Guest guest Report post Posted January 20, 2003 Thanks for all your help Ian. Would you have a list or know of one somewhere where they have guidelines for being on the LID in the UK? I think milk/butter are going to be the most difficult things to live without & i use these things mostly at breakfast so I can see myself skipping breakfast unless I can use peanut butter on my toast. Would that be ok? Many thanks for your help again - its good to know someone on this side of the pond who understands our diets and how the NHS system works. Kathy > Hi Kathy > > With regards to the LID nobody has mentioned it to me - I did ask my > > registrar and he told me that I didn't have to follow it as it > > didn't make much difference. Should i follow it anyway? > > Ask him if he can cite any evidence to back up his statement. There is no > doubt whatsoever that a high intake of stable (non radioactive) iodine will > protect the thyroid from RAI, and iodide /iodate tablets are manufactured for > use in conditions of nuclear emergencies. You are in exactly the opposite > situation and want as much RAI as possible to be taken up in your thyroid, > hence the LID. > > The LID is far less important in the UK because our salt is not iodised, so a > great many of the restrictions that apply to most of the people on this list > don't apply to us. > > Fish, dairy (milk, cheese, eggs etc), vitamin & mineral tablets, Red food > colour (erythrosine - as in cocktail cherries, salami & spam) are probably > the worst offenders in the UK diet. > > Ian > > Ian Adam > Radiation Safety Officer > The Institute of Cancer Research > Cotswold Road > Sutton > Surrey > SM2 5NG > Tel: 020 8722 4250 > Fax: 020 8722 4300 > EMail: iana@i... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 21, 2003 Kathy Try the British Thyroid Association on http://www.british-thyroid-association.org Then go to: Information for Patients Then go right down to: Thyroid Cancer.Patient Information Book 3 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RADIO-IODINE ABLATION TREATMENT Peanut butter seems to be OK. Ian > Thanks for all your help Ian. > > Would you have a list or know of one somewhere where they have > guidelines for being on the LID in the UK? > > I think milk/butter are going to be the most difficult things to > live without & i use these things mostly at breakfast so I can see > myself skipping breakfast unless I can use peanut butter on my > toast. Would that be ok? > > Many thanks for your help again - its good to know someone on this > side of the pond who understands our diets and how the NHS system > works. > > Kathy > > > > Hi Kathy > > > With regards to the LID nobody has mentioned it to me - I did > ask my > > > registrar and he told me that I didn't have to follow it as it > > > didn't make much difference. Should i follow it anyway? > > > > Ask him if he can cite any evidence to back up his statement. > There is no > > doubt whatsoever that a high intake of stable (non radioactive) > iodine will > > protect the thyroid from RAI, and iodide /iodate tablets are > manufactured for > > use in conditions of nuclear emergencies. You are in exactly the > opposite > > situation and want as much RAI as possible to be taken up in your > thyroid, > > hence the LID. > > > > The LID is far less important in the UK because our salt is not > iodised, so a > > great many of the restrictions that apply to most of the people on > this list > > don't apply to us. > > > > Fish, dairy (milk, cheese, eggs etc), vitamin & mineral tablets, > Red food > > colour (erythrosine - as in cocktail cherries, salami & spam) are > probably > > the worst offenders in the UK diet. > > > > Ian > > > > Ian Adam > > Radiation Safety Officer > > The Institute of Cancer Research > > Cotswold Road > > Sutton > > Surrey > > SM2 5NG > > Tel: 020 8722 4250 > > Fax: 020 8722 4300 > > EMail: iana@i... > > > This e-mail support group is one of many free services of ThyCa: Thyroid Cancer Survivors' Association, Inc. <web site: www.thyca.org>. If you do not wish to belong to this group, you may UNSUBSCRIBE by > sending a blank e-mail to: > thyca-unsubscribe > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 21, 2003 Kathy Try the British Thyroid Association on http://www.british-thyroid-association.org Then go to: Information for Patients Then go right down to: Thyroid Cancer.Patient Information Book 3 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RADIO-IODINE ABLATION TREATMENT Peanut butter seems to be OK. Ian > Thanks for all your help Ian. > > Would you have a list or know of one somewhere where they have > guidelines for being on the LID in the UK? > > I think milk/butter are going to be the most difficult things to > live without & i use these things mostly at breakfast so I can see > myself skipping breakfast unless I can use peanut butter on my > toast. Would that be ok? > > Many thanks for your help again - its good to know someone on this > side of the pond who understands our diets and how the NHS system > works. > > Kathy > > > > Hi Kathy > > > With regards to the LID nobody has mentioned it to me - I did > ask my > > > registrar and he told me that I didn't have to follow it as it > > > didn't make much difference. Should i follow it anyway? > > > > Ask him if he can cite any evidence to back up his statement. > There is no > > doubt whatsoever that a high intake of stable (non radioactive) > iodine will > > protect the thyroid from RAI, and iodide /iodate tablets are > manufactured for > > use in conditions of nuclear emergencies. You are in exactly the > opposite > > situation and want as much RAI as possible to be taken up in your > thyroid, > > hence the LID. > > > > The LID is far less important in the UK because our salt is not > iodised, so a > > great many of the restrictions that apply to most of the people on > this list > > don't apply to us. > > > > Fish, dairy (milk, cheese, eggs etc), vitamin & mineral tablets, > Red food > > colour (erythrosine - as in cocktail cherries, salami & spam) are > probably > > the worst offenders in the UK diet. > > > > Ian > > > > Ian Adam > > Radiation Safety Officer > > The Institute of Cancer Research > > Cotswold Road > > Sutton > > Surrey > > SM2 5NG > > Tel: 020 8722 4250 > > Fax: 020 8722 4300 > > EMail: iana@i... > > > This e-mail support group is one of many free services of ThyCa: Thyroid Cancer Survivors' Association, Inc. <web site: www.thyca.org>. If you do not wish to belong to this group, you may UNSUBSCRIBE by > sending a blank e-mail to: > thyca-unsubscribe > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 21, 2003 Kathy Try the British Thyroid Association on http://www.british-thyroid-association.org Then go to: Information for Patients Then go right down to: Thyroid Cancer.Patient Information Book 3 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT RADIO-IODINE ABLATION TREATMENT Peanut butter seems to be OK. Ian > Thanks for all your help Ian. > > Would you have a list or know of one somewhere where they have > guidelines for being on the LID in the UK? > > I think milk/butter are going to be the most difficult things to > live without & i use these things mostly at breakfast so I can see > myself skipping breakfast unless I can use peanut butter on my > toast. Would that be ok? > > Many thanks for your help again - its good to know someone on this > side of the pond who understands our diets and how the NHS system > works. > > Kathy > > > > Hi Kathy > > > With regards to the LID nobody has mentioned it to me - I did > ask my > > > registrar and he told me that I didn't have to follow it as it > > > didn't make much difference. Should i follow it anyway? > > > > Ask him if he can cite any evidence to back up his statement. > There is no > > doubt whatsoever that a high intake of stable (non radioactive) > iodine will > > protect the thyroid from RAI, and iodide /iodate tablets are > manufactured for > > use in conditions of nuclear emergencies. You are in exactly the > opposite > > situation and want as much RAI as possible to be taken up in your > thyroid, > > hence the LID. > > > > The LID is far less important in the UK because our salt is not > iodised, so a > > great many of the restrictions that apply to most of the people on > this list > > don't apply to us. > > > > Fish, dairy (milk, cheese, eggs etc), vitamin & mineral tablets, > Red food > > colour (erythrosine - as in cocktail cherries, salami & spam) are > probably > > the worst offenders in the UK diet. > > > > Ian > > > > Ian Adam > > Radiation Safety Officer > > The Institute of Cancer Research > > Cotswold Road > > Sutton > > Surrey > > SM2 5NG > > Tel: 020 8722 4250 > > Fax: 020 8722 4300 > > EMail: iana@i... > > > This e-mail support group is one of many free services of ThyCa: Thyroid Cancer Survivors' Association, Inc. <web site: www.thyca.org>. If you do not wish to belong to this group, you may UNSUBSCRIBE by > sending a blank e-mail to: > thyca-unsubscribe > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 21, 2003 Hi Just wanted to say hello from another Brit on this site, allbeit one who lives in Dublin, Ireland. This is a fantastic group to belong to, it certainly has changed my life. I can relate to your fears about bone cancer - after my pt in '91 I was convinced that I'd have to have to have my leg off because I didn't know what all the aches and pains meant... It feels daft now to think I worried like that but I know that at the time my concerns were real ones. Good luck with your hypo period, you'll be fine I'm sure. Where are you having your RAI? I hope it all goes well and that you pick up lots of advice here about how to cope and make the hypo time easier. When I had my RAI I couldn't concentrate on any serious reading so I spent a lot of time looking at mags with lots of pictures. ( the gossipier the better!). Let us know how you get on. Best wishes Follicular Thyca pt '91 tt '01 RAI Nov '01 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 21, 2003 Hi Just wanted to say hello from another Brit on this site, allbeit one who lives in Dublin, Ireland. This is a fantastic group to belong to, it certainly has changed my life. I can relate to your fears about bone cancer - after my pt in '91 I was convinced that I'd have to have to have my leg off because I didn't know what all the aches and pains meant... It feels daft now to think I worried like that but I know that at the time my concerns were real ones. Good luck with your hypo period, you'll be fine I'm sure. Where are you having your RAI? I hope it all goes well and that you pick up lots of advice here about how to cope and make the hypo time easier. When I had my RAI I couldn't concentrate on any serious reading so I spent a lot of time looking at mags with lots of pictures. ( the gossipier the better!). Let us know how you get on. Best wishes Follicular Thyca pt '91 tt '01 RAI Nov '01 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 14, 2003 , Sorry this reply is late. I hope you got on there and had a good walk or jog! Like you said, getting on is the hardest part. That's why I try to always make myself go at least 10 min. Once I have gone that I almost always go more. Take care, Gena > Well had a good day. I ate great and I am now trying to drag myself > towards the treadmill. I worked form 9-6 and I am pretty tired but I > will get on and walk a few miles. The hardest part is getting on the > machine. lol wish me luck. Today I would much rather have a nap. > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 14, 2003 , Sorry this reply is late. I hope you got on there and had a good walk or jog! Like you said, getting on is the hardest part. That's why I try to always make myself go at least 10 min. Once I have gone that I almost always go more. Take care, Gena > Well had a good day. I ate great and I am now trying to drag myself > towards the treadmill. I worked form 9-6 and I am pretty tired but I > will get on and walk a few miles. The hardest part is getting on the > machine. lol wish me luck. Today I would much rather have a nap. > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted June 14, 2003 , Sorry this reply is late. I hope you got on there and had a good walk or jog! Like you said, getting on is the hardest part. That's why I try to always make myself go at least 10 min. Once I have gone that I almost always go more. Take care, Gena > Well had a good day. I ate great and I am now trying to drag myself > towards the treadmill. I worked form 9-6 and I am pretty tired but I > will get on and walk a few miles. The hardest part is getting on the > machine. lol wish me luck. Today I would much rather have a nap. > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted November 30, 2003 Hi Barb, Thank you for the welcome! You were one of those people who made the diet work for us! You have so much knowledge. It's nice to see you still here. How is Jake? Peace~ > You are more than welcome as far as I'm concerned, and I look forward to learning more about what you have tried. There is also an epilepsy kids list that you might find interesting, as well as another list I used to be on that was for people w/ seizures who used alternative treatments....can't remember the name but I will try to get it to you.... > Barb Swoyer, Jake's mom (still here, still on the diet) > hello > > > Hi everyone, > I was a member of this list while my daughter Marissa was on the > diet. We did it for almost 2 years with good success. Marissa is no > longer on the diet and does still have seizures, but drastically less > than she used to. > We deal with seizures homeopathically and have been taking Marissa > for accupuncture treatments for 4 months now. > So the reason I am here is that I remember there were a lot of people > doing alternative treatments on this list. And I feel as though I am > floundering around all alone because Marissa does not take any drugs > ( the exception is diastat, which we avoid unless absolutely > necessary). Most people think I'm a complete nut. You know, they > just nod and smile and hope I will go away. > So does anyone know of a list that supports parents of children with > special needs that practice alternative health? If not can I hang > out here a little? I'm sure I can help with keto questions as well. > > Peace~ > Jen > > PS Hi Nan! <waving> remember me? > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted November 30, 2003 Hi Barb, Thank you for the welcome! You were one of those people who made the diet work for us! You have so much knowledge. It's nice to see you still here. How is Jake? Peace~ > You are more than welcome as far as I'm concerned, and I look forward to learning more about what you have tried. There is also an epilepsy kids list that you might find interesting, as well as another list I used to be on that was for people w/ seizures who used alternative treatments....can't remember the name but I will try to get it to you.... > Barb Swoyer, Jake's mom (still here, still on the diet) > hello > > > Hi everyone, > I was a member of this list while my daughter Marissa was on the > diet. We did it for almost 2 years with good success. Marissa is no > longer on the diet and does still have seizures, but drastically less > than she used to. > We deal with seizures homeopathically and have been taking Marissa > for accupuncture treatments for 4 months now. > So the reason I am here is that I remember there were a lot of people > doing alternative treatments on this list. And I feel as though I am > floundering around all alone because Marissa does not take any drugs > ( the exception is diastat, which we avoid unless absolutely > necessary). Most people think I'm a complete nut. You know, they > just nod and smile and hope I will go away. > So does anyone know of a list that supports parents of children with > special needs that practice alternative health? If not can I hang > out here a little? I'm sure I can help with keto questions as well. > > Peace~ > Jen > > PS Hi Nan! <waving> remember me? > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted November 30, 2003 Wow, that's a big compliment! You are too kind and I'm not sure I can measure up to those words!! Glad to hear that the seizures are lessened. We did homeopathic treatment for about 2 years, but didn't seem to get anywhere with it. Now we have been doing craniosacral therapy for about a year....love it....and I think it helps. If nothing else it completely relaxes Jake - we go once or twice a week for an hour. They've even started treating me (stress/migraines, etc)and I'm hooked too! Unfortunately, little Jake has had better times. Good news is that we haven't seen a drop seizure in 8 weeks. Bad news is that he's having GTC just about every morning, averaging 2-3 a day. We have an MRI/MRS scheduled for next week and also an appt. w/ a new neuro who specializes in mitochondrial disorders and muscle disease....we'll see. Our neuro wants us to see him Anyway, other than that he's okay. Just turned 8 on Thanksgiving day. Getting so big - and I think it gets a bit harder as he gets older.... Stick around Barb Swoyer hello > > > Hi everyone, > I was a member of this list while my daughter Marissa was on the > diet. We did it for almost 2 years with good success. Marissa is no > longer on the diet and does still have seizures, but drastically less > than she used to. > We deal with seizures homeopathically and have been taking Marissa > for accupuncture treatments for 4 months now. > So the reason I am here is that I remember there were a lot of people > doing alternative treatments on this list. And I feel as though I am > floundering around all alone because Marissa does not take any drugs > ( the exception is diastat, which we avoid unless absolutely > necessary). Most people think I'm a complete nut. You know, they > just nod and smile and hope I will go away. > So does anyone know of a list that supports parents of children with > special needs that practice alternative health? If not can I hang > out here a little? I'm sure I can help with keto questions as well. > > Peace~ > Jen > > PS Hi Nan! <waving> remember me? > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted November 30, 2003 Wow, that's a big compliment! You are too kind and I'm not sure I can measure up to those words!! Glad to hear that the seizures are lessened. We did homeopathic treatment for about 2 years, but didn't seem to get anywhere with it. Now we have been doing craniosacral therapy for about a year....love it....and I think it helps. If nothing else it completely relaxes Jake - we go once or twice a week for an hour. They've even started treating me (stress/migraines, etc)and I'm hooked too! Unfortunately, little Jake has had better times. Good news is that we haven't seen a drop seizure in 8 weeks. Bad news is that he's having GTC just about every morning, averaging 2-3 a day. We have an MRI/MRS scheduled for next week and also an appt. w/ a new neuro who specializes in mitochondrial disorders and muscle disease....we'll see. Our neuro wants us to see him Anyway, other than that he's okay. Just turned 8 on Thanksgiving day. Getting so big - and I think it gets a bit harder as he gets older.... Stick around Barb Swoyer hello > > > Hi everyone, > I was a member of this list while my daughter Marissa was on the > diet. We did it for almost 2 years with good success. Marissa is no > longer on the diet and does still have seizures, but drastically less > than she used to. > We deal with seizures homeopathically and have been taking Marissa > for accupuncture treatments for 4 months now. > So the reason I am here is that I remember there were a lot of people > doing alternative treatments on this list. And I feel as though I am > floundering around all alone because Marissa does not take any drugs > ( the exception is diastat, which we avoid unless absolutely > necessary). Most people think