Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Girl, he would not let me do it all. I could only either blind fold him or handcuff him but not both. I eventually got my way and had my way if you know what I mean. Then he had the nerve to request my painters box. I mean he said where is the box during one of our encounters and I said..no baby, that is for special occassions and not everday use. I can't have my man getting used to nothing. Got to keep it a surprise all the time. lol Pam Marsh --- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote: > A whip! Aha!! I knew your military background had > to manifest somehow!!! > > Robynn > > Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote: > Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not > sure > where they went as I have moved and you know how > stuff > gets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing my > husband, he might have thrown it away. I can be a > little over agressive for my dear husband-lol. One > thing about, he aint complaining-lol > > Pam Marsh > > --- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote: > > > Tee hee.... > > > > onebigscot@...> wrote:Question: Is > it > > wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone > on > > > > this board...even though the " professee " is > happily > > married to someone > > off this board? > > > > Just curious... ; ) > > > > > > > > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and > > ankle straps...and > > the blindfold...but only when combined with > > feathers, and soft sweet > > things...sensuality and ectasy by > surprise...always > > nice. LaWanda, in > > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't > > you? That would be > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN > > along with the cuffs > > etc.. Nada. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Girl, he would not let me do it all. I could only either blind fold him or handcuff him but not both. I eventually got my way and had my way if you know what I mean. Then he had the nerve to request my painters box. I mean he said where is the box during one of our encounters and I said..no baby, that is for special occassions and not everday use. I can't have my man getting used to nothing. Got to keep it a surprise all the time. lol Pam Marsh --- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote: > A whip! Aha!! I knew your military background had > to manifest somehow!!! > > Robynn > > Pamela A Marsh sweetnlow20012001@...> wrote: > Robynn, I used to have a whip and handcuffs. Not > sure > where they went as I have moved and you know how > stuff > gets lost in the shuffle of things. Knowing my > husband, he might have thrown it away. I can be a > little over agressive for my dear husband-lol. One > thing about, he aint complaining-lol > > Pam Marsh > > --- Robynn VanPatten robynnsf@...> wrote: > > > Tee hee.... > > > > onebigscot@...> wrote:Question: Is > it > > wrong to profess an undying adoration for someone > on > > > > this board...even though the " professee " is > happily > > married to someone > > off this board? > > > > Just curious... ; ) > > > > > > > > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs and > > ankle straps...and > > the blindfold...but only when combined with > > feathers, and soft sweet > > things...sensuality and ectasy by > surprise...always > > nice. LaWanda, in > > a way, you always get that to some degree, don't > > you? That would be > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO PAIN > > along with the cuffs > > etc.. Nada. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 lol,, ok Pam! Got it > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs > > and > > > > ankle > > > > straps...and > > > > > the blindfold...but only when combined with > > > > feathers, and soft > > > > sweet > > > > > things...sensuality and ectasy by > > > > surprise...always nice. > > > > LaWanda, in > > > > > a way, you always get that to some degree, > > don't > > > > you? That would > > > > be > > > > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO > > PAIN > > > > along with the > > > > cuffs > > > > > etc.. Nada. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ > > > Discover Yahoo! > > > Have fun online with music videos, cool games, IM > > and more. Check > > it out! > > > http://discover.yahoo.com/online.html > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 lol,, ok Pam! Got it > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs > > and > > > > ankle > > > > straps...and > > > > > the blindfold...but only when combined with > > > > feathers, and soft > > > > sweet > > > > > things...sensuality and ectasy by > > > > surprise...always nice. > > > > LaWanda, in > > > > > a way, you always get that to some degree, > > don't > > > > you? That would > > > > be > > > > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO > > PAIN > > > > along with the > > > > cuffs > > > > > etc.. Nada. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ > > > Discover Yahoo! > > > Have fun online with music videos, cool games, IM > > and more. Check > > it out! > > > http://discover.yahoo.com/online.html > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 lol,, ok Pam! Got it > > > > > > I particularly like the fur lined handcuffs > > and > > > > ankle > > > > straps...and > > > > > the blindfold...but only when combined with > > > > feathers, and soft > > > > sweet > > > > > things...sensuality and ectasy by > > > > surprise...always nice. > > > > LaWanda, in > > > > > a way, you always get that to some degree, > > don't > > > > you? That would > > > > be > > > > > pretty cool in a lot of ways. But, hey...NO > > PAIN > > > > along with the > > > > cuffs > > > > > etc.. Nada. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > __________________________________ > > > Discover Yahoo! > > > Have fun online with music videos, cool games, IM > > and more. Check > > it out! > > > http://discover.yahoo.com/online.html > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 heck i do that sometimes now but i am not that old yet! ColleenRobynn VanPatten wrote: We'll be sitting together at the old ladies home, knitting, and commenting on the nice asses of the young boy attendants walking by...I can see it now. Pamela A Marsh wrote: Lol, go grandma, go grandma.My husband's mother and father are church going peopleand conservative but my mom also taughtconservative...you know the don't touch yourself sortof stuff but Robynn, when I was 16, I got involvedwith a much older man (36) and he opened up a wholedifferent world for me. The older I got, I experienceso much more than dating someone my own age. I havenever been one that was conservative and I never will.I suppose if I live to be 96 or older I will be thespunkiest grandma you know or run a pretty darn closerace with you Robynn - lol.Pam--- Robynn VanPatten wrote:> My momma, who is a major Bible thumper, always said,> "Everything is sacred in the marriage bed. No> matter how down and dirty you get!" She also said,> "Be a madonna in public, but a slut in the bedroom. > That's every man's dream". Whatever. It works for> me. She was always a femme fatale, and so are all> of the women in my family. Shoot, no kidding, my> grandfather had Viagra on his nightstand, with two> of them missing, right before he died at age 96! No> wonder my grandma was so happy!!> > Pamela A Marsh > wrote:When I first went into a store like that, I> was so> embarassed but then I said I don't care because its> not like I am cheating or anything. I think I was> worried about someone from my church seeing me go in> or come out and then I said I don't care. I will> check out the site....but later because I am at> work-lol.> > Talk with you later. I think Robynn said she was> going to take me when she comes back to work. Maybe> I> should go on Thursday (thinking about taking off> early> because I fly out to North Carolina on Thursday> night)> and pick up something for Father's Day. I need to> find a place were you can buy costumes and stuff. I> looked at Frederick's of Hollywood but I want> something local...like Fairfield, Vacaville,> Oakland,> Richmond area. Any thoughts.> > Thanks.> > Pam Marsh - Striving for Excellence and not> Perfection> > --- Eleanor Oster wrote:> > > There are three locations of Good Vibrations.> There> > are two in San > > Francisco and one in Berkeley. The Berkeley one> > (which is the only one > > I've been to) is on San Pablo near Dwight. Very> > helpful, non-judgmental > > staff. They do also have a website at> > www.goodvibes.com.> > > > Pamela A Marsh wrote:> > > > > Eleanor, thanks for the advice. Although I> don't> > have any issues in> > > the bedroom, I would like to hear more about> that> > store "good> > > vibrations" or whatever the name is because I> am> > always up for doing> > > new things or adding just a little more spice> to> > things.> > > > -- > > > > Eleanor Oster> > eleanor@... (personal address)> > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm> > San , CA> > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003> > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA)> > ~5'9" tall> > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation> > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery> > Current ~150 Goal until plastics?> > Goal 140-150?> > > > > > > __________________________________________________> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Some people just need a smack up side the head. Then you show them a picture of what you want done. But since we're talking about guys here, maybe you need a blueprint or a schematic? You'd think a fella would be comfortable with using a tool and some lubrication. It's just like working on a car...tune that baby until it purrs! *L* > > I have the Kamasutra (called Palmasutra) on my Palm Pilot in > French. Illustrations and instructions...and even a page to take > notes. I beamed it to Olivier, and then the rat never used the > positions on me!!! Can you believe the nerve?!?!/ > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Some people just need a smack up side the head. Then you show them a picture of what you want done. But since we're talking about guys here, maybe you need a blueprint or a schematic? You'd think a fella would be comfortable with using a tool and some lubrication. It's just like working on a car...tune that baby until it purrs! *L* > > I have the Kamasutra (called Palmasutra) on my Palm Pilot in > French. Illustrations and instructions...and even a page to take > notes. I beamed it to Olivier, and then the rat never used the > positions on me!!! Can you believe the nerve?!?!/ > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Some people just need a smack up side the head. Then you show them a picture of what you want done. But since we're talking about guys here, maybe you need a blueprint or a schematic? You'd think a fella would be comfortable with using a tool and some lubrication. It's just like working on a car...tune that baby until it purrs! *L* > > I have the Kamasutra (called Palmasutra) on my Palm Pilot in > French. Illustrations and instructions...and even a page to take > notes. I beamed it to Olivier, and then the rat never used the > positions on me!!! Can you believe the nerve?!?!/ > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I'm too manly to giggle...but not too manly to blush. (I am betrayed by my delicate nature!) > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > allowed either!!! > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I'm too manly to giggle...but not too manly to blush. (I am betrayed by my delicate nature!) > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > allowed either!!! > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I'm too manly to giggle...but not too manly to blush. (I am betrayed by my delicate nature!) > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > allowed either!!! > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Woo Hoo!!! Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) Talk about having your world rocked! > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Woo Hoo!!! Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) Talk about having your world rocked! > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Woo Hoo!!! Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) Talk about having your world rocked! > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Cute. :>) Pam --- onebigscot@...> wrote: > Woo Hoo!!! > > > Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) > > > Talk about having your world rocked! > > > > > > > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Cute. :>) Pam --- onebigscot@...> wrote: > Woo Hoo!!! > > > Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) > > > Talk about having your world rocked! > > > > > > > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Cute. :>) Pam --- onebigscot@...> wrote: > Woo Hoo!!! > > > Another tip: (Hitachi Magic Wand...with attachments) > > > Talk about having your world rocked! > > > > > > > > > OK I will behave like I totally know what Im > > > doing!!! NO BLUSHING > > > > allowed either!!! > > > > > > > > Huggles > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok, sounds like my previous advice is old news to you. Sorry. > > Hi , > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. What > I did > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the > door on > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly hope it > does > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free to > reject > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished because > of his > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with > either > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? > This may > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido issues > to be > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good Vibrations on > San > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature. > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need to > take > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. Like I > said, > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to. > > > > Eleanor > > > > -- > > Eleanor Oster > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > San , CA > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > ~5'9 " tall > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > Goal 140-150? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok, sounds like my previous advice is old news to you. Sorry. > > Hi , > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. What > I did > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the > door on > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly hope it > does > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free to > reject > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished because > of his > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with > either > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? > This may > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido issues > to be > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good Vibrations on > San > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature. > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need to > take > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. Like I > said, > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to. > > > > Eleanor > > > > -- > > Eleanor Oster > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > San , CA > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > ~5'9 " tall > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > Goal 140-150? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 Ok, sounds like my previous advice is old news to you. Sorry. > > Hi , > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. What > I did > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the > door on > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly hope it > does > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free to > reject > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished because > of his > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with > either > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? > This may > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido issues > to be > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good Vibrations on > San > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature. > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need to > take > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. Like I > said, > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to. > > > > Eleanor > > > > -- > > Eleanor Oster > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > San , CA > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > ~5'9 " tall > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > Goal 140-150? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I'm just picturing all the men on this list turning purple and heads spinning to rival Blair. LOL Laurie __________________________________ Discover Yahoo! Find restaurants, movies, travel and more fun for the weekend. Check it out! http://discover.yahoo.com/weekend.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 I'm just picturing all the men on this list turning purple and heads spinning to rival Blair. LOL Laurie __________________________________ Discover Yahoo! Find restaurants, movies, travel and more fun for the weekend. Check it out! http://discover.yahoo.com/weekend.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 You took cats on your honeymoon. I kill me! busy slapping her knee. > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. > >What > > > >I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the > > > >door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly > >hope it > > > >does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free > >to > > > >reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished > >because > > > >of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with > > > >either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? > > > >This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido > >issues > > > >to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good > >Vibrations on > > > >San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature. > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need > >to > > > >take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. > >Like I > > > >said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to. > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > San , CA > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2005 Report Share Posted June 14, 2005 You took cats on your honeymoon. I kill me! busy slapping her knee. > > > > > Hi , > > > > > > > > > > I mentioned that I was with my previous husband for decades. > >What > > > >I did > > > > > not mention is that he was impotent, so I basically closed the > > > >door on > > > > > my sexuality for more than a decade. > > > > > > > > > > OK, here's my personal (very!) recommendation, and I truly > >hope it > > > >does > > > > > not offend. If it doesn't fit you and your marriage, feel free > >to > > > >reject > > > > > it. I understand that your husband's libido is diminished > >because > > > >of his > > > > > health problems. Is he comfortable with either helping you with > > > >either > > > > > hands, mouth, or toys, or holding you while you play with them? > > > >This may > > > > > seem awkward at first, but might be a way for your libido > >issues > > > >to be > > > > > addressed, without straying. I highly recommend Good > >Vibrations on > > > >San > > > > > Pablo as a source of advice, toys, and erotic literature. > > > > > > > > > > Feel free to contact me for any other suggestions. You do need > >to > > > >take > > > > > care of ALL facets of your life, including your sexuality. > >Like I > > > >said, > > > > > I hope this doesn't offend. I truly don't mean it to. > > > > > > > > > > Eleanor > > > > > > > > > > -- > > > > > Eleanor Oster > > > > > eleanor@s... (personal address) > > > > > www.smallboxes.com/gastricbypass.htm > > > > > San , CA > > > > > Open RNY (100 cm bypassed) 07/15/2003 > > > > > P. Fisher, M.D., Kaiser Richmond (CA) > > > > > ~5'9 " tall > > > > > 05/09/2003 319 Orientation > > > > > 07/15/2003 ~290 Surgery > > > > > Current ~150 Goal until plastics? > > > > > Goal 140-150? > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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