Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 Thanks Gena, He's actually spent last night here for the first time since Christmas and things are going great!!!! Meaghan > > Meaghan, > I don't recall the original either. Sorry about that. Been hitting > delete to much lately, sorry. I would never be disgusted about it. Just > feel for you. No parent wants to be in that position. It sounds like it > has been handled very well and your son is getting the help he needs. > Hang in there and we are here if you want to vent anytime. After all, > even if something is " off topic " it really isn't because whatever is > going on in our life does effect our weight loss efforts or maintenance > efforts. > > Take care, > Gena > > > > I never did see the original post. I probably skipped it by > > accident. I am not disgusted. I think that would be so tough to > > deal with as a parent because both of your babies are involved. > > Wow. You must be so strong, and I think you are doing a wonderful > > job with a crappy crappy situation. > > > > Hugs, > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 Thanks Gena, He's actually spent last night here for the first time since Christmas and things are going great!!!! Meaghan > > Meaghan, > I don't recall the original either. Sorry about that. Been hitting > delete to much lately, sorry. I would never be disgusted about it. Just > feel for you. No parent wants to be in that position. It sounds like it > has been handled very well and your son is getting the help he needs. > Hang in there and we are here if you want to vent anytime. After all, > even if something is " off topic " it really isn't because whatever is > going on in our life does effect our weight loss efforts or maintenance > efforts. > > Take care, > Gena > > > > I never did see the original post. I probably skipped it by > > accident. I am not disgusted. I think that would be so tough to > > deal with as a parent because both of your babies are involved. > > Wow. You must be so strong, and I think you are doing a wonderful > > job with a crappy crappy situation. > > > > Hugs, > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 If I ever get 1 day to stay home and actualy do a few things around here...day #2 I get to myself I'll have to come visit. I must warn you...I need very explicit directions if you are not 15 mints from my house. (Oh, and I don't so that north south thing...I like to keep it at the left right kind of thing. LOL) Ang > -Ang, You're probably right!!!! We'll have to do that sometime. > From where I live it only takes about 40 minutes to get to Valley > Park, that's where my best friend lives. I still can't drive though, > I can sit in the car if I sit kinda sideways, but that doesn't make > for good driving. My hubby is so tired of driving me places. I told > him last night that I was so sorry for intentionally throwing myself > down the stairs just to inconvenience him. That would be awesome to > meet you in person though. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , " " <amvdhrjr@n...> wrote: > > Meaghan, > > You are so close to me! I'm down between Fenton and Arnold. I'd > bet > > we could meet in the middle and drive less than 20 minutes :-) > > Ang > > > > > > > -Thanks so much Jinx, I can't believe how awesome you all > > are....how > > > about everybody packing up and moving to Ofallon. We can all > deal > > > with the weight issues and life together, face to face. You guys > > are > > > the best!!!!!!! Meaghan-- In > > > weightlossbuddies2 , " Jinx A. " > > <jinxjohn@a...> > > > wrote: > > > > Meaghan, I am so sorry that you had to go through this and it > is > > > not a reflection of your parenting. Shame on your homeschooling > > > group for being so reactionary and not being better informed. I > > hope > > > you are together soon and that you are able to put it behind > you. > > My > > > thoughts and prayers are with you. Jx. > > > > Re: Meaghan*I'm sooooooooo > > > mad!!!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > -Shan, Thank you thank you thank you....now you made me cry > > > though. > > > > I know exactly what you're talking about. See it's always > been > > a > > > > fear of mine because I was raped. (By Zachary's sperm donor > > > > infact.) See, everything happens for a reason...if I hadn't > of > > > been > > > > asked to work the night shift, I wouldn't of been walking out > > > alone > > > > at night, I wouldn't of had to live through that, but then I > > also > > > > wouldn't have my son. When I found out I was preggo it made > > > > everything all right. But because of how he was conceived > I've > > > > always feared that maybe some of that mans traits were passed > > to > > > > him. (The police and the counselors swear that isn't the > case > > > here > > > > though....pray they're right.) Then I had to do a 6 month > > > clinical > > > > at Fulton Prison and guess what I had to lead...none other > then > > > the > > > > sexual pediophile program. There's nothing scarier...and I > > guess > > > > that's where I know I failed my baby. We've talked about > > things > > > like > > > > her body and that nobody has a right to touch her but I never > > > went in > > > > to great detail because I thought she was safe. She's always > > > with > > > > me. I even homeschool her. Guess I screwed up in the worst > > > possible > > > > way. Thanks so much for caring, I know exactely what kind of > > > info > > > > your reading. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , > > > > girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > > > > > In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight > > Time, > > > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > > > > > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull > > > through > > > > this too. > > > > > > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again > though. > > > We > > > > are currently > > > > > > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never > > had > > > > gotten my fancy > > > > > > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan-- - > > > > > > > > > > Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and > > actually > > > for > > > > your son > > > > > as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate > > by > > > > Yahoo b/c nobody > > > > > here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am > > really > > > glad > > > > I asked > > > > > now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way > > > > intentionally or not!! > > > > > > > > > > I am currently reading the first of many required books in > my > > > > clinical social > > > > > work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: > > Pedophiles, > > > > Rapists, and > > > > > Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and > How > > We > > > Can > > > > Protect > > > > > Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a > veryyyyyy > > > creepy > > > > and > > > > > veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should > be > > > > required reading for > > > > > anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff > nightmares > > > are > > > > made of? > > > > > YES..but also ALOT of good information. > > > > > > > > > > Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and > > your > > > > family are > > > > > handling the situation great and given your sons age I > agree > > > that > > > > at worst it > > > > > was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it > > any > > > > easier for your > > > > > babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is > > the > > > best > > > > you can do > > > > > and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you > for > > > > handling it so > > > > > well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you > and > > > your > > > > babies in my > > > > > thoughts hon. > > > > > > > > > > HUGS!!! > > > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 If I ever get 1 day to stay home and actualy do a few things around here...day #2 I get to myself I'll have to come visit. I must warn you...I need very explicit directions if you are not 15 mints from my house. (Oh, and I don't so that north south thing...I like to keep it at the left right kind of thing. LOL) Ang > -Ang, You're probably right!!!! We'll have to do that sometime. > From where I live it only takes about 40 minutes to get to Valley > Park, that's where my best friend lives. I still can't drive though, > I can sit in the car if I sit kinda sideways, but that doesn't make > for good driving. My hubby is so tired of driving me places. I told > him last night that I was so sorry for intentionally throwing myself > down the stairs just to inconvenience him. That would be awesome to > meet you in person though. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , " " <amvdhrjr@n...> wrote: > > Meaghan, > > You are so close to me! I'm down between Fenton and Arnold. I'd > bet > > we could meet in the middle and drive less than 20 minutes :-) > > Ang > > > > > > > -Thanks so much Jinx, I can't believe how awesome you all > > are....how > > > about everybody packing up and moving to Ofallon. We can all > deal > > > with the weight issues and life together, face to face. You guys > > are > > > the best!!!!!!! Meaghan-- In > > > weightlossbuddies2 , " Jinx A. " > > <jinxjohn@a...> > > > wrote: > > > > Meaghan, I am so sorry that you had to go through this and it > is > > > not a reflection of your parenting. Shame on your homeschooling > > > group for being so reactionary and not being better informed. I > > hope > > > you are together soon and that you are able to put it behind > you. > > My > > > thoughts and prayers are with you. Jx. > > > > Re: Meaghan*I'm sooooooooo > > > mad!!!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > -Shan, Thank you thank you thank you....now you made me cry > > > though. > > > > I know exactly what you're talking about. See it's always > been > > a > > > > fear of mine because I was raped. (By Zachary's sperm donor > > > > infact.) See, everything happens for a reason...if I hadn't > of > > > been > > > > asked to work the night shift, I wouldn't of been walking out > > > alone > > > > at night, I wouldn't of had to live through that, but then I > > also > > > > wouldn't have my son. When I found out I was preggo it made > > > > everything all right. But because of how he was conceived > I've > > > > always feared that maybe some of that mans traits were passed > > to > > > > him. (The police and the counselors swear that isn't the > case > > > here > > > > though....pray they're right.) Then I had to do a 6 month > > > clinical > > > > at Fulton Prison and guess what I had to lead...none other > then > > > the > > > > sexual pediophile program. There's nothing scarier...and I > > guess > > > > that's where I know I failed my baby. We've talked about > > things > > > like > > > > her body and that nobody has a right to touch her but I never > > > went in > > > > to great detail because I thought she was safe. She's always > > > with > > > > me. I even homeschool her. Guess I screwed up in the worst > > > possible > > > > way. Thanks so much for caring, I know exactely what kind of > > > info > > > > your reading. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , > > > > girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > > > > > In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight > > Time, > > > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > > > > > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull > > > through > > > > this too. > > > > > > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again > though. > > > We > > > > are currently > > > > > > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never > > had > > > > gotten my fancy > > > > > > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan-- - > > > > > > > > > > Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and > > actually > > > for > > > > your son > > > > > as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate > > by > > > > Yahoo b/c nobody > > > > > here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am > > really > > > glad > > > > I asked > > > > > now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way > > > > intentionally or not!! > > > > > > > > > > I am currently reading the first of many required books in > my > > > > clinical social > > > > > work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: > > Pedophiles, > > > > Rapists, and > > > > > Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and > How > > We > > > Can > > > > Protect > > > > > Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a > veryyyyyy > > > creepy > > > > and > > > > > veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should > be > > > > required reading for > > > > > anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff > nightmares > > > are > > > > made of? > > > > > YES..but also ALOT of good information. > > > > > > > > > > Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and > > your > > > > family are > > > > > handling the situation great and given your sons age I > agree > > > that > > > > at worst it > > > > > was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it > > any > > > > easier for your > > > > > babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is > > the > > > best > > > > you can do > > > > > and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you > for > > > > handling it so > > > > > well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you > and > > > your > > > > babies in my > > > > > thoughts hon. > > > > > > > > > > HUGS!!! > > > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 If I ever get 1 day to stay home and actualy do a few things around here...day #2 I get to myself I'll have to come visit. I must warn you...I need very explicit directions if you are not 15 mints from my house. (Oh, and I don't so that north south thing...I like to keep it at the left right kind of thing. LOL) Ang > -Ang, You're probably right!!!! We'll have to do that sometime. > From where I live it only takes about 40 minutes to get to Valley > Park, that's where my best friend lives. I still can't drive though, > I can sit in the car if I sit kinda sideways, but that doesn't make > for good driving. My hubby is so tired of driving me places. I told > him last night that I was so sorry for intentionally throwing myself > down the stairs just to inconvenience him. That would be awesome to > meet you in person though. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , " " <amvdhrjr@n...> wrote: > > Meaghan, > > You are so close to me! I'm down between Fenton and Arnold. I'd > bet > > we could meet in the middle and drive less than 20 minutes :-) > > Ang > > > > > > > -Thanks so much Jinx, I can't believe how awesome you all > > are....how > > > about everybody packing up and moving to Ofallon. We can all > deal > > > with the weight issues and life together, face to face. You guys > > are > > > the best!!!!!!! Meaghan-- In > > > weightlossbuddies2 , " Jinx A. " > > <jinxjohn@a...> > > > wrote: > > > > Meaghan, I am so sorry that you had to go through this and it > is > > > not a reflection of your parenting. Shame on your homeschooling > > > group for being so reactionary and not being better informed. I > > hope > > > you are together soon and that you are able to put it behind > you. > > My > > > thoughts and prayers are with you. Jx. > > > > Re: Meaghan*I'm sooooooooo > > > mad!!!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > > > > > -Shan, Thank you thank you thank you....now you made me cry > > > though. > > > > I know exactly what you're talking about. See it's always > been > > a > > > > fear of mine because I was raped. (By Zachary's sperm donor > > > > infact.) See, everything happens for a reason...if I hadn't > of > > > been > > > > asked to work the night shift, I wouldn't of been walking out > > > alone > > > > at night, I wouldn't of had to live through that, but then I > > also > > > > wouldn't have my son. When I found out I was preggo it made > > > > everything all right. But because of how he was conceived > I've > > > > always feared that maybe some of that mans traits were passed > > to > > > > him. (The police and the counselors swear that isn't the > case > > > here > > > > though....pray they're right.) Then I had to do a 6 month > > > clinical > > > > at Fulton Prison and guess what I had to lead...none other > then > > > the > > > > sexual pediophile program. There's nothing scarier...and I > > guess > > > > that's where I know I failed my baby. We've talked about > > things > > > like > > > > her body and that nobody has a right to touch her but I never > > > went in > > > > to great detail because I thought she was safe. She's always > > > with > > > > me. I even homeschool her. Guess I screwed up in the worst > > > possible > > > > way. Thanks so much for caring, I know exactely what kind of > > > info > > > > your reading. Meaghan-- In > weightlossbuddies2 , > > > > girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > > > > > In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight > > Time, > > > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > > > > > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull > > > through > > > > this too. > > > > > > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again > though. > > > We > > > > are currently > > > > > > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never > > had > > > > gotten my fancy > > > > > > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan-- - > > > > > > > > > > Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and > > actually > > > for > > > > your son > > > > > as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate > > by > > > > Yahoo b/c nobody > > > > > here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am > > really > > > glad > > > > I asked > > > > > now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way > > > > intentionally or not!! > > > > > > > > > > I am currently reading the first of many required books in > my > > > > clinical social > > > > > work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: > > Pedophiles, > > > > Rapists, and > > > > > Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and > How > > We > > > Can > > > > Protect > > > > > Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a > veryyyyyy > > > creepy > > > > and > > > > > veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should > be > > > > required reading for > > > > > anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff > nightmares > > > are > > > > made of? > > > > > YES..but also ALOT of good information. > > > > > > > > > > Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and > > your > > > > family are > > > > > handling the situation great and given your sons age I > agree > > > that > > > > at worst it > > > > > was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it > > any > > > > easier for your > > > > > babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is > > the > > > best > > > > you can do > > > > > and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you > for > > > > handling it so > > > > > well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you > and > > > your > > > > babies in my > > > > > thoughts hon. > > > > > > > > > > HUGS!!! > > > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 Oh I know exactely where you're coming from. I can't get anywhere without directions unless I've been there atleast ten times. I like the kind of directions that go...turn left at Mcs, Right at Steak and SHake....-lol Meaghan > > > > > > In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight > > > Time, > > > > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > > > > > > > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull > > > > through > > > > > this too. > > > > > > > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again > > though. > > > > We > > > > > are currently > > > > > > > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I > never > > > had > > > > > gotten my fancy > > > > > > > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan-- > - > > > > > > > > > > > > Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and > > > actually > > > > for > > > > > your son > > > > > > as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got > ate > > > by > > > > > Yahoo b/c nobody > > > > > > here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am > > > really > > > > glad > > > > > I asked > > > > > > now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way > > > > > intentionally or not!! > > > > > > > > > > > > I am currently reading the first of many required books > in > > my > > > > > clinical social > > > > > > work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: > > > Pedophiles, > > > > > Rapists, and > > > > > > Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and > > How > > > We > > > > Can > > > > > Protect > > > > > > Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a > > veryyyyyy > > > > creepy > > > > > and > > > > > > veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should > > be > > > > > required reading for > > > > > > anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff > > nightmares > > > > are > > > > > made of? > > > > > > YES..but also ALOT of good information. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you > and > > > your > > > > > family are > > > > > > handling the situation great and given your sons age I > > agree > > > > that > > > > > at worst it > > > > > > was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes > it > > > any > > > > > easier for your > > > > > > babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do > is > > > the > > > > best > > > > > you can do > > > > > > and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you > > for > > > > > handling it so > > > > > > well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you > > and > > > > your > > > > > babies in my > > > > > > thoughts hon. > > > > > > > > > > > > HUGS!!! > > > > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2003 Report Share Posted May 31, 2003 Oh I know exactely where you're coming from. I can't get anywhere without directions unless I've been there atleast ten times. I like the kind of directions that go...turn left at Mcs, Right at Steak and SHake....-lol Meaghan > > > > > > In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight > > > Time, > > > > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > > > > > > > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull > > > > through > > > > > this too. > > > > > > > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again > > though. > > > > We > > > > > are currently > > > > > > > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I > never > > > had > > > > > gotten my fancy > > > > > > > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan-- > - > > > > > > > > > > > > Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and > > > actually > > > > for > > > > > your son > > > > > > as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got > ate > > > by > > > > > Yahoo b/c nobody > > > > > > here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am > > > really > > > > glad > > > > > I asked > > > > > > now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way > > > > > intentionally or not!! > > > > > > > > > > > > I am currently reading the first of many required books > in > > my > > > > > clinical social > > > > > > work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: > > > Pedophiles, > > > > > Rapists, and > > > > > > Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and > > How > > > We > > > > Can > > > > > Protect > > > > > > Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a > > veryyyyyy > > > > creepy > > > > > and > > > > > > veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should > > be > > > > > required reading for > > > > > > anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff > > nightmares > > > > are > > > > > made of? > > > > > > YES..but also ALOT of good information. > > > > > > > > > > > > Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you > and > > > your > > > > > family are > > > > > > handling the situation great and given your sons age I > > agree > > > > that > > > > > at worst it > > > > > > was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes > it > > > any > > > > > easier for your > > > > > > babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do > is > > > the > > > > best > > > > > you can do > > > > > > and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you > > for > > > > > handling it so > > > > > > well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you > > and > > > > your > > > > > babies in my > > > > > > thoughts hon. > > > > > > > > > > > > HUGS!!! > > > > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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