Guest guest Posted November 14, 1998 Report Share Posted November 14, 1998 ---Marie Kuhn <mariek@...> wrote: > Anybody out there tried the new Rebetron combination treatment? > Marie Marie-- I'm on the Ribivarin/Interferon combo therapy, and while it seems to be helping, it also makes me nauseated and very tired on the days of my shots (Mon., Wed., Fri.) My appetite is really weirded out--I'll think I'm hungry, and when I go to eat, can only handle a few bites. I was diagnosed in Dec. '97, but I think I contracted it during the '60's, when I was a hippie, doing a lot of drugs. It seems ironic that a disease that I got from using needles, now calls for me using them to get better!! Kathi == Visit my webpage at: http://members.tripod.com/~rdhd45vlcek/index.html and my support group at: http://clubs./clubs/parentingtroubledteens ICQ 22539187 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 16, 1998 Report Share Posted November 16, 1998 Dear Kathi, Finally someone willing to admit they got it in the 60's from illegal drug use. My husband Vinny came down with it..or was diagnosed about two years ago. He was devastated to say the least. After a 20 year career in the Army and being straight for about 23 years it really hit him hard having to use a needle again. He stayed on the interferon for a year and his liver tests have been okay...we think. His doctor doesn't do much more than order the blood tests. He goes back next month for another blood test and I am praying it's all right again...but I don't know. He doesn't look well to me and it scares me to death. I have tested negative twice so I don't worry much about getting it. We were told to have safe sex but after being married almost 25 years I just laughed at that. I'll take my chances with the guy I love. He's had a rotten time of it with side effects and I wasn't about to add any more concerns to his load. Well thanks for letting me get this off my chest. I wish you health. Sincerely, ` Carolee ---------- From: Kathi [sMTP:rdhd45vlcek@...] Sent: Saturday, November 14, 1998 9:35 AM Hepatitis Conelist Subject: Re: new to list From: Kathi <rdhd45vlcek@...> ---Marie Kuhn <mariek@...> wrote: > Anybody out there tried the new Rebetron combination treatment? > Marie Marie-- I'm on the Ribivarin/Interferon combo therapy, and while it seems to be helping, it also makes me nauseated and very tired on the days of my shots (Mon., Wed., Fri.) My appetite is really weirded out--I'll think I'm hungry, and when I go to eat, can only handle a few bites. I was diagnosed in Dec. '97, but I think I contracted it during the '60's, when I was a hippie, doing a lot of drugs. It seems ironic that a disease that I got from using needles, now calls for me using them to get better!! Kathi == Visit my webpage at: http://members.tripod.com/~rdhd45vlcek/index.html and my support group at: http://clubs./clubs/parentingtroubledteens ICQ 22539187 ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 17, 1998 Report Share Posted November 17, 1998 ---Cherry 2000 <cherry2000@...> wrote: >Finally someone willing to admit they got it in the >60's from illegal drug use. I hope that the reason that God allowed this to happen to me is so that I can speak to other people, including my kids, and be able to show them first-hand what the results of their drug use can be. >He stayed on the interferon for a year and his liver >tests have been okay...we think. His doctor doesn't >do much more than order the blood tests. My husband recently lost his job, which meant that the insurance went south, too. I have enough combo meds for two more uses--can't afford to pay the $4,500 a month that it costs to fill the 'script w/o insurance. That's not counting the specialist fee...! >We were told to have safe sex but after being married >almost 25 years I just laughed at that. I'll take my >chances with the guy I love. Charlie feels the same way--he feels that if we've had unprotected sex for two years now, a condom won't help now. He knew I had it when we got married last New Year's Eve. He also knew that I am a looney toon, complete with papers, but seems to feel that it just keeps life interesting!! >I wish you health. And I wish you and your husband the very best--hope to talk to you again in the future. Kathi == Visit my webpage at: http://members.tripod.com/~rdhd45vlcek/index.html and my support group at: http://clubs./clubs/parentingtroubledteens ICQ 22539187 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 1999 Report Share Posted May 16, 1999 Welcome ! I am also new here and after the same support. Glad to meet you. What area of the counrty are you? Keep up the good work, a mothers heart never lies. Dawn New to list > From: JSUENICK@... ( A.) > > Hello Everyone, > My name is . I have two children. > is age three and Kaylin is 9 1/2 > months. suffers from severe allergies. (food, dust mites, > pollen, etc) > His pediatricians said he would outgrow them. He hasn't, he has only > becme worse. all his Doctors could do was give us steroids. We used them > at first, but thank god a 'inner voice' told me this was not the answer. > At times the Doctors have looked at me as if I was a unfit mother > because I would not use them. One allergy doctor said regarding oral > steroids, > " the benefits out way the risks. " > I relized I was getting no where and I started researching