Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

[Guest guest]

Can you please reference what you are referring to? Your post is a

little vague.

>

> Enough said I think. I for one need to spend more time researching

> tx's and planning for my childs future. I have no time to bully

others

> who share my journey in life.

>

[Guest guest]

>

> I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to ABA,

and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, etc

etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just post

the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the bullying?

I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe who are

too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing you

and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not united

will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> >

>

[Guest guest]

I wouldn't short change the women who post here just because of one or

two y-chromosome posting louts. If you think the men are agressive,

wait until some of the Lesbian Sumo Wrestlers Against Autism list

members around here start posting, yipes!

Lenny

> >

> > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to ABA,

> and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, etc

> etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just post

> the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the bullying?

> I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe who are

> too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing you

> and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not united

> will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Hi Diane,

I think it was primarily one person who was bashing ABA and

saying 'if you would have done [xyz], seven years ago...'(on and

on). He seemed very defensive and rude. He feels that because

other things (ABA) didn't work for his son (although the funny part

is that I don't recall him ever saying specifically that they had

done ABA), they don't work - period. I always want to hear what

another parent has to say, but I also check the score. In other

words I want to know how far their child has come doing what they

recommend. I believe other parents. He does not.

I'm always stunned by someone who arrogantly thinks they know best

for everyone else.

But, I think this journey affects us all and different people deal

with the grief process and stress differently. Some people,

depending on where they are, lash out. Please don't take it

personally. I feel bad for him because he has a closed mind. Maybe

that is what he needs to keep going. Maybe by tolerating and trying

to educate him, we can ultimately help him. Maybe not.

I agree with you that there isn't enough time in the day (or

strength) to be brought down or put down by one of our own. We have

a lot of people and institutions to fight and it's a shame to waste

our effort on someone who should respect us for being the

knowledgeable parents we all are. Please just try to ignore that

diverting behavior and glean what you can from the group.

> >

> > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to

ABA,

> and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done,

etc

> etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just

post

> the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

bullying?

> I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe

who are

> too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing

you

> and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not

united

> will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Lenny I thought you didn't "pin and tell"

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

I wouldn't short change the women who post here just because of one ortwo y-chromosome posting louts. If you think the men are agressive,wait until some of the Lesbian Sumo Wrestlers Against Autism listmembers around here start posting, yipes! Lenny > >> > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to ABA, > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, etc > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just post > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the bullying? > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe who are > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing you > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not united > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > >> >>

[Guest guest]

>

> Lenny I thought you didn't " pin and tell "

>

>

I don't ! knows nothing. Nothing! How much longer must

we continue this cherade?

[Guest guest]

Diane, It seems this discussion isn't over. Overly defensive women

seem to want to continue it.

I guess there are some who just can't get the point unless you bash

them over the head with it. ABA can only improve behaviors and will

NEVER get mercury out of a child's brain. That makes ABA a secondary

consideration when trying to advise those who make policy decisions

to get the job done right.

These statements are simply facts and are not the least bit rude.

I did not take offense at the jibes I was given from those who, it

seems, still can't understand this simple point. Driving home a

point is not bullying. It takes more than a closed mind to think a

teacher or any sort can cure mercury poisoning.

> > >

> > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards

to

> ABA,

> > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done,

> etc

> > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just

> post

> > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> bullying?

> > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe

> who are

> > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing

> you

> > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not

> united

> > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Lenny's back, snappy as ever. Curious to know how many e-mails you had to shift through on your return????? maurineschaferatsprynet <schafer@...> wrote: >> Lenny I thought you didn't "pin and tell"> > I don't ! knows nothing. Nothing! How much longer mustwe continue this

cherade?

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[Guest guest]

Do you want a warrior or do you want a wuss?

