Re: - WARNING - adult in nature

June 14, 2005

I am up for a group outing to the vibrations store!!!

I get paid on Monday!!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > Hi ,

> > >

> > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband

> > for decades. What

> > I did

> > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > >

> > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and

> > I truly hope it

> > does

> > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free to

> > reject

> > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

> > diminished because

> > of his

> > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either

> > helping you with

> > either

> > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you

> > play with them?

> > This may

> > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your

> > libido issues

> > to be

> > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend

> > Good Vibrations on

> > San

> > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic

> > literature.

> > >

> > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions.

> > You do need to

> > take

> > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your

> > sexuality. Like I

> > said,

> > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it

> > to.

> > >

> > > Eleanor

> > >

> > > --

> > > Eleanor Oster

> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > San , CA

> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)

> > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > Goal 140-150?

> >

>

> __________________________________________________

>

June 14, 2005

Why, yes I am. : ) But, more sober this a.m. NO pain meds. Diane Duenas wrote:

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!Huggles> > > > > Hi ,> > > > >> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades.> >What> > > >I did> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the> > > >door on> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > >> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly> >hope it> > > >does> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free> >to> > > >reject> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

diminished> >because> > > >of his> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with> > > >either> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them?> > > >This may> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido> >issues> > > >to be> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good> >Vibrations on> > > >San> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.> > > > >> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need> >to> > > >take> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.> >Like I> > > >said,> > > > > I hope

this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.> > > > >> > > > > Eleanor> > > > >> > > > > --> > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> >

> >> > > >> > > >

June 14, 2005

Why, yes I am. : ) But, more sober this a.m. NO pain meds. Diane Duenas wrote:

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!Huggles> > > > > Hi ,> > > > >> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades.> >What> > > >I did> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the> > > >door on> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > >> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly> >hope it> > > >does> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free> >to> > > >reject> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

diminished> >because> > > >of his> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with> > > >either> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them?> > > >This may> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido> >issues> > > >to be> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good> >Vibrations on> > > >San> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.> > > > >> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need> >to> > > >take> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.> >Like I> > > >said,> > > > > I hope

this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.> > > > >> > > > > Eleanor> > > > >> > > > > --> > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> >

> >> > > >> > > >

June 14, 2005

Why, yes I am. : ) But, more sober this a.m. NO pain meds. Diane Duenas wrote:

ROBYNN!!! YOu are a nut and I love it!!Huggles> > > > > Hi ,> > > > >> > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades.> >What> > > >I did> > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the> > > >door on> > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > >> > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly> >hope it> > > >does> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free> >to> > > >reject> > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is

diminished> >because> > > >of his> > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with> > > >either> > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them?> > > >This may> > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido> >issues> > > >to be> > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good> >Vibrations on> > > >San> > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature.> > > > >> > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need> >to> > > >take> > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality.> >Like I> > > >said,> > > > > I hope

this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to.> > > > >> > > > > Eleanor> > > > >> > > > > --> > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > San , CA> > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > >> > > >> > > >> > > >> >

> >> > > >> > > >

June 14, 2005

Doing pretty good. I've been taking walks, although not as many as I'd like, since my caregivers are in worse shape than I am (my mom, my brother!) Steve is working a lot, and taking sailing courses on the weekends, so he hasn't been around to walk me. Fortunately, my sister is back from Mexico, and she'll be up here in a coupke of days...and she's as athletic as I am. So, it works out, because I should be getting my strength back in time to walk like a maniac with her. She'll walk five times a day, five miles each time if need be!! When did you start Curves? I''ve been wondering when I should get started with my trainer again (non-Pilates...the other one.) Should I give myself a couple/few weeks to recuperate before I start back with weights (yes, I know...less than 20 lbs. for four to six weeks) and squats, etc..?

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another twoweeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't waitto see you.Pam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a> great place.> > Robynn> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a> book. > I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller. > I> always enjoy reading what you post.> > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't> have> any issues in the

bedroom, I would like to hear more> about that store "good vibrations" or whatever the> name is because I am always up for doing new things> or> adding just a little more spice to things.> > thanks again.> > Pam Marsh> > --- Uncle Timmy wrote:> > > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for> > your honesty and > > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the> > notoriously > > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age> > (47), having had > > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),> > and having > > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,> I> > wholeheartedly > > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:> oral> > fixation - > > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm

a> > lot of things, but > > shy isn't one of them! > > > > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating> > topic. To use an apt > > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to> > like everything on > > the menu, but everyone can find something to> > satisfy. As our food > > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual> > appetites, with age, > > health, and experience/experimentation.> > > > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many> people.> > It's a primal > > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate> the> > species, but at > > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate> > physical expression > > of love between two people. In between are all> the> >

recreational > > applications - it just feels so damned good, and> > (again like food) > > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and> the> > emotional > > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between> > partners.> > > > Just another scenic drive along the journey!> > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband> > for decades. What > > I did > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > basically closed the > > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,> and> > I truly hope it > > does > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > marriage, feel free to > > reject > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is> > diminished because > > of his > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either> > helping you with > > either > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you> > play with them? > > This may > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for> your> > libido issues > > to be > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend> > Good Vibrations on > > San > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic> >

literature.> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > You do need to > > take > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your> > sexuality. Like I > > said, > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean> it> > to.> > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > -- > > > Eleanor Oster> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > San , CA> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > ~5'9" tall> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> >

> Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________>

June 14, 2005

Doing pretty good. I've been taking walks, although not as many as I'd like, since my caregivers are in worse shape than I am (my mom, my brother!) Steve is working a lot, and taking sailing courses on the weekends, so he hasn't been around to walk me. Fortunately, my sister is back from Mexico, and she'll be up here in a coupke of days...and she's as athletic as I am. So, it works out, because I should be getting my strength back in time to walk like a maniac with her. She'll walk five times a day, five miles each time if need be!! When did you start Curves? I''ve been wondering when I should get started with my trainer again (non-Pilates...the other one.) Should I give myself a couple/few weeks to recuperate before I start back with weights (yes, I know...less than 20 lbs. for four to six weeks) and squats, etc..?

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another twoweeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't waitto see you.Pam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a> great place.> > Robynn> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a> book. > I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller. > I> always enjoy reading what you post.> > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't> have> any issues in the

bedroom, I would like to hear more> about that store "good vibrations" or whatever the> name is because I am always up for doing new things> or> adding just a little more spice to things.> > thanks again.> > Pam Marsh> > --- Uncle Timmy wrote:> > > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for> > your honesty and > > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the> > notoriously > > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age> > (47), having had > > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),> > and having > > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,> I> > wholeheartedly > > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:> oral> > fixation - > > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm

a> > lot of things, but > > shy isn't one of them! > > > > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating> > topic. To use an apt > > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to> > like everything on > > the menu, but everyone can find something to> > satisfy. As our food > > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual> > appetites, with age, > > health, and experience/experimentation.> > > > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many> people.> > It's a primal > > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate> the> > species, but at > > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate> > physical expression > > of love between two people. In between are all> the> >

recreational > > applications - it just feels so damned good, and> > (again like food) > > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and> the> > emotional > > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between> > partners.> > > > Just another scenic drive along the journey!> > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband> > for decades. What > > I did > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > basically closed the > > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,> and> > I truly hope it > > does > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > marriage, feel free to > > reject > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is> > diminished because > > of his > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either> > helping you with > > either > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you> > play with them? > > This may > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for> your> > libido issues > > to be > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend> > Good Vibrations on > > San > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic> >

literature.> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > You do need to > > take > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your> > sexuality. Like I > > said, > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean> it> > to.> > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > -- > > > Eleanor Oster> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > San , CA> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > ~5'9" tall> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> >

> Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________>

June 14, 2005

Doing pretty good. I've been taking walks, although not as many as I'd like, since my caregivers are in worse shape than I am (my mom, my brother!) Steve is working a lot, and taking sailing courses on the weekends, so he hasn't been around to walk me. Fortunately, my sister is back from Mexico, and she'll be up here in a coupke of days...and she's as athletic as I am. So, it works out, because I should be getting my strength back in time to walk like a maniac with her. She'll walk five times a day, five miles each time if need be!! When did you start Curves? I''ve been wondering when I should get started with my trainer again (non-Pilates...the other one.) Should I give myself a couple/few weeks to recuperate before I start back with weights (yes, I know...less than 20 lbs. for four to six weeks) and squats, etc..?