on my own. > Boy was I shocked! I stumbled on vaccine information. I feel that my son > may have been born with a certain gene, but I strongly feel his > vaccinations made him worse. He had the 'typical' fever and slight > swelling with all his vaccines. With his MMR though, he broke out in a > measles like rash. The office staff said it was the worst they had ever > seen in that office, The doctor was very nonchalant about it. > I never liked vaccines. I just thought I had no choice. Now I know > different, although I see it wont be easy. My daughter has had all > vaccinations up to date. The poor thing had three shots a few months > ago! I do not want to continue. > I am here because I need advice and support. I also need to hear people > tell me that I can help or even cure my son. I am really scared. We had > been seeing a Alternative Doctor, who ended up being very arrogant and > uncooperative.(besides very expensive) I have not given up though, I > will be calling a Naturopathic Doctor on Monday. I am looking forward to > meeting all of you and learning alot. Thank you! > > Sincerely, > > and Kaylin > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > Get involved. Share your thoughts! > > Join the ONElist Weekly Survey. Go to homepage for details. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 Hi , My name is Jacki and I maanage this list. Welcome and please feel free to go into the member center and read the archive files about our children. My son was severely injured by his DTP vaccine. Our middle child has asthma and bad allergies also and I know how scary it can be. I dont know where you are located but we see a Cranial Osteopath in NYC and she does wonders with all kinds of children related to both allergies and vaccine issues. We also see an alternative doctor who we really respect. He was formerly a pathologist for several years and now parctices alternative medicine/homeopathy/nutritional counselling, etc. You are definitely on the right track and I hope you continue these therapies when you find a doctor you like. Please write back and tell us where you are and maybe someone on the list is in your area and can help you locate someone. No child should have a reaction like your son's.The rash may have been worsened if he happens to be allergic to eggs on top of the fact that the shot obviously assaulted his immune system violently. I hope you have also joined the vaccinationsonelist list. There are many nurses,chiropractors, etc. on that list also which are highly educated in the topics of both vaccines and allergies. Hope to hear from you soon, jacki New to list From: JSUENICK@... ( A.) Hello Everyone, My name is . I have two children. is age three and Kaylin is 9 1/2 months. suffers from severe allergies. (food, dust mites, pollen, etc) His pediatricians said he would outgrow them. He hasn't, he has only becme worse. all his Doctors could do was give us steroids. We used them at first, but thank god a 'inner voice' told me this was not the answer. At times the Doctors have looked at me as if I was a unfit mother because I would not use them. One allergy doctor said regarding oral steroids, " the benefits out way the risks. " I relized I was getting no where and I started researching on my own. Boy was I shocked! I stumbled on vaccine information. I feel that my son may have been born with a certain gene, but I strongly feel his vaccinations made him worse. He had the 'typical' fever and slight swelling with all his vaccines. With his MMR though, he broke out in a measles like rash. The office staff said it was the worst they had ever seen in that office, The doctor was very nonchalant about it. I never liked vaccines. I just thought I had no choice. Now I know different, although I see it wont be easy. My daughter has had all vaccinations up to date. The poor thing had three shots a few months ago! I do not want to continue. I am here because I need advice and support. I also need to hear people tell me that I can help or even cure my son. I am really scared. We had been seeing a Alternative Doctor, who ended up being very arrogant and uncooperative.(besides very expensive) I have not given up though, I will be calling a Naturopathic Doctor on Monday. I am looking forward to meeting all of you and learning alot. Thank you! Sincerely, and Kaylin ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Get involved. Share your thoughts! Join the ONElist Weekly Survey. Go to homepage for details. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 Hi Dawn, Thanks for the nice welcome! Nice to meet you! We are from N.J. Where are you? I have a bunch of e-mails to answer. willtalk more later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 Jacki, Thank you so much for the Welcome! Your Doctor sounds wonderful. We are in New Jersey. At this time it would not be possible for us to go into N.Y.C. How is Your now? How do you cope with your middle childs allergies? I am not giving up on finding the right person to work with my son. My last experience was bad, but I know not all environmental doctors are like this one was. I dont have much time right now, but I want to tell you that what you are doing is wonderful and thank you from the bottom of my heart! (my kids too:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 I manage the vaccineinjuriesonelist