Re: To Roxanna re Reece's costume

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Velvet <johnvel@...> wrote:

Well, a social worker had the nerve to say to me, " Quit your job,

stay at home... (so that I can look after my severely disabled

daughter on my own) you and (DH) survived on one income before. " I

feel like I am going to lose it! I am trying my very best and looking

after the 4 boys (including son #3 diagnosed with all his ABC's).

What gets me is that my daughter qualifies for all types of financial

aid and services provided it is by someone other than her biological

family! Where the hell is the justice in that and where the heck does

social services get off indicating to a person that their career is

so unimportant that they should leave it and stay at home? (How do

you write LOUD SCREAM by keyboard!!) Sorry for ranting!

The point is, it so easy for others to judge without walking the

miles.

- Velvet

{{Velvet}} Bureaucracies are so useless.

Roxanna

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Dawahooz@... wrote:

In a message dated 10/24/2005 8:59:03 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

johnvel@... writes:

The point is, it so easy for others to judge without walking the

miles.

The ones bitching the loudest are the ones with the least knowledge of what

they're bitching ABOUT.

Connie

Our new sped director likes to say, " People don't know what they don't know. "

lol.

Roxanna

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evilpenguin <evilpenguin@...> wrote:

Thanks Roxanna... you said that better than I did... I'm giving it all we

got. He has the whole alphabet soup. We're looking into counseling and

adjusting meds. Thanks for the support Roxanna!

No problem! that's what you pay me for. <GG>

But it's so true. So many times I can explain why this is happening but it's

much harder to stop it, fix it or avoid it. Reece has been making holes in our

walls again with his head of late (stressed out) and I get why he's doing it -

but fixing the problem(s) takes time and energy. It's always something!

And then we just never know on top of that. Some really great parents go

through hell with their kids and vice versa. There are things out of our hands.

It's not like we signed up for this gig. (Please please me! Me! I want the

kids with neurological problems! Am I in the right line?) And yet, here we

are, trying to sort it out and live to tell the tale.

Roxanna

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evilpenguin <evilpenguin@...> wrote:

My new mantra lately is to wonder where my award is for showing up. lol.

<<

I want to know when *I* get controlled substances...

LOL. Ok, I could do that mantra too. lol.

Roxanna

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In a message dated 10/26/2005 9:37:23 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

roxanna_neely@... writes:

It's a she, actually. And it's a good side. So far, so good. lol.

That's good to know!!

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In a message dated 10/26/2005 9:27:06 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

roxanna_neely@... writes:

Yes, it is the wrong kid. Royce gave up trying to get me to buy the cinamon

sticks. Well, that's what was so funny. Suddenly out of nowhere, Reece is

asking for this and no way would he remember that. lol. It made me think

of . lol.

Don't we sometimes get totally shocked at the odd things they " remember " ?

LOL

Connie

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Dawahooz@... wrote:

As far as that cinnamon?? Isn't that they wrong kid?? Is it possible that

Reece heard it and retained it from what?? About three years ago??

ROFL Wait till I tell THAT one.....

Connie

Yes, it is the wrong kid. Royce gave up trying to get me to buy the cinamon

sticks. Well, that's what was so funny. Suddenly out of nowhere, Reece is

asking for this and no way would he remember that. lol. It made me think of

. lol.

Roxanna

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Dawahooz@... wrote:

Ahhh, yeah...control...damn, I knew I had that laying around here

somewhere...

Control......is that in that same dictionary that " responsibility " is in??

LOL

Connie

No, that's not in the dictionary, Connie. It's in the " How to be a good Parent "

handbook. Can't find my copy of that anywhere either. lol.

Roxanna

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Dawahooz@... wrote:

In a message dated 10/24/2005 8:28:49 P.M. Eastern Daylight Time,

roxanna_neely@... writes:

Our new sped director likes to say, " People don't know what they don't

know. " lol.

Is that supposed to show his GOOD side or his BAD side? LOL

Connie

It's a she, actually. And it's a good side. So far, so good. lol.

Roxanna

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