RobynnPamela A Marsh wrote:

Cool. I suppose I will see you in about another twoweeks or so. I hope you are doing fine. Can't waitto see you.Pam Marsh--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> Pam...when I'm back in the office, we'll take a> little lunch time trip over to the store. It's a> great place.> > Robynn> > Pamela A Marsh wrote:> Uncle Timmy, in another post you mentioned someting> about someone asking you to write a book. I think I> asked you, Francisco and Robynn about writing a> book. > I am waiting and you know it will be a best seller. > I> always enjoy reading what you post.> > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I don't> have> any issues in the

bedroom, I would like to hear more> about that store "good vibrations" or whatever the> name is because I am always up for doing new things> or> adding just a little more spice to things.> > thanks again.> > Pam Marsh> > --- Uncle Timmy wrote:> > > This is fantastic advise, Eleanor, thank you for> > your honesty and > > openness! This can be a very scary topic, for the> > notoriously > > fragile male ego, but as a male of a certain age> > (47), having had > > diabetes for a decade (completely normal post-op),> > and having > > experienced the libido killing effects of Prozac,> I> > wholeheartedly > > endorse each of your suggestions! (Two words:> oral> > fixation - > > LOL!) Oh, don't pretend to be so shocked. I'm

a> > lot of things, but > > shy isn't one of them! > > > > Like obesity, sex is a complex and fascinating> > topic. To use an apt > > analogy, it's like a buffet. No one is going to> > like everything on > > the menu, but everyone can find something to> > satisfy. As our food > > tastes may change post-op, so may our sexual> > appetites, with age, > > health, and experience/experimentation.> > > > Sex (like food) can mean many things to many> people.> > It's a primal > > biological drive, of course. We must perpetuate> the> > species, but at > > the other end of the spectrum, it's the ultimate> > physical expression > > of love between two people. In between are all> the> >

recreational > > applications - it just feels so damned good, and> > (again like food) > > it releases pleasure chemicals in the brain, and> the> > emotional > > aspects. Sex creates an emotional bond between> > partners.> > > > Just another scenic drive along the journey!> > > > Uncle Timmy -236 > > > > > > > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband> > for decades. What > > I did > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> > basically closed the > > door on

> > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation,> and> > I truly hope it > > does > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> > marriage, feel free to > > reject > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is> > diminished because > > of his > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either> > helping you with > > either > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you> > play with them? > > This may > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for> your> > libido issues > > to be > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend> > Good Vibrations on > > San > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic> >

literature.> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions.> > You do need to > > take > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your> > sexuality. Like I > > said, > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean> it> > to.> > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > > -- > > > Eleanor Oster> > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > San , CA> > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > > ~5'9" tall> > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> >

> Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________________________>

June 14, 2005

Hey I want one of those !!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> > husband for decades.

> > > >What

> > > > > >I did

> > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > > > > >door on

> > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> > recommendation, and I truly

> > > >hope it

> > > > > >does

> > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free

> > > >to

> > > > > >reject

> > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> > libido is diminished

> > > >because

> > > > > >of his

> > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> > either helping you with

> > > > > >either

> > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> > while you play with them?

> > > > > >This may

> > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> > for your libido

> > > >issues

> > > > > >to be

> > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> > recommend Good

> > > >Vibrations on

> > > > > >San

> > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> > erotic literature.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> > suggestions. You do need

> > > >to

> > > > > >take

> > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> > your sexuality.

> > > >Like I

> > > > > >said,

> > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> > mean it to.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > --

> > > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> > (CA)

> > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > > >

June 14, 2005

Hey I want one of those !!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> > husband for decades.

> > > >What

> > > > > >I did

> > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > > > > >door on

> > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> > recommendation, and I truly

> > > >hope it

> > > > > >does

> > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free

> > > >to

> > > > > >reject

> > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> > libido is diminished

> > > >because

> > > > > >of his

> > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> > either helping you with

> > > > > >either

> > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> > while you play with them?

> > > > > >This may

> > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> > for your libido

> > > >issues

> > > > > >to be

> > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> > recommend Good

> > > >Vibrations on

> > > > > >San

> > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> > erotic literature.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> > suggestions. You do need

> > > >to

> > > > > >take

> > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> > your sexuality.

> > > >Like I

> > > > > >said,

> > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> > mean it to.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > --

> > > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> > (CA)

> > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > > >

June 14, 2005

Hey I want one of those !!!

LOL

Huggles

> > > > > > > Hi ,

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous

> > husband for decades.

> > > >What

> > > > > >I did

> > > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I

> > basically closed the

> > > > > >door on

> > > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)

> > recommendation, and I truly

> > > >hope it

> > > > > >does

> > > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your

> > marriage, feel free

> > > >to

> > > > > >reject

> > > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's

> > libido is diminished

> > > >because

> > > > > >of his

> > > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with

> > either helping you with

> > > > > >either

> > > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you

> > while you play with them?

> > > > > >This may

> > > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way

> > for your libido

> > > >issues

> > > > > >to be

> > > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly

> > recommend Good

> > > >Vibrations on

> > > > > >San

> > > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and

> > erotic literature.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other

> > suggestions. You do need

> > > >to

> > > > > >take

> > > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including

> > your sexuality.

> > > >Like I

> > > > > >said,

> > > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't

> > mean it to.

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > Eleanor

> > > > > > >

> > > > > > > --

> > > > > > > Eleanor Oster

> > > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)

> > > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm

> > > > > > > San , CA

> > > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003

> > > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond

> > (CA)

> > > > > > > ~5'9 " tall

> > > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation

> > > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery

> > > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?

> > > > > > > Goal 140-150?

> > > > > >

June 14, 2005

I have the Kamasutra (called Palmasutra) on my Palm Pilot in French. Illustrations and instructions...and even a page to take notes. I beamed it to Olivier, and then the rat never used the positions on me!!! Can you believe the nerve?!?!/Pamela A Marsh wrote:

Well, I thought I would just chime right on in hereand say that Kamsutra has these nice little productsfor couples. The one thing I really like is thisproduct called "The Painter's Box". I have not usedit since surgery and not so sure I can since it isfour different flavors of chocolate that you aresuppose to use to sort of paint the chocolate onto thebody and then enjoy nibbling or licking it off. Notsure if that would cause dumping or not. I also foundthis cute little thingie that you can strap on (staywith me people) and it stimulates you. I mean youcould be at work or whereever and be a pleasurized allday long (yeah baby!!!). They come in all sorts ofcolors.The one thing I said I would purchase was the bookcalled Karmasutra (spelling). I watched the movie soI am sure

the book has to be so much more better.Pam Marsh--- LaWanda Ezell wrote:> I knew we'd get around to the drugs sooner or later!> Lol. I suppose I do > get some of it, but really I am very much on guard> still and don't like, or > really don't know how to deal with, things that> touch me unless I'm > expecting it. This is probably due to my childhood> and the abuse I > suffered. Also I am not totally blind, and I have> enough vision to see > some things. Of course I suppose someone could> sneak their hand over with > something soft in it, and I might not see, just> depends where I'm > looking. LaWanda At 11:38 PM 6/13/05, you wrote:> >I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and> ankle straps...and the > >blindfold...but only when combined with

feathers,> and soft sweet > >things...sensuality and ectasy by surprise...always> nice. LaWanda, in a > >way, you always get that to some degree, don't you?> That would be pretty > >cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN along> with the cuffs etc.. Nada.> >> >Oh jeez...I'm putting this on a public board with> TWO known co-workers > >lurking out there!? What has become of me? Oh> yes...pain killer. That's > >it. Pain killer.> >> >LaWanda Ezell wrote:> >No they just have fun too! My husband and I took> some on our honeymoon> >just to amuse ourselves. LaWanda At 09:20 PM> 6/13/05, you wrote:> > >My ex and I had a great "toy box." Unfortunatly,> she got custody of> > >it in the divorce

and I got the cat. (LOL!) BTW,> "real" men are not> > >intimidated by toys!> > >> > >UNcle Timmy -236> > >> > >> > >> > >> > > > > > Hi ,> > > > > >> > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous> husband for decades.> > >What> > > > >I did> > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I> basically closed the> > > > >door on> > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade.> > > > > >> > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!)> recommendation, and I truly> > >hope it> > > > >does>

> > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your> marriage, feel free> > >to> > > > >reject> > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's> libido is diminished> > >because> > > > >of his> > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with> either helping you with> > > > >either> > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you> while you play with them?> > > > >This may> > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way> for your libido> > >issues> > > > >to be> > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly> recommend Good> > >Vibrations on> > > > >San> > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and> erotic

literature.> > > > > >> > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other> suggestions. You do need> > >to> > > > >take> > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including> your sexuality.> > >Like I> > > > >said,> > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't> mean it to.> > > > > >> > > > > > Eleanor> > > > > >> > > > > > --> > > > > > Eleanor Oster> > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address)> > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > > > > > San , CA> > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond> (CA)> > >

> > > ~5'9" tall> > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > > > > > Goal 140-150?> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >> > > > >

June 14, 2005