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>

> Michele,

>

> I have been using Light and Sound for over 7 years as my main choice

for

> stress reduction. As a non

> pharmaceutical approach, I find it impossible to beat. It is

> mediatation made impossibly easy for the

> rest of us. I've put people to sleep at high noon who had to take

heavy

> tranquilizers to nod off in the

> evening.

>

> I recently started using Pulsed Magnetic Fields with it. This

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> like I have reentered " the womb " ,

> spun my own cocoon, instantly trasported myself to a deserted paradise

> island. And I do this at home

> whenever I feel like it....routinely when retiring in the evening.

The

> asians have been using Pulsed Magnetic

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> the field.

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> your health, go to

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> There is a whole range of health conditions covered. If acupuncture

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> Fields will benefit. PEMFS are the cadillac of the magnet industry.

> Forget static magnets which come nowhere

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>

> If and when you come to the conclusion that this might be something to

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> Hope this will help you in your quest. It has certainly done it for

my

> arthritis, stress, and insomnia.

>

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>

> Ann on

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>

>

>

> >

> > Michele

> >

> > For the Stress I would recommend you look for a Reiki Practitioner

in

> > your

> > area. A 1 hour session with a Reiki Master would/should totally

relax

>

> > you

> > and remove a lot of stress for you. Reiki also helps remove toxins

> from

> > your system and speed up the healing process. It is a wonderful way

> to

> > help

> > you heal yourself without adding medicine/chemicals to your system.

> > Another

> > thing would be a Neurovascular Balance, this is part of the 'Touch

for

>

> > Health' system.

> >

> > I believe our friend Axel has taken 1st level Reiki, and maybe

second

> > level

> > by now. I remember him talking about it a year or so ago.

> >

> > If you want to e-mail me off line I could elaborate on the health

> > benifits

> > for you. I could help you locate a Reiki practitioner in your area

if

>

> > you

> > want.

> >

> > from Canada

> >

> >

> > >From: " Michele Townsend " <mtownsend29@...>

> > >Reply-

> > >

> > >Dear ,

> > >Yes, I am on a Lyme list, Osteoporosis list, Arthritis list,

several

> > CFS

> > >lists, Fibormyalgia list, Candida list, and off and others as I am

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> > to

> > >read if I learn anything good from them. Sorry, but somehow I

don't

> > quite

> > >recognize your name, but don't take it personal, as I often forget

my

>

> > >husband's name, hehe!

> > >Hugs, Michele

> >

> >

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Nick are you guys moving to seattle?

Stress

Hey all, boy, this week has been tremendously stressful - we're

moving, we're selling our house, I'm still recovering - for me.

I've found my self falling off the bandwagon (so to speak) a bit.

Usually not when around the other 1/2 but when on my own - I find

myself not stopping right when I feel full. I don't know why

really. An old habit perhaps.

Any suggestions for how to deal with stress when it's blustery

outside and you can't do the gym thing (cuz you're moving)...

Thanks, I hope everyone is doing well!

Nick

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I agree! actually My Christmas vacation was relaxing, even though I

worked.(my kids were at home, I had a chance to sleep in).

I had an easier time eating the last couple of weeks than I did for

about 4 weeks prior. Today they started back to school(stress), I

found it more difficult to eat. Stress, what it does to a body, WOW!

genia

> This Christmas was awful I had much stress!!!!!! Some family

problems

> Now that's not what I want to vent about Only that with all the

shopping

> and cooking AND a bad family situation My " E " just closed up I

could not eat

> Christmas Eve day Christmas and the day after I slowly was able

to drink

> I was extremely tired And felt like I could not get out of

bed

> Yes st r e is a very important part of this @#$^$#

condition

> Just thought I had to blow off Some steam

> L e t s all have a Happy New Year B e t

te r days

> are coming

> Carr ie

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Jan, sorry to hear about your accident! I was in a snow-related accident a couple weeks ago, followed three days later by hitting a deer in the same car! (Been driving in this state for almost 20 years and NEVER had a snow-related accident OR a deer-hit, and then I get both in three days! ARGH!)

I suggest some meditation, prayer, massage therapy, aromatherapy, or anything you can do to try to release your stress (for me it's reading, too -- I love to read.)

I hope things ease up on you soon!Debbi in Michigan

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, I've only ever had "spasm pain" NCCPs or the "something's stuck and I'm trying to push it down" pains. But sometimes a spasm pain will manifest in different ways..... in my mouth/tongue, in my shoulder, in my ribs, behind my sternum, or up my throat.

One of my first symptoms was a feeling of pressure on my "Adam's apple" area -- I think it's still there but I'm just used to it, but I still can't wear any shirt that actually touches the front of my neck (turtlenecks are totally out of the question.)

I hope that feeling goes away soon!Debbi

Has anyone ever been so stressed that you feel like your esophagus is hurting the way you get stomach pains when you're upset? I don't know if it's in my head, but I've been upset/stressed for about 24 hours and now I feel like I'm getting esophagus pains (as opposed to stomach pains). It's not a spasm though, it feels different. Anyway, just wanted to know if anyone else ever experienced anything like that. I guess I can coin the phrase..."sick to my esophagus."

Yeah, can't see myself being able to eat anything today....

, NYC

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Maybe it is a spasm just in a way that I've never felt it before..

It's a twinge or sick feeling in the center of my chest. I'm sure

it's stress related.

I also get it in the mouth and jaw. That's usually where I feel it

first and gives me the signal that one is coming.

Just great...like I need any stress a less than 2 weeks before my

surgery. :( I'm sure it'll pass once I relax a bit.

Thanks for you input.

, NYC

> , I've only ever had " spasm pain " NCCPs or the " something's

stuck and I'm trying to push it down " pains. But sometimes a spasm

pain will manifest in different ways..... in my mouth/tongue, in my

shoulder, in my ribs, behind my sternum, or up my throat.

>

> One of my first symptoms was a feeling of pressure on my " Adam's

apple " area -- I think it's still there but I'm just used to it, but

I still can't wear any shirt that actually touches the front of my

neck (turtlenecks are totally out of the question.)

>

> I hope that feeling goes away soon!

>

> Debbi

> Has anyone ever been so stressed that you feel like your

esophagus is hurting the way you get stomach pains when you're

upset? I don't know if it's in my head, but I've been

upset/stressed for about 24 hours and now I feel like I'm getting

esophagus pains (as opposed to stomach pains). It's not a spasm

though, it feels different. Anyway, just wanted to know if anyone

else ever experienced anything like that. I guess I can coin the

phrase... " sick to my esophagus. "

>

> Yeah, can't see myself being able to eat anything today....

>

> , NYC

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D, have you ever tried nifedipine? Works for my spasms if warm water doesn't....

Deb

Maybe it is a spasm just in a way that I've never felt it before.. It's a twinge or sick feeling in the center of my chest. I'm sure it's stress related. I also get it in the mouth and jaw. That's usually where I feel it first and gives me the signal that one is coming. Just great...like I need any stress a less than 2 weeks before my surgery. :( I'm sure it'll pass once I relax a bit.Thanks for you input., NYC

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,

My stress goes to my jaw too (used to especially while sleeping). It

pops and used to get stuck but hasn't lately. I guess it's TMJ...not

very comfortable. Lots of things must tense up when we're stressed. =

(

> > , I've only ever had " spasm pain " NCCPs or the " something's

> stuck and I'm trying to push it down " pains. But sometimes a spasm

> pain will manifest in different ways..... in my mouth/tongue, in my

> shoulder, in my ribs, behind my sternum, or up my throat.

> >

> > One of my first symptoms was a feeling of pressure on my " Adam's

> apple " area -- I think it's still there but I'm just used to it,

but

> I still can't wear any shirt that actually touches the front of my

> neck (turtlenecks are totally out of the question.)

> >

> > I hope that feeling goes away soon!

