Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 >>>>>> Why don't I ban him? Because is learning to stand up for himself and to let things roll off him. I think those are important things for him to learn. Jacquie <<<<<< I agree, but it must be SO hard for you... {{{Jacquie}}} Penny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 >>>>>> Why don't I ban him? Because is learning to stand up for himself and to let things roll off him. I think those are important things for him to learn. Jacquie <<<<<< I agree, but it must be SO hard for you... {{{Jacquie}}} Penny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 > >>>>>> > Why don't I ban him? Because is learning to stand up for himself and > to let things roll off him. I think those are important things for him to > learn. > > Jacquie > <<<<<< > > I agree, but it must be SO hard for you... > > {{{Jacquie}}} Oh, I manage... :-/ He was here for all of four minutes today, then beat him at a video game and Ben suddenly remembered he was late to be home. Ha. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 > >>>>>> > Why don't I ban him? Because is learning to stand up for himself and > to let things roll off him. I think those are important things for him to > learn. > > Jacquie > <<<<<< > > I agree, but it must be SO hard for you... > > {{{Jacquie}}} Oh, I manage... :-/ He was here for all of four minutes today, then beat him at a video game and Ben suddenly remembered he was late to be home. Ha. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 > >>>>>> > Why don't I ban him? Because is learning to stand up for himself and > to let things roll off him. I think those are important things for him to > learn. > > Jacquie > <<<<<< > > I agree, but it must be SO hard for you... > > {{{Jacquie}}} Oh, I manage... :-/ He was here for all of four minutes today, then beat him at a video game and Ben suddenly remembered he was late to be home. Ha. Jacquie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 >>>>>>>> Yeah, but I'm peripheral to the situation. It's not MY life we're dealing with here, it's 's -- and he needs to be able to know he has a friend. I think the boost to 's self esteem and social skills is more important than my discomfort and irritation, as much as I am miserable when Ben's around. :-I Jacquie <<<<<<< You're a bigger person than I, Jacquie... Penny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 I dont' think it's impolite to ask for a drink, if you are friends...like, " Could I have a drink please? " ...I mean geez, if you're thirty or the kid is thirsty.... I feel weird when " business " people come to my house and ask for water, but I guess *I* should be offering to *them*. I'm weird about those things too... I am NOT a good hostess. Penny RE: dealing with NT kids? (again) Okay, this is an actual serious question. Is it impolite to ask for a drink if you're visiting someone, or is that just for kids? I do have serious social issues, so I honestly don't know. ellen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 Not if you're in the desert..... Penny Re: dealing with NT kids? (again) > Okay, this is an actual serious question. Is it impolite to ask for a drink if you're visiting someone, or is that just for kids? I do have serious social issues, so I honestly don't know. < i'm with you. i don't think i really ever ask for a drink, even if i'm dying of thirst. i even usually turn down one when offered to me! ~~~ Imagine all the people, living life in peace - Lennon ~~~ ------------------------- gina, 31, ny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 I so TOTALLY use to be like that!!! I can't do that anymore because it seems like I have to go all the time! Penny RE: dealing with NT kids? (again) , I even have a hard time asking where the bathroom is. :-( ellen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 21, 2003 Report Share Posted April 21, 2003 Ahhh, but does she know where the bathroom is? Re: dealing with NT kids? (again) would not eat the first few times at my house. Now at least she'll eat. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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