Re: Meaghan*I'm sooooooooo mad!!!!!!!!!!

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In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> He's

> afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see

> how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just

> being paranoid?????

Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads

forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let

such comments ''roll off their backs''.

I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel

and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his

foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH

understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no

lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo

cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women

think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont

usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner *

that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there

any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its

a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can

totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home

and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its

ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!!

Hugs

Shan

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In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> He's

> afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see

> how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just

> being paranoid?????

Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads

forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let

such comments ''roll off their backs''.

I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel

and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his

foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH

understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no

lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo

cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women

think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont

usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner *

that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there

any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its

a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can

totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home

and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its

ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!!

Hugs

Shan

[Guest guest]

-No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits

again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer

visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again.

We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are

safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 ,

girlnamedshannon@a... wrote:

> In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time,

> meaghandionne@y... writes:

>

> > He's

> > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't

see

> > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or

just

> > being paranoid?????

>

> Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many

times dads

> forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and

able to let

> such comments ''roll off their backs''.

>

> I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as

cruel

> and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place

even if his

> foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and

help them BOTH

> understand that you just want your son to be healthy and

active ...and w/ no

> lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just

be soooo

> cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that

a) women

> think totally differently from them and that kids are just that

KIDS and dont

> usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is

manner *

> that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be

lol). Is there

> any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer

ends....its

> a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of

school and I can

> totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not

being home

> and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma

says its

> ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep

better soon!!

>

> Hugs

> Shan

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

-No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits

again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer

visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again.

We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are

safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 ,

girlnamedshannon@a... wrote:

> In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time,

> meaghandionne@y... writes:

>

> > He's

> > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't

see

> > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or

just

> > being paranoid?????

>

> Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many

times dads

> forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and

able to let

> such comments ''roll off their backs''.

>

> I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as

cruel

> and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place

even if his

> foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and

help them BOTH

> understand that you just want your son to be healthy and

active ...and w/ no

> lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just

be soooo

> cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that

a) women

> think totally differently from them and that kids are just that

KIDS and dont

> usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is

manner *

> that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be

lol). Is there

> any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer

ends....its

> a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of

school and I can

> totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not

being home

> and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma

says its

> ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep

better soon!!

>

> Hugs

> Shan

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

-No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits

again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer

visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again.

We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are

safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 ,

girlnamedshannon@a... wrote:

> In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time,

> meaghandionne@y... writes:

>

> > He's

> > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't

see

> > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or

just

> > being paranoid?????

>

> Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many

times dads

> forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and

able to let

> such comments ''roll off their backs''.

>

> I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as

cruel

> and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place

even if his

> foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and

help them BOTH

> understand that you just want your son to be healthy and

active ...and w/ no

> lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just

be soooo

> cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that

a) women

> think totally differently from them and that kids are just that

KIDS and dont

> usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is

manner *

> that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be

lol). Is there

> any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer

ends....its

> a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of

school and I can

> totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not

being home

> and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma

says its

> ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep

better soon!!

>

> Hugs

> Shan

>

>

>

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In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are

> safe with him. Meaghan

Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that your

daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if its not

something

you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!!

HUGS!

Shan

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In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too.

> He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently

> turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy

> table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan---

Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son

as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody

here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked

now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!!

I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social

work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and

Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect

Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and

veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading

for

anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of?

YES..but also ALOT of good information.

Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are

handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it

was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your

babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do

and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so

well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my

thoughts hon.

HUGS!!!

Shan

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too.

> He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently

> turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy

> table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan---

Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son

as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody

here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked

now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!!

I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social

work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and

Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect

Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and

veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading

for

anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of?

YES..but also ALOT of good information.

Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are

handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it

was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your

babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do

and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so

well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my

thoughts hon.

HUGS!!!

Shan

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time,

meaghandionne@... writes:

> He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too.

> He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently

> turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy

> table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan---

Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son

as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody

here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked

now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!!

I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social

work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and

Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect

Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and

veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading

for

anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of?

YES..but also ALOT of good information.

Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are

handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it

was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your

babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do

and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so

well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my

thoughts hon.

HUGS!!!

Shan

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Actually I already posted about it once and didn't get any replies so

I figured you all were disgusted with it/me. My son was making my

daughter touch his private area. The night (Dec 26) that I found out

about it, I had my parents come get him. We went to the pediatrician

first thing the next morning because I didn't know where else to

turn. He contacted DFS who eventually decided they weren't going to

deal with it and turned it over to the police who decided he wasn't a

preditor and just 'experimenting' with something he heard about and

choosing a bad form of experimentation. They've both been seeing

counselors since the beginning of January and they both agree that it

would be perfectly safe for him to come home now as far as him not

ever hurting her like that again, but for her sake we need to take

things slow. It's a horrible situation and everybody has such

intense feelings to dig through. He really is a wonderful kid

though, and we'll all pull through this too. He won't ever sleep on

the same floor as her again though. We are currently turning the

dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy

table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan

> In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> meaghandionne@y... writes:

>

> > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things

are

> > safe with him. Meaghan

>

> Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that

your

> daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if

its not something

> you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!!

>

> HUGS!

> Shan

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Meaghan,

I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I can

see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your DD,

it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very

conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the

help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk!

Sharon

[Guest guest]

Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting

help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has

passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats

what family is all about.hugsKiti

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Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting

help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has

passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats

what family is all about.hugsKiti

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Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting

help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has

passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats

what family is all about.hugsKiti

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Meaghan,

I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it

while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I

had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT

worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming

home? how old are your kids?

Amy

ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with

> > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> >

> > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

things

> are

> > > safe with him. Meaghan

> >

> > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened

that

> your

> > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if

> its not something

> > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

all!!

> >

> > HUGS!

> > Shan

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Meaghan,

I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it

while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I

had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT

worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming

home? how old are your kids?

Amy

ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with

> > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> >

> > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

things

> are

> > > safe with him. Meaghan

> >

> > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened

that

> your

> > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if

> its not something

> > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

all!!

> >

> > HUGS!

> > Shan

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Meaghan,

I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it

while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I

had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT

worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming

home? how old are your kids?

Amy

ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with

> > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> >

> > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

things

> are

> > > safe with him. Meaghan

> >

> > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened

that

> your

> > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if

> its not something

> > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

all!!

> >

> > HUGS!

> > Shan

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

I never did see the original post. I probably skipped it by

accident. I am not disgusted. I think that would be so tough to

deal with as a parent because both of your babies are involved.

Wow. You must be so strong, and I think you are doing a wonderful

job with a crappy crappy situation.

Hugs,

> > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> >

> > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things

> are

> > > safe with him. Meaghan

> >

> > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that

> your

> > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if

> its not something

> > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

all!!

> >

> > HUGS!

> > Shan

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

i didn't see this either. i think you are very strong and dealt with

the situation very well. i think you are doing great and are a

wonderful mom for handling things as well as you did.

>

> > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> > >

> > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

things

> > are

> > > > safe with him. Meaghan

> > >

> > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened

that

> > your

> > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say

if

> > its not something

> > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

> all!!

> > >

> > > HUGS!

> > > Shan

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

Meaghan

Sorry but I don't remember seeing

you post about it before. I know

kids experiment but I can see how

this would upset your DD. It must

have been a harrowing experience for

your whole family. I'm sure with

time and patience you will all come

to terms with it and once again

become a happy united family.

BTW I didn't find myself feeling

disgusted with it/you. Just sorry

that you have had to through all

this.

((((((HUGS))))))

Sue H.

> > In a message dated 5/25/2003

11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> >

> > > We have to be careful for

Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

things

> are

> > > safe with him. Meaghan

> >

> > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being

too personal..what happened that

> your

> > daughter is afraid of him?

Please please dont hesitate to say

if

> its not something

> > you want to discuss here..I am

just being all nosey parker is all!!

> >

> > HUGS!

> > Shan

> >

> >

> > [Non-text portions of this

message have been removed]

[Guest guest]

-Thanks so much Sharon!!!!!! It has been hard on us all. If only he

had thought of how much hurt he was going to put on everyone who

loves him. We're dealing though...atleast you learn who your real

friends are. I lost so many because they decided I was a bad mom

for 'allowing' it to happen. We even got kicked out of our

homeschool group, because my supposed best friend felt the need to

share. They said they felt Alyssa was now a threat to their children

because she had been violated, or some bullshit to that nature.

Anyway, we'll all be back together soon. Meaghan-- In

weightlossbuddies2 , " tinkcrzy1972 " <smbalik@s...>

wrote:

> Meaghan,

>

> I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I

can

> see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your

DD,

> it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very

> conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the

> help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk!

>

> Sharon

[Guest guest]

-Thanks so much Sharon!!!!!! It has been hard on us all. If only he

had thought of how much hurt he was going to put on everyone who

loves him. We're dealing though...atleast you learn who your real

friends are. I lost so many because they decided I was a bad mom

for 'allowing' it to happen. We even got kicked out of our

homeschool group, because my supposed best friend felt the need to

share. They said they felt Alyssa was now a threat to their children

because she had been violated, or some bullshit to that nature.

Anyway, we'll all be back together soon. Meaghan-- In

weightlossbuddies2 , " tinkcrzy1972 " <smbalik@s...>

wrote:

> Meaghan,

>

> I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I

can

> see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your

DD,

> it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very

> conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the

> help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk!

>

> Sharon

[Guest guest]

-Thanks so much KITI, I can always use hugs. She still loves him

soooooooo much and she hates that he isn't here, but she's so scared

of him too. I pray in time everything will be right again. I feel

so sorry for all my babies. Zachary for doing something so awful and

having to live with that for the rest of his life, Alyssa for what

she went through and loosing her trust in her big brother who she

would do anything for (obviously), and because he completely

doesn't understand why brother isn't here. Now you all can

understand how I jumped my last plateau. I dropped about 15 pounds

in the 2 weeks after I found out. All I could do was throw up. It

will all work out though and I truly believe everything happens for a

reason, maybe one day we'll understand. Her counselor says maybe it

was so she could learn now that her body is hers and to say no and to

protect herself at all costs. It's just such a mess. Thanks again,

I know this isn't what this group is for so I'll shut up now, Meaghan-

- In weightlossbuddies2 , " Kiti " <texaskiti@m...>

wrote:

> Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for

you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental

and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust

and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti

>

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-Thanks so much KITI, I can always use hugs. She still loves him

soooooooo much and she hates that he isn't here, but she's so scared

of him too. I pray in time everything will be right again. I feel

so sorry for all my babies. Zachary for doing something so awful and

having to live with that for the rest of his life, Alyssa for what

she went through and loosing her trust in her big brother who she

would do anything for (obviously), and because he completely

doesn't understand why brother isn't here. Now you all can

understand how I jumped my last plateau. I dropped about 15 pounds

in the 2 weeks after I found out. All I could do was throw up. It

will all work out though and I truly believe everything happens for a

reason, maybe one day we'll understand. Her counselor says maybe it

was so she could learn now that her body is hers and to say no and to

protect herself at all costs. It's just such a mess. Thanks again,

I know this isn't what this group is for so I'll shut up now, Meaghan-

- In weightlossbuddies2 , " Kiti " <texaskiti@m...>

wrote:

> Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for

you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental

and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust

and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti

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-No Amy thank you for caring enough to ask. Zachary is 12, as of

last week and Alyssa is 6. We're hoping to have him home by the end

of summer, but only time will really tell. Is your friend OK?????

Meaghan-- In weightlossbuddies2 , " Amy "

<weyekin1@y...> wrote:

> Meaghan,

> I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it

> while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I

> had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a

LOT

> worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming

> home? how old are your kids?

> Amy

> ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable

with

>

>

>

> > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time,

> > > meaghandionne@y... writes:

> > >

> > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW

> things

> > are

> > > > safe with him. Meaghan

> > >

> > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened

> that

> > your

> > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say

if

> > its not something

> > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is

> all!!

> > >

> > > HUGS!

> > > Shan

> > >

> > >

> > >