Re: - WARNING - adult in nature

June 14, 2005

For sure. I mean, if that isn't a hint, what is? wrote:

Men can be SO clueless!> I have the Kamasutra (called Palmasutra) on my Palm Pilot in French. Illustrations and instructions...and even a page to take notes. I beamed it to Olivier, and then the rat never used the positions on me!!! Can you believe the nerve?!?!/>

June 14, 2005

Why...will you giggle and blush? wrote:

Guess I can't go then... : (> OK I will behave like I totally know what Im doing!!! NO BLUSHING > allowed either!!!> > Huggles>

June 14, 2005

HELLLLOOOO?!?! I mean, girls, come on. Let's get real. You all KNOW that is MINE. Don't make me cut you.

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Shell, I said express, acknowledge...Honesty is thebest policy right. And you don't have to do it out inthe open (although that would be nice to becasue I amnosey-lol), you could send it private.Just in case it is me, you can email me atsweetnlow20012001@... - just joking.Pam Marsh--- Shell wrote:> > You know I knew you had the hots for me Go> on express away > I'm sure would not mind! lol> > You know I'm just teasing lol,,, I say if the other> person is ok > with it then express away. Maybe I'm wrong,,, oh boy> someone else > answer this fast!> > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and> ankle > straps...and > > the blindfold...but only when combined with> feathers, and soft > sweet > > things...sensuality and ectasy by> surprise...always nice. > LaWanda, in > > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't> you? That would > be > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN> along with the > cuffs

> > etc.. Nada. > > >> > > __________________________________ Discover Yahoo! Have fun online with music videos, cool games, IM and more. Check it out! http://discover.yahoo.com/online.html

June 14, 2005

Lol, go grandma, go grandma.

My husband's mother and father are church going people

and conservative but my mom also taught

conservative...you know the don't touch yourself sort

of stuff but Robynn, when I was 16, I got involved

with a much older man (36) and he opened up a whole

different world for me. The older I got, I experience

so much more than dating someone my own age. I have

never been one that was conservative and I never will.

I suppose if I live to be 96 or older I will be the

spunkiest grandma you know or run a pretty darn close

race with you Robynn - lol.

Pam

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> My momma, who is a major Bible thumper, always said,

> " Everything is sacred in the marriage bed. No

> matter how down and dirty you get! " She also said,

> " Be a madonna in public, but a slut in the bedroom.

> That's every man's dream " . Whatever. It works for

> me. She was always a femme fatale, and so are all

> of the women in my family. Shoot, no kidding, my

> grandfather had Viagra on his nightstand, with two

> of them missing, right before he died at age 96! No

> wonder my grandma was so happy!!

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...>

> wrote:When I first went into a store like that, I

> was so

> embarassed but then I said I don't care because its

> not like I am cheating or anything. I think I was

> worried about someone from my church seeing me go in

> or come out and then I said I don't care. I will

> check out the site....but later because I am at

> work-lol.

>

> Talk with you later. I think Robynn said she was

> going to take me when she comes back to work. Maybe

> I

> should go on Thursday (thinking about taking off

> early

> because I fly out to North Carolina on Thursday

> night)

> and pick up something for Father's Day. I need to

> find a place were you can buy costumes and stuff. I

> looked at Frederick's of Hollywood but I want

> something local...like Fairfield, Vacaville,

> Oakland,

> Richmond area. Any thoughts.

>

> Thanks.

>

> Pam Marsh - Striving for Excellence and not

> Perfection

>

> --- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

>

> > There are three locations of Good Vibrations.

> There

> > are two in San

> > Francisco and one in Berkeley. The Berkeley one

> > (which is the only one

> > I've been to) is on San Pablo near Dwight. Very

> > helpful, non-judgmental

> > staff. They do also have a website at

> > www.goodvibes.com.

> >

> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:

> >

> > > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I

> don't

> > have any issues in

> > > the bedroom, I would like to hear more about

> that

> > store " good

> > > vibrations " or whatever the name is because I

> am

> > always up for doing

> > > new things or adding just a little more spice

> to

> > things.

> >

> > --

> >

> > Eleanor Oster

> > eleanor@... (personal address)

> > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > San , CA

> > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > ~5'9 " tall

> > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > Goal 140-150?

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

>

June 14, 2005

Lol, go grandma, go grandma.

My husband's mother and father are church going people

and conservative but my mom also taught

conservative...you know the don't touch yourself sort

of stuff but Robynn, when I was 16, I got involved

with a much older man (36) and he opened up a whole

different world for me. The older I got, I experience

so much more than dating someone my own age. I have

never been one that was conservative and I never will.

I suppose if I live to be 96 or older I will be the

spunkiest grandma you know or run a pretty darn close

race with you Robynn - lol.

Pam

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> My momma, who is a major Bible thumper, always said,

> " Everything is sacred in the marriage bed. No

> matter how down and dirty you get! " She also said,

> " Be a madonna in public, but a slut in the bedroom.

> That's every man's dream " . Whatever. It works for

> me. She was always a femme fatale, and so are all

> of the women in my family. Shoot, no kidding, my

> grandfather had Viagra on his nightstand, with two

> of them missing, right before he died at age 96! No

> wonder my grandma was so happy!!

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...>

> wrote:When I first went into a store like that, I

> was so

> embarassed but then I said I don't care because its

> not like I am cheating or anything. I think I was

> worried about someone from my church seeing me go in

> or come out and then I said I don't care. I will

> check out the site....but later because I am at

> work-lol.

>

> Talk with you later. I think Robynn said she was

> going to take me when she comes back to work. Maybe

> I

> should go on Thursday (thinking about taking off

> early

> because I fly out to North Carolina on Thursday

> night)

> and pick up something for Father's Day. I need to

> find a place were you can buy costumes and stuff. I

> looked at Frederick's of Hollywood but I want

> something local...like Fairfield, Vacaville,

> Oakland,

> Richmond area. Any thoughts.

>

> Thanks.

>

> Pam Marsh - Striving for Excellence and not

> Perfection

>

> --- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

>

> > There are three locations of Good Vibrations.

> There

> > are two in San

> > Francisco and one in Berkeley. The Berkeley one

> > (which is the only one

> > I've been to) is on San Pablo near Dwight. Very

> > helpful, non-judgmental

> > staff. They do also have a website at

> > www.goodvibes.com.

> >

> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:

> >

> > > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I

> don't

> > have any issues in

> > > the bedroom, I would like to hear more about

> that

> > store " good

> > > vibrations " or whatever the name is because I

> am

> > always up for doing

> > > new things or adding just a little more spice

> to

> > things.

> >

> > --

> >

> > Eleanor Oster

> > eleanor@... (personal address)

> > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > San , CA

> > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > ~5'9 " tall

> > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > Goal 140-150?

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

>

June 14, 2005

Lol, go grandma, go grandma.

My husband's mother and father are church going people

and conservative but my mom also taught

conservative...you know the don't touch yourself sort

of stuff but Robynn, when I was 16, I got involved

with a much older man (36) and he opened up a whole

different world for me. The older I got, I experience

so much more than dating someone my own age. I have

never been one that was conservative and I never will.

I suppose if I live to be 96 or older I will be the

spunkiest grandma you know or run a pretty darn close

race with you Robynn - lol.

Pam

--- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote:

> My momma, who is a major Bible thumper, always said,

> " Everything is sacred in the marriage bed. No

> matter how down and dirty you get! " She also said,

> " Be a madonna in public, but a slut in the bedroom.

> That's every man's dream " . Whatever. It works for

> me. She was always a femme fatale, and so are all

> of the women in my family. Shoot, no kidding, my

> grandfather had Viagra on his nightstand, with two

> of them missing, right before he died at age 96! No

> wonder my grandma was so happy!!

>

> Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...>

> wrote:When I first went into a store like that, I

> was so

> embarassed but then I said I don't care because its

> not like I am cheating or anything. I think I was

> worried about someone from my church seeing me go in

> or come out and then I said I don't care. I will

> check out the site....but later because I am at

> work-lol.

>

> Talk with you later. I think Robynn said she was

> going to take me when she comes back to work. Maybe

> I

> should go on Thursday (thinking about taking off

> early

> because I fly out to North Carolina on Thursday

> night)

> and pick up something for Father's Day. I need to

> find a place were you can buy costumes and stuff. I

> looked at Frederick's of Hollywood but I want

> something local...like Fairfield, Vacaville,

> Oakland,

> Richmond area. Any thoughts.

>

> Thanks.

>

> Pam Marsh - Striving for Excellence and not

> Perfection

>

> --- Eleanor Oster wls@...> wrote:

>

> > There are three locations of Good Vibrations.

> There

> > are two in San

> > Francisco and one in Berkeley. The Berkeley one

> > (which is the only one

> > I've been to) is on San Pablo near Dwight. Very

> > helpful, non-judgmental

> > staff. They do also have a website at

> > www.goodvibes.com.

> >

> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:

> >

> > > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I

> don't

> > have any issues in

> > > the bedroom, I would like to hear more about

> that

> > store " good

> > > vibrations " or whatever the name is because I

> am

> > always up for doing

> > > new things or adding just a little more spice

> to

> > things.

> >

> > --

> >

> > Eleanor Oster

> > eleanor@... (personal address)

> > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > San , CA

> > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > ~5'9 " tall

> > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > Goal 140-150?

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

>

June 14, 2005

OK, good...just wondering.Pamela A Marsh wrote:

I am glad you are feeling great but don't push it. You will get cleared to start back at the gym at twoweeks but no weights until 6 weeks. Pam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Doing pretty good. I've been taking walks, although> not as many as I'd like, since my caregivers are in> worse shape than I am (my mom, my brother!) Steve> is working a lot, and taking sailing courses on the> weekends, so he hasn't been around to walk me. > Fortunately, my sister is back from Mexico, and> she'll be up here in a coupke of days...and she's as> athletic as I am. So, it works out, because I> should be getting my strength back in time to walk> like a maniac with her. She'll walk five times a> day, five miles each time if need

be!! When did you> start Curves? I''ve been wondering when I should> get started with my trainer again (non-Pilates...the> other one.) Should I give myself a couple/few weeks> to recuperate before I start back with weights (yes,> I know...less than 20 lbs. for four to six weeks)> and squats, etc..?> > Robynn> Pamela A Marsh wrote:> Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another two> weeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't wait> to see you.> > Pam Marsh> > --- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> > > Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a> > little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a> > great place.> > > > Robynn> > > > Pamela A Marsh

> wrote:> > Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned> someting> > about someone asking you to write a book. I think> I> > asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a> > book. > > I am waiting and you know it will be a best> seller. > > I> > always enjoy reading what you post.> > > > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't> > have> > any issues in the bedroom, I would like to hear> more> > about that store "good vibrations" or whatever the> > name is because I am always up for doing new> things> > or> > adding just a little more spice to things.> > > > thanks again.> > > > Pam Marsh> > > > --- Uncle Timmy wrote:> > > > >

This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for> > > your honesty and > > > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for> the> > > notoriously > > > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age> > > (47), having had > > > diabetes for a decade (completely normal> post-op),> > > and having > > > experienced the libido killing effects of> Prozac,> > I> > > wholeheartedly > > > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:> > oral> > > fixation - > > > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm> a> > > lot of things, but > > > shy isn't one of them! > > > > > > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating> > > topic. To use an apt >

> > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to> > > like everything on > > > the menu, but everyone can find something to> > > satisfy. As our food > > > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual> > > appetites, with age, > > > health, and experience/experimentation.> > > > > > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many> > people.> > > It's a primal > > > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate> > the> > > species, but at > > > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate> > > physical expression > > > of love between two people. In between are all> > the> > > recreational > > > applications - it just feels so damned good, and> > > (again like food) > > > it releases

pleasure chemicals in the brain, and> > the> > > emotional > > > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between> > > partners.> > > > > > Just another scenic drive along the journey!> > > > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband> > > for decades. What > > > I did > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > > basically closed the > > > door on

> > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,> > and> > > I truly hope it > > > does > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > > marriage, feel free to > > > reject > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is> > > diminished because > > > of his > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either> > > helping you with > > > either > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while> you> > > play with them? > > > This may > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for> > your> > > libido issues > > > to be > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly>

recommend> > > Good Vibrations on > > > San > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic> > > literature.> > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> > suggestions.> > > You do need to > > > take > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your> > > sexuality. Like I > > > said, > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean> > it> > > to.> > > > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > > > -- > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > San , CA> > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser

Richmond (CA)> > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________> >

June 14, 2005