sorry for the confusion but the rest of the message is still the same! New to list > > >From: JSUENICK@... ( A.) > >Hello Everyone, >My name is . I have two children. > is age three and Kaylin is 9 1/2 >months. suffers from severe allergies. (food, dust mites, >pollen, etc) >His pediatricians said he would outgrow them. He hasn't, he has only >becme worse. all his Doctors could do was give us steroids. We used them >at first, but thank god a 'inner voice' told me this was not the answer. >At times the Doctors have looked at me as if I was a unfit mother >because I would not use them. One allergy doctor said regarding oral >steroids, > " the benefits out way the risks. " >I relized I was getting no where and I started researching on my own. >Boy was I shocked! I stumbled on vaccine information. I feel that my son >may have been born with a certain gene, but I strongly feel his >vaccinations made him worse. He had the 'typical' fever and slight >swelling with all his vaccines. With his MMR though, he broke out in a >measles like rash. The office staff said it was the worst they had ever >seen in that office, The doctor was very nonchalant about it. >I never liked vaccines. I just thought I had no choice. Now I know >different, although I see it wont be easy. My daughter has had all >vaccinations up to date. The poor thing had three shots a few months >ago! I do not want to continue. >I am here because I need advice and support. I also need to hear people >tell me that I can help or even cure my son. I am really scared. We had >been seeing a Alternative Doctor, who ended up being very arrogant and >uncooperative.(besides very expensive) I have not given up though, I >will be calling a Naturopathic Doctor on Monday. I am looking forward to >meeting all of you and learning alot. Thank you! > >Sincerely, > > and Kaylin > > >------------------------------------------------------------------------ >Get involved. Share your thoughts! > >Join the ONElist Weekly Survey. Go to homepage for details. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 Hi , Its Jacki again and i just saw that you are also from NJ - we live in Cranford how about you? Now I'm really curious about which Drs. you are seeing. currently sees: Dr Bayno - Cranial Osteopath in NYC Dr Ali - Institute for Preventitive Medicine - Denville,NJ Therapy - Childrens Specialized Mountainside & Fanwood Hope you write back soon. There are several people in NJ with both vaccine injuries and adverse reactions that are in a support group we hold monthly. Hope to hear from you soon., Jacki Re: New to list Hi Dawn, Thanks for the nice welcome! Nice to meet you! We are from N.J. Where are you? I have a bunch of e-mails to answer. willtalk more later. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 Jacki, W are from Midland park which is Bergen County. (Northern N.J) The first Doctor we were seeng was a Environmental Dr. in N.J. I am afraid to say his name, could I get in trouble?! He worked with EPD shots. (Enzyme/allergen shots). He was very pushy about them and did not liked to be questioned. He even told me I read to much and used the iternet for information to much. I guess the only information I was allowed to have was when I paid him $150. (uncovered) He told me I needed a diet 'consult' from him for my son. When I went, he talked about himself most of the time and at the end told me not to feed my son nuts, fish or soy. (we already knew this) Also due to my sons Candida yeast overgrowth he said it was all right to feed him only water and vegies and he would eat them when he was hungry enough Then he told me to buy a book on rotation diets. (I guess reading what I pay him to find out is ok.) He also told me to order special Vitamines. I did-cost me $30 dollars. I opened them and relized they contain soy, he cant even use them and its to late to return them. Meanwhile I got the book and it wasnt helpful to me. I called him and left a message saying so and telling him we were dissapointed in our consult. Instead of calling me back, he faxed a three page letter to my husbands job. Part of which he said that parents are better at putting diets togeither. Now remember, he TOLD me to see him for a diet. Also he said if we were going to consider still seeing him, we must set up 'ground rules' first! This is only the tip of the iceberg. I want to write him back, but it is still so upseting to me. Anyway, I have called a Naturopathic Dr. from ho-ho-kus N.J. Irene Catania, ND She is going to give me a free 10 min. consult on thursday. I will let you kow how it goes! Thanks for listening, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 1999 Report Share Posted May 17, 1999 , The first sign that Kathleen now 6 had allergies other than dairy was the day she had her first MMR in August of 1994. After her shot we drove home and when she woke she screamed so terribly that the doctor sent us to the pharmacy for Emetrol. He never had the sense to test a child with severe milk protien allergies for an egg allergy; the MMR is in an egg-based solution! After 24 hours of complete hell Kathleen returned to normal and dairy and eggs have never been introduced into her diet. From the time she was 6mths old she reacted to soy also(which she had been on since birth but developing a soy allergy over time is commonplace) and placed on rice milk. Kathleen thrived on rice milk and rice cereal and fruits from that time on. Slowly we introduced i food at a time but for the first two years almost everything caused diarrhea,eczema, and other rashes. Anything that even touched dairy products caused severe curded vomitting and sometimes an asthma attack. Basically she became very sheltered and limited to where i would take her. For 4 1/2 years her diet consisted of rice milk, rice, fruits, pasta,homemade meatballs, chicken, bread, and sorbet. When it was time for her to go to school we did the subcutaneous allergy testing and she came up clear. For the past 1 1/2 years we have let her try 1 new food at a time but are very cautious especially about dairy. The upswing is that keeping her off so many things for so long has given her immune system time to strengthen itself and other than overdoing dairy,popcorn, and chocolate she does well with everything else now. The seasonal allergies are another story and harder to control for us. When Kathleen was 18mths she turned blue 24hrs after the Christmas tree came through the door. She had pneumonia and was wheezing badly. Needless to say the tree went to the yard and now we have an artificial one. But even with these knock on wood each year her reactions are less and less. Well one thing is for sure that this is not easy and very scary. I think there is no coincidence that both our children had the reaction to the MMR and I refused to give Kathleen the 2nd MMR at 5 and have had no trouble with the schools at all. I wish that this had made me more afraid of vaccines and could have been spared but I am a chemist and believed at the time that vaccination was safe. Hope this long winded info helps and hope to hear from you soon! jacki Re: New to list From: JSUENICK@... ( A.) Jacki, W are from Midland park which is Bergen County. (Northern N.J) The first Doctor we were seeng was a Environmental Dr. in N.J. I am afraid to say his name, could I get in trouble?! He worked with EPD shots. (Enzyme/allergen shots). He was very pushy about them and did not liked to be questioned. He even told me I read to much and used the iternet for information to much. I guess the only information I was allowed to have was when I paid him $150. (uncovered) He told me I needed a diet 'consult' from him for my son. When I went, he talked about himself most of the time and at the end told me not to feed my son nuts, fish or soy. (we already knew this) Also due to my sons Candida yeast overgrowth he said it was all right to feed him only water and vegies and he would eat them when he was hungry enough Then he told me to buy a book on rotation diets. (I guess reading what I pay him to find out is ok.) He also told me to order special Vitamines. I did-cost me $30 dollars. I opened them and relized they contain soy, he cant even use them and its to late to return them. Meanwhile I got the book and it wasnt helpful to me. I called him and left a message saying so and telling him we were dissapointed in our consult. Instead of calling me back, he faxed a three page letter to my husbands job. Part of which he said that parents are better at putting diets togeither. Now remember, he TOLD me to see him for a diet. Also he said if we were going to consider still seeing him, we must set up 'ground rules' first! This is only the tip of the iceberg. I want to write him back, but it is still so upseting to me. Anyway, I have called a Naturopathic Dr. from ho-ho-kus N.J. Irene Catania, ND She is going to give me a free 10 min. consult on thursday. I will let you kow how it goes! Thanks for listening, ------------------------------------------------------------------------ Did you know ONElist has over 300 Star Wars lists? http://www.ONElist.com Join one today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 How do I go about learning other remedies for things beside antibiotics? (like garlic oil for an earrache) Marcie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 Hi, Marcie. A good start would be the book " Smart Medicine for a Healthier Child " by Zand, Walton & Rountree. It lists all the different childhood illnesses and all the different ways of treating them, including conventional, herbal, homeopathic, aromatherapy, etc. It's a great book and a good start on your own library. I have lots of other books, but find myself referring to that one most often. " Mothering " magazine usually has good information. There is quite a selection of magazines out there now that deal with herbs and homeopathy (whichever one you are into). Of course, it's nice to have it specifically for a child. I also receive a newsletter each month called " The Green Guide " . It is put out by the organization Mothers & Others For a Livable Planet. It is not at all specific on alternative health treatments, but does contain loads of information on health issues and does gear often towards how it affects children and what we can do about it. (For example, they will devote an issue to high lead and how to get your child tested, what products to not have in the home, how to change your cooking and cookware to avoid it, etc.) They have an e-mail address greenguide@... (I think it's $10 a year for a monthly newsletter). Also, I have found lots of information at Weil's website (I also get his newsletter). It is not geared towards children, but has