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>I am about to start Virastop and was curious what to expect. I am not

>100% sure my son has viral issues. Are there symptoms? How much

>Virastop do you recommond for a 40 lb 7 year old?

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February 16, 2008

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you).

Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME.

My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it.

informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that.

Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................

GoodBye!!!

Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

Ruthie - I am sitting in airport doing this on my Crackberry - I mean Blackberry

- so can't say much but don't go! That person is nuts. And if I were you I would

block her emails. You don't need to listen to that nonsense!

Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile

RE: ( ) remove

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight,

according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I

be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and,

after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true,

as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and

money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need

it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself,

actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my

name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish,

hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can

find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight

was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of

myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except

2-3 of you).

Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was

spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to

Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead

and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can

be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your

opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME.

My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the

sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until

, I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth

about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with

two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it.

informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I

have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading

much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6

months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all

think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per

) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room

built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids,

be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to

get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that

we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have

goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and

goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker,

which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children,

including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults,

making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have

someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put

downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that.

Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one

week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which

started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish

is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA.

Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me

before................

GoodBye!!!

Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

Thanks ....it does feel like she is nuts to me, too, but she is e-mailing me about what a 'b' I am, etc.; I will block them..........Ruthie> > From: cindyelgamal@...> Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:05:32 +0000> Subject: Re: ( ) remove> > Ruthie - I am sitting in airport doing this on my Crackberry - I mean Blackberry - so can't say much but don't go! That person is nuts. And if I were you I would block her emails. You don't need to listen to that nonsense! > Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile> > RE: ( ) remove> > > I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). > > Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. > > My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. > > informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. > > Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................> > GoodBye!!!> Ruthie Dolezal_ > > >

February 16, 2008

I wanna jump in here to. I do not really know what has gone on and been said. I think it is such an awful shame if you leave this site, why should you go? One person has said all this stuff about you right? How many more people private messaged you? At the end of the day Ruthie all you did i guess was express your views, where is the harm in that. I really dont think you should leave beacuase of this. I would like to know what the administrator of this site thinks about all of this. If you do get any more private messages from this person Meagan that if i were you I would not even bother to open them. Estelle .cindyelgamal@... wrote: Ruthie - I am sitting in airport doing this on my Crackberry - I mean Blackberry - so can't say much but don't go! That person is nuts. And if I were you I would

block her emails. You don't need to listen to that nonsense! Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several

others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight

to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to

the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here,

ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

Thanks for your support; I really do NOT want to go; I have gained SOOOOO much from here; I have blocked Meagan's e-mails so she can't bother us any more. Thanks for your support, Estelle.

Ruthie Dolezal

From: estellelws@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:22:38 +0000Subject: Re: ( ) remove

I wanna jump in here to. I do not really know what has gone on and been said. I think it is such an awful shame if you leave this site, why should you go? One person has said all this stuff about you right? How many more people private messaged you? At the end of the day Ruthie all you did i guess was express your views, where is the harm in that. I really dont think you should leave beacuase of this. I would like to know what the administrator of this site thinks about all of this. If you do get any more private messages from this person Meagan that if i were you I would not even bother to open them.

Estelle .cindyelgamalsbcglobal (DOT) net wrote:

Ruthie - I am sitting in airport doing this on my Crackberry - I mean Blackberry - so can't say much but don't go! That person is nuts. And if I were you I would block her emails. You don't need to listen to that nonsense! Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me....

Rethink this, please.....

RE: ( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

Ruthie are you going somewhere? i just got on here and seen where Debra is begging you not to go, ITA with her YOU HAVE BEEN WONDERFUL! You have been one of the few who has been giving me great advice and encouragement, please if someone on here has said something then don't listen to it the new mothers to this support group really need the experience and wisdom that alot of women such as yourself have to offer. SherryDebra Balke <dlbalke@...> wrote: RUTHIE!!!!! Are you NUTS???? I NEED

YOU!!!!! You are one of the few who really get it in life!!!!!! Why are you letting the crazies get to you NOW? After all you have been through????? You are a wonderful person, sane, with-it, and truly understand. I LOVE your emails. I always read ANYTHING you have said because it is usually so helpful to me.... Rethink this, please..... RE:

( ) removeI guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do

not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than

negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction

worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

Ruthie i really don't know what is going on you have been amazing to me ,as i said before, i just read your post and i am sitting here crying, i don't understand how this "Meagan" could be so mean, I adore you and I am only sorry that this support group is online, but it is more than what i had, before i found this group i felt hopeless and lost and very very afraid, but from being on here and reading what you guys say to each other as well as to me has given me a great deal of hope and confidence and i am happy b/c when i am having a hard time handling my situation i can get on here and you guys know and feel the same, and that is great i know we don't formally know each other but you guys have been more help to me than my friends and even my own family.So i am asking you as a friend and as a mother of an Aspie for you to stay, you are not a selfish pig or any of those awful things that she said,you have been of great help and have alot to offer online, so Ruthie please

stay. Sherry iBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote: I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that

need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the

group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't

(except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of

that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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Life is too short for this type of nonsense. Thank you Ruthie for all you contribute, and thank you Roxanna for your devotion and creation of this site. My only solution to this would have been when I first realized what was happening, is to use the almighty delete key. Ignoring people like that is best for all of us, we need each other's support and shoulders to cry on. God knows I do

Barbara in NJ

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February 16, 2008

Okay----I won't; my husband was a little upset that I was getting off it; he has really enjoyed hearing about what I learn, and loved the autistic drawing photographic memory drawings----we even had our asperger's boys watch that, and they want to do that now (I don't think ANYONE can do it quite like that---that is a whole lot of talent and gift this guy has----not sure anyone else, autistic or not, has that---WOW)....anyway, thank you for cheering me up; with the move to our bigger house a week away, I am sure I am being 'stupid,' and little bit 'touchy' and 'sensitive' right now, as I am exhausted and going, going, going....this is my five minute break right now.....have to travel; thanks again, Liz. Ruthie

From: lbohn@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 12:23:47 -0500Subject: Re: ( ) remove

Don't be silly, Ruthie. is off the list and you've got a lot of good things to say, and a lot of good advice for homeschoolers. It would be a shame to lose you. You''re certainly not a "witch." I'm sorry you got e-mailed to that effect. Don't buy it. It's not true. Don't let a stupid e-mail like that run you off the list.

Best,

Liz

On Feb 16, 2008, at 8:50 AM, BRYAN DOLEZAL wrote:

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of my self---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge drea m I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

I am crying now too.....thank you, Sherry!! She was very mean to me......but I knew I had been 'blunt,' which I often am, but I was never name calling or anything like that.......thanks for caring; I am traveling out of town, and have to go, but thank you soooo much; I am quickly going through email looking for a phone number I have to take with.....Ruthie THANKS AGAIN!!!

From: superchick0770@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 07:36:48 -0800Subject: RE: ( ) remove

Ruthie i really don't know what is going on you have been amazing to me ,as i said before, i just read your post and i am sitting here crying, i don't understand how this "Meagan" could be so mean, I adore you and I am only sorry that this support group is online, but it is more than what i had, before i found this group i felt hopeless and lost and very very afraid, but from being on here and reading what you guys say to each other as well as to me has given me a great deal of hope and confidence and i am happy b/c when i am having a hard time handling my situation i can get on here and you guys know and feel the same, and that is great i know we don't formally know each other but you guys have been more help to me than my friends and even my own family.So i am asking you as a friend and as a mother of an Aspie for you to stay, you are not a selfish pig or any of those awful things that she said,you have been of great help and have alot to offer online, so Ruthie please stay. Sherry iBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn> wrote:

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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February 16, 2008

Ruthie, I am so behind with my e-mails, and I didn't even finish reading this post yet "but will". My kids are waiting for me to take them out, but I want to write you and hope you didn't leave yet. Ruthie, I also teach my children "never quit" stay strong! Ruthie, you know as well as anyone, that you aren't going to make everyone in this world like you no matter how much you try. (so don't)! Ruthie, this too is a learning experience. What would you tell your children if they didn't get along with someone, because they were different? in color, religion, in opinion or whatever? what if you didn't get along with your neighbor - when you just moved into your new house - would you move again? What if the cashier in Walmart didn't give you the right change, would you just walk away? This is just what it is Ruthie, a disagreement. our therapist would say, we will have to just learn to agree -

to - disagree with each other. SO WHAT !!.. this is another learning experience we have to deal with and leaving this site won't solve anything. I hope you stay, and if others don't like you, they don't have to. but what about the ones that do like you and learned from your experience?... everybody has a right to their opinion and that's what it is, an opinion. I also hope didn't leave either, Either we will all learn something from her or her from us. now we won't know if people just give up an leave. I hope if you take a mini break, you will rethink this out and stay. I do appreciate your advice and experience. I followed you from when you were afraid of taking your son out of school to now homeschooling. You are awesome!!! Maybe just a little time out for you and and a few others. and as I always say, we can start over...I hope you get the chance to read this and reconsider. RoseBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote: I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that

need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the

group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't

(except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of

that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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February 16, 2008

Please ignore Meagan and all her buddies. I wish you had told me right away she was emailing you hate mail. She hasn't been on this list long at all so she has no clue what "everyone" thinks. We have over 3,000 members last time I looked. I doubt she has taken a vote and if she did, she would find out how wrong she is! Heck, she thinks her 2 yo is a lemming. Do you really value her opinion?? I don't!

I just think there are a few people trying to cause fights and problems at the moment and that happens on any list you are on from time to time. You should not pay attention to them, to it. Next time, let me know if someone is harrassing you offlist. I can delete them asap from this list and you can block them from emailing you. In fact, it might be more fun to email what they wrote and let everyone see how "sweet" they were really and see who was "picking" on whom sometimes. I sometimes think that. But it's easier to just to let them quietly fade away. And they will. And seriously, I thought you were actually really nice to this person. I'm surprised they took it to that level. I thought it was just a simple conversation and I don't see why it had to turn ugly. It could have been a learning experience. But you know, some people are negative (even if they want to say they are oh-so-positive and pretend that they are) She was not a positive person. I mean, she already had dire predictions for a 2 yo - how positive is that??? That isn't really something that makes sense. Life will happen and she'll learn she isn't as smart as she thinks she is. Neither is her friend. You know, when we were 18-ish, didn't we think our parents were kinda dim? LOL. I know I did. They got a lot smarter as they years wore on...but really it was us - we learned and got life experiences and we came to value their opinions instead of thinking we knew it all. That's life. I think you have to look at some people and realize that they are just very young and inexperienced. We were all there once. But some people are louder about it than others and she was. I think some people get stuck there, lol. Hopefully, we live and learn. I think you've done that and I think that is a good reason to stick around here. I don't mind being called opinionated. Wah, if they don't like it. Next time, say, "You say that like it's a bad thing!" And smile. And be proud you have an opinion. There is nothing wrong with having one or sharing history, experiences and opinions - that's what we do on this list.

Remember that scene in "Fried Green Tomatoes" when those young skinny girls pulled into her parking spot and laughed at her? Then she rammed their car and she said, "I'm older and I have more insurance." lol. I kind of feel that way sometimes. We've been around a while and have a lot of experiences. And that's not a bad thing!! You should not feel it is!!

And hey, I have some really great hate mail that would curl your toes. I bet mine is funnier than yours. <GG> Some people can share ideas, others just can call names and use put downs. If there was a good argument with her point, she would have used it. But she didn't have one. So she resorted to name calling. You can't let people like that take away your fun!

I hope you don't leave and even more, do not let them ruin your mood or you day. Throw it away and delete them. They are not worth all of this!

