Guest guest Report post Posted April 10, 2003 hi, i use incredimail for my daft emails, but its not always reliable. i have often thought of just moving right away, but then i wouldnt see my son much and i know amy would miss guy, for all his faults hes her dad and she adores him. it can be very hard getting out of a big city unless you have money. manchester is a very violent city in many ways, but mostly the people are ok, its just the drugs and gangs etc. you can go to our local market and hire a gun for £20.00 no problem. scarey really, but i have grown used to it, you have to. coronation street is how it used to be, little streets of back to back houses, alot of the streets in my area are like that, but manchester as a whole is much different. people arent so friendly now, you have to be so careful. and its amazing how many people in coronation st. have jobs, unemployment is rife here. i wish manchester was still like coronation st. mind you, with all the murders on the programme, i am not so sure. love and hugs anita ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 11, 2003 hi jan, which story line are you up to with corrie and can you understand the accents. the only problem i have with incredimail is that its very slow, types the word 5 mins after you have written it. you might not have that problem. good luck love anita ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 11, 2003 hi jan, if you ever get stuck with the accents, just ask, pretty typical manchester accents except one or 2 who are from just outside manchester. we are very down to earth here in manchester. people are friendly and will tell it like it is. glad you liked the cartoon. love anita p.s. tonights episode of corrie was very good ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 11, 2003 just noticed that you said richard had come on the scene, i wont tell you what happens, but keep watching, it gets better all the time.the richard story line has just finished here so you arent that far behind love anita ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 18, 2003 you to jan, i am spending easter with my new fella, wish me luck love and hugs anita ____________________________________________________ IncrediMail - Email has finally evolved - Click Here Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 23, 2003 Hi Anita....great great news...are you having a knees up to celebrate? Love Jan Re: [ ] Update on me hi everyone, had to share my news, saw my liver spec. today and my results are all perdect. they have decided that rather than waiting until next christmas to start reducing the steroids they are starting now, and they dont want to see me for 3 months, oh, and i have lost 1st in weight since last month. i feel so relieved. hope everyone is well. love and hugs anita Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 24, 2003 hi, yes i am going to visit a friend in lytham, about an hours drive away, she has aih aswell, so iam going over on tuesday and coming back on wednesday or thursday, i will try not to drink lol. wish me luck. hope things are well with you love and hugs anita Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted May 15, 2003 Hi Anita....hang in there girl. I cant imagine anything more cruel. I hope youve got a good solicitor to sort all this out. Take care & I hope your keeping well. Email privately if you want to vent. Love Jan [ ] Re: off topic hi everyone, sorry i havent been on line recently, just to let you know that guy will not let me see amy at all now. thinking about just packing up and moving away. hope everyones ok. love and hugs anita Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted May 29, 2003 Welcome back, Anita. I hope life is calming down a bit for you! Take care. Amy Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 1, 2003 pamaudsley <pamaudsley@...> wrote: --Anita, you can go online free at your public library - I work for Leeds public library service, and all public libraries in the UK had to provide free internet access to the public at the start of 2003.It was a government money supported initiative.If you are not a library member you will need to join, showing ID etc. and maybe fill in another form for internet access, depending on what Manchester's rules are, then you will be able to access the internet, and its all free.Some internet cafes charge £1.00 per hour, so there's no wonder people go to the library.You could then go to the egroups site, and read from the site,using your current ID, or set up a webbased email address that can be used anywhere like ,talk 21 or hotmail.I dont know if your present btopenworld account can be used anywhere, but it's worth a try,( unless they close it because of the bill.)I had to do this for six months when I didn't have a PC last year.Hotmail doesnt store a lot of emails- only 2mb but and talk 21 store quite a bit more.Love Pam - In , "anita.1953" <anita.1953@b...> wrote:> hi everyone, i am sorry but i wont be on line for a couple of months, my> wonderful ex spent the phone bill money on himself when i asked him to pay> it. so as from monday 2nd june my phone is incoming calls only and no> internet....anyone got £300.00 to spare lol> love and hugs> anita Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 2, 2003 > hi pam, thanks for your email, i have managed to get bt to leave my phone on. i didnt realize you come from leeds. i go there a lot, my boyfriend (i think he still is, but thats another mystery) lives in middleton, leed. is that anywhere near you. love anita > From: Mildred J Burrell <millieb2@...> > Date: Mon 02/Jun/2003 01:52 GMT > > Subject: Re: [ ] Anita > > > > pamaudsley <pamaudsley@...> wrote:--Anita, you can go online free at your public library - I work for > Leeds public library service, and all public libraries in the UK had > to provide free internet access to the public at the start of 2003.It > was a government money supported initiative.If you are not a library > member you will need to join, showing ID etc. and maybe fill in > another form for internet access, depending on what Manchester's > rules are, then you will be able to access the internet, and its all > free.Some internet cafes charge £1.00 per hour, so there's no wonder > people go to the library.You could then go to the egroups site, and > read from the site,using your current ID, or set up a webbased > email address that can be used anywhere like ,talk 21 or > hotmail.I dont know if your present btopenworld account can be used > anywhere, but it's worth a try,( unless they close it because of the > bill.)I had to do this for six months when I didn't have a PC last > year.Hotmail doesnt store a lot of emails- only 2mb but and > talk 21 store quite a bit more. > Love Pam > > - In , " anita.1953 " <anita.1953@b...> > wrote: > > hi everyone, i am sorry but i wont be on line for a couple of > months, my > > wonderful ex spent the phone bill money on himself when i asked him > to pay > > it. so as from monday 2nd june my phone is incoming calls only and > no > > internet....anyone got £300.00 to spare lol > > love and hugs > > anita > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 8, 2003 Hello Anita.....well you missed just a hiccup or two, we've all made an effort to 'move on' and to forgive and forget....its the only way to go in a support group. Love Jan > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Plus - For a better Internet experience > > > > > > > __________________________________________________________________________ > Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ > > Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. > > > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 7, 2003 Im with Jan....spill the beans!! I need a laff! Trish > Hi Anita.....well, give us all a good laugh and tell us what youve gonna done....I think Ive missed out on life as Ive never had another fella, still havent figured out what to do with the one Ive got ! > Love Jan Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 8, 2003 to all who want to know what happened, i have emaild a brief tho long story about what i have done. and i havent finished yet. love anita > > From: " T " <son_ya100@...> > Date: Tue 08/Jul/2003 00:15 GMT > > Subject: [ ] Re: Anita > > Im with Jan....spill the beans!! I need a laff! > Trish > > > > > Hi Anita.....well, give us all a good laugh and tell us what youve > gonna done....I think Ive missed out on life as Ive never had another > fella, still havent figured out what to do with the one Ive got ! > > Love Jan > > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 8, 2003 hi jan, if hes honest and reliable dont let him go, but if you do meet someone else, just dont tell him lol... anita > > From: " Ian & Janet " <ianjanaust@...> > Date: Mon 07/Jul/2003 23:43 GMT > < > > Subject: [ ] Anita > > Hi Anita.....well, give us all a good laugh and tell us what youve gonna done....I think Ive missed out on life as Ive never had another fella, still havent figured out what to do with the one Ive got ! > Love Jan > > __________________________________________________________________________ Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 8, 2003 What a dighead he is [ ] Anita> > Hi Anita.....well, give us all a good laugh and tell us what youve gonna done....I think Ive missed out on life as Ive never had another fella, still havent figured out what to do with the one Ive got !> Love Jan> > __________________________________________________________________________Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 9, 2003 Anita I can't wait for the next installment this is better than T.V. the WV hillbilly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 Anita, You go girl! Serves the cheating louse right! W Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 hi karen, martin got home yesterday and text me for his keys. i told him they were in his house. then he text me, " do u want to keep the phone i got you " what phone? he has cancelled the sim card but i still have the phone, very expensive it is, and hes not insured.# love anita > > From: " Weston " <karenw@...> > Date: Thu 10/Jul/2003 07:49 GMT > < > > Subject: Re: [ ] Anita > > Anita, > You go girl! Serves the cheating louse right! > > W > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 O.K heres the next installment. martin arrived home yesterday and text me to take his keys , 1 hours drive, no chance, i told him they were in his house. he will just have to pay a locksmith at least £150.00. hes been away nearly 1 week since i was there, heating on and dog mess on the floor and many bluebottles, there will be maggots everywhere. he then text me asking what i wanted to do with the phone he got me, what phone? hes blocked the sim card, but not the phone. the phone cost £399.00 and hes not insured, so he will have to pay a 12 month subscription at £25.00 per month. serves him right. hope everything is well with you love and hugs anita> > From: MITSMEMYERS@... > Date: Wed 09/Jul/2003 10:09 GMT > > Subject: Re: [ ] Anita > > Anita I can't wait for the next installment this is better than T.V. > > the WV hillbilly > > __________________________________________________________________________ Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards for Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 hi carol, you went through it didnt you. i think i prefer the thought of burning the house down. i have had my revenge and its finished now. never want to see or hear from him again. i dont know about ,eeting someone else, i never go out. love and hugs anita > > From: " toots_k " <toots_k@...> > Date: Wed 09/Jul/2003 08:04 GMT > > Subject: [ ] Anita > > Dear Anita, > > Oh how I know your story - been there. My hubby and I split for a > couple of years and I was with someone else and found he had been > sleeping with everything with two legs that walked by him. When I > found out I literally vomited. What angered me more than the > cheating and dishonesty was the risk he put me in with sleeping with > all of these women, most not knowing them at all, with out safe sex. > I was absolutely disgusted. I couldn't beleive that some one I loved > so much could have such little regard for me, my health, and my > children. I honestly would lay in bed at night trying to come up > with a way to 'harm' him with out going to jail. He destroyed my > self esteem and took away my dignity. I wanted him to just die at > the time. I also was so angry at myself that I let someone like that > not only in my life but my childrens. > > But I have to tell you I did something similar to him. I had his > calling card number and used it well finding some place to live and > such after I left him. AND, his house was in his name but all > utilities were in mine, so natuarally......I had them turned off > later on a Firday of a long weekend. We lived in a smaller town, so > he was stuck for atleast four days in the dark with no phone and > such. Oh! And the night I left, he tried to strangle me, so when I > escaped out the front door (after giving him one huge fat lip) I > grabbed our hose in the front lawn with this super huge and heavy > sprinkler and beat the you no what out of his precious pick up. I > know, I know, it was all very 'white trash' but I had to do something > and I figured it was much better than burning the house down with him > in it! I didn'twalk away unscathed, had a broken finger from hitting > his chin, bruises on my neck from his choking me, and broken ribs > from his kicking me in the chest. The sweet and wonderful part of > the story? My (ex)husband came and took me to the hospital and > police and handled it all for me, then took me somewhere safe to > stay. Not long after that, we started dating each other again, and > now.....married 22 years. It was that night I realized I had a > keeper, came to my senses and got back together with him. > > Anita, there is a right man out there for you and I know you will > find him. Hang in there and concentrate on your kids, that will keep > your mind off of it all. And I know that revenge is sweet, but don't > get too caught up in it, it can control your life. Take it easy, and > I along with others here are here for you to lean on. Take good care > of yourself. > > Love, > Carole > > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 hi patty, many thanks for your email, i dont have any friends so its good to know i have the group. i have had my revenge and its finished now. but if i ever meet anyone again (not that i go out) i will be so careful, i wont get caught out again. love and hugs anita> > From: " J. " <scott_p@...> > Date: Wed 09/Jul/2003 05:41 GMT > < > > Subject: [ ] Anita > > Anita, > I have had this in the back of my mind. There is a sadness to finding > oneself in this position. I for one, understood this element of it, I'm sure > others did also. It's like so many other things in life where the outcome is > not justified by the means. I am sorry and hope you find peace and > contentment with yourself and your friend next.. You certainly have a lot of > us here. > Patty > > Re: [ ] Have a Question Anita > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Anita went camping not as much city as I like but good enough. > > > > Really > > > enjoyed > > > > > > > myself and even went swimming. When I get the pictures I will show > > > > you the > > > > > > > > > > mountain we were by. > > > > > > > Thanks for caring hope you had a good weekend. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > the WV hillbilly > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ____________________________________________________________________ > > > __ > > > ____ > > > > > > Join Freeserve http://www.freeserve.com/time/ > > > > > > > > > > > > Winner of the 2003 Internet Service Providers' Association awards > > > for > > > Best Unmetered ISP and Best Consumer Application. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 Anita: Here's my two cents - forget about men for awhile. Concentrate on yourself and your kids and the things that are really important in your life. The LAST thing you need right now is a chaotic relationship with anyone. This is my opinion/advice based on being married 3 times. (Currently married to my 3rd husband, but I would never marry again). This is sent with love, Marty -- [ ] Anita> > Dear Anita,> > Oh how I know your story - been there. My hubby and I split for a > couple of years and I was with someone else and found he had been > sleeping with everything with two legs that walked by him. When I > found out I literally vomited. What angered me more than the > cheating and dishonesty was the risk he put me in with sleeping with > all of these women, most not knowing them at all, with out safe sex. > I was absolutely disgusted. I couldn't beleive that some one I loved > so much could have such little regard for me, my health, and my > children. I honestly would lay in bed at night trying to come up > with a way to 'harm' him with out going to jail. He destroyed my > self esteem and took away my dignity. I wanted him to just die at > the time. I also was so angry at myself that I let someone like that > not only in my life but my childrens.> > But I have to tell you I did something similar to him. I had his > calling card number and used it well finding some place to live and > such after I left him. AND, his house was in his name but all > utilities were in mine, so natuarally......I had them turned off > later on a Firday of a long weekend. We lived in a smaller town, so > he was stuck for atleast four days in the dark with no phone and > such. Oh! And the night I left, he tried to strangle me, so when I > escaped out the front door (after giving him one huge fat lip) I > grabbed our hose in the front lawn with this super huge and heavy > sprinkler and beat the you no what out of his precious pick up. I > know, I know, it was all very 'white trash' but I had to do something > and I figured it was much better than burning the house down with him > in it! I didn'twalk away unscathed, had a broken finger from hitting > his chin, bruises on my neck from his choking me, and broken ribs > from his kicking me in the chest. The sweet and wonderful part of > the story? My (ex)husband came and took me to the hospital and > police and handled it all for me, then took me somewhere safe to > stay. Not long after that, we started dating each other again, and > now.....married 22 years. It was that night I realized I had a > keeper, came to my senses and got back together with him.> > Anita, there is a right man out there for you and I know you will > find him. Hang in there and concentrate on your kids, that will keep > your mind off of it all. And I know that revenge is sweet, but don't > get too caught up in it, it can control your life. Take it easy, and > I along with others here are here for you to lean on. Take good care > of yourself.> > Love,> Carole> > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 , sorry to add here, but I am on my FIRST and don't plan on doing it again either! Will be 30 years this Aug~~ Debby [ ] Anita> > Dear Anita,> > Oh how I know your story - been there. My hubby and I split for a > couple of years and I was with someone else and found he had been > sleeping with everything with two legs that walked by him. When I > found out I literally vomited. What angered me more than the > cheating and dishonesty was the risk he put me in with sleeping with > all of these women, most not knowing them at all, with out safe sex. > I was absolutely disgusted. I couldn't beleive that some one I loved > so much could have such little regard for me, my health, and my > children. I honestly would lay in bed at night trying to come up > with a way to 'harm' him with out going to jail. He destroyed my > self esteem and took away my dignity. I wanted him to just die at > the time. I also was so angry at myself that I let someone like that > not only in my life but my childrens.> > But I have to tell you I did something similar to him. I had his > calling card number and used it well finding some place to live and > such after I left him. AND, his house was in his name but all > utilities were in mine, so natuarally......I had them turned off > later on a Firday of a long weekend. We lived in a smaller town, so > he was stuck for atleast four days in the dark with no phone and > such. Oh! And the night I left, he tried to strangle me, so when I > escaped out the front door (after giving him one huge fat lip) I > grabbed our hose in the front lawn with this super huge and heavy > sprinkler and beat the you no what out of his precious pick up. I > know, I know, it was all very 'white trash' but I had to do something > and I figured it was much better than burning the house down with him > in it! I didn'twalk away unscathed, had a broken finger from hitting > his chin, bruises on my neck from his choking me, and broken ribs > from his kicking me in the chest. The sweet and wonderful part of > the story? My (ex)husband came and took me to the hospital and > police and handled it all for me, then took me somewhere safe to > stay. Not long after that, we started dating each other again, and > now.....married 22 years. It was that night I realized I had a > keeper, came to my senses and got back together with him.> > Anita, there is a right man out there for you and I know you will > find him. Hang in there and concentrate on your kids, that will keep > your mind off of it all. And I know that revenge is sweet, but don't > get too caught up in it, it can control your life. Take it easy, and > I along with others here are here for you to lean on. Take good care > of yourself.> > Love,> Carole> > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted July 10, 2003 Congratulations Debby. I admire long term marriages that are in good shape. -- Re: [ ] Anita , sorry to add here, but I am on my FIRST and don't plan on doing it again either! Will be 30 years this Aug~~ Debby [ ] Anita> > Dear Anita,> > Oh how I know your story - been there. My hubby and I split for a > couple of years and I was with someone else and found he had been > sleeping with everything with two legs that walked by him. When I > found out I literally vomited. What angered me more than the > cheating and dishonesty was the risk he put me in with sleeping with > all of these women, most not knowing them at all, with out safe sex. > I was absolutely disgusted. I couldn't beleive that some one I loved > so much could have such little regard for me, my health, and my > children. I honestly would lay in bed at night trying to come up > with a way to 'harm' him with out going to jail. He destroyed my > self esteem and took away my dignity. I wanted him to just die at > the time. I also was so angry at myself that I let someone like that > not only in my life but my childrens.> > But I have to tell you I did something similar to him. I had his > calling card number and used it well finding some place to live and > such after I left him. AND, his house was in his name but all > utilities were in mine, so natuarally......I had them turned off > later on a Firday of a long weekend. We lived in a smaller town, so > he was stuck for atleast four days in the dark with no phone and > such. Oh! And the night I left, he tried to strangle me, so when I > escaped out the front door (after giving him one huge fat lip) I > grabbed our hose in the front lawn with this super huge and heavy > sprinkler and beat the you no what out of his precious pick up. I > know, I know, it was all very 'white trash' but I had to do something > and I figured it was much better than burning the house down with him > in it! I didn'twalk away unscathed, had a broken finger from hitting > his chin, bruises on my neck from his choking me, and broken ribs > from his kicking me in the chest. The sweet and wonderful part of > the story? My (ex)husband came and took me to the hospital and > police and handled it all for me, then took me somewhere safe to > stay. Not long after that, we started dating each other again, and > now.....married 22 years. It was that night I realized I had a > keeper, came to my senses and got back together with him.> > Anita, there is a right man out there for you and I know you will > find him. Hang in there and concentrate on your kids, that will keep > your mind off of it all. And I know that revenge is sweet, but don't > get too caught up in it, it can control your life. Take it easy, and > I along with others here are here for you to lean on. Take good care > of yourself.> > Love,> Carole> > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