good information there (if you can overlook that he advocates vaccines). His site is www.drweil.com There was also a website that I checked out in detail awhile ago, and haven't thought about - it was put out by a doctor (I think his last name was mercola?). The site was www.mercola.com (or whatever his name was). Can anyone help with that one - I can't remember? He had lots of links and such on vaccines and fluoride. All the hot topics. Good luck! Cathi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 <<There was also a website that I checked out in detail awhile ago, and haven't thought about - it was put out by a doctor (I think his last name was mercola?). The site was www.mercola.com (or whatever his name was). Can anyone help with that one - I can't remember? He had lots of links and such on vaccines and fluoride. All the hot topics.>> I just checked this out again - it is www.mercola.com. Great links to all sorts of areas, including vaccines and fluoride, milk, etc. These are the vaccination links he has: www.909shot.com http://trufax.org/menu/bio.html (He says this is the best he knows of) http://www.pcslink.com/~klove/immunize.htm http://www.eden.com/~via/ http://home.sprynet.com:80/sprynet/Gyrene/Home.htm Cathi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 In a message dated 5/27/99 6:40:30 PM Eastern Daylight Time, kfouts@... writes: << Ocean Song >> What a absolutely beautiful name!! Welcome to the list !!! Kerin, Mom to Tyler, Trevan and now (finally) non-vaccinated -Mae, 10 months Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 I too don't discuss our " radical " (I prefer to think of them as educated) choices regarding our 6 month old daughter with my family. State propaganda, as you so aptly put it, is tough to fight. I don't encounter too many other parents that seem too compelled to investigate what's being shot into their children. Seems like people are more interest in spending time looking at Consumer Report to determine what kind of home entertainment center they should get then putting even a meager amount of effort into researching their kids' health. Because we couldn't find a pediatrician that would agree to meet / consult / discuss the pros and cons of immunization without requiring prompt vaccination, we don't have a pediatrician. 6 months have passed and she sure seems like a healthy girl - - of course, I'm breast feeding... But as parents, we want to do the right thing. I guess I'd like to take her for check-ups...although, and this I don't understand, I don't routinely go to a Dr. for a well-adult check-up...so what makes my daughter any different? I'm so happy to have found this list. Sometimes,my husband and I feel very isolated because our thoughts on the issue of vaccination (and others regarding birth and child care) differ so much from what seems like the overwhelming majority of other parents. It's comforting to know we're not alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 Hi Ocean, It was nice to 'meet you' and your three children.! I have two children. All vaccinated up to date. My son is three, he suffers severe food/environmental allergies. My daughter is just about 10 months. She seems ok so far. I intend to keep her that way! Welcome to this list! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 My website has lots of links for herbs and homeopathy. We use both in our home and my daughter has never had anything but! www.geocities.com/Heartland/Fields/2460 List Owner Re: New to list From: Dlfnluvr@... How do I go about learning other remedies for things beside antibiotics? (like garlic oil for an earrache) Marcie ------------------------------------------------------------------------ ONElist: where the world talks! Join a new list today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 1999 Report Share Posted May 27, 1999 Hi! Get a book called Smart Medicine for a Healthier Child by: Zand, Walton, & Rountree. You could also get a book called Prescription for Nutritional Healing Or one called Healthy Healing. The first is my " bible " for my daughter. The others are excellent for more adult problems. All are available at health stores and I think all are also available at Amazon. in CT Dlfnluvr@... wrote: > > From: Dlfnluvr@... > > How do I go about learning other remedies for things beside antibiotics? > (like garlic oil for an earrache) Marcie > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > ONElist: where the world talks! > > Join a new list today. -- @... *************************************************************** We Must Have The Freedom To Choose & Respect Everyone's Choice *************************************************************** Any information obtained here is not to be construed as medical OR legal advice. The decision to vaccinate and how you implement that decision is yours and yours alone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 1999 Report Share Posted June 23, 1999 Welcome Ann. I read your post and want you to know that you are not alone. My son has turned into a tight ball of nerves. He will not open up and tell anything about what he is feeling........then in one explosion his anger comes out and it gets out of control. I will post more about our experience later .......I need to get going ....but just wanted to welcome you! Vivian in wa. st. p.s. We read the Explosive Child and it helped some.......didn't solve the problem though. _________________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 1999 Report Share Posted June 23, 1999 Hi Anne: Welcome to our list. You will find many of us here with similar experiences to those you so clearly described in your post to the list. I also have a 12-year-old son with OCD. Steve has the flavor with major depressive disorder and also has PTSD-Type 1. We have encountered the aggressive and difficult behaviors particularly in the early days following his diagnosis. Sometimes these were BSEs from the meds, sometimes they were from his great disappointment and frustration about having OCD and adjusting to the reality of what this means in his life, sometimes they were from massive OCD attacks with incredible fear, and sometimes I think they were from just being a pre-teen out of control. I am very interested in your observations about the effects of puberty on OCD as we expect this to be the next hurdle now that Steve is going into Grade 7. What we found helpful was reading books like Dr. Greene's " The Explosive Child " and Dr. Barkley's " The Defiant Child " and negotiating a family contract regarding behaviors and consequences (positive and negative, but with the emphasis on the former). I recommend changing the parenting, it is very hard work, quite emotional but you will reap the rewards. Many people have commented to me how much better both our boys are behaving and coping since we did this. In fact our whole family sees this as an achievement. This took months to do but the results have been worth it. Also as Steve has what I call hypermorality OCD he can respond eventually to what is expected of him. The best thing was getting him good CBT and this has allowed him to drop his level of meds. Another technique that has helped us a lot is paradoxical therapy. Responding differently to what they expect often helps them refocus away from OCD, also humor is helpful to everyone. It took a lot for me to lighten up enough to do this and I had to get a lot of training from Steve's present psychologist but it has been invaluable. You are so right talking to them about their OCD often causes an attack. It is best not to talk about it until they are in a good place with it. This does make getting the hierarchy hard. It took Steve six months to fess up his hierarchy and that was frustrating as we did his CBT based on what we saw which meant we were mostly addressing things at the top of the hierarchy, making for rather explosive sessions. We are also going to the OCF conference in July. Steve's CBT therapist is also going to the conference as she has family in Virginia. I look forward to meeting you at the Friday night support group. You are lucky to have such a group in your area, the only other people I know here with kids with OCD have adult children and the issues are sufficiently different that I am quite envious of your group in White Plains. Sorry this is way too long. Take care, aloha, Kathy (Ha) kathyh@... At 11:10 PM 6/22/99 EDT, you wrote: >From: AnneGinCT@... > > >I am new to the list. > >Where to start? My son just turned 12. He was diagnosed at 8 with OCD >with tics. His symptoms then were mainly involving his clothing. His socks >had bumps and he would be hysterical before school every morning trying to >get dressed. Shirts sometimes itch him or they just don't " feel right " . When >he was in kindergarten we would have to tie his sneakers " over and over and >over " until they were tight enough and even. Now at 12, he has a fairly >limited wardrobe - grey t-shirts with pockets but NO writting, plaid short >sleeved sport shirts, the same style of shorts in 5 colors, and one pair of >baggy khaki pants - and he wears his sneakers barely tied. His other big >obsession was that something bad would happen to me or my husband while Chris >was at school. He was also counting and checking his math all the time but he >never told us that until 5th grade. He would just get upset at home over >homework, and in school he would get every answer correct on his math tests >but would only be able to complete half of the test in the time given. He was >on Prozac at first but became extremely impulsive and was taken off it after >6 weeks. He was then put on Zoloft which seemed to help for a while. His >first therapist was a joke, but the psychiatrist was good. When we moved from >Madison, CT to Norwalk, CT when he was 8-1/2, we were refered to our current >doctors. They has helped deal with his depression, etc. but because Chris' >obsessions & compulsions are usually internal, and he is extremely reluctant >to let anyone know what they are, he is just getting by (barely). We are >about to find him a CBT in the next few weeks. > >His biggest problem off and on for about a year and a half has been his >distruptive behavior in school and in group situations that cause him anxiety >- almost as if acting out helps to relieve the pressure. He is now at the >point where in March he was placed in a special school at a psychiatric >hospital because of the behavior. 6th grade has really overwhelmed him. >Academically, he tested high but his grades where everything from A to D- >depending on the subject and teacher. Some classes he had very good behavior, >and some he couldn't handle. Even with 504 accomodations he couldn't do it - >he just avoids doing the schoolwork and the homework that makes him anxious. >He now has a classification of Special Education " Other Health Impaired " . He >will be at a special school with a theraputic day program in the fall. > >Our stress level is through the roof now. They keep juggling the meds to see >what balance will work - his hormones are really screwing things up. He is >currently on 100mg of Luvox and Risperidone, and Clonidine. His distruptive >behavior at home has really gotten worse. I am in the process of reading " The >Explosive Child " which really discribes him. Sometimes just trying to get him >to talk about what his big worries are, or if he is counting etc. is enough >to get him to explode. > >Hopefully we can find a good CBT that he can develop a trust with to even >attempt to do a hiarchy with. Just trying to do the YBOCS was extremely >difficult. > >We took him up to the Yale Child Study Center OCD Clinic for an evaluation in >January which was somewhat helpful. They told us that children with OCD & >tics often have explosive type episodes (it is almost a subtype of OCD). They >told us one of the best ways to deal with that was to learn a different way >to parent ie " The Explosive Child " . > >We will be attending the OC Foundation Conference in DC in July with Chris. >He really wants to go and looked over the brochure and picked out the talks >he wants to go to. Is anyone planning on being there? I would love to meet >some parents who are going. We signed up to attend the Friday night support >group for parents and is going to go to the kids support group. Bill >(my husband) and I attend a parent support group in White Plains, NY once a >month that has been a really great experience. > >Thanks for listening. Sorrry this was so long. > >Anne >AnneGinCT@... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 23, 1999 Report Share Posted June 23, 1999 Hi Anne, Welcome to the list. You'll find a lot of helpful information here. Since I have a busy schedule, I don't repond much to the list. My son, is often rude. But, I'm not sure if it's OCD, or just 16 year old thing. But, when I told him his rudeness, he often recognized and apologized. As far as DC trip goes, I'm still trying to convince CHris to go. I know other families are going. I don't know how many. Take care. TC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 1999 Report Share Posted August 27, 1999 Welcome Dunbar. My husband, also diagnosed about 2 1/2 years ago, decided against the interferon with ribovarin because of the side effects. Has it been difficult for your husband? What about the interferon alone? Do you know about Milk Thistle? (It is an herb that cleanses the liver.) My husband takes six 70 mg tablets a day. Have you been tested? I am carrying around an order for lab work that my doctor has given me, but haven't done it yet (you know, " if you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question " ). At this point it would be like closing the barn door after the horse got out, but I conduct myself as if I have it so that no one else catches it. Tree Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 1999 Report Share Posted August 27, 1999 It hasn't been a lot of fun but he's been getting through it pretty good. We try and adjust around it as much as possible. He had a worse time on the interferon alone but when he started he had been very sick. Milk Thistle! That was the one I was trying to remember the other day. Yes I was tested, within a month of my husbands diagnosis. He was really upset that he could have possibly passed this on to me. I tested negative. To be on the safe side we had our children tested also, he was afraid the boys could have picked up his razor and used it. But all three of our children also tested negative. We have been married for 21 years and now since his diagnosis we practice " safe sex " , that is at my husbands insistance - he is very careful to limit the possibility of someone contracting this from him. On Friday, August 27, 1999 5:25 PM, TreeSkinnr@... [sMTP:TreeSkinnr@...] wrote: > From: TreeSkinnr@... > > Welcome Dunbar. My husband, also diagnosed about 2 1/2 years ago, decided > against the interferon with ribovarin because of the side effects. Has it > been difficult for your husband? What about the interferon alone? > > Do you know about Milk Thistle? (It is an herb that cleanses the liver.) My > husband takes six 70 mg tablets a day. > > Have you been tested? I am carrying around an order for lab work that my > doctor has given me, but haven't done it yet (you know, " if you don't want to > know the answer, don't ask the question " ). At this point it would be like > closing the barn door after the horse got out, but I conduct myself as if I > have it so that no one else catches it. Tree > > --------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 27, 1999 Report Share Posted August 27, 1999 Hi (dunbar), I am also very new to this list. I believe I have HepC for about 25 years, but it was not confirmed until1994 when one doc wanted me to go on interferon but three others did not because of my other medical problems. I have had heart surgery twice and have a mitochondrial disorder. Merril Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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