around her, she will come through this. You've been so supportive of all of us in our struggles along the way. Just wanted to return some support your way. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Love & Hugs, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2002 Report Share Posted June 24, 2002 In a message dated 6/24/2002 12:33:07 PM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > They'll be making a recommendation in a couple > days to see if she can go outpatient now (outpatient is 3 nights a week > instead of every day like she is doing now) They did give her Sunday > off; > she needed the break. Hi Donna, I was glad to hear the update about . Sounds like she is doing well. I hope she will be able to do the outpatient program. Zeb recks my furniture too but I am not buying new until the legs collapes LOL. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2002 Report Share Posted June 25, 2002 In a message dated 6/25/02 1:11:01 AM Eastern Daylight Time, charlyne1121@... writes: > I was glad to hear the update about . Sounds like she is doing well. I > hope she will be able to do the outpatient program Thanks Charlyne. She finishes up on Thursday and will then receive treatment on an outpatient basis. She is anxious to get a summer job (Gap had called her for an interview, so she is hoping they are still hiring). has made very good progress in the last week and a half, but we're not naive. We recognize that she still has a real lot of work to do, and so do we, in terms of helping to support her through this. Thanks for the prayers all. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2002 Report Share Posted June 25, 2002 In a message dated 6/25/02 1:48:33 PM Pacific Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: << We recognize that she still has a real lot of work to do, and so do we, in terms of helping to support her through this. Thanks for the prayers all. Donna >> Donna! What great news. I'm so happy for you. Even though you still have to be on your guard and keep the support going for her, you must be so relieved that the immediate danger is over. (((((hugs))))) Gail :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 25, 2002 Report Share Posted June 25, 2002 In a message dated 6/25/2002 4:48:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > She is anxious to get a summer job (Gap > had called her for an interview, so she is hoping they are still hiring). > Hi Donna, I hope gets the GAP job and she continues making good progress. I think is very fortunate to have perceptive parents that were able to recognize her symptoms before it was too late. I'm not sure I would have been able to do the same. I was always the mom that harped on the weight issue with my big girl. Thinking of you and yoour family. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2002 Report Share Posted June 26, 2002 In a message dated 6/26/02 12:21:27 AM Eastern Daylight Time, charlyne1121@... writes: > I was always the mom that harped on the weight issue > with my big girl. Thinking of you and yoour family. > Charlyne > Thanks Charlyne. We never harped on about her weight (course, now she's thin), but did try to be supportive and offer our help when she'd complain about *being fat*. But we see so many parents at Renfrew who did *harp* about the weight issue. Who knows what's the right thing, ya know?!?!? The whole illness is really not about weight or food anyway, and that's what we've learned. Bulimia is about how you cope with your emotions. Our 100% fits the MO of a person with bulimia; the good girl who always does what SHE thinks everyone expects of her. This has been yet another journey in my life; an experience for learning to better our family. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2002 Report Share Posted June 26, 2002 In a message dated 6/26/2002 3:16:49 PM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > The whole illness is really not about weight or food anyway, and > that's what we've learned. Bulimia is about how you cope with your > emotions. Hi Donna, I really don't think a parent can forsee what child may have a tendancy to use food as a controller. We tend to be too close to the situation to see the warning signs. I could see my daughter doing this too under my nose and not having a clue. I am very happy that you were able to see the signs and is doing so well. You must be so relieved. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 26, 2002 Report Share Posted June 26, 2002 In a message dated 6/26/02 12:16:40 PM Pacific Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: << Thanks Charlyne. We never harped on about her weight (course, now she's thin), but did try to be supportive and offer our help when she'd complain about *being fat*. But we see so many parents at Renfrew who did *harp* about the weight issue. Who knows what's the right thing, ya know?!?!? The whole illness is really not about weight or food anyway, and that's what we've learned. Bulimia is about how you cope with your emotions. Our 100% fits the MO of a person with bulimia; the good girl who always does what SHE thinks everyone expects of her. This has been yet another journey in my life; an experience for learning to better our family. Donna >> Donna, Ya know, sometimes these very scary journeys we take in life turn out to be blessings in a weird way. They pull the family together, make us stronger and more compassionate. Not that I would go looking for trouble, but when it comes, to face it head on, deal with it and learn from it can also be a good journey. I'm glad things are going so well for your family. I'm glad you have all pulled through this. And I'm glad you have kept such a positive attitude. Gail :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 27, 2002 Report Share Posted June 27, 2002 In a message dated 6/27/02 12:19:56 AM Eastern Daylight Time, smilinggail@... writes: > I'm glad you > have all pulled through this. And I'm glad you have kept such a positive > attitude. > Gail :-) > > I second that Donna. Reminds me of that Tyler Theme song. " Your going to make it after all " Diane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 28, 2002 Report Share Posted June 28, 2002 yeah it does do y'all know where you can get the lyrics to that song --- dben937342@... wrote: > In a message dated 6/27/02 12:19:56 AM Eastern > Daylight Time, > smilinggail@... writes: > > > > I'm glad you > > have all pulled through this. And I'm glad you > have kept such a positive > > attitude. > > Gail :-) > > > > > > I second that Donna. Reminds me of that Tyler > Theme song. " Your > going to make it after all " > Diane > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > ===== Since I don't have a silly one. My AOL IM chat symbol is a popsicle symbol. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2002 Report Share Posted July 18, 2002 In a message dated 7/18/02 7:43:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, smilinggail@... writes: > Donna? Do you think Maddie is anywhere near ready to start training? I > don't think Seth has a clue about it yet, but I may try using a cloth > diaper > trick of Lynn's and see what happens. > Gail :-) > Nah, but we still sit her on it Gail, and when I see her squatting, I run like crazy with her in my arms to the nearest toilet!!!!! We can be quite the sight!!! LOL I've caught her a few times and same at school. She giggles like crazy when I dance for a pee or poop, but doesn't get that she instigated all that fuss!!! And sitting in poop diapers is a big plus for Maddie. YOU know, with pica, it's a feast....YUK!!!!! Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 In a message dated 7/24/02 2:12:14 PM Eastern Daylight Time, DPLigon@... writes: > > > > > > Hey Donna, just checking to see how is, I read one of the > messages that she was having some blood work done for a cyst? I may > have missed a message but hope all is well, I think you said it was > most likely from the medicine? Just thinking of you!! Hope everything > is okay, God Bless, Dawn (I was on zoloft before, hopefully this > Hey Dawn, The cyst is on her right breast and they did an ultrasound. The radiologist is calling it " unremarkable " , but we go to see the specialist at CHOP next week anyway ( is just a cysty kid). The blood work (and bleeding time test) was completed yesterday and that was for unusual bruising. I do believe the bruising was a rare side effect of the prozac, but it seems a lot of professionals are loathe to buy into that (at least the ones we're dealing with). We'll know soon enough. Other than that she seems to be doing ok DAwn.....it's still hard work and scary, but we feel we are doing all the right things. She finished up her day program at the eating disorder treatment center and is now doing BIG TIME therapy (sees a therapist twice weekly, a nutrionist once a week, we all see a family therapist once a week--well, 6 of us; we leave Maddie home--and she goes to a psych once a month). It was recommended to us to delve intensively into this at the get go....so we'll see!!!! It better have some good effect; it's breaking the bank here!!! Thanks for asking Dawn. Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2002 Report Share Posted August 15, 2002 -Born in Northern NJ, moved to Tampa at 15, went to nursing school in N.O., LA, married, moved to Northern NJ, then town, then Horsham, then Norfolk VA for 8 years, to Israel 8 years, back to Norfolk for 8 years (tired yet???), to Hershey 4 years , and to Caln 2 plus years ago when we " retired " from Milton Hershey School. Interested in moving farther out west??? Life is much less hectic out here. And even less so " wester " . Of course the distance to the special schools we need must be considered also. We are 45 minutes to Elwyn's son School. I think Melmark may be another 5 minutes. Sara - Choose to make lemonade, not complain about the lemons. Sara - Choose