I'm a complete nut. You know, they > just nod and smile and hope I will go away. > So does anyone know of a list that supports parents of children with > special needs that practice alternative health? If not can I hang > out here a little? I'm sure I can help with keto questions as well. > > Peace~ > Jen > > PS Hi Nan! <waving> remember me? > > > Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted December 29, 2003 - Just wanted to send you baby dust and hope that this cycle is the one for you! I have a close friend who recently gave birth - she m/c and conceived again very quickly, with out getting a visit from AF. I hope this will be the case for you. Crossing everything for you- fused UD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted December 29, 2003 - Just wanted to send you baby dust and hope that this cycle is the one for you! I have a close friend who recently gave birth - she m/c and conceived again very quickly, with out getting a visit from AF. I hope this will be the case for you. Crossing everything for you- fused UD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 4, 2004 In a message dated 4/3/2004 12:30:25 PM Eastern Daylight Time, sassysarkin@... writes: Hi.....I have a 9 yr old son...Nate .... sens/neural hearing loss mild to mod in lt ear mod to severe in rt ear ... he is struggling w/ 3rd grade... hate reading and writing.... hates his hearing aids..... hates me for making him wear hearing aids..... it is a very unhappy time in our home... he has had aids since he was 4 yrs old and we have gone through various periods of wearing the aids most of the time and to only in school not at home..... he has had the same pair since he was 4 ... and so now this week we will be trying out new ones .... any suggestions.... on any thing ..... IEP was yest also.... he was not gettting resource room for reading and i demanded it also looking for a reading tutor .... on their recccommendation shouldn't the school district pay for that..... Thanks that is alot of questions for my first email sorry....... Ours was a different set of circumstances but our son also struggled and dealt with frustration and depression caused by the circumstances at about that age. One of the things I did was to find a psychologist for him, someone familar with HOH kids and that our pediatirican (we adore him) recommended. I'm not one to rush out for therapy, but my happy well-adjusted son was sullen and fretful and worried me terribly. Ian has always loved his aides, so that was not an issue. It was the atmosphere at school that was the cause of his troubles, but that did not make it any easier for him to deal with. Ian felt he was stupid, that no matter how hard he tried he would never be able to do well in school. His self esteem was almost nonexistent. His teacher was a main source of that idea. She was undermining SpecEd services that were mandated in his IEP and insisting he should be medicated and/or held back. It was a very bad time. I felt that if he had someone to talk with who was not us, his parents, that would be helpful. And it did. There was no need or recommendation for a life-time of therapy, only about a half dozen sessions. He talked, he vented, he learned some coping skills to use when he got frustrated. The doctor met with us (both parents) a couple times to help us understand what he needed. It was a good choice for him. No one ever teased or harassed our son at school for his aides. Is Nate getting teased? Our Ian always had a small core group of friends and they would stick together all the time. I think that helped to insulate him from being hassled. I'd also check into the suggestions everyone else made about the hardware -- are his aides serving him well? I'd also do what you've already done and demand the resources he needs to get up-to-speed academically. And yes, the school should be providing this service. If he has been falling behind while the school was denying to provide those services, then I would argue that the district should also be providing/paying the tutor since they created the need by continually ignoring your son's needs. Best -- Jill Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 4, 2004 In a message dated 4/3/2004 12:30:25 PM Eastern Daylight Time, sassysarkin@... writes: Hi.....I have a 9 yr old son...Nate .... sens/neural hearing loss mild to mod in lt ear mod to severe in rt ear ... he is struggling w/ 3rd grade... hate reading and writing.... hates his hearing aids..... hates me for making him wear hearing aids..... it is a very unhappy time in our home... he has had aids since he was 4 yrs old and we have gone through various periods of wearing the aids most of the time and to only in school not at home..... he has had the same pair since he was 4 ... and so now this week we will be trying out new ones .... any suggestions.... on any thing ..... IEP was yest also.... he was not gettting resource room for reading and i demanded it also looking for a reading tutor .... on their recccommendation shouldn't the school district pay for that..... Thanks that is alot of questions for my first email sorry....... Ours was a different set of circumstances but our son also struggled and dealt with frustration and depression caused by the circumstances at about that age. One of the things I did was to find a psychologist for him, someone familar with HOH kids and that our pediatirican (we adore him) recommended. I'm not one to rush out for therapy, but my happy well-adjusted son was sullen and fretful and worried me terribly. Ian has always loved his aides, so that was not an issue. It was the atmosphere at school that was the cause of his troubles, but that did not make it any easier for him to deal with. Ian felt he was stupid, that no matter how hard he tried he would never be able to do well in school. His self esteem was almost nonexistent. His teacher was a main source of that idea. She was undermining SpecEd services that were mandated in his IEP and insisting he should be medicated and/or held back. It was a very bad time. I felt that if he had someone to talk with who was not us, his parents, that would be helpful. And it did. There was no need or recommendation for a life-time of therapy, only about a half dozen sessions. He talked, he vented, he learned some coping skills to use when he got frustrated. The doctor met with us (both parents) a couple times to help us understand what he needed. It was a good choice for him. No one ever teased or harassed our son at school for his aides. Is Nate getting teased? Our Ian always had a small core group of friends and they would stick together all the time. I think that helped to insulate him from being hassled. I'd also check into the suggestions everyone else made about the hardware -- are his aides serving him well? I'd also do what you've already done and demand the resources he needs to get up-to-speed academically. And yes, the school should be providing this service. If he has been falling behind while the school was denying to provide those services, then I would argue that the district should also be providing/paying the tutor since they created the need by continually ignoring your son's needs. Best -- Jill Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 4, 2004 In a message dated 4/3/2004 12:30:25 PM Eastern Daylight Time, sassysarkin@... writes: Hi.....I have a 9 yr old son...Nate .... sens/neural hearing loss mild to mod in lt ear mod to severe in rt ear ... he is struggling w/ 3rd grade... hate reading and writing.... hates his hearing aids..... hates me for making him wear hearing aids..... it is a very unhappy time in our home... he has had aids since he was 4 yrs old and we have gone through various periods of wearing the aids most of the time and to only in school not at home..... he has had the same pair since he was 4 ... and so now this week we will be trying out new ones .... any suggestions.... on any thing ..... IEP was yest also.... he was not gettting resource room for reading and i demanded it also looking for a reading tutor .... on their recccommendation shouldn't the school district pay for that..... Thanks that is alot of questions for my first email sorry....... Ours was a different set of circumstances but our son also struggled and dealt with frustration and depression caused by the circumstances at about that age. One of the things I did was to find a psychologist for him, someone familar with HOH kids and that our pediatirican (we adore him) recommended. I'm not one to rush out for therapy, but my happy well-adjusted son was sullen and fretful and worried me terribly. Ian has always loved his aides, so that was not an issue. It was the atmosphere at school that was the cause of his troubles, but that did not make it any easier for him to deal with. Ian felt he was stupid, that no matter how hard he tried he would never be able to do well in school. His self esteem was almost nonexistent. His teacher was a main source of that idea. She was undermining SpecEd services that were mandated in his IEP and insisting he should be medicated and/or held back. It was a very bad time. I felt that if he had someone to talk with who was not us, his parents, that would be helpful. And it did. There was no need or recommendation for a life-time of therapy, only about a half dozen sessions. He talked, he vented, he learned some coping skills to use when he got frustrated. The doctor met with us (both parents) a couple times to help us understand what he needed. It was a good choice for him. No one ever teased or harassed our son at school for his aides. Is Nate getting teased? Our Ian always had a small core group of friends and they would stick together all the time. I think that helped to insulate him from being hassled. I'd also check into the suggestions everyone else made about the hardware -- are his aides serving him well? I'd also do what you've already done and demand the resources he needs to get up-to-speed academically. And yes, the school should be providing this service. If he has been falling behind while the school was denying to provide those services, then I would argue that the district should also be providing/paying the tutor since they created the need by continually ignoring your son's needs. Best -- Jill Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 13, 2004 Welcome to the group - Sorry the delay on my response but a little behind on e-mail. My daughter has been sick. I have a 9 year old daughter in 3rd grade with mild to moderate loss too. She got her hearing aids (digi focus II ) when she was 5 yr. old. We went through the same thing you are going through early this year. She is totally verbal and in main stream class with a IEP under HOH classification. She was extremely below average in reading and struggling to keep up. 3rd grade is hard enough and adding a disability is just enough to put any child over the edge. She went through a period were she was so frustrated and introverted. To find out she was losing more hearing. Now she is being checked every 3 months and being closely monitored. During this tough time - I had a meeting with her HOH teacher and we modified her IEP. She gets more with a variance teacher and the HOH teacher goes to the class 3 times a week for an hour to help her with what she has missed during class time. She also has a FM and the classroom has amplification too. Her reading has increased a 1 grade level and is doing pretty good with the modifications. We have to work hard to get her where she is at but the modification in the classroom give her that chance. I would suggest you 1st get hearing checked to be sure that is not the real problem. Then request for another IEP meeting and express your concern and needs for your child. I found that having a HOH teacher as a advocate helps a lot. She has been my little angel guiding us through the year. She even got us ESY services for my daughter 3 times a week so she does not regress over the summer. Good luck. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 28, 2005 Lori, Welcome to a great group! Great job on working on your health. I am so happy for you. I have heard of many people following a plan and taking a "cheat" or an "off" day once or 2 times a week. They seem to be doing well. It is great that your entire family is on this with you, makes it easier. Your hubby and Son will lose quicker (dang guys) but you are doing great and don't let their quicker weight loss discourage you at all. 6 pounds is great. Keep up the good work. I look forward to getting to know you better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 28, 2005 Lori, Welcome to a great group! Great job on working on your health. I am so happy for you. I have heard of many people following a plan and taking a "cheat" or an "off" day once or 2 times a week. They seem to be doing well. It is great that your entire family is on this with you, makes it easier. Your hubby and Son will lose quicker (dang guys) but you are doing great and don't let their quicker weight loss discourage you at all. 6 pounds is great. Keep up the good work. I look forward to getting to know you better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted January 28, 2005 Lori, Welcome to a great group! Great job on working on your health. I am so happy for you. I have heard of many people following a plan and taking a "cheat" or an "off" day once or 2 times a week. They seem to be doing well. It is great that your entire family is on this with you, makes it easier. Your hubby and Son will lose quicker (dang guys) but you are doing great and don't let their quicker weight loss discourage you at all. 6 pounds is great. Keep up the good work. I look forward to getting to know you better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted February 1, 2005 hello lori! its doni! this a great group with wonderfull gals! im on ww flex! gotta long way to go,but hey im not going anywhere! welcome again! doni 271/238.8/237 mini goal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted March 14, 2006 Hello, I'm new to this group. My computer is not working at the moment. I'll try and read the post whenever I get the chance though,I hope I'll get this thing up and running soon. Hope to meet you all soon.Also looking forward to join in chat room. Bye for now. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest guest Report post Posted April 11, 2006 , I wish I had found this site like you before I had the biopsy. I was pretty unconcerned for some reason when I had them do the biopsy. But we are here for you in whatever happens. I read that 80% of the lumps are benign. Hopefully yours will be too. Sharon SHARON COLEY DIRECTOR OF SALES DOUBLETREE HOTEL LOS ANGELES/ROSEMEAD 888 MONTEBELLO BLVD. ROSEMEAD, CA 91770 Talk is cheap. Use Yahoo! Messenger to make PC-to-Phone calls. Great rates starting at 1¢/min. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites