Guest guest Posted September 27, 2006 Report Posted September 27, 2006 I've had two kids since my PSC diagnosis. A daughter who's now seven and a son who's four. Both are healthy and happy and (I think) very intelligent, attractive children! For me the main consideration in deciding whether to have kids or not was whether we'd have the energy to care for them, and whether I'd be around long enough to see them grow up. Obviously we decided to go ahead, and so far it's worked out! athan Quote
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2006 Report Posted September 27, 2006 I've had two kids since my PSC diagnosis. A daughter who's now seven and a son who's four. Both are healthy and happy and (I think) very intelligent, attractive children! For me the main consideration in deciding whether to have kids or not was whether we'd have the energy to care for them, and whether I'd be around long enough to see them grow up. Obviously we decided to go ahead, and so far it's worked out! athan Quote
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2006 Report Posted September 27, 2006 I have three kids. Two born before my diagnoses. But I certainly had heavy symptoms. I take it one day at a time. They are energetic, healthy and love to play sports. Some days I can hang with them and other days they know Mama isn't feeling as well. Sometimes I think they handle it better than my husband does. I definitely know my 8 year old daughter is much more intuitive and sympathetic with me:) Good luck > I've had two kids since my PSC diagnosis. A daughter who's now seven > and a son who's four. Both are healthy and happy and (I think) very > intelligent, attractive children! For me the main consideration in > deciding whether to have kids or not was whether we'd have the energy > to > care for them, and whether I'd be around long enough to see them grow > up. Obviously we decided to go ahead, and so far it's worked out! > > athan > > > > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2006 Report Posted September 27, 2006 I have three kids. Two born before my diagnoses. But I certainly had heavy symptoms. I take it one day at a time. They are energetic, healthy and love to play sports. Some days I can hang with them and other days they know Mama isn't feeling as well. Sometimes I think they handle it better than my husband does. I definitely know my 8 year old daughter is much more intuitive and sympathetic with me:) Good luck > I've had two kids since my PSC diagnosis. A daughter who's now seven > and a son who's four. Both are healthy and happy and (I think) very > intelligent, attractive children! For me the main consideration in > deciding whether to have kids or not was whether we'd have the energy > to > care for them, and whether I'd be around long enough to see them grow > up. Obviously we decided to go ahead, and so far it's worked out! > > athan > > > > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted September 27, 2006 Report Posted September 27, 2006 I have three kids. Two born before my diagnoses. But I certainly had heavy symptoms. I take it one day at a time. They are energetic, healthy and love to play sports. Some days I can hang with them and other days they know Mama isn't feeling as well. Sometimes I think they handle it better than my husband does. I definitely know my 8 year old daughter is much more intuitive and sympathetic with me:) Good luck > I've had two kids since my PSC diagnosis. A daughter who's now seven > and a son who's four. Both are healthy and happy and (I think) very > intelligent, attractive children! For me the main consideration in > deciding whether to have kids or not was whether we'd have the energy > to > care for them, and whether I'd be around long enough to see them grow > up. Obviously we decided to go ahead, and so far it's worked out! > > athan > > > > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 Hi, We had our son in 2000, two years after my diagnosis and about six years after I started having overt PSC symptoms. It was a tough pregnancy, but we made it through, and now our for all appearances healthy son just turned six this month. I would think that the status of the mother's health would have much more of a direct impact on the pregancy itself. Your husband's sperm might contribute to birth defects or genetic problems, but I'd think your fibromyalgia would be the issue that would need discussing the most...Just my thoughts. I had a high-risk team of OB's that was nothing short of awesome. We wouldn't have had our son without people that specially trained overseeing my care. HTH, Deb in VA PSC 1998, UC 1999, Listed Ltx 2001, LDLTX 5/19/2005... updates: www.caringbridge.org/va/deniseb Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 Hi, We had our son in 2000, two years after my diagnosis and about six years after I started having overt PSC symptoms. It was a tough pregnancy, but we made it through, and now our for all appearances healthy son just turned six this month. I would think that the status of the mother's health would have much more of a direct impact on the pregancy itself. Your husband's sperm might contribute to birth defects or genetic problems, but I'd think your fibromyalgia would be the issue that would need discussing the most...Just my thoughts. I had a high-risk team of OB's that was nothing short of awesome. We wouldn't have had our son without people that specially trained overseeing my care. HTH, Deb in VA PSC 1998, UC 1999, Listed Ltx 2001, LDLTX 5/19/2005... updates: www.caringbridge.org/va/deniseb Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 Well, I have had two with fibro…probably actually three. Who knows when you actually get this stuff? I will say this…Zoë (13) was a completely normal pregnancy…she was a month late…due to being super tiny they let her continue to cook…she was 6 lbs. 8 oz. when born. Noah’s pregnancy was a bit complicated. I had gestational diabetes, and preeclampsia. Nothing that required hospitalization. LOTS of bed rest. Noah’s head was engaged at 6 months and continued to grow while engaged so…as a result when I first went to see the doctor for Aidan’s pregnancy, I was told I could deliver a MAC truck through my hips. (woman doctor) With Aidan’s pregnancy I had placenta previa and lost a twin…but that was just because I had had so many kids. LOL! So again bed rest. I did have trouble gaining weight in the first two trimesters and had to eat baby food. Thankfully I never had to be hospitalized for any of it though. Like suggested…I also had a wonder perinatologist who took care of everything and there was plenty with the placenta previa and the twin death. Thankfully I got to walk away with a baby. Bottom line, I don’t think my fibromyalgia had much to do with any of it. I think I just got lucky to have 3 beauties. Mom of Noah (9) UC, PSC, osteopenia ‘05 Zoë (13), Aidan (5) moderately-severe sensorineural hearing loss but I'd think your fibromyalgia would be the issue that would need discussing the most...Just my thoughts. I had a high-risk team of OB's that was nothing short of awesome. We wouldn't have had our son without people that specially trained overseeing my care. HTH, Deb in VA  Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 Well, I have had two with fibro…probably actually three. Who knows when you actually get this stuff? I will say this…Zoë (13) was a completely normal pregnancy…she was a month late…due to being super tiny they let her continue to cook…she was 6 lbs. 8 oz. when born. Noah’s pregnancy was a bit complicated. I had gestational diabetes, and preeclampsia. Nothing that required hospitalization. LOTS of bed rest. Noah’s head was engaged at 6 months and continued to grow while engaged so…as a result when I first went to see the doctor for Aidan’s pregnancy, I was told I could deliver a MAC truck through my hips. (woman doctor) With Aidan’s pregnancy I had placenta previa and lost a twin…but that was just because I had had so many kids. LOL! So again bed rest. I did have trouble gaining weight in the first two trimesters and had to eat baby food. Thankfully I never had to be hospitalized for any of it though. Like suggested…I also had a wonder perinatologist who took care of everything and there was plenty with the placenta previa and the twin death. Thankfully I got to walk away with a baby. Bottom line, I don’t think my fibromyalgia had much to do with any of it. I think I just got lucky to have 3 beauties. Mom of Noah (9) UC, PSC, osteopenia ‘05 Zoë (13), Aidan (5) moderately-severe sensorineural hearing loss but I'd think your fibromyalgia would be the issue that would need discussing the most...Just my thoughts. I had a high-risk team of OB's that was nothing short of awesome. We wouldn't have had our son without people that specially trained overseeing my care. HTH, Deb in VA  Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 Well, I have had two with fibro…probably actually three. Who knows when you actually get this stuff? I will say this…Zoë (13) was a completely normal pregnancy…she was a month late…due to being super tiny they let her continue to cook…she was 6 lbs. 8 oz. when born. Noah’s pregnancy was a bit complicated. I had gestational diabetes, and preeclampsia. Nothing that required hospitalization. LOTS of bed rest. Noah’s head was engaged at 6 months and continued to grow while engaged so…as a result when I first went to see the doctor for Aidan’s pregnancy, I was told I could deliver a MAC truck through my hips. (woman doctor) With Aidan’s pregnancy I had placenta previa and lost a twin…but that was just because I had had so many kids. LOL! So again bed rest. I did have trouble gaining weight in the first two trimesters and had to eat baby food. Thankfully I never had to be hospitalized for any of it though. Like suggested…I also had a wonder perinatologist who took care of everything and there was plenty with the placenta previa and the twin death. Thankfully I got to walk away with a baby. Bottom line, I don’t think my fibromyalgia had much to do with any of it. I think I just got lucky to have 3 beauties. Mom of Noah (9) UC, PSC, osteopenia ‘05 Zoë (13), Aidan (5) moderately-severe sensorineural hearing loss but I'd think your fibromyalgia would be the issue that would need discussing the most...Just my thoughts. I had a high-risk team of OB's that was nothing short of awesome. We wouldn't have had our son without people that specially trained overseeing my care. HTH, Deb in VA  Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 I have a normal healthy child from an uncomplicated pregnancy. Most children of people with PSC do not go on to develop the disease. I concur with and , that it is your own health concerns that are most likely to cause difficulties. That said, we did not go on to have another child due to many factors in our lives. One of them was my concern that I expected to have health problems in future, and having a baby as well as me to care for was going to be too much for my husband. I sometimes regret this decision, but other times I'm sure it was the wisest thing. I'd think your fibromyalgia would be > the issue that would need discussing the most. Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 I have a normal healthy child from an uncomplicated pregnancy. Most children of people with PSC do not go on to develop the disease. I concur with and , that it is your own health concerns that are most likely to cause difficulties. That said, we did not go on to have another child due to many factors in our lives. One of them was my concern that I expected to have health problems in future, and having a baby as well as me to care for was going to be too much for my husband. I sometimes regret this decision, but other times I'm sure it was the wisest thing. I'd think your fibromyalgia would be > the issue that would need discussing the most. Quote
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2006 Report Posted September 28, 2006 I have a normal healthy child from an uncomplicated pregnancy. Most children of people with PSC do not go on to develop the disease. I concur with and , that it is your own health concerns that are most likely to cause difficulties. That said, we did not go on to have another child due to many factors in our lives. One of them was my concern that I expected to have health problems in future, and having a baby as well as me to care for was going to be too much for my husband. I sometimes regret this decision, but other times I'm sure it was the wisest thing. I'd think your fibromyalgia would be > the issue that would need discussing the most. Quote
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2006 Report Posted September 29, 2006 I have had 4 children pre PSC diagnosis I am now 55. I was always tired and no one knew why! Even though my nature is laid back and slapdash I really made an effort to be 'super organised'. Planing, planing and planing e.g. meals a week ahead, having one big supermarket buy every two weeks, saying no to commitments I knew would be a hassel, so I could enjoy family life. We are also lucky that we are a farming family and the children where out and about with husband Graham on the farm a lot. It was interesting I was talking to a specialist after my PSC diagnosis last year and I said " at a guess how long do you think I have had PSC, even though there will be no way we could confirm that? " and he said " he would not be surprised if I had had it for at least 15 to 25 years " . Best wishes Quote
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2006 Report Posted September 29, 2006 I have had 4 children pre PSC diagnosis I am now 55. I was always tired and no one knew why! Even though my nature is laid back and slapdash I really made an effort to be 'super organised'. Planing, planing and planing e.g. meals a week ahead, having one big supermarket buy every two weeks, saying no to commitments I knew would be a hassel, so I could enjoy family life. We are also lucky that we are a farming family and the children where out and about with husband Graham on the farm a lot. It was interesting I was talking to a specialist after my PSC diagnosis last year and I said " at a guess how long do you think I have had PSC, even though there will be no way we could confirm that? " and he said " he would not be surprised if I had had it for at least 15 to 25 years " . Best wishes Quote
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