> >

> > Debbi

> > Has anyone ever been so stressed that you feel like your

> esophagus is hurting the way you get stomach pains when you're

> upset? I don't know if it's in my head, but I've been

> upset/stressed for about 24 hours and now I feel like I'm getting

> esophagus pains (as opposed to stomach pains). It's not a spasm

> though, it feels different. Anyway, just wanted to know if anyone

> else ever experienced anything like that. I guess I can coin the

> phrase... " sick to my esophagus. "

> >

> > Yeah, can't see myself being able to eat anything today....

> >

> > , NYC

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Hi! I am sick to my esophagus to. I feel like I always have to think

about it. I hate deciding what to eat. I have had surgery and a

dilation and my GI wants a motility study. He also put me on Bentyl

and it has helped. Mine does work sometime. I am not near as bad as

some. I am in Houston and had the same surgeon as but I can " t

find . Love the group.

Patty

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Hi Pat,

I had to cut down to part-time - the fatigue was just too much. I

was dozing while driving to/from work and knew I had to change that

fairly quickly. It has made an immense change as I no longer come

home and go straight to bed. I'm still very tired, but am able to

do light chores, or go out to dinner instead.

I work 30 hours per week and that many only due to needing medical

insurance. My doctors want me to quit altogether, but being single

and having no other income or insurance to rely on, that's

impossible. I find it ridiculous that even though you qualify for

SSDI, you cannot get Medicare for 2 years - makes no sense to me at

all. If I quit and attempted to live off SSDI alone, I would no

longer be able to afford medical insurance, nor my medications. My

medications alone cost more than what SSDI would give me monthly.

Good luck,

Sandy C.

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Welcome Pat. Lucky you to be able to retire in July!!! I have 3 more years

before I feel able to retire, although sometimes I think it might be

sooner...however, each day brings a new adventure...

Stress can cause fatigue, but so can the medication. Give yourself time to

adjust. If there is any chance in retiring early go for it...at least I

would!

Debby

[ ] Stress

I am newly diagnosed with AIH and taking 30 mg Pred. per day. My job is

unbelievable stressful, and before my diagnosis I was planning to retire in

July. To keep up with the job responsibilities, I work 45 to 55 hours per

week and am often very fatigued. I would like to hear from other people if

they have recovered more quickly when they have tried to minimize stress in

their lives. If minimizing stress is helpful, I would consider retiring a

couple of months early. I am curious if many people changed or cut down on

their employment and if these efforts were helpful.

Thanks so much. This web sight is a God Send!

Pat

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" Amber " wrote:

>

> How do you relieve suicidal stress? I was wondering because I

> really need it.

Hi Amber

I'm glad you joined the list.

If you haven't already done it you can read a lot about EFT at

http://emofree.com/

Try downloading the manual and reading it. There is a lot to learn

from this web site.

Could you tell us what you are feeling? It may help us to make some

suggestions.

Do you mind if I ask if you are angry? If so who are you angry at?

In other words describe a little about what is going on.

Ken

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I don't know much about low thyroid issue but I know low adrenals

effect our reaction to stress. I have been through what you are

saying.Light,noice sensitivity,etc.So,I know what you mean. I think

you need some adrenal support.

Best wishes.

Nil

> Hi Nil:

>

> Thank you for responding to my email-

>

> Can one's emotions really go out of whack with low DHEA and low

thyroid? I now feel as if I just have to kind of remove myself from ]

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If stress can cause the disease to start, I am the exception! I was enjoying

life to the fullest with no worries and few problems when (and for a

considerable time before) I was diagnosed. However, I DO know that stress can

do strange things to us and that its effects are manifested in different people

in different ways. Having a positive attitude never hurts! Bettie Jane Grant,

Tallahassee

Stress

Hi Folks - I give " being stressed out " a whole new dimension!!!

Lately I have been hearing a lot about whether or not such a situation

affects our CLL/SLL status. I fervently HOPE not, as I should be dead by now.

But I'd be most pleased (and a little worried) about hearing some opinions

about whether or not being a nutsy person, worrying about everything, might

have an impact on starting the disease, or continuing it. The medical

professionals are still out on this one. At least, I have not heard a definitive

opinion.

What do you think? Maybe we can introduce this onto the topics at the LRF in

October.

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To all- I firmly believe that, at least in my case, stress was the

underlying factor for the explosion of my disease. Would I have

gotten it sooner or later anyway? Yes - absolutely. But I believe

it was lingering in there ready for a break down in my system to let

loose. 9-11 occurred,my oldest son met with some rather serious

circumstances two days later, my mom, who was then in critical

terminal condition,died by February proceeded by my stepfather

telling me that he no longer wanted to be a part of our family after

30 years as my " dad " . The lumps on my neck surfaced sometime

between October and November and progressed rather rapidly after my

diagnosis in December a year later.

Thankfully, its now under control, but I try to remain calmer about

things, taking one day at a time, and stopping to smell the roses.

Just my story, but to me, obviously stress induced cancer.

Thanks for listening.

Bonnie

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Bonnie,

I fully connect with your mail, even my 'case situation' was of a different

nature nevertheless I had tremendous stress over the time and you express it

clear and well, how the underlying factor was there. " stress was the

underlying factor for the explosion of my disease. Would I have gotten it

sooner or later anyway? Yes - absolutely. But I believe it was lingering

in there ready for a break down in my system to let loose. "

, I do not think worrying and stress are the same thing, although I know

that excessive worrying can cause stress. I have worried about things during

my life time, but never was stressed by the worries, simply sorted out

things so that the worries were no longer there.

Stress comes suddenly due to unexpected circumstances just being dropped on

top of you, some of them might have a solution and you are able to deal with

them and stop the stressful situation, but others the problem has not got a

simple solution and the stress factor stays until it gets sorted.

It is said that divorce and moving house are the most stressful things in

life, according to the experts. However I moved house across continents 14

times in 17 years at one time, and I do not remember being stressed by it, I

simply got very organized and dealt with each move in a simple manner.

My divorce was also very smooth and amicable, the level of stress was not

what I consider large. Yet the legal matter, over my building etc. was

extremely stressful even I knew I was on my rights, the constant bulling and

pressing over " a prescriptive right of way " on something very important for

me, brought up stress levels I was no aware could exist, feeling inside a

deep hole with no way out. The amount of work I did consulting legal experts

and professionals in case we had to go to Court, etc. was something I could

have done without at that time in my business life.

So like Bonnie, even I might still got CLL, those two to three years prior

to dx were more stressful than I think my body could cope with.

I think if one worries about something, it is best to deal with the solution

so that the worry does not become a stress factor in ones life.

But we can not do this on unexpected things, like Bonnie describes, those

type of stresses come from the outside and one does not have any influence

or possibility to stop them before they happen. So dealing with that type of

stress requires more skill and outside help.

Stopping to smell roses and such things that gives us pleasure, helps

tremendously in the managing of stress. But there is a lot more that can

also help dealing with it.

Thanks for being there, support has always helped and it feels good when you

are on the receiving end of the support.

Chonette

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> Date: Sun, 12 Jun 2005 22:57:55 -0000

> From: " bonniegoodydogs " <bonniegoodhart@...>

> Subject: Re: Stress

>

> To all- I firmly believe that, at least in my case, stress was the

> underlying factor for the explosion of my disease. Would I have

> gotten it sooner or later anyway? Yes - absolutely. But I believe

> it was lingering in there ready for a break down in my system to let

> loose. 9-11 occurred,my oldest son met with some rather serious

> circumstances two days later, my mom, who was then in critical

> terminal condition,died by February proceeded by my stepfather

> telling me that he no longer wanted to be a part of our family after

> 30 years as my " dad " . The lumps on my neck surfaced sometime

> between October and November and progressed rather rapidly after my

> diagnosis in December a year later.

>

> Thankfully, its now under control, but I try to remain calmer about

> things, taking one day at a time, and stopping to smell the roses.

>

> Just my story, but to me, obviously stress induced cancer.

>

> Thanks for listening.

> Bonnie

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To add my two cents, I also believe that stress played a part in the

onset of my disease. My two young step kids moved in full time, my

mother was diagnosed with SLL and lung cancer, then was hit by a kid on

a bike and I had to run between the two houses, then my college aged son

came home with a heroin addiction. I had been diagnosed with some sort

on inflamatory arthritis and was scheduled to have a knee replacement

two days after my mom passed, but it was cancelled because the doctor

was suspecious that something else (SLL) was going on. That was last

year and it was progressing very slowly. Last September my husband

moved out of the house blaming my son (but was really having an affair)

He is back home now but I feel like the nodes in my neck are bigger.

I'll see July 8th when I go in for my next dr. apt.

Right now I am meditating and doing accupuncture hoping it will help.

>>> bonniegoodhart@... 06/12/05 6:57 PM >>>

To all- I firmly believe that, at least in my case, stress was the

underlying factor for the explosion of my disease. Would I have

gotten it sooner or later anyway? Yes - absolutely. But I believe

it was lingering in there ready for a break down in my system to let

loose. 9-11 occurred,my oldest son met with some rather serious

circumstances two days later, my mom, who was then in critical

terminal condition,died by February proceeded by my stepfather

telling me that he no longer wanted to be a part of our family after

30 years as my " dad " . The lumps on my neck surfaced sometime

between October and November and progressed rather rapidly after my

diagnosis in December a year later.

Thankfully, its now under control, but I try to remain calmer about

things, taking one day at a time, and stopping to smell the roses.

Just my story, but to me, obviously stress induced cancer.

Thanks for listening.

Bonnie

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janetlee wrote:

> I have arthritis, degenerative disc disease, have had several injuries and

> have the xrays of somebody 20 years older than I am. Nothing has helped as

> much as this diet but I have flare-ups I'm not sure how best to handle.

> Thank you for listening and I'm appreciative of any help you may offer.

May I suggest you combine the anti-inflammatory diet of Dr

Perricone MD - in his book " The Perricone Prescription " - with the BTD

diet. This helped me a lot - along with *drastic* reduction of

carbohydrates (aim for zero) and increase of protein, extra virgin olive

oil and fish oil instead.

I did this myself - because I have stress-hormone producing carcinoid

tumours (they push my cortisol levels to 32 times the upper normal

limit) and everything I can do to reduce the stress is relevant.

Also consider beginning yoga and listen to what your body wants and do

only that - yoga will de-stress very well used this way. The spinal

twists for example, get my back from solid pain to flexible. BUT you

must warm up properly and do the moves in the right order, not just go

do a twist by itself. I do:

5 mins: Sit and concentrate on deep breathing in and out.

Still sitting, raise arms and bend to right and then to left

alternately....VERY SLOWLY, a few breaths each side.

Still sitting bend forward and back pretending you are holding a ball -

still moving very slowly with a couple breaths forward and a couple

breaths leaning back.

All this is to slowly awaken the back muscle area.

Sit with knees bent and feet apart. Hold hands together and point

forward - move forward as far as you can stretching arms out in front,

then go slowly back till you can roll your back a tad bit downwards if

you can then back up still slowly, to sitting, repeat a few times.

Now go on hands and knees, do " cat and cow " , alternately slowly - cat is

looking down tucking in chin and curving your back up towards the roof

like a cat and breathing out - and cow is arching back down towards the

floor and lifting head up and breathing in. alternate a few times.

NOW you are ready for spinal twists.

Sit up straight on floor or in chair. Keeping hips level twist to the

right slowly and as far as you can, don't go too far, it's not a

competition - taking a few breaths on the way, trying to twist a little

more with each out-breath, and trying to look over your shoulder far as

possible. Slowly.

Slowly return to center. Repeat other side.

Repeat each side again - doing about 7 breaths each side each time.

Maybe you have different issues but for me I can hardly move my back or

arms or neck when I wake, and this gets me okay.

Namaste,

Irene

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Vit C

Glucosamine & MSM

Salmon Oil

Solaray brand - Turmeric Special Formula or some other good anti-inflammatory

janetlee <janetlee14@...> wrote:

I have arthritis, degenerative disc disease, have had several injuries and

have the xrays of somebody 20 years older than I am. Nothing has helped as

much as this diet but I have flare-ups I'm not sure how best to handle.

Thank you for listening and I'm appreciative of any help you may offer.

--

Later,

janetlee

Be kind to dragons, for thou art crunchy when

roasted and taste good with ketchup.

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Have you tried meditation ?

That can help a lot with stress and help you to be centred and focused in all

areas and not just the over-riding one of the moment - even if I can't fit in

any meditation, just listening to meditation music or stopping and spacing out

just for 5mins helps.

good luck, hope things go better than expected for your family member and they

are fully better a.s.a.p.

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I want to thank everyone for their help and am taking all suggestions

seriously and saving the emails.

The yoga stretches are helping with the stiffness and soreness and I've

started taking Bromelain. Will have to wait until next payday to make

another trip to the health store.

I picked up some meditation music from the library but their choices were

limited. I've recently been trying classical music listed as soothing or

calming and some nature sounds. The ocean waves one helps me sleep. Are

there any titles you recommend? I can order them from the library first to

see if I like them.

Thanks for the kind wishes, is doing much better than expected and

they are going to transfer him to a nursing facility for rehab tomorrow.

They are optimistic that the original estimate of at least 3 months in a

nursing home will be greatly reduced to a matter of weeks though it's still

unclear if he'll ever walk again. We are hopeful though.

Later,

janetlee

Be kind to dragons, for thou art crunchy when

roasted and taste good with ketchup.

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Thanks Gail at least I got to vent lol thanks

love and hugs

dGail Deveaux <gaila@...> wrote:

Dear girl now wonder you are stressed.It is imposible to eliminate all that stress.Just make sure you have a cirtain amount of time just for you ,so you can relax and keep your streingth.Take care hon

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Ok I hear you all say let stress go.. Can some one tell me how?? For the most part I do ok and dont let things get too me. But lately it is impossible to NOT be stressed. Every since mom got home from the hospital the second time nothing seems to be going right. She stays depressed because she cant get her strength and energy back. I can understand that myself. But other things are adding to all the stress. Last night my step-dad went to the ER with chest pain. Luckly it is a pulled muscle BUT, they found a mass on his lungs. Plus my cousins wife died. She was ill for a little bit. She was going thru intensive chemo for cancer that had taken over her body. She turned 29 Friday. And today is her anniversary with my cousin. They have 3 girls the oldest one is only 12. This is part of life I know. But it is what is stressing me. Im having alot of trouble sleeping as well, so that adds to all the pressure. The kids get on every last nerve. lol I love them so much. Im getting in a

dont touch me mood again. so I have to pretend it dont bother me to have them sitting on me or sitting with me even. And trust me I truly love our cuddle time.GRRR ok well I vented. Sorry to you all.

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Dear girl now wonder you are stressed.It is imposible to eliminate all that stress.Just make sure you have a cirtain amount of time just for you ,so you can relax and keep your streingth.Take care hon

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Ok I hear you all say let stress go.. Can some one tell me how?? For the most part I do ok and dont let things get too me. But lately it is impossible to NOT be stressed. Every since mom got home from the hospital the second time nothing seems to be going right. She stays depressed because she cant get her strength and energy back. I can understand that myself. But other things are adding to all the stress. Last night my step-dad went to the ER with chest pain. Luckly it is a pulled muscle BUT, they found a mass on his lungs. Plus my cousins wife died. She was ill for a little bit. She was going thru intensive chemo for cancer that had taken over her body. She turned 29 Friday. And today is her anniversary with my cousin. They have 3 girls the oldest one is only 12. This is part of life I know. But it is what is stressing me. Im having alot of trouble sleeping as well, so that adds to all the pressure. The kids get on every last nerve. lol I love them so much. Im getting in a dont touch me mood again. so I have to pretend it dont bother me to have them sitting on me or sitting with me even. And trust me I truly love our cuddle time.GRRR ok well I vented. Sorry to you all.

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It’s

impossible to get rid of all stress and difficult to learn to keep it to a

minimum. Try to separate things into “things I can control”

and “things I can’t control”. Then you have to work

really hard to focus on the things you CAN control and not the things you can’t.

When you have a lot of things that concern you, like you do now, you have to

take them one at a time. For instance, your step dad: The immediate

problem is a pulled muscle. That will heal, nothing for you to worry

about. There’s a mass on his lungs—it is whatever it is, and

you don’t know what that is yet, so don’t worry about that until

they determine what the mass is. Sometimes you just have to divorce

yourself from other people’s problems and not let them become

yours. That doesn’t mean you don’t care, it just means you

don’t take it all on yourself.

Try

baby steps first. We women tend to be control freaks and take on way too

much.

De

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September 12, 2005 6:14 PM

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stress

Ok I hear you all say let stress go.. Can some one

tell me how?? For the most part I do ok and dont let things get too me. But

lately it is impossible to NOT be stressed. Every since mom got home from the

hospital the second time nothing seems to be going right. She stays depressed

because she cant get her strength and energy back. I can understand that

myself. But other things are adding to all the stress. Last night my step-dad

went to the ER with chest pain. Luckly it is a pulled muscle BUT, they found a

mass on his lungs. Plus my cousins wife died. She was ill for a little bit. She

was going thru intensive chemo for cancer that had taken over her body. She

turned 29 Friday. And today is her anniversary with my cousin. They have 3

girls the oldest one is only 12. This is part of life I know. But it is what is

stressing me. Im having alot of trouble sleeping as well, so that adds to all

the pressure. The kids get on every last nerve. lol I love them so much. Im

getting in a dont touch me mood again. so I have to pretend it dont bother me

to have them sitting on me or sitting with me even. And trust me I truly love

our cuddle time.GRRR ok well I vented. Sorry to you all.

d

dannella

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I have always taken other peoples problems as my own. I try to help others have the happy feeling I am looking for myself. The safe well loved feeling that I felt when my dad was sober(as a child). My step-dad lost his first wife to cancer. So I feel his tension. I go thru phases where I can push things away. But then I feel like Im shut down emotionally. So the pressure builds til Im where Im at now.. lol

ok thanks De

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Motley <dmotley@...> wrote:

It’s impossible to get rid of all stress and difficult to learn to keep it to a minimum. Try to separate things into “things I can control” and “things I can’t control”. Then you have to work really hard to focus on the things you CAN control and not the things you can’t. When you have a lot of things that concern you, like you do now, you have to take them one at a time. For instance, your step dad: The immediate problem is a pulled muscle. That will heal, nothing for you to worry about. There’s a mass on his lungs—it is whatever it is, and you don’t know what that is yet, so don’t worry about that until they determine what the mass is. Sometimes you just have to divorce yourself from other people’s problems and not let them become yours. That doesn’t mean you don’t care,

it just means you don’t take it all on yourself.

Try baby steps first. We women tend to be control freaks and take on way too much.

De

----Original Message-----From: Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies [mailto:Hepatitis CSupportGroupForDummies ] On Behalf Of dannegrlSent: Monday, September 12, 2005 6:14 PMHepatitis Cfordummies ; b nSubject: stress

Ok I hear you all say let stress go.. Can some one tell me how?? For the most part I do ok and dont let things get too me. But lately it is impossible to NOT be stressed. Every since mom got home from the hospital the second time nothing seems to be going right. She stays depressed because she cant get her strength and energy back. I can understand that myself. But other things are adding to all the stress. Last night my step-dad went to the ER with chest pain. Luckly it is a pulled muscle BUT, they found a mass on his lungs. Plus my cousins wife died. She was ill for a little bit. She was going thru intensive chemo for cancer that had taken over her body. She turned 29 Friday. And today is her anniversary with my cousin. They have 3 girls the oldest one is only 12. This is part of life I know. But it is what is stressing me. Im having alot of trouble sleeping as well, so

that adds to all the pressure. The kids get on every last nerve. lol I love them so much. Im getting in a dont touch me mood again. so I have to pretend it dont bother me to have them sitting on me or sitting with me even. And trust me I truly love our cuddle time.GRRR ok well I vented. Sorry to you all.

d

dannella

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