to make lemonade, not complain about the lemons. _________________________________________________________________ Send and receive Hotmail on your mobile device: http://mobile.msn.com Sara - Choose to make lemonade, not complain about the lemons. _________________________________________________________________ Join the world’s largest e-mail service with MSN Hotmail. http://www.hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 16, 2002 Report Share Posted August 16, 2002 In a message dated 8/15/02 11:39:02 PM Eastern Daylight Time, pastmidvale@... writes: > Born in Northern NJ, moved to Tampa at 15, went to nursing school in N.O., > LA, married, moved to Northern NJ, then town, then Horsham, then > Norfolk VA for 8 years, to Israel 8 years, back to Norfolk for 8 years > (tired yet???), to Hershey 4 years , and to Caln 2 plus years ago when we > " retired " from Milton Hershey School. ekk, Sara!!!! I have never lived outside of Philly, except for that mere year in Boston when Duff went to Harvard. And it felt like I'd moved to another country....LOLOLOL <<Interested in moving farther out west??? Life is much less hectic out here. And even less so " wester " . >> Seriously, I'd go crazy. I'm truly a city girl. We go in town all the time; it's in our blood. HOwever, it's funny, I go to NYC and LOVE it.....but after a few days have had enough. Philly is so nice because it's big city with small town appeal in a way. Although I REALLY loved Boston and loved living in the city there too. Heck, I'm so boring Sara, I am living TWO blocks from where I grew up and go to the same church every Sunday that I went to with my mom all my life!! ;-) Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 In a message dated 8/22/2002 1:12:45 PM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > Yes, we get Goodnights delivered monthly, paid for by medical assistance. > My doc writes a prescrip every few months. > Hi Donna, I just had delivered a 3 mos. supply of those horrible diapers. I will talk to the ped. but I think I have to wait until the 3 mos. are up. I am going to have to buy the goodnights and donate these diapers. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2002 Report Share Posted August 22, 2002 In a message dated 8/22/2002 3:27:16 PM Eastern Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: > BTW, what do you sell dear? No doubt you've told us > before, but I forget. Hi Donna, The worst menu in the heat ever!!!! bread bowls with chili, chowder and cream of broccoli soup, sweet potato fries and baked potatoes at this weekend fair. The weather will be cool this weekend, yeah!!!! My stock truck is runneth over. I plan to return home with an empty truck. I am leaving friday am and the fair opens at 6:00 pm. I am training my new Japanese student. I think I am in for a rough weekend. She is so quiet I can barely hear her. Charlyne Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2002 Report Share Posted September 5, 2002 In a message dated 9/5/02 12:23:43 AM Eastern Daylight Time, smilinggail@... writes: > So glad things are going okay for Maddie, so far. Is doing okay? > Haven't seen a post from you in a while, hope all is well. Yep Donna, this > is > NOT a good school district for special ed! LOL > Gail THanks for asking GAil. I haven't given much updates...just busy busy busy here. started school Tuesday and likes it so far (despite being overwhelmed by the amount of reading she has to do----she's got TWO history courses). She still does her therapy twice a week and is doing MUCH better on the zoloft. We go back in October to see if there are any changes in the lump on her breast and the bruising completely stopped (see, I'm CONVINCED it was the prozac). So, so far, so good!!! So sorry about Seth's school situation. When you're dealing with your other kiddo and new school you surely needed his stuff to go at least ok!!!! {{{hugs}}}} Donna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2002 Report Share Posted September 5, 2002 In a message dated 9/5/02 10:13:47 AM Pacific Daylight Time, duffey48@... writes: << THanks for asking GAil. I haven't given much updates...just busy busy busy here. started school Tuesday and likes it so far (despite being overwhelmed by the amount of reading she has to do----she's got TWO history courses). She still does her therapy twice a week and is doing MUCH better on the zoloft. We go back in October to see if there are any changes in the lump on her breast and the bruising completely stopped (see, I'm CONVINCED it was the prozac). So, so far, so good!!! So sorry about Seth's school situation. When you're dealing with your other kiddo and new school you surely needed his stuff to go at least ok!!!! {{{hugs}}}} Donna >> Glad to hear things are okay at your place Donna, and that is doing better. Hope she keeps up with school. Sounds tough! Gail :-) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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