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

Diane, It seems this discussion isn't over. Overly defensive women seem to want to continue it.I guess there are some who just can't get the point unless you bash them over the head with it. ABA can only improve behaviors and will NEVER get mercury out of a child's brain. That makes ABA a secondary consideration when trying to advise those who make policy decisions to get the job done right. These statements are simply facts and are not the least bit rude. I did not take offense at the jibes I was given from those who, it seems, still can't understand this simple point. Driving home a point is not bullying. It takes more than a closed mind to think a teacher or any sort can cure mercury poisoning.> > >> > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to > ABA, > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, > etc > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just > post > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > bullying? > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > who are > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing > you > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not > united > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > >> > >> >>

[Guest guest]

Bullying is being a wuss. Us women can be warriors too.

> > > >

> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in

regards

> to

> > ABA,

> > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

done,

> > etc

> > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

just

> > post

> > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > bullying?

> > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of

peolpe

> > who are

> > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

hearing

> > you

> > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are

not

> > united

> > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each

other.

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

,

I get it completely. And I understand your - " bash them over the

head " type. I also understand that your " wife " is your handicap,

and that " some overly defensive women " ...blah blah blah. Even

online you attitude shines through. I also get your point that

chelation is the most important thing for our children because it

removes the metal. And I agree ABA should be a " secondary

consideration " (as you put it). However you did not give ABA this

courtesy in your original post. You " bashed " it along with the

people who said they've used it successfully. Double standard and

back peddling.

For MY son, it is chelation and supplements to get him healthy AND

ABA to help him learn. Both are working. If you don't care to

acknowledge that, fine. If you don't agree wiht that approach,

fine. But please don't come on here telling a mom that if she would

have chelated her child, instead of wasting her time with ABA, he

son might be fine now. That is the RUDE part I was referring to.

Which I think you see.

The FACTS are that some children HAVE been cured of their autism

with ABA alone. Regardless of whether ABA can get the mercury out

of their brains or not. That is a fact.

We need to fight to get chelation information out there. I refer

everyone I know with child with ASD, ADD, ADHD, etc. to the nearest

DAN! doctor. I think they ALL need it, and some (not all) need ABA

also. We're in this too.

There are some amazing people on this board and I'm glad to be

here. I'm glad that I can tell it like it is. I won't quietly sit

in a corner and let you " bash " me, like a good little girl.

> > > >

> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in

regards

> to

> > ABA,

> > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

done,

> > etc

> > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

just

> > post

> > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > bullying?

> > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of

peolpe

> > who are

> > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

hearing

> > you

> > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are

not

> > united

> > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Absolutely.

Holly is a warrior.

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

Bullying is being a wuss. Us women can be warriors too. > > > >> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards > to > > ABA, > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, > > etc > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just > > post > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > > bullying? > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > > who are > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing > > you > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not > > united > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > > >> > > >> > >> >>

[Guest guest]

Don't worry, those of us in the Lesbian Sumo Wrestlers Against the Lesbian Sumo Wrestlers Against Autism will take care of them

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

I wouldn't short change the women who post here just because of one ortwo y-chromosome posting louts. If you think the men are agressive,wait until some of the Lesbian Sumo Wrestlers Against Autism listmembers around here start posting, yipes! Lenny> >> > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to ABA, > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, etc > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just post > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the bullying? > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe who are > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing you > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not united > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > >> >>

[Guest guest]

Holly is the best.....H <stratpat@...> wrote: Absolutely. Holly is a warrior. Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much? Bullying is being a wuss. Us women can be warriors too. > > > >> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards > to > > ABA, > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, > > etc > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just > > post > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > > bullying? > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > > who are

> > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing > > you > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not > > united > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > > >> > > >> > >> >>

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Oh the point you THINK you're making certainly isn't the one we are perceiving. If you could see yourself as we see you, it probably would surprise you very much. But narrow close-minded people are like that sometimes. Because of my open mind my son is both recovered and being cured of the medical issues surrounding autism. He will not suffer social deficits and the conversation I had with him this morning regarding King Tutankhamen was enlightening and quite funny. I did research and more research. As an engineer I did what I knew to do: Engineer a solution. I went back to school and continued my education so that I could understand what would help my son beyond just having to listen to a DAN lecture and thinking I know it all. I can converse, challenge, and make choices both medically and behavirorally that best fits my child's needs. I know that what fits my child's needs is not the best fit for another child. I continue on this path now with my

education, not for my own child, who is going to be fine (and I thank God for that, because I am blessed!) but for other parents who have not been as lucky as I have. And I truthfully doubt that any persons on this board would allow just anyone to sort out for their child what that child needs as you have claimed. They are educating themselves and arming themselves to fight not for just their own child but for all of the children. This is board filled with warriors, one and all! And I admire, respect and stand in awe of them! Yours is the only closed mind that I see (other than the site pests that are totally ignorable!) So no one is overly defensive. We just see what you don't, that yelling the loudest or longest doesn't make you right. It just makes you look foolish and makes you a bully. And some people just don't want the school-yard bully taking over the games. The world is not yet exhausted; let me see something tomorrow which I never saw before.- *************************************************************************

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

Diane, It seems this discussion isn't over. Overly defensive women seem to want to continue it. I guess there are some who just can't get the point unless you bash them over the head with it. ABA can only improve behaviors and will NEVER get mercury out of a child's brain. That makes ABA a secondary consideration when trying to advise those who make policy decisions to get the job done right. These statements are simply facts and are not the least bit rude. I did not take offense at the jibes I was given from those who, it seems, still can't understand this simple point. Driving home a point is not bullying. It takes more than a closed mind to think a teacher or any sort can cure mercury poisoning.> > >> > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards to > ABA, > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, > etc > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just > post > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > bullying? > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > who are > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing > you > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not > united > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > >> > >> >>

[Guest guest]

LOL! Thank you for the much needed levity! Lenny you are amazing at moderating this list.

The world is not yet exhausted; let me see something tomorrow which I never saw before.- *************************************************************************

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

>> Lenny I thought you didn't "pin and tell"> > I don't ! knows nothing. Nothing! How much longer mustwe continue this cherade?

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[Guest guest]

Kathleen Anne, When my wife nags me like this, I just ignore her. I

got my degrees a long time ago. Students can miss things. Managers

are skilled at weighing all solutions and choosing the BEST one. Get

this through your head, the most important thing we have to do for

autistic children is to get the mercury out of their brains. Your

obsessing on something that is of secondary importance.

> > > >

> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards

> to

> > ABA,

> > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

done,

> > etc

> > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

just

> > post

> > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > bullying?

> > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe

> > who are

> > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

hearing

> > you

> > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are

not

> > united

> > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other.

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

>

>

>

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>

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[Guest guest]

Kathleen,

Do you hear this? " When my wife nags me like this... " Wow, don't

you just feel sorry for her? A perfectly reasonable discussion is

shifted down to " nagging " because you (and I) are women. I agree

this man has a very closed mind, and a few other issues to boot. He

thinks he's the " manager " and we (and his wife I suppose) are the

students who need to honor his wisdom. Wow.

Yeah, , we get it - chelation is that thing that people do to

remove heavy metals - right? Yeah, we're doing it. Yeah, it's the

most important thing, but here's where you miss the mark, it's NOT

the only thing we can do to help our kids. We do get it and we

don't have to be " bashed " over the head. ABA has it's place, it's

dam expensive and it works to teach children who's brains have been

damaged by the mercury (that we are getting out - For MY family we

started chelation and biomed at 2 years old)...you are preaching to

the choir. ABA, secondary, yes...get it.

> > > > >

> > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in

regards

> > to

> > > ABA,

> > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

> done,

> > > etc

> > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

> just

> > > post

> > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > > bullying?

> > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of

peolpe

> > > who are

> > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

> hearing

> > > you

> > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are

> not

> > > united

> > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each

other.

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

All you do is prove my point. My previous degrees in my past life are in computer science and mathematics, for what it's worth. I choose to be educated with current information in psychology and biology to help my child and others. My son is doing great and is amazing. ABA did that. I'm sorry it didn't work for your child. I really am. You really don't matter to me. It is your assinine disinformation to other parents that disturbed me. Feel free to ignore me. Be closed minded. Small closed-minded people don't learn, but you are hurting children with your ignorance.

The world is not yet exhausted; let me see something tomorrow which I never saw before.- *************************************************************************

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

Kathleen Anne, When my wife nags me like this, I just ignore her. I got my degrees a long time ago. Students can miss things. Managers are skilled at weighing all solutions and choosing the BEST one. Get this through your head, the most important thing we have to do for autistic children is to get the mercury out of their brains. Your obsessing on something that is of secondary importance.> > > >> > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards > to > > ABA, > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have done, > > etc > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people just > > post > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > bullying? > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > > who are > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not hearing > > you > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are not > > united > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > > >> > > >> > >> >> > > > > >

[Guest guest]

, After being thoroughly admonished for my sins by Kendra, I

was content to drop this. You two and someone else had to dredge it

up again. That's called nagging and it's just a coincidence that

you're female. Now fetch me a beer and let it rest.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in

> regards

> > > to

> > > > ABA,

> > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

> > done,

> > > > etc

> > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

> > just

> > > > post

> > > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > > > bullying?

> > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of

> peolpe

> > > > who are

> > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

> > hearing

> > > > you

> > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who

are

> > not

> > > > united

> > > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each

> other.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> > >

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[Guest guest]

Yawn! The world is not yet exhausted; let me see something tomorrow which I never saw before.- *************************************************************************

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

, After being thoroughly admonished for my sins by Kendra, I was content to drop this. You two and someone else had to dredge it up again. That's called nagging and it's just a coincidence that you're female. Now fetch me a beer and let it rest.> > > > > >> > > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days

back in > regards > > > to > > > > ABA, > > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have > > done, > > > > etc > > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people > > just > > > > post > > > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > > > > bullying? > > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of > peolpe > > > > who are > > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not > > hearing > > > > you > > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are > > not > > > > united > > > > > will never succeed,

they will waste time fighting each > other. > > > > > > >> > > > > >> > > > >> > > >> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

[Guest guest]

Yep ,

I noticed that too! Now if he would just stop proving our point it would be nice! I had to wait for my son to heal before I started chelation, he was born with other medical issues and birth defects. But ABA has been a miracle here and now with the chelation, enzymes, viral protocol, probiotics, etc....he will be cured medically. I am so glad that this board exists, but poor Lenny. Now there is a real man! And mostly the men on this list aren't bullies but great advocates for our children and I admire them very much and appreciate the great efforts that they willing to take on their stand for autism. It's just that select few. If only Lenny would tell us more about the lesbian sumo wrestlers he hangs with! That would make for an interesting discussion. Not the ones against autism of course!

LOL!

Kathleen The world is not yet exhausted; let me see something tomorrow which I never saw before.- *************************************************************************

Re: Why do the men on this site seem soo aggressive and bully so much?

Kathleen,Do you hear this? "When my wife nags me like this..." Wow, don't you just feel sorry for her? A perfectly reasonable discussion is shifted down to "nagging" because you (and I) are women. I agree this man has a very closed mind, and a few other issues to boot. He thinks he's the "manager" and we (and his wife I suppose) are the students who need to honor his wisdom. Wow. Yeah, , we get it - chelation is that thing that people do to remove heavy metals - right? Yeah, we're doing it. Yeah, it's the most important thing, but here's where you miss the mark, it's NOT the only thing we can do to help our kids. We do get it and we don't have to be "bashed" over the head. ABA has it's place, it's dam expensive and it works to teach children who's brains have been damaged by the mercury

(that we are getting out - For MY family we started chelation and biomed at 2 years old)...you are preaching to the choir. ABA, secondary, yes...get it.> > > > >> > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in regards > > to > > > ABA, > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have > done, > > > etc > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people > just > > > post > > > > the info and leave

the sarcasm and the criticising and the > > > bullying? > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of peolpe > > > who are > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not > hearing > > > you > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are > not > > > united > > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each other. > > > > > >> > > > >> > > >> > >> > > > > > > > > > > >

[Guest guest]

Please... People... If you are an active member of this list you NEED a sense of humor.

There is no issue that EVERYONE agrees on. Anytime we talk about chelation, politics,

baseball, supplements, whatever... someone disagrees. You have to take it with a grain of salt-

or a Mike’s Hard Lemonaide or whatever you chose of poison is.... to each his/her own.

PS- the Yanks are ahead of the Sox 2-0

On 4/22/07 8:23 PM, " Best Jr " <bettwice33@...> wrote:

, After being thoroughly admonished for my sins by Kendra, I

was content to drop this. You two and someone else had to dredge it

up again. That's called nagging and it's just a coincidence that

you're female. Now fetch me a beer and let it rest.

> > > > > >

> > > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in

> regards

> > > to

> > > > ABA,

> > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have

> > done,

> > > > etc

> > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people

> > just

> > > > post

> > > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the

> > > > bullying?

> > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of

> peolpe

> > > > who are

> > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not

> > hearing

> > > > you

> > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who

are

> > not

> > > > united

> > > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each

> other.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > >

> > > > >

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

I agree a sense of humor is important. In fact this comment " Now

fetch me a beer and let it rest " cracked me up! However agreeing to

disagree is just as important. I'm content to let it rest at this

point also.

> >>>>>>> > > > > > >

> >>>>>>> > > > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days

back in

> >> > regards

> >>>> > > > to

> >>>>> > > > > ABA,

> >>>>>> > > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they

should have

> >>> > > done,

> >>>>> > > > > etc

> >>>>>> > > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why

can't people

> >>> > > just

> >>>>> > > > > post

> >>>>>> > > > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the

criticising and the

> >>>>> > > > > bullying?

> >>>>>> > > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or

groups of

> >> > peolpe

> >>>>> > > > > who are

> >>>>>> > > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the

tactic- not

> >>> > > hearing

> >>>>> > > > > you

> >>>>>> > > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of

people who

> > are

> >>> > > not

> >>>>> > > > > united

> >>>>>> > > > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting

each

> >> > other.

> >>>>>>>> > > > > > > >

> >>>>>>> > > > > > >

> >>>>>> > > > > >

> >>>>> > > > >

> >>>> > > >

> >>>> > > >

> >>>> > > >

> >>>> > > >

> >>>> > > >

> >>>> > > >

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What....... are you people professional drinkers or something? I have never seen so much "drink" talk as with this group. I guess whatever you need to get you through...... Unless you are watching too many commercials after 10:00 p.m. on the FX channel????? It seems kind of weird for me since I quit drinking when I was 30. I have a sulfite allergy so I can't even drink wine. I guess you'll have to do it for me. lolRoxchristine <christine@...> wrote: Please... People... If you are an active member of this list you NEED a sense of humor. There is no issue that EVERYONE agrees on. Anytime we talk about chelation, politics, baseball, supplements, whatever... someone disagrees. You have to take it with a grain of salt- or a Mike’s Hard Lemonaide or whatever you chose of poison is.... to each his/her own. PS- the Yanks are ahead of the Sox 2-0 On 4/22/07 8:23 PM, " Best Jr" <bettwice33verizon (DOT) net> wrote: , After being thoroughly admonished for my sins by Kendra, I was content to drop this. You two and someone else had to dredge it up again. That's called nagging and it's just a

coincidence that you're female. Now fetch me a beer and let it rest. > > > > > > > > > > > > I am refering to the comments made a few days back in > regards > > > to > > > > ABA, > > > > > and persons doing their homework, and what they should have > > done, > > > > etc > > > > > etc etc..... just those types of things. Why can't people > > just > > > > post > > > > > the info and leave the sarcasm and the criticising and the > > > > bullying?

> > > > > I'm gonna say it again, people avoid people or groups of > peolpe > > > > who are > > > > > too hard to deal with. Avoidance becomes the tactic- not > > hearing > > > > you > > > > > and changing their minds..... Alos groups of people who are > > not > > > > united > > > > > will never succeed, they will waste time fighting each > other. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >