Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > He's > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just > being paranoid????? Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let such comments ''roll off their backs''. I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner * that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!! Hugs Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > He's > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just > being paranoid????? Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let such comments ''roll off their backs''. I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner * that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!! Hugs Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 -No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again. We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 , girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time, > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > He's > > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see > > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just > > being paranoid????? > > Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads > forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let > such comments ''roll off their backs''. > > I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel > and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his > foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH > understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no > lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo > cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women > think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont > usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner * > that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there > any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its > a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can > totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home > and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its > ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!! > > Hugs > Shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 -No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again. We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 , girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time, > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > He's > > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see > > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just > > being paranoid????? > > Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads > forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let > such comments ''roll off their backs''. > > I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel > and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his > foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH > understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no > lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo > cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women > think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont > usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner * > that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there > any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its > a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can > totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home > and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its > ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!! > > Hugs > Shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 -No chance of that!!!!!!! We're just starting consistent day visits again. Next month will be night visits and July will be longer visits. Maybe by the middle of August we can have him here again. We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are safe with him. Meaghan -- In weightlossbuddies2 , girlnamedshannon@a... wrote: > In a message dated 5/22/2003 10:53:52 PM Central Daylight Time, > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > He's > > afraid my actions will make my daughter anorexic but he doesn't see > > how what he did could lead to obesity. Am I right on this or just > > being paranoid????? > > Nooooo nooooo you arent being paranoid at all!! I think soooo many times dads > forget that their ''little men'' are NOT full fledged ducks and able to let > such comments ''roll off their backs''. > > I would like to think your hubbys intentions were no where near as cruel > and/or callous as they sounded and his heart was in the right place even if his > foot was down his throat!! Please keep doing what youre doing and help them BOTH > understand that you just want your son to be healthy and active ...and w/ no > lasting scars from daddy saying he has boy boobs lol!! Men can just be soooo > cavalier at times and honestly I think its because they forget that a) women > think totally differently from them and that kids are just that KIDS and dont > usually respond well to the shoot from the hip * say it like it is manner * > that most adults can deal with (or overlook as the case may be lol). Is there > any chance of maybe getting your son home w/ you before the summer ends....its > a longgggggg couple months w/o alot of structure being out of school and I can > totally see it being harder to get things undercontrol w/o him not being home > and having sooooo much freetime to get bored and eat cause grandma says its > ok!!! Best best best luck to you M and I really hope things keep better soon!! > > Hugs > Shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 25, 2003 Report Share Posted May 25, 2003 In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are > safe with him. Meaghan Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that your daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if its not something you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! HUGS! Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too. > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan--- Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!! I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading for anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of? YES..but also ALOT of good information. Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my thoughts hon. HUGS!!! Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too. > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan--- Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!! I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading for anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of? YES..but also ALOT of good information. Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my thoughts hon. HUGS!!! Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 In a message dated 5/26/2003 9:54:38 AM Central Daylight Time, meaghandionne@... writes: > He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too. > He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently > turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy > table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan--- Oooooo wowser M...I am so sorry for your daughter and actually for your son as well. I am CERTAIN the initial post about this got ate by Yahoo b/c nobody here is ''disgusted'' with you or your family hon. I am really glad I asked now b/c you should not have been made to feel that way intentionally or not!! I am currently reading the first of many required books in my clinical social work curriculum and the name of it is ''Predators: Pedophiles, Rapists, and Other Sex Offenders: Who They Are, How They Operate, and How We Can Protect Ourselves and Our Children'' by Salter. Its a veryyyyyy creepy and veryyyyyy troubling book but also something I feel should be required reading for anyone with children. Gruesome? Frightening? Stuff nightmares are made of? YES..but also ALOT of good information. Sorry I didnt mean to digress but honestly I think you and your family are handling the situation great and given your sons age I agree that at worst it was probably childish experimentation. Not that it makes it any easier for your babygirl but sometimes things happen and all you can do is the best you can do and I think you are all doing exactly that. KUDOS to you for handling it so well and so swiftly and I will definately be keeping you and your babies in my thoughts hon. HUGS!!! Shan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Actually I already posted about it once and didn't get any replies so I figured you all were disgusted with it/me. My son was making my daughter touch his private area. The night (Dec 26) that I found out about it, I had my parents come get him. We went to the pediatrician first thing the next morning because I didn't know where else to turn. He contacted DFS who eventually decided they weren't going to deal with it and turned it over to the police who decided he wasn't a preditor and just 'experimenting' with something he heard about and choosing a bad form of experimentation. They've both been seeing counselors since the beginning of January and they both agree that it would be perfectly safe for him to come home now as far as him not ever hurting her like that again, but for her sake we need to take things slow. It's a horrible situation and everybody has such intense feelings to dig through. He really is a wonderful kid though, and we'll all pull through this too. He won't ever sleep on the same floor as her again though. We are currently turning the dining room into a bedroom for him. I never had gotten my fancy table anyway, it was always just a play room. Meaghan > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things are > > safe with him. Meaghan > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that your > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if its not something > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > HUGS! > Shan > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan, I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I can see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your DD, it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk! Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti _______________________________________________ No banners. No pop-ups. No kidding. Introducing My Way - http://www.myway.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti _______________________________________________ No banners. No pop-ups. No kidding. Introducing My Way - http://www.myway.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti _______________________________________________ No banners. No pop-ups. No kidding. Introducing My Way - http://www.myway.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan, I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming home? how old are your kids? Amy ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > are > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > your > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > its not something > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > > > HUGS! > > Shan > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan, I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming home? how old are your kids? Amy ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > are > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > your > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > its not something > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > > > HUGS! > > Shan > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan, I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming home? how old are your kids? Amy ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > are > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > your > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > its not something > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > > > HUGS! > > Shan > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 I never did see the original post. I probably skipped it by accident. I am not disgusted. I think that would be so tough to deal with as a parent because both of your babies are involved. Wow. You must be so strong, and I think you are doing a wonderful job with a crappy crappy situation. Hugs, > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > are > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > your > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > its not something > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > > > HUGS! > > Shan > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 i didn't see this either. i think you are very strong and dealt with the situation very well. i think you are doing great and are a wonderful mom for handling things as well as you did. > > > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > > are > > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > > your > > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > > its not something > > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is > all!! > > > > > > HUGS! > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 Meaghan Sorry but I don't remember seeing you post about it before. I know kids experiment but I can see how this would upset your DD. It must have been a harrowing experience for your whole family. I'm sure with time and patience you will all come to terms with it and once again become a happy united family. BTW I didn't find myself feeling disgusted with it/you. Just sorry that you have had to through all this. ((((((HUGS)))))) Sue H. > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW things > are > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened that > your > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > its not something > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is all!! > > > > HUGS! > > Shan > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 -Thanks so much Sharon!!!!!! It has been hard on us all. If only he had thought of how much hurt he was going to put on everyone who loves him. We're dealing though...atleast you learn who your real friends are. I lost so many because they decided I was a bad mom for 'allowing' it to happen. We even got kicked out of our homeschool group, because my supposed best friend felt the need to share. They said they felt Alyssa was now a threat to their children because she had been violated, or some bullshit to that nature. Anyway, we'll all be back together soon. Meaghan-- In weightlossbuddies2 , " tinkcrzy1972 " <smbalik@s...> wrote: > Meaghan, > > I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I can > see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your DD, > it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very > conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the > help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk! > > Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 -Thanks so much Sharon!!!!!! It has been hard on us all. If only he had thought of how much hurt he was going to put on everyone who loves him. We're dealing though...atleast you learn who your real friends are. I lost so many because they decided I was a bad mom for 'allowing' it to happen. We even got kicked out of our homeschool group, because my supposed best friend felt the need to share. They said they felt Alyssa was now a threat to their children because she had been violated, or some bullshit to that nature. Anyway, we'll all be back together soon. Meaghan-- In weightlossbuddies2 , " tinkcrzy1972 " <smbalik@s...> wrote: > Meaghan, > > I don't remember seeing anything about the sitouation before. I can > see where this would be a disturbing and traumatic time for your DD, > it must be hard on you at times as well, I would feel very > conflicted in your sitouation! Glad that you are all getting the > help that you need. I'm here if you need to talk! > > Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 -Thanks so much KITI, I can always use hugs. She still loves him soooooooo much and she hates that he isn't here, but she's so scared of him too. I pray in time everything will be right again. I feel so sorry for all my babies. Zachary for doing something so awful and having to live with that for the rest of his life, Alyssa for what she went through and loosing her trust in her big brother who she would do anything for (obviously), and because he completely doesn't understand why brother isn't here. Now you all can understand how I jumped my last plateau. I dropped about 15 pounds in the 2 weeks after I found out. All I could do was throw up. It will all work out though and I truly believe everything happens for a reason, maybe one day we'll understand. Her counselor says maybe it was so she could learn now that her body is hers and to say no and to protect herself at all costs. It's just such a mess. Thanks again, I know this isn't what this group is for so I'll shut up now, Meaghan- - In weightlossbuddies2 , " Kiti " <texaskiti@m...> wrote: > Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti > > _______________________________________________ > No banners. No pop-ups. No kidding. > Introducing My Way - http://www.myway.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 -Thanks so much KITI, I can always use hugs. She still loves him soooooooo much and she hates that he isn't here, but she's so scared of him too. I pray in time everything will be right again. I feel so sorry for all my babies. Zachary for doing something so awful and having to live with that for the rest of his life, Alyssa for what she went through and loosing her trust in her big brother who she would do anything for (obviously), and because he completely doesn't understand why brother isn't here. Now you all can understand how I jumped my last plateau. I dropped about 15 pounds in the 2 weeks after I found out. All I could do was throw up. It will all work out though and I truly believe everything happens for a reason, maybe one day we'll understand. Her counselor says maybe it was so she could learn now that her body is hers and to say no and to protect herself at all costs. It's just such a mess. Thanks again, I know this isn't what this group is for so I'll shut up now, Meaghan- - In weightlossbuddies2 , " Kiti " <texaskiti@m...> wrote: > Meaghan wow, and HUGS you have been thru enough huh. Good for you for getting help for the kids. I hope it was just experimental and something that has passed and that the kids can learn to trust and rely on each other again, thats what family is all about.hugsKiti > > _______________________________________________ > No banners. No pop-ups. No kidding. > Introducing My Way - http://www.myway.com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 26, 2003 Report Share Posted May 26, 2003 -No Amy thank you for caring enough to ask. Zachary is 12, as of last week and Alyssa is 6. We're hoping to have him home by the end of summer, but only time will really tell. Is your friend OK????? Meaghan-- In weightlossbuddies2 , " Amy " <weyekin1@y...> wrote: > Meaghan, > I never saw that the first time you posted it. (did you post it > while i was MIA?) that's so hard to deal with, i'm so sorry. I > had a friend who went through that also, but her situation was a LOT > worse than what happened with your children. When is he coming > home? how old are your kids? > Amy > ps-you dont have to answer any questions your not comfortable with > > > > > > In a message dated 5/25/2003 11:53:29 AM Central Daylight Time, > > > meaghandionne@y... writes: > > > > > > > We have to be careful for Alyssa's sake. She has to KNOW > things > > are > > > > safe with him. Meaghan > > > > > > Ooooooh wowser...if Im not being too personal..what happened > that > > your > > > daughter is afraid of him? Please please dont hesitate to say if > > its not something > > > you want to discuss here..I am just being all nosey parker is > all!! > > > > > > HUGS! > > > Shan > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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