Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. hugz,cassy [katelloydkidz@...] wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidz@...] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!> > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Kate...it is not a harsh thing for you to wish, it might be just the wake-up call he needs--- I'm sorry you missed Seder. I'll think of you, maybe even set a place for you, at ours. Love to you sis...you take care! Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!> > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Kate, Wish I had some answers for you not only for your health problems but you husband too. I will keep you in my prayers. Hugs nne Breast Cancer Patients Soul Mates for Lifehttp://www.geocities.com/chucky5741/breastcancerpatients.htmlAnxiety Depression and Breast Cancerhttp://health.groups.yahoo.com/group/AnxietyDepressionandBreastCancer/Angel Feather Loomerwww.angelfeatherloomer.blogspot.comCheck out my ornaments at:www.geocities.com/chucky5741/bcornament.htmlThe Cancer Clubwww.cancerclub.com what would you do? Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! No virus found in this incoming message.Checked by AVG Free Edition.Version: 7.5.446 / Virus Database: 268.18.24/742 - Release Date: 4/1/2007 8:49 PM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Kate, first of all, there are NO stupid questions. I wish I had answers for you..as for not getting all the pee out, have you tried sitting forward on your pelvis? Might help force it out. I'm so sorry your hubby is an insensitive boob. Maybe being pulled over would be a good thing, as long as he doesn't have an accident and kill or harm soneone...that would be terrible...have you changed the deed over to just your name? So you don't lose your home? You know as long as I have a roof, you have one, too. Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- what would you do? Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USAemail;internet:katelloydkidz@...email;home;internet:katelloydkidz@...title:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcard n:Rothschild;kate fn:Kate Rothschild tel;cell: tel;home:914 762-8734 tel;work:914 332-1943 url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/ org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chi url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/ adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USA email;internet:katelloydkidz@... email;home;internet:katelloydkidz@... title:Associate and moving UP! version:2.1 end:vcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 More hugs for you Kate! x0x0x0 ShirleyAkiba wrote: Kate...it is not a harsh thing for you to wish, it might be just the wake-up call he needs--- I'm sorry you missed Seder. I'll think of you, maybe even set a place for you, at ours. Love to you sis...you take care! Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight! cath ki ts--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!> > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirleycassandra workmn wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done.And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.x0x0x0Shirleykatelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USAemail;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) netemail;home;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) nettitle:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 I went thru a couple expensive testing at the urologist. It tests for that. I was okay but she said if I have problems to take this flomax. Usually for guys for prostrate but works toget out everything. Also to drink more water and keep taking my cranberry pills. I know what you are talking about and it is most likely from certain nerves not working right. I had to sit in a chair hooked up to electrodes and a catherder and they fill it up and see how much comes out. The test before they wanted to know how much I cuold go after I did no have to. It was not painful just yucky. NOt sure if your urologist has the chair to do the testing, but maybe that would find the problem. Good luck and hope you feel better! Know you have a great family here on mslifers! marianne2 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirley cassandra workmn wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcard n:Rothschild;kate fn:Kate Rothschild tel;cell: tel;home:914 762-8734 tel;work:914 332-1943 url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/ org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chi url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/ adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USA email;internet:katelloydkidz@... email;home;internet:katelloydkidz@... title:Associate and moving UP! version:2.1 end:vcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 2, 2007 Report Share Posted April 2, 2007 I know what you mean.I use to wish the same about my fiance.I always thought who the hell does he think he is,drinking and driving.What about the harm he could do,to himself,others,and to his family.We have been pretty good since he quit almost 4 yrs.ago.We are on a rocky path right now.Its to much.He is working outa town all week,cuz its slow here.And now they want him to take a supervisor position in Reno.I hate Reno,I would have to start over with docs,switch my daughters school(shes been in all her life)and leave my family(they help take care of me) its all to much,its drifting us apart.He thinks I need to make sacrifices,he never makes sacrifices when it comes to work I feel bad if I dont go cuz it means a supervisor position for him,but he expects me to just up and go in the next couple of mons.Im just lost.He knows all the reasons I dont want to go but yet dosnt understand them. HE is just on a 1 track mind right now,and its really pissing me off.Hugz,cassy [katelloydkidz@...] wrote: Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do? To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy > > [katelloydkidz@...] wrote: > Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare- > up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what? > Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis. > so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com > awesome.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 I poo too...and I foof...a lot. For some reason I seem to be very gassy of late. I'll wake up in the middle of the night, too hot, toss off the covers and lie there, baking, and foof. Hey, if Kate can share things like she did, have the bravery to, it gives me the guts to talk about my little problem...nothing like hers but embarrassing nonetheless, especially when it actually wakes Rob up! I'll finally cool down enough to go back to sleep, don't know if I still foof, since I'm sleeping. But last night was ridiculous! We had fish for dinner, you'd a thought we'd had beans! Anyone else have this problem? Or is it just me? Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lololSorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirleycassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done.And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.x0x0x0Shirleykatelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USAemail;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) netemail;home;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) nettitle:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Where are you now? I've never been to Reno, why do you hate it? I don't think it if fair of him to be so one-sided about it, yes, a promotion is always good, but don't they have any local places they can promote him to? Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? I know what you mean.I use to wish the same about my fiance.I always thought who the hell does he think he is,drinking and driving.What about the harm he could do,to himself,others,and to his family.We have been pretty good since he quit almost 4 yrs.ago.We are on a rocky path right now.Its to much.He is working outa town all week,cuz its slow here.And now they want him to take a supervisor position in Reno.I hate Reno,I would have to start over with docs,switch my daughters school(shes been in all her life)and leave my family(they help take care of me) its all to much,its drifting us apart.He thinks I need to make sacrifices,he never makes sacrifices when it comes to work I feel bad if I dont go cuz it means a supervisor position for him,but he expects me to just up and go in the next couple of mons.Im just lost.He knows all the reasons I dont want to go but yet dosnt understand them. HE is just on a 1 track mind right now,and its really pissing me off.Hugz,cassy[katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Kate, I in and out cathed for a year, now I'm wearing a foley cath all the time. I'm willing to do it because if urine backs up because your unable to urinate then it would cause renal failure and not emptying completely causes UTI's. If you have questions, you can always email me privately. I'm also a nurse in Texascassandra workmn wrote: Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. hugz,cassy[katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.comawesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!' in Texas Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running for cover! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Yep...that's how I started. By leaning forward and taking a deep breath it makes the organs push against the blabber. Mine has gotten to no matter how hard I push nothing comes out. My brain doesn't get the message to open the sphincter. 'cassandra workmn wrote: lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lololSorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirleycassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done.And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.x0x0x0Shirleykatelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USAemail;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) netemail;home;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) nettitle:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard' in Texas Courage is not being fearless, courage is facing your fears and not running for cover! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Im sorry .Sometimes it takes me 15 minutes to get it out I jus sit on the toliet and wait cuz most the time I feel like I gotta pee bad,of course once I try nuthn will come out,or after 10 minutes some does then I think im ok,go back to lay down,and gota get up again.One night this happened 7 times in 1 hr.! IT was when I was goin to sleep,and everytime my bladder felt so full,i couldnt go to sleep like that,so had to keep goin back.Usually its only 2-3 times but bad nights is more. [dixmstx@...] wrote: Yep...that's how I started. By leaning forward and taking a deep breath it makes the organs push against the blabber. Mine has gotten to no matter how hard I push nothing comes out. My brain doesn't get the message to open the sphincter. ' cassandra workmn wrote: lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirley cassandra workmn wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcard n:Rothschild;kate fn:Kate Rothschild tel;cell: tel;home:914 762-8734 tel;work:914.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 It happens to me too all the time. I do the same thing; lean forward , take a deep breath, try to relax after a couple of times it works, but takes a while. My doctor told me not to push or force it , cause that can cause UTI's (like I have not had enough of those!). sometimes, when it finally comes out, I get that slow stream that lasts about 1/2 hr. to empty, thank god I live alone LOL. and yes I also have those awful Bowel problems, try getting to the bathroom fast enough for that one! Peace, Candacecassandra workmn wrote: Im sorry .Sometimes it takes me 15 minutes to get it out I jus sit on the toliet and wait cuz most the time I feel like I gotta pee bad,of course once I try nuthn will come out,or after 10 minutes some does then I think im ok,go back to lay down,and gota get up again.One night this happened 7 times in 1 hr.! IT was when I was goin to sleep,and everytime my bladder felt so full,i couldnt go to sleep like that,so had to keep goin back.Usually its only 2-3 times but bad nights is more.[dixmstx] wrote:Yep...that's how I started. By leaning forward and taking a deep breath it makes the organs push against the blabber. Mine has gotten to no matter how hard I push nothing comes out. My brain doesn't get the message to open the sphincter.'cassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lololSorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirleycassandra workmn <payngabby72> wrote:Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done.And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.x0x0x0Shirleykatelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914.... Candace H. Calver-Lori We won't tell. Get more on shows you hate to love(and love to hate): Yahoo! TV's Guilty Pleasures list. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 LoL.ya those bathroom troubles can be a bummer.It is me,my fiance,my 2 daughters,and my brother is stayn with us,so im the bathroom hog.lol.They know in the mornins I live on the toilet.and they know even if im goin pee its gonna take awile.lol.I do push though I know I shouldnt but sometimes thats the only way to get it goin.I swear I will have a full bladder to the point were it hurts and ill go to the pot sit there and wait man it hurts so bad sometimes,finally itl start to come out but I always gota sit there for awile to get it all out.I hate it! Lol. [ccalverlori@...] wrote: It happens to me too all the time. I do the same thing; lean forward , take a deep breath, try to relax after a couple of times it works, but takes a while. My doctor told me not to push or force it , cause that can cause UTI's (like I have not had enough of those!). sometimes, when it finally comes out, I get that slow stream that lasts about 1/2 hr. to empty, thank god I live alone LOL. and yes I also have those awful Bowel problems, try getting to the bathroom fast enough for that one! Peace, Candace cassandra workmn wrote: Im sorry .Sometimes it takes me 15 minutes to get it out I jus sit on the toliet and wait cuz most the time I feel like I gotta pee bad,of course once I try nuthn will come out,or after 10 minutes some does then I think im ok,go back to lay down,and gota get up again.One night this happened 7 times in 1 hr.! IT was when I was goin to sleep,and everytime my bladder felt so full,i couldnt go to sleep like that,so had to keep goin back.Usually its only 2-3 times but bad nights is more. [dixmstx@...] wrote: Yep...that's how I started. By leaning forward and taking a deep breath it makes the organs push against the blabber. Mine has gotten to no matter how hard I push nothing comes out. My brain doesn't get the message to open the sphincter. ' cassandra workmn wrote: lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirley cassandra workmn wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirls@...] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up?.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 hey Kate, I had the test done by a woman. they had me lay down and put the caterer in and also a tube in the rectum. they filled me up and tested how much I retained. The reason for the rectum was to see if the muscles are coordinated. No pain just a little embarrassing, or maybe a lot embarrassing. frankSee what's free at AOL.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Hey nne2~or mariannetoo! I think that is the test I'll be having April 28--it is called Urodynamics testing. gee, it's gonna be done by a guy! yikes! My urologist is a woman, but doesn't do the testing. They only do it on Sat.s, and they didn't have anyone on staff doing it, but they now have a 'man' who comes in on Saturdays and does it. How long a test was it? Do you remember? Surely, not looking forward to it! kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > I went thru a couple expensive testing at the urologist. It > tests for that. I was okay but she said if I have problems to > take this flomax. Usually for guys for prostrate but works > toget out everything. Also to drink more water and keep taking > my cranberry pills.> I know what you are talking about and it is most likely from > certain nerves not working right.> I had to sit in a chair hooked up to electrodes and a > catherder and they fill it up and see how much comes out. The > test before they wanted to know how much I cuold go after I did > no have to. It was not painful just yucky.> > NOt sure if your urologist has the chair to do the testing, > but maybe that would find the problem. Good luck and hope you > feel better!> Know you have a great family here on mslifers!> > marianne2 > > > ---------------------------------> 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time> with theYahoo! Search movie showtime shortcut.> Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! Attachment: vcard [not shown] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 LOL Akiba, I have not woke up like that but I have no control of the foof and have gas often.. HAPPINESS and BUTTERFLIES Lynn Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > I poo too...and I foof...a lot. For some reason I seem to be > very gassy of> late. I'll wake up in the middle of the night, too hot, toss off > the covers> and lie there, baking, and foof. Hey, if Kate can share things > like she did,> have the bravery to, it gives me the guts to talk about my > little problem..> nothing like hers but embarrassing nonetheless, especially when > it actually> wakes Rob up! I'll finally cool down enough to go back to sleep, > don't know> if I still foof, since I'm sleeping. But last night was > ridiculous! We had> fish for dinner, you'd a thought we'd had beans! Anyone else > have this> problem? Or is it just me?> > Peace and Blessings> > ~*~ Akiba ~*~> > Pragmatic Visionary> > & Eternal Optimist!> > http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/> > http://www.solay-twinflames.com> May you always find HAPPINESS and BUTTERFLIES Lynn Butterflies are angels bringing messages from God Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Ok, so it's not just me...*phew* (or should I say....ppeeeeeuuuuwwwww....) Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? LOL Akiba, I have not woke up like that but I have no control of the foof and have gas often.. HAPPINESS and BUTTERFLIES Lynn Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > I poo too...and I foof...a lot. For some reason I seem to be > very gassy of> late. I'll wake up in the middle of the night, too hot, toss off > the covers> and lie there, baking, and foof. Hey, if Kate can share things > like she did,> have the bravery to, it gives me the guts to talk about my > little problem..> nothing like hers but embarrassing nonetheless, especially when > it actually> wakes Rob up! I'll finally cool down enough to go back to sleep, > don't know> if I still foof, since I'm sleeping. But last night was > ridiculous! We had> fish for dinner, you'd a thought we'd had beans! Anyone else > have this> problem? Or is it just me?> > Peace and Blessings> > ~*~ Akiba ~*~> > Pragmatic Visionary> > & Eternal Optimist!> > http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/> > http://www.solay-twinflames.com> May you always find HAPPINESS and BUTTERFLIES Lynn Butterflies are angels bringing messages from God Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 Yes, my neuro showed me something similar years ago. Sit to go pee and go as much as you can, then raise up slightly and lean forward bending yourself forward (does that make sense?). It helps. Sometimes people tell me they have to push in on their low abdomen above the pelvic bone to get the urine going. Sharon Re: what would you do? Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@ optonline. net wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicyclem an.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcard n:Rothschild; kate fn:Kate Rothschild tel;cell:914. 618.0061 tel;home:914 762-8734 tel;work:914 332-1943 url:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/ org:http://www.allinone business. net;Recharge Your Chi url:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/ adr:;;;Ossining; NY;10562; USA email;internet:katelloydkidz@ optonline. net email;home;internet :katelloydkidz@ optonline. net title:Associate and moving UP! version:2.1 end:vcard No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with Yahoo! Mail for Mobile. Get started. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 3, 2007 Report Share Posted April 3, 2007 And sometimes us MSers have a hard time going poop or pee and we can talk about it freely on this list! No matter what thought! lolSharon Re: what would you do? lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you to! hugz,cassy [aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote: It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirley cassandra workmn <payngabby72@ yahoo.com> wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy [aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote: {{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@ optonline. net wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate Please visit: http://www.bicyclem an.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour! begin:vcard n:Rothschild; kate fn:Kate Rothschild tel;cell:914. 618.0061 tel;home:914 762-8734 tel;work:914 332-1943 url:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/ org:http://www.allinone business. net;Recharge Your Chi url:http://www.phil413. isagenix. com/ adr:;;;Ossining; NY;10562; USA email;internet:katelloydkidz@ optonline. net email;home;internet :katelloydkidz@ optonline. net title:Associate and moving UP! version:2.1 end:vcard Now that's room service! Choose from over 150,000 hotels in 45,000 destinations on Yahoo! Travel to find your fit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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