Re: Custody Battles

[Guest guest]

hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as me and my ex being freinds that has long been over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with my freind although he tried to deny it..I really knew what was up when my son was born and she held him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5 weeks old we split up..I had no job...no income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past 3 years and they want to move back in with me and I want them too also but he said I will have to take him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He is never home with them..Never spends anytime with them especially my son..So girl I know exactly what you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and raised Cajun!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

That's usually how it goes but she knows who has been there for her..Trust me..I was adopted by both parents and even though I did see my bio dad I still felt that my adopted one was always my dad....So hang in there..

[Guest guest]

Hang in there Jan, You will make it & get your Kids

back. I know with dealing with Susy's ex what your

going through. Fighting him to pay his child support

" the S.O,B even wanted to deduct bithday & Christmass

presents from his child support. After five years we

talked him into signing over his rights so that I

could adopt . Now 20 years later guess who's

back in her life.

Terry

--- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as

> me and my ex being freinds

> that has long been over..He was very abusive and was

> also sleeping with my

> freind although he tried to deny it..I really knew

> what was up when my son

> was born and she held him and said he should have

> been hers.Hummmm....That

> kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5

> weeks old we split up..I had

> no job...no income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids

> for the past 3 years and

> they want to move back in with me and I want them

> too also but he said I will

> have to take him to court so I will as soon as I

> can..I have to move in a

> bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He is never

> home with them..Never

> spends anytime with them especially my son..So girl

> I know exactly what you

> mean and are going through..Mine is even trying to

> get me for child

> support!!! Sorry bastard didn't pay me half the time

> I had em but he sure

> wants it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired

> up just thinkig about

> it..Oh by the way I'm a born and raised Cajun!!!!!!!

>

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[Guest guest]

Machelle What a rotten ex & ex-best friend(@ least she'd be my

ex-friend if she did that to you

Good Luck with keeping your son & I hope the treatment goes well

for you & you can be rid of this awful virus soon.

Don't worry about being long-winded- happens to the best of us sometimes!!

arlene

long-winded ness is also called 'venting' & everyone needs to do

that @ times!!

Machelle wrote:

My

ex walked out on us when my son was 1 1/2 yo (now 8) with nothing to eat

in the house but venison. Came and told me when I was training in the ER

as an EMT student. Sure I was working but it was part time and a month's

salary didn't cover a weeks worth of bills that he left me with, he had

filed bankruptcy so everything was in my name. He was having an affair

with my then best friend. He has another son by his first wife (deceased)

who lives with her parents and hasn't made an effort to get him.

He remarried 6 months after our divorce to someone who looks alot like

me when I was fat (before chemo). She can't have children so I guess he

figured he'd try and take my son from me. I went to a lawyer and the lawyer

pretty much told me that he didn't have a leg to stand on since it was

just a common illness (not brought on by drug use, mental illness, etc.)

That was in Apr. 2001. We still haven't went to court nor have I heard

anything else from my lawyer or his. I'm kinda scared to call my lawyer

to find out what's going on. What really pisses me off, is I had gotten

to where I had became friends again with him and his wife and my husband

and I had even went out to clubs with them. Then I found out I was sick.

The ex was all "if you need me, don't hesitate to call". A month

later I get a summons to appear in court in a month . Something caused

it to be delayed. My lawyer said we would go to court the next month. Well

supposely that was to be June. It's Feb. now and still nothing. The ex's

wife hasn't said anything about it in quite a while either (since around

Oct). So I don't know if it's dropped or what. I've told her I had Hep.

but told her it was the kind that was brought on by all the medications

I was on with the Chemo and that it would go away on it's own. What

she don't know won't hurt her. This way if my son saids anything about

me having Hep. I can say well I told you about not long after I found out

about it.There i go again

getting long winded....sorry yall about that...but it's so good to have

someone to talk to during the day when I'm here by myself. I'm probally

going to sign off for a while today, expecting thunderstorms. And the wind

is starting to blow really hard. See

yall tonight...(can you tell I'm a redneck...lol) Machelle

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(unknown)

Machelle if anyone knows about a

battle with the ex over the kids it's me..I am still fighting..He had even

told my kids I had Aids!! He told them I couldn't kiss or hug them because

they would catch it so I have had my tough time too with my ex..He is such

an ass but hang in there..If you have them now he can't take them because

of an illness..I am trying to get mine back now..

[Guest guest]

I believe it all comes down to money. My ex doesn't want to have to pay child support. I talked to him about having my husband (just boyfriend then) adopt him once we got married and he agreed. Then once we got married, all deals were off.

My son goes to see him 2 times a month from Fri.-Sun. My ex sees him only on Sun. for 1 hour right before his wife brings him home so my son really never sees his father. My ex goes to school during the week and works only on weekends so Instead of changing his work schedule for the weekends my son visits, he's decided to just see him for that one hour on Sundays. He has NO clue as to what it means to be a father. He always says "call me if there is a problem with ' but hell what good would it do? He doesn't even carry medical insurance on him. Dropped it because it cost too much...but you better believe he is carrying LIFE insurance on him. He even took my son to the dr. to see if he had cancer too...guess he was trying to see if he'd get to use the insurance soon. When he saw I wasn't going to die from the cancer, he decided to fight for custody. Guess he was hoping I would die... He can DREAM on... I'll fight for my son until the very end...

Machelle

Re: [ ] Custody Battles

hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as me and my ex being freinds that has long been over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with my freind although he tried to deny it..I really knew what was up when my son was born and she held him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5 weeks old we split up..I had no job...no income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past 3 years and they want to move back in with me and I want them too also but he said I will have to take him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He is never home with them..Never spends anytime with them especially my son..So girl I know exactly what you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and raised Cajun!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

Jan--- hate to say this but it sounds like you were married to a real jerk-off-

of all things trying to get child support from.. that would be just too

much for me to handle

Guess I'd be doing him some visiting with 9mm (don't worry - it's locked

in my safety dep box- both of 'em Or I'd run him down if he ever

jay-walked & I so-happened to see it--Whoops......There I go again

You hang in there Jan & hopefully you'll get your kids back where

they belong @ home with their REAL mom!!

arlene

Jannewilms42@... wrote:

hahaha.Girl

that's what we are here for..As far as me and my ex being freinds that

has long been over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with my freind

although he tried to deny it..I really knew what was up when my son was

born and she held him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That

kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5 weeks old we split up..I

had no job...no income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past 3 years

and they want to move back in with me and I want them too also but he said

I will have to take him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to

move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He is never home with

them..Never spends anytime with them especially my son..So girl I know

exactly what you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying to get

me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't pay me half the time I had

em but he sure wants it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up

just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and raised Cajun!!!!!!!

[Guest guest]

Keep up the fight Machelle. In AZ you can get a cost

of living increase in child support. If you can where

your at. You might try telling him your going for an

increase. He might sign the pappers so your husband

can adopt. Also several guys were I work have to carry

insurance Court ordered from there divorice.

Terry

--- Machelle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> I believe it all comes down to money. My ex doesn't

> want to have to pay child support. I talked to him

> about having my husband (just boyfriend then) adopt

> him once we got married and he agreed. Then once we

> got married, all deals were off.

> My son goes to see him 2 times a month from

> Fri.-Sun. My ex sees him only on Sun. for 1 hour

> right before his wife brings him home so my son

> really never sees his father. My ex goes to school

> during the week and works only on weekends so

> Instead of changing his work schedule for the

> weekends my son visits, he's decided to just see him

> for that one hour on Sundays. He has NO clue as to

> what it means to be a father. He always says " call

> me if there is a problem with ' but hell what

> good would it do? He doesn't even carry medical

> insurance on him. Dropped it because it cost too

> much...but you better believe he is carrying LIFE

> insurance on him. He even took my son to the dr. to

> see if he had cancer too...guess he was trying to

> see if he'd get to use the insurance soon. When he

> saw I wasn't going to die from the cancer, he

> decided to fight for custody. Guess he was hoping I

> would die... He can DREAM on... I'll fight for my

> son until the very end...

>

> Machelle

>

>

>

> Re: [ ] Custody Battles

>

>

> hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as

> me and my ex being freinds that has long been

> over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with

> my freind although he tried to deny it..I really

> knew what was up when my son was born and she held

> him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That

> kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5

> weeks old we split up..I had no job...no

> income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past

> 3 years and they want to move back in with me and I

> want them too also but he said I will have to take

> him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to

> move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He

> is never home with them..Never spends anytime with

> them especially my son..So girl I know exactly what

> you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying

> to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't

> pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants

> it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up

> just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and

> raised Cajun!!!!!!!

>

[Guest guest]

Machelle

sounds like you were married to a real butt-wipe!!! What a jerk-off

arlene

Jannewilms42@... wrote:

Machelle I

don't blame you..My ex tells the kids the reason he won't let them move

back in with me is so he won't pay childsupport not because he loves them..I

even told him I didn't want his damn money but he still refused and tried

to tell the cop I was a drug addict and for me to show my needle

marks where I shot dope..I looked at that sheriff and said this is none

of your business anyway but please look at my arms yourself to see I'm

not....

[Guest guest]

Sorry -guess that last was intended for Jan Sorry!!!!!

arlene

Jannewilms42@... wrote:

Machelle I

don't blame you..My ex tells the kids the reason he won't let them move

back in with me is so he won't pay childsupport not because he loves them..I

even told him I didn't want his damn money but he still refused and tried

to tell the cop I was a drug addict and for me to show my needle

marks where I shot dope..I looked at that sheriff and said this is none

of your business anyway but please look at my arms yourself to see I'm

not....

[Guest guest]

Remember --There's Always " Guido " & his bunch to help you out <g>

Machelle wrote:

> Strange you should say that...I've already recuited several tough guys to

> " whoop " his ass once and if we ever do go to court... You and Jan are more

> than welcomed to join in...

>

> Machelle

>

> Re: [ ] Custody Battles

>

> Machelle,

> He sounds like a real S.O.B. Stand your ground because he doesn't

> have any reason to take your child away from you..... Do you want to

> turn me and Jan loose on him?????? We wil make mud pie out of him!!!

> LOL.........

>

> Angel Hugs,

> Diane

>

> May Rainbow Dreams Color Your World With Love, Hope, Peace & Unity

>

>

[Guest guest]

I'm already getting the maximum the state allows...23% of income....

Can't get anymore than that. Also it means that if he doesn't work, i get NO

child support.

Re: [ ] Custody Battles

>

>

> hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as

> me and my ex being freinds that has long been

> over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with

> my freind although he tried to deny it..I really

> knew what was up when my son was born and she held

> him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That

> kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5

> weeks old we split up..I had no job...no

> income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past

> 3 years and they want to move back in with me and I

> want them too also but he said I will have to take

> him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to

> move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He

> is never home with them..Never spends anytime with

> them especially my son..So girl I know exactly what

> you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying

> to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't

> pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants

> it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up

> just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and

> raised Cajun!!!!!!!

>

[Guest guest]

Wow, sounds like a handful. It doesn't sound like you

have too much to worry about him taking your boy. Good

luck to you. We're expecting a snowstorm here... -dz-

--- Machelle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> My ex walked out on us when my son was 1 1/2 yo (now

> 8) with nothing to eat in the house but venison.

> Came and told me when I was training in the ER as an

> EMT student. Sure I was working but it was part time

> and a month's salary didn't cover a weeks worth of

> bills that he left me with, he had filed bankruptcy

> so everything was in my name. He was having an

> affair with my then best friend. He has another son

> by his first wife (deceased) who lives with her

> parents and hasn't made an effort to get him. He

> remarried 6 months after our divorce to someone who

> looks alot like me when I was fat (before chemo).

> She can't have children so I guess he figured he'd

> try and take my son from me. I went to a lawyer and

> the lawyer pretty much told me that he didn't have a

> leg to stand on since it was just a common illness

> (not brought on by drug use, mental illness, etc.)

> That was in Apr. 2001. We still haven't went to

> court nor have I heard anything else from my lawyer

> or his. I'm kinda scared to call my lawyer to find

> out what's going on. What really pisses me off, is I

> had gotten to where I had became friends again with

> him and his wife and my husband and I had even went

> out to clubs with them. Then I found out I was sick.

> The ex was all " if you need me, don't hesitate to

> call " . A month later I get a summons to appear in

> court in a month . Something caused it to be

> delayed. My lawyer said we would go to court the

> next month. Well supposely that was to be June. It's

> Feb. now and still nothing. The ex's wife hasn't

> said anything about it in quite a while either

> (since around Oct). So I don't know if it's dropped

> or what. I've told her I had Hep. but told her it

> was the kind that was brought on by all the

> medications I was on with the Chemo and that it

> would go away on it's own. What she don't know

> won't hurt her. This way if my son saids anything

> about me having Hep. I can say well I told you about

> not long after I found out about it.

> There i go again getting long winded....sorry yall

> about that...but it's so good to have someone to

> talk to during the day when I'm here by myself. I'm

> probally going to sign off for a while today,

> expecting thunderstorms. And the wind is starting to

> blow really hard.

>

> See yall tonight...(can you tell I'm a

> redneck...lol)

>

>

> Machelle

>

> Re: [ ] (unknown)

>

>

> Machelle if anyone knows about a battle with the

> ex over the kids it's me..I am still fighting..He

> had even told my kids I had Aids!! He told them I

> couldn't kiss or hug them because they would catch

> it so I have had my tough time too with my ex..He is

> such an ass but hang in there..If you have them now

> he can't take them because of an illness..I am

> trying to get mine back now..

>

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry things have to be that bad between people.

You got the right attitude, keep fighting. -dz-

--- Machelle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> I believe it all comes down to money. My ex doesn't

> want to have to pay child support. I talked to him

> about having my husband (just boyfriend then) adopt

> him once we got married and he agreed. Then once we

> got married, all deals were off.

> My son goes to see him 2 times a month from

> Fri.-Sun. My ex sees him only on Sun. for 1 hour

> right before his wife brings him home so my son

> really never sees his father. My ex goes to school

> during the week and works only on weekends so

> Instead of changing his work schedule for the

> weekends my son visits, he's decided to just see him

> for that one hour on Sundays. He has NO clue as to

> what it means to be a father. He always says " call

> me if there is a problem with ' but hell what

> good would it do? He doesn't even carry medical

> insurance on him. Dropped it because it cost too

> much...but you better believe he is carrying LIFE

> insurance on him. He even took my son to the dr. to

> see if he had cancer too...guess he was trying to

> see if he'd get to use the insurance soon. When he

> saw I wasn't going to die from the cancer, he

> decided to fight for custody. Guess he was hoping I

> would die... He can DREAM on... I'll fight for my

> son until the very end...

>

> Machelle

>

>

>

> Re: [ ] Custody Battles

>

>

> hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far as

> me and my ex being freinds that has long been

> over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping with

> my freind although he tried to deny it..I really

> knew what was up when my son was born and she held

> him and said he should have been hers.Hummmm....That

> kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5

> weeks old we split up..I had no job...no

> income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the past

> 3 years and they want to move back in with me and I

> want them too also but he said I will have to take

> him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to

> move in a bigger house first...He is a real jerk..He

> is never home with them..Never spends anytime with

> them especially my son..So girl I know exactly what

> you mean and are going through..Mine is even trying

> to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard didn't

> pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants

> it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up

> just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born and

> raised Cajun!!!!!!!

>

[Guest guest]

Terry - Dennis is in NH I believe Diane is in NJ

am I right Dennis & Diane??/

arlene

Terry Long wrote:

> So Jan lives in good ol Louisiana, Machelle lives in

> Georgia two Souther Bells. lives in the Lone

> Star state.

> Diane if I remember right your in NH. Is DZ in WI. &

> Dennis is also in NH.

> I'm in the " not so great Southwest " just out side of

> Phoenix. I can't remember where everyone else

> Terry

> --- Mach elle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> > Isn't too too far away from here. I'm in slap dab in

> > the middle of Georgia.

> > Re: [ ] Custody Battles

> >

> >

> > In good ole Louisiana.Way down South!!

> >

[Guest guest]

Wow, I had to pay even when I lost my job. My rate

never went down. I managed to catch up somehow. On the

other hand, now that my income has gone up, my ex

hasn't tried to get it raised either, so I guess I

can't complain. -dz-

--- Machelle <catkrazy@...> wrote:

> I'm already getting the maximum the state

> allows...23% of income....

> Can't get anymore than that. Also it means that if

> he doesn't work, i get NO

> child support.

>

>

>

> Re: [ ] Custody

> Battles

> >

> >

> > hahaha.Girl that's what we are here for..As far

> as

> > me and my ex being freinds that has long been

> > over..He was very abusive and was also sleeping

> with

> > my freind although he tried to deny it..I really

> > knew what was up when my son was born and she held

> > him and said he should have been

> hers.Hummmm....That

> > kinda kicked me in the teeth..When my son was 5

> > weeks old we split up..I had no job...no

> > income..nothing...He has had my 2 kids for the

> past

> > 3 years and they want to move back in with me and

> I

> > want them too also but he said I will have to take

> > him to court so I will as soon as I can..I have to

> > move in a bigger house first...He is a real

> jerk..He

> > is never home with them..Never spends anytime with

> > them especially my son..So girl I know exactly

> what

> > you mean and are going through..Mine is even

> trying

> > to get me for child support!!! Sorry bastard

> didn't

> > pay me half the time I had em but he sure wants

> > it...Now look who's long winded..Now I'm fired up

> > just thinkig about it..Oh by the way I'm a born

> and

> > raised Cajun!!!!!!!

> >

[Guest guest]

Jan & Machell

Just point those buttheads up to Oregon..... I can give them the good old

Oregon welcome-not the jerks

arlene

Terry Long wrote:

> If I lived a little closer to the Mississippi river.

> I would be there anytime you asked I'm so tired of

> S.O.B's like this, I see red. I have seen first hand

> what it does to you ladies & the poor kids that are

> stuck in the middle.

> Terry

> --- Jannewilms42@... wrote:

> > I was a corrections officer in an all male facility

> > for over a year!!!!!

> > LOL..No I'm not scared but I sure am tired of his BS

> > all the time and having

> > to fight with him..It's someone else's turn.

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

>

[Guest guest]

Machelle I don't blame you..My ex tells the kids the reason he won't let them move back in with me is so he won't pay childsupport not because he loves them..I even told him I didn't want his damn money but he still refused and tried to tell the cop I was a drug addict and for me to show my needle marks where I shot dope..I looked at that sheriff and said this is none of your business anyway but please look at my arms yourself to see I'm not....

[Guest guest]

You got that right cause Machelle I got alot of fight in me left for BS like that..Trust me I am fighting now...

[Guest guest]

Terry you would win too!! Bet large dear freind..Bet large!!!!! We won't let ya down...

[Guest guest]

Machelle,

He sounds like a real S.O.B. Stand your ground because he doesn't

have any reason to take your child away from you..... Do you want to

turn me and Jan loose on him?????? We wil make mud pie out of him!!!

LOL.........

Angel Hugs,

Diane

May Rainbow Dreams Color Your World With Love, Hope, Peace & Unity

[Guest guest]

I would pay all most anything to see that, my money

would be on you & Jan.

Terry

--- diane214@... wrote:

> Machelle,

> He sounds like a real S.O.B. Stand your ground

> because he doesn't

> have any reason to take your child away from

> you..... Do you want to

> turn me and Jan loose on him?????? We wil make mud

> pie out of him!!!

> LOL.........

>

> Angel Hugs,

> Diane

>

> May Rainbow Dreams Color Your World With Love, Hope,

> Peace & Unity

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Jan Nowdays-- things from hell don't just slip out my mouth @ times

but actually slide down & out of my fingers to this keyboard<g>

arlene

Jannewilms42@... wrote:

Arlene thanks..Send

one of those to me..I'll stalk him and make him wish he wasn't such an

ass..Hey hope I didn't offend anyone with the last e-mail.OOPS if I did..It's

that mouth from hell that keeps slipping..Stuff slides right off

my tongue and out my mouth before I can stop it at times and it sure did

on that last one....

[Guest guest]

I need to..

[Guest guest]

Hey can ya send those guys here to get my ex too?? I'd love and appreciate it....

[Guest guest]

Jan,

Tell the Sherrif to go back and check your ex's eyes after you lump

him up!!!!! ;o

Angel Hugs,

Diane

May Rainbow Dreams Color Your World With Love, Hope, Peace & Unity