RoxannaAutism Happens

RE: ( ) remove

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

yes, I will second this!

Re: ( ) remove

Hold on here Ruthie, let Meagan get off this group if she wants, we need you, all she has brought has been pain, you stay cuz we need you and love you, don't let anyone run you off. People need to not take everything so personal on here. Sometimes when things are read, it wouldn't sound the same if it were said in person, people take things wrong, or disect what we say. We all need each other, please stay, you have helped me a lot since I've been on here. You will be missed too much. Remember this a free country, don't let them change our site like some have tried to change Christmas and anything pertaining to Christ. I'm tired of a few getting their own way, lets take a stance now starting with this site. If they don't like it, they can leave it. Now who seconds this?

Ruthie i really don't know what is going on you have been amazing to me ,as i said before, i just read your post and i am sitting here crying, i don't understand how this "Meagan" could be so mean, I adore you and I am only sorry that this support group is online, but it is more than what i had, before i found this group i felt hopeless and lost and very very afraid, but from being on here and reading what you guys say to each other as well as to me has given me a great deal of hope and confidence and i am happy b/c when i am having a hard time handling my situation i can get on here and you guys know and feel the same, and that is great i know we don't formally know each other but you guys have been more help to me than my friends and even my own family.So i am asking you as a friend and as a mother of an Aspie for you to stay, you are not a selfish pig or any of those awful things that she said,you have been of great help and have alot to offer online, so Ruthie please stay. Sherry iBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn (DOT) com> wrote:

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric-- -and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)...... ..I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before...... ......... . GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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February 16, 2008

I for one would really hate to see you go. To be honest I look forward to reading what you write. You and your family sound amazing I hope your children's dreams come true. (I'm sure they will). Take care,

RE: ( ) remove

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric-- -and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do

not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)...... ..I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things

that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children

each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo

awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before...... ......... . GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

She's harrassing you. Are there laws against online harrassment? Were there others that emailed you or just her saying that others felt the same? RobinBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote: Thanks ....it does feel like she is nuts to me, too, but she is e-mailing me about what a 'b' I am, etc.; I will block them..........Ruthie> > From: cindyelgamalsbcglobal (DOT) net> Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:05:32 +0000>

Subject: Re: ( ) remove> > Ruthie - I am sitting in airport doing this on my Crackberry - I mean Blackberry - so can't say much but don't go! That person is nuts. And if I were you I would block her emails. You don't need to listen to that nonsense! > Sent via BlackBerry from T-Mobile> > RE: ( ) remove> > > I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for

others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). > > Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from

the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. > > My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. > > informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't

(except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of

that. > > Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................> > GoodBye!!!> Ruthie Dolezal_ > > >

February 16, 2008

You can turn her in to her internet provider for harrassment.

RE: ( ) remove> > > I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on

this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric-- -and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think

I am (except 2-3 of you). > > Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. > > My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)...... ..I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. >

> informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker,

which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. > > Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before...... ......... .> > GoodBye!!!> Ruthie Dolezal_ > > >

February 16, 2008

AMEN ROXANNA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just sent Ruthie a private email telling her that wasn't talking for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know what's wrong with people anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wags! Wags! Wags!

Lowry

"There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face."

Author Ben

From: madideas@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:17:50 -0500Subject: Re: ( ) remove

Please ignore Meagan and all her buddies. I wish you had told me right away she was emailing you hate mail. She hasn't been on this list long at all so she has no clue what "everyone" thinks. We have over 3,000 members last time I looked. I doubt she has taken a vote and if she did, she would find out how wrong she is! Heck, she thinks her 2 yo is a lemming. Do you really value her opinion?? I don't!

I just think there are a few people trying to cause fights and problems at the moment and that happens on any list you are on from time to time. You should not pay attention to them, to it. Next time, let me know if someone is harrassing you offlist. I can delete them asap from this list and you can block them from emailing you. In fact, it might be more fun to email what they wrote and let everyone see how "sweet" they were really and see who was "picking" on whom sometimes. I sometimes think that. But it's easier to just to let them quietly fade away. And they will. And seriously, I thought you were actually really nice to this person. I'm surprised they took it to that level. I thought it was just a simple conversation and I don't see why it had to turn ugly. It could have been a learning experience. But you know, some people are negative (even if they want to say they are oh-so-positive and pretend that they are) She was not a positive person. I mean, she already had dire predictions for a 2 yo - how positive is that??? That isn't really something that makes sense. Life will happen and she'll learn she isn't as smart as she thinks she is. Neither is her friend. You know, when we were 18-ish, didn't we think our parents were kinda dim? LOL. I know I did. They got a lot smarter as they years wore on...but really it was us - we learned and got life experiences and we came to value their opinions instead of thinking we knew it all. That's life. I think you have to look at some people and realize that they are just very young and inexperienced. We were all there once. But some people are louder about it than others and she was. I think some people get stuck there, lol. Hopefully, we live and learn. I think you've done that and I think that is a good reason to stick around here. I don't mind being called opinionated. Wah, if they don't like it. Next time, say, "You say that like it's a bad thing!" And smile. And be proud you have an opinion. There is nothing wrong with having one or sharing history, experiences and opinions - that's what we do on this list.

Remember that scene in "Fried Green Tomatoes" when those young skinny girls pulled into her parking spot and laughed at her? Then she rammed their car and she said, "I'm older and I have more insurance." lol. I kind of feel that way sometimes. We've been around a while and have a lot of experiences. And that's not a bad thing!! You should not feel it is!!

And hey, I have some really great hate mail that would curl your toes. I bet mine is funnier than yours. <GG> Some people can share ideas, others just can call names and use put downs. If there was a good argument with her point, she would have used it. But she didn't have one. So she resorted to name calling. You can't let people like that take away your fun!

I hope you don't leave and even more, do not let them ruin your mood or you day. Throw it away and delete them. They are not worth all of this!

RoxannaAutism Happens

RE: ( ) remove

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

February 16, 2008

I THIRD IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WITH FLYING COLOURS !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wags! Wags! Wags!

Lowry

"There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face."

Author Ben

From: dlbalke@...Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 14:05:24 -0800Subject: Re: ( ) remove

yes, I will second this!

Re: ( ) remove

Hold on here Ruthie, let Meagan get off this group if she wants, we need you, all she has brought has been pain, you stay cuz we need you and love you, don't let anyone run you off. People need to not take everything so personal on here. Sometimes when things are read, it wouldn't sound the same if it were said in person, people take things wrong, or disect what we say. We all need each other, please stay, you have helped me a lot since I've been on here. You will be missed too much. Remember this a free country, don't let them change our site like some have tried to change Christmas and anything pertaining to Christ. I'm tired of a few getting their own way, lets take a stance now starting with this site. If they don't like it, they can leave it. Now who seconds this?

Ruthie i really don't know what is going on you have been amazing to me ,as i said before, i just read your post and i am sitting here crying, i don't understand how this "Meagan" could be so mean, I adore you and I am only sorry that this support group is online, but it is more than what i had, before i found this group i felt hopeless and lost and very very afraid, but from being on here and reading what you guys say to each other as well as to me has given me a great deal of hope and confidence and i am happy b/c when i am having a hard time handling my situation i can get on here and you guys know and feel the same, and that is great i know we don't formally know each other but you guys have been more help to me than my friends and even my own family.So i am asking you as a friend and as a mother of an Aspie for you to stay, you are not a selfish pig or any of those awful things that she said,you have been of great help and have alot to offer online, so Ruthie please stay. Sherry iBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn (DOT) com> wrote:

I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric-- -and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)...... ..I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before...... ......... . GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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I told her the same i think Roxanna is right there are a few people on here trying to stir things up, i just came for a little advice and encouragement, i really like u guys,Sherry Lowry <flyballmom@...> wrote: AMEN ROXANNA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I just sent Ruthie a private email telling her that wasn't talking for me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what's wrong with people anyway !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wags! Wags! Wags! Lowry "There is no psychiatrist in the world like a puppy licking your face." Author Ben From: madideaszoominternet (DOT) netDate: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 16:17:50 -0500Subject: Re: ( ) remove Please ignore Meagan and all her buddies. I wish you had told me right away she was emailing

you hate mail. She hasn't been on this list long at all so she has no clue what "everyone" thinks. We have over 3,000 members last time I looked. I doubt she has taken a vote and if she did, she would find out how wrong she is! Heck, she thinks her 2 yo is a lemming. Do you really value her opinion?? I don't! I just think there are a few people trying to cause fights and problems at the moment and that happens on any list you are on from time to time. You should not pay attention to them, to it. Next time, let me know if someone is harrassing you offlist. I can delete them asap from this list and you can block them from emailing you. In fact, it might be more fun to email what they wrote and let everyone see how "sweet" they were really and see who was "picking" on whom

sometimes. I sometimes think that. But it's easier to just to let them quietly fade away. And they will. And seriously, I thought you were actually really nice to this person. I'm surprised they took it to that level. I thought it was just a simple conversation and I don't see why it had to turn ugly. It could have been a learning experience. But you know, some people are negative (even if they want to say they are oh-so-positive and pretend that they are) She was not a positive person. I mean, she already had dire predictions for a 2 yo - how positive is that??? That isn't really something that makes sense. Life will happen and she'll learn she isn't as smart as she thinks she is. Neither is her friend. You know, when we were 18-ish, didn't we think our parents were kinda dim? LOL. I know I did. They got a lot smarter as they years wore on...but really it was

us - we learned and got life experiences and we came to value their opinions instead of thinking we knew it all. That's life. I think you have to look at some people and realize that they are just very young and inexperienced. We were all there once. But some people are louder about it than others and she was. I think some people get stuck there, lol. Hopefully, we live and learn. I think you've done that and I think that is a good reason to stick around here. I don't mind being called opinionated. Wah, if they don't like it. Next time, say, "You say that like it's a bad thing!" And smile. And be proud you have an opinion. There is nothing wrong with having one or sharing history, experiences and opinions - that's what we do on this list. Remember that scene in

"Fried Green Tomatoes" when those young skinny girls pulled into her parking spot and laughed at her? Then she rammed their car and she said, "I'm older and I have more insurance." lol. I kind of feel that way sometimes. We've been around a while and have a lot of experiences. And that's not a bad thing!! You should not feel it is!! And hey, I have some really great hate mail that would curl your toes. I bet mine is funnier than yours. <GG> Some people can share ideas, others just can call names and use put downs. If there was a good argument with her point, she would have used it. But she didn't have one. So she resorted to name calling. You can't let people like that take away your fun! I hope you don't leave and even more, do not let them ruin your mood or you day. Throw it away and delete them. They are not worth all of this! RoxannaAutism Happens RE:

( ) remove I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc. AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was

good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to

communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per ) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home

schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was

sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_

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February 16, 2008

I agree w/ you totally, and i needed the shoulder a few times today, SherryCyberMommyLJA@... wrote: Life is too short for this type of nonsense. Thank you Ruthie for all you contribute, and thank you Roxanna for your devotion and creation of this site. My only solution to this would have been when I first realized what was happening, is to use the almighty delete key. Ignoring people like that is best for all of us, we need each other's support and

shoulders to cry on. God knows I do ;)Barbara in NJ"We learned more from a three minute record than we ever learned in school" -- Bruce Springsteen, No Surrender

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February 16, 2008

you are soooo welcome, i hope u have a nice trip, u certainly need it after all this talk to u soon SherryBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123@...> wrote: I am crying now too.....thank you, Sherry!! She was very mean to me......but I knew I had been 'blunt,' which I often am, but I was never name calling or anything like that.......thanks for caring; I am traveling out of town, and have to go, but thank you soooo much; I am quickly going through email looking for a phone number I have to take with.....Ruthie THANKS AGAIN!!! To:

From: superchick0770 Date: Sat, 16 Feb 2008 07:36:48 -0800Subject: RE: ( ) remove Ruthie i really don't know what is going on you have been amazing to me ,as i said before, i just read your post and i am sitting here crying, i don't understand how this "Meagan" could be so mean, I adore you and I am only sorry that this support group is online, but it is more than what i had, before i found this group i felt hopeless and lost and very very afraid, but from being on here and reading what you guys say to each other as well as to me has given me a great deal of hope and confidence and i am happy b/c when i am having a hard time handling my situation i can get on here and you guys know and feel the same, and that is great i know we don't formally know each other but you guys have been more help to me than my friends and

even my own family.So i am asking you as a friend and as a mother of an Aspie for you to stay, you are not a selfish pig or any of those awful things that she said,you have been of great help and have alot to offer online, so Ruthie please stay. Sherry iBRYAN DOLEZAL <DOLEZAL123msn> wrote: I guess that I am 'hated' along with several other outspokens on this sight, according to a private e-mail I am getting, so I guess it is time to request I be asked to get off the list. I have been told I am even very egocentric---and, after reading the definition, I know my husband sooooo wishes that to be true, as I actually spend most of my doing for others, volunteering, given of time and money to help others, giving clothing and person needs to help those that need it, donating and working hard for numerous causes, etc.

AND rarely for myself, actually; I have LEARNED to take 5-10 minutes to myself, but guess whenever my name (along with several others), everyone deletes us off 'cuz we are selfish, hopeless, no dreams for our children, people. So, personally, I guess I can find better things to do. Thank you for everything I have learned; this sight was good for us, and sorry I was a such a selfish pig----I do not think that of myself---but perhaps that is why is telling me you all think I am (except 2-3 of you). Meanwhile, my kids would LOVE to have me and my time back, time I thought I was spending helping others (or trying to).....good luck, and thanks, especially to Roxanna and others that have helped us sooooo much. Roxanna, please go ahead and remove me from the group, and that just was removed, hopefully you can be part of the group now that you got rid of selfish, egocentric, (in your

opinion and all these others that privately e-mail you's) opinion ME. My husband told me to get off already (of this sight)........I never joined the sight to be e-mailed private about what a 'witch' others think I am; until , I never have; I have gotten private e-mails to communicate back and forth about things that were 'related to,' and I have even made local connections with two people via this sight, so more good than negative came from it. informed me that everyone on here thinks that my kids, husband, and I have NO DREAMS for ourselves, our children (amazing for not knowing or reading much about us apparently since that is all it seems we have spent the past 6 months doing----). We have a lot of dreams, even though said you all think we don't (except for the two or three other brash humans on here--per

) we don't; in fact, we are moving to a bigger home, having a sensory room built in our new home for the children, and doing the move TO benefit the kids, be in different public schools for the one aspergers child (and still trying to get his needs met) and then closer to the home schooling asperger's child that we have had to start home schooling. My children each have dreams, and we have goals and funds set aside to try to help ensure they can have their dreams and goals met; I even have one that wants to be a surgeon and construction worker, which is a huge dream I would say. I work hard every single day, with children, including my own, to make sure little people grow up to be amazing adults, making a difference in the lives of children; I never joined THIS to have someone like utilize this sight for their own gain; I do NOT need the put downs and insults. Nor, the stress of that. Right now, I am mad, as I never thought I needed a good morning Saturday, one week until we move, super busy life wake up call of put-downs and insults, which started last night; there is more to life than that.....Being told I am selfish is more than out of line, and that is it; so please get me off here, ROXANNA. Sorry I was sooooo awful to everyone that felt I was; sorry no one told me before................ GoodBye!!!Ruthie Dolezal_ Never miss a thing. Make your homepage.

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