Guest guest Report post Posted March 23, 2006 If you find you need one on one support regarding food issues, you might consider seeing if there is an Overeaters Anonymous group near you. When I was able to go to meetings, not only did I loose weight without dieting but by not needing to eat the foods I really didn't need to eat, but I found there were actually a lot of diabetics and people with other medical issues that mean having to stop eating certain foods and they found they couldn't. I wish there was an OA meeting around where I lived that worked for me now! Be sure I'll keep looking. Those cravings are awful! And other people in my life merely say stop eating what you aren't supposed to as they stuff their mouths with what they enjoy grrrrrrrr Judith > > ever since i have found out that i have type 2 (on meds) i have turned > > into an eating machine. I want sugar and i want carbs. I find myself > > binging. Then I feel terrible. Can anyone please give me advice on how > > to control this crazy behavior -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.385 / Virus Database: 268.3.0/290 - Release Date: 3/23/06 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 24, 2006 hi , I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family please help me --------------------------------- Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 24, 2006 If you think you might have breast cancer you have to go to the doctor. The quicker you take care of it the better off you will be. Breast cancer is NOT the death sentence it was once thought to be. I am sorry to hear about your parents. You wouldn't have to tell them if you don't want to. All families go through some sadness but I would rather know my daughter is doing all she can to stay alive than just ignoring the possibility of breast cancer. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Life http://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.html BreastCancerStories.com http://www.breastcancerstories.com/content/view/433/161/ Angel Feather Loomer www.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.com Check out my other ornaments at www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.html Lots of info and gifts at: www.cancerclub.com help hi , I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family please help me --------------------------------- Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 24, 2006 Hi My heart aches for you. However, its really important to get things checked out. You wont know for sure unless you get mammograms or ultrasounds. First things first, then if need be, you can confront your family with hopefully the 'good' news. I would say at this time, no ned to worry them. But please get checked. > > hi , > I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . > I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. > I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family > please help me > > > --------------------------------- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 24, 2006 Many on this list are far more qualified to speak than I but, I *am* a mother. I would want to know if my child might possibly be ill. Of course, the decision to tell your parents, or not, is yours. Have you felt a lump? (I'm wondering what makes you suspicious that you might have breast cancer. ) Please, please see a doctor immediately. There might be nothing wrong. But even if something is wrong, the sooner it's treated, the better off you'll be. With all of the new drugs and medical technology there is oh so much hope! Do you have a friend or friends to confide in and who can help you deal with this? The people on this list are here for you, too. Take care. Please stay in touch. Jill help hi , I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family please help me --------------------------------- Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 24, 2006 For your own sanity, you should go to a doctor. In my case 2/3 of the time it was benign. Could you tell your parents some of the stuff that is going on but not go into that many details. My parents are in their late 70's and I think that they feel better knowing some of the details. Parents are going to worry anyway and I think that knowing some facts may be better than not knowing anything and making up things ( because there are going days that you are going to be down and they will wonder if they see you often and there will always that someone else that you have told may tell them something - that may be on your mind also) ne > > Many on this list are far more qualified to speak than I but, I *am* a mother. I would want to know if my child might possibly be ill. Of course, the decision to tell your parents, or not, is yours. Have you felt a lump? (I'm wondering what makes you suspicious that you might have breast cancer. ) Please, please see a doctor immediately. There might be nothing wrong. But even if something is wrong, the sooner it's treated, the better off you'll be. With all of the new drugs and medical technology there is oh so much hope! Do you have a friend or friends to confide in and who can help you deal with this? The people on this list are here for you, too. Take care. Please stay in touch. > > Jill > > help > > > hi , > I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . > I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. > I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family > please help me > > > --------------------------------- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 25, 2006 You have to go to the doctor as soon as possible. Remember that a lot of time we think the owrst of the situations and they turn out not bad at all. Hugs help hi , I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family please help me ------------ --------- --------- --- Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 26, 2006 You need to take care of this asap. The doctors said that I am a classic example of early detection. I didn't even have a lump. I also made the decission not to tell my parents who have very high blood pressure and are elderly. Just imagine how much sadness you would cause your family if you do not win the victory against breast cancer and all the inspiration of hope if you fight this beast. > > hi , > I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . > I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. > I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family > please help me > > > --------------------------------- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 26, 2006 And the earlier you find it the earlier you can get started on fighting it. Easier on your body as well. -- Beth elizabethanderson659@... -------------- Original message -------------- You need to take care of this asap. The doctors said that I am a classic example of early detection. I didn't even have a lump. I also made the decission not to tell my parents who have very high blood pressure and are elderly. Just imagine how much sadness you would cause your family if you do not win the victory against breast cancer and all the inspiration of hope if you fight this beast. > > hi , > I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid to go to doctor . > I cannot tell my family because both my parents are sick people and a news like that will not be good for thier health. > I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the cause of sadness in my family > please help me > > > --------------------------------- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1?/min. > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted October 26, 2006 Look this is a hard road to walk. But you need to get yourself checked out. It is better when you take care of breast cancer early. But who know you may not even have it... But either way you need to get yourself checked out. As for your parents. I know how you feel not wanting to be the cause of sadness. I felt the same way. My grandparents had lost their son on chirstmas and I didn't want them to get sick. I think it would have been harder if I kept it from them. So first find out then tell them. Good luck and we are all here. Signia Minneapolis --- Pinheiro wrote: > You have to go to the doctor as soon as possible. > Remember that a lot of time we think the owrst of > the situations and they turn out not bad at all. > Hugs > > > > > help > > hi , > I got into this group becuase I have a problem. I > think that I might have breastcancer and I am afraid > to go to doctor . > I cannot tell my family because both my parents are > sick people and a news like that will not be good > for thier health. > I don 't know what to do , I don't want to be the > cause of sadness in my family > please help me > > > ------------ --------- --------- --- > Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make > PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > __________________________________________________ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted November 18, 2006 Hi Delia, I hit a month-long plateau after I came home from the hospital and was SO discouraged!!! But I just kept following my Dr's advice and eventually the scale started to move again. I've hit several long and short plateaus since I had surgery in April of this year, but even with the plateaus, I've lost almost 110 pounds! Don't worry, just let your body pace itself and the weight will come off! ) Have a great weekend, Susie > > Hi everyone! My name is Delia and I am 36 yrs old and have a son name > , which I love with all my heart. I decided to have Gastric > bypass surgery about three yrs ago after my divorce, which was a wake > up call for me. I was schedule four times for surgery and every time > it got canceled due to me getting sick or I had some type of infection > in my blood. I then decided to wait three yrs later, which would be > 2006 to try again. I finally had my surgery on Oct 9, 2006 and all > went well I even lost 20 pounds. I am getting about two protein shakes > daily most of the time and I am now on soups and soft foods. I am > doing much better now with water now and I even stared going to the > gym this week. I am new at this so I would love feed back for you guys > I have read some of message boards they keep me going. I am feeling > very discouraged due to me not losing any more weight I feel I have > failed again . The Doctor told me if in four weeks there were no > weight loss he would order an upper GI. I feel I have failed again. > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites