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From: superchick0770@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:45:19 -0800Subject: RE: ( ) remove

I told her the same i think Roxanna is right there are a few people on here trying to stir things up, i just came for a little advice and encouragement, i really like u guys,Sherry Lowry <flyballmomhotmail> wrote:

AMEN ROXANNA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just sent Ruthie a private email telling her that wasn't talking for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what's wrong with people anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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From: madideaszoominternet (DOT) netDate: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:17:50 -0500Subject: Re: ( ) remove

Please ignore Meagan and all her buddies. I wish you had told me right away she was emailing you hate mail. She hasn't been on this list long at all so she has no clue what "everyone" thinks. We have over 3,000 members last time I looked. I doubt she has taken a vote and if she did, she would find out how wrong she is! Heck, she thinks her 2 yo is a lemming. Do you really value her opinion?? I don't!

I just think there are a few people trying to cause fights and problems at the moment and that happens on any list you are on from time to time. You should not pay attention to them, to it. Next time, let me know if someone is harrassing you offlist. I can delete them asap from this list and you can block them from emailing you. In fact, it might be more fun to email what they wrote and let everyone see how "sweet" they were really and see who was "picking" on whom sometimes. I sometimes think that. But it's easier to just to let them quietly fade away. And they will. And seriously, I thought you were actually really nice to this person. I'm surprised they took it to that level. I thought it was just a simple conversation and I don't see why it had to turn ugly. It could have been a learning experience. But you know, some people are negative (even if they want to say they are oh-so-positive and pretend that they are) She was not a positive person. I mean, she already had dire predictions for a 2 yo - how positive is that??? That isn't really something that makes sense. Life will happen and she'll learn she isn't as smart as she thinks she is. Neither is her friend. You know, when we were 18-ish, didn't we think our parents were kinda dim? LOL. I know I did. They got a lot smarter as they years wore on...but really it was us - we learned and got life experiences and we came to value their opinions instead of thinking we knew it all. That's life. I think you have to look at some people and realize that they are just very young and inexperienced. We were all there once. But some people are louder about it than others and she was. I think some people get stuck there, lol. Hopefully, we live and learn. I think you've done that and I think that is a good reason to stick around here. I don't mind being called opinionated. Wah, if they don't like it. Next time, say, "You say that like it's a bad thing!" And smile. And be proud you have an opinion. There is nothing wrong with having one or sharing history, experiences and opinions - that's what we do on this list.

Remember that scene in "Fried Green Tomatoes" when those young skinny girls pulled into her parking spot and laughed at her? Then she rammed their car and she said, "I'm older and I have more insurance." lol. I kind of feel that way sometimes. We've been around a while and have a lot of experiences. And that's not a bad thing!! You should not feel it is!!

And hey, I have some really great hate mail that would curl your toes. I bet mine is funnier than yours. <GG> Some people can share ideas, others just can call names and use put downs. If there was a good argument with her point, she would have used it. But she didn't have one. So she resorted to name calling. You can't let people like that take away your fun!

I hope you don't leave and even more, do not let them ruin your mood or you day. Throw it away and delete them. They are not worth all of this!

RoxannaAutism Happens

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I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Thanks!!!! sherry Lowry <flyballmom@...> wrote: We like you too sweetie :-) Wags! Wags! Wags! Lowry "There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face." Author Ben From: superchick0770 Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:45:19 -0800Subject: RE: ( ) remove I told her the same i think Roxanna is right there are a few people on here trying to stir things up, i just came for a little advice and encouragement, i really like u guys,Sherry Lowry <flyballmomhotmail> wrote: AMEN ROXANNA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just sent Ruthie a private email telling her that wasn't talking

for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what's wrong with people anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wags! Wags! Wags! Lowry "There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face." Author Ben From: madideaszoominternet (DOT) netDate: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:17:50 -0500Subject: Re: ( ) remove Please ignore Meagan and all her buddies. I wish you had told me right away she was emailing you hate mail. She hasn't been on this list long at all so she has no clue what "everyone" thinks. We have over 3,000 members last time I looked. I doubt she has taken a vote and if she did, she would find out how wrong she is! Heck, she thinks her 2 yo is a lemming. Do you really value her opinion?? I don't! I just think there are a few people trying to cause fights and problems at the moment and that happens on any list you are on from time to time. You should not pay attention to them, to it. Next time, let me know if someone is harrassing you offlist. I can

delete them asap from this list and you can block them from emailing you. In fact, it might be more fun to email what they wrote and let everyone see how "sweet" they were really and see who was "picking" on whom sometimes. I sometimes think that. But it's easier to just to let them quietly fade away. And they will. And seriously, I thought you were actually really nice to this person. I'm surprised they took it to that level. I thought it was just a simple conversation and I don't see why it had to turn ugly. It could have been a learning experience. But you know, some people are negative (even if they want to say they are oh-so-positive and pretend that they are) She was not a positive person. I mean, she already had dire predictions for a 2 yo - how positive is that??? That isn't really something that makes sense. Life will happen and she'll learn she isn't as smart as she thinks

she is. Neither is her friend. You know, when we were 18-ish, didn't we think our parents were kinda dim? LOL. I know I did. They got a lot smarter as they years wore on...but really it was us - we learned and got life experiences and we came to value their opinions instead of thinking we knew it all. That's life. I think you have to look at some people and realize that they are just very young and inexperienced. We were all there once. But some people are louder about it than others and she was. I think some people get stuck there, lol. Hopefully, we live and learn. I think you've done that and I think that is a good reason to stick around here. I don't mind being called opinionated. Wah, if they don't like it. Next time, say, "You say that like it's a bad thing!" And smile. And be proud you have an opinion. There is nothing wrong with having one or sharing history,

experiences and opinions - that's what we do on this list. Remember that scene in "Fried Green Tomatoes" when those young skinny girls pulled into her parking spot and laughed at her? Then she rammed their car and she said, "I'm older and I have more insurance." lol. I kind of feel that way sometimes. We've been around a while and have a lot of experiences. And that's not a bad thing!! You should not feel it is!! And hey, I have some really great hate mail that would curl your toes. I bet mine is funnier than yours. <GG> Some people can share ideas, others just can call names and use put downs. If there was a good argument with her point, she

would have used it. But she didn't have one. So she resorted to name calling. You can't let people like that take away your fun! I hope you don't leave and even more, do not let them ruin your mood or you day. Throw it away and delete them. They are not worth all of this! RoxannaAutism Happens RE: ( ) remove I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name

(along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our

new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week

until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now.

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Ruthie,

I would hate to see you go. I have also read all of your posts and they have so much help in them. I don't see how you are what she says you are. In my opinion you are not what she says. Please do stay here.

christie

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RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me....

Rethink this, please.....

RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Ok well I am glad. You are very welcome. I am sorry for responding so late. Oh moving is such a pain! I moved back in October. Hope the moving goes well for you. Good luck. Take care. Hang in there.

Christie

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RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me....

Rethink this, please.....

RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Hi Ruthie, are you moving far from where your living now? are you still going to continue your daycare? That is an amazing job that I don't think I can keep up with. need lots of energy and ideas to keep those kids busy. especially with tots. wishing you the best with your move. We know all the work in packing and unpacking. that alone is a full time job. Good luck RoseBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote: I am still here, dear; thanks for the support; I would like to add I am here (but not really----we are moving this weekend, so I already feel like a zombie-----but I will be 'back' in a couple weeks (if we can move and settle that quickly); I use this as my 'break.'). Thanks again, Christie. Ruthie From: packerpenguinmsnDate: Tue, 19 Feb 2008 12:21:24 -0600Subject: Re: ( ) remove Ruthie, I would hate to see you go. I

have also read all of your posts and they have so much help in them. I don't see how you are what she says you are. In my opinion you are not what she says. Please do stay here. christie -- Re: ( ) remove RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me.... Rethink this, please..... RE: ( ) removeI

guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps

that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it.

informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream

I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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We are moving about 12 minutes away is all; we bought a very nice home in a different town, different school district, closer to 's home school assistance program, and about 1400 more square feet than our current home is; we are very excited about it (just not all the work)...........then, I had a mom insist on bringing her child, pretty sure had that influenza going around, so I started that (I am pretty sure) last night about 8 pm); I have 'mexican meds' my parents get there as they winter in Texas, so I am taking a 'z-pack' and hoping I don't spend time DOWN because of it (that is all I need). I am piling the crew in to the car (my van is off being repaired right now) to take my six year old to school (it is only -10 degrees); at least by being sardines, we will be warm LOL-------and, we warmed it up........now, we are off......it seems to always be an adventure with us........but, that is what has to be done today; it is always something............I really think we will be ready to go this weekend (we just keep boxin' and boxin')--------as for daycare, I JUST LOVE IT------except when I feel like I do today (it is hard then--------but my kids are GREAT-----we have a blast------and we ARE ready for SPRING!!! Ruthie

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Hi Ruthie,

are you moving far from where your living now? are you still going to continue your daycare? That is an amazing job that I don't think I can keep up with. need lots of energy and ideas to keep those kids busy. especially with tots. wishing you the best with your move. We know all the work in packing and unpacking. that alone is a full time job. Good luck

RoseBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn> wrote:

I am still here, dear; thanks for the support; I would like to add I am here (but not really----we are moving this weekend, so I already feel like a zombie-----but I will be 'back' in a couple weeks (if we can move and settle that quickly); I use this as my 'break.'). Thanks again, Christie. Ruthie

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Ruthie,

I would hate to see you go. I have also read all of your posts and they have so much help in them. I don't see how you are what she says you are. In my opinion you are not what she says. Please do stay here.

christie

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RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me....

Rethink this, please.....

RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Try not to wear yourself out too much with the move. Everything sounds like it will be great. Mine is also one of those families that seems to have everything. My older ones are grown now so it's just our six year old. Even with everything we are all dealing with concerning the Asperger Syndrome it seems so calm, quiet, and peaceful now, (at least until one of the older ones calls with a crisis or we take our son out in public). Until they moved out I was dealing with my oldest daughters ODD and Bi-polar, My middle daughter wasn't dealing with anything, my youngest daughter is LD-had uncontolled absence seizures under recently (growing up she had one every min lasting 15 seconds each) and had

scoliosis resulting in a spinal fusion, and my older son is ADHD. There was never a calm or quiet moment.

RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric-- -and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for

numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your

opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told! me to g et off already (of this sight)...... ..I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room

built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move,

super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA.! S orry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before...... ......... . GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Please stay Ruthie, you were there for me when I needed help with my road to homeschooling and I appreciated you personal effort SO much. Please don't go!! As we all know there are always mean people out there!! Don't let them get the best of you.Christie Speckel <packerpenguin@...> wrote: Ruthie, I would

hate to see you go. I have also read all of your posts and they have so much help in them. I don't see how you are what she says you are. In my opinion you are not what she says. Please do stay here. christie -- Re: ( ) remove

RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me.... Rethink this, please..... RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other

outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I

am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to! get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here

thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with

children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. ! Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_