Re: what would you do?

April 2, 2007

Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or try,if you think it

would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them that your not old and you have ms.I

dont know what to say about your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go

out.Sometimes people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I

say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to you about

drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is like to live with an

alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is any way to make it better unless he

stops drinking and gets help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I

hope he realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate.

hugz,cassy

[katelloydkidz@...] wrote:

Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that

began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The

female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is

only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a

few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the

urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming

down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It

seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a

flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to

avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is

it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?

Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street

at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked

my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans

towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the

street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.

so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home

drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also.

I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate

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April 2, 2007

Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidz@...] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!> > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com

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April 2, 2007

Kate...it is not a harsh thing for you to wish, it might be just the wake-up call he needs---

I'm sorry you missed Seder. I'll think of you, maybe even set a place for you, at ours.

Love to you sis...you take care!

Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com

-- Re: what would you do?

Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!> > > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

April 2, 2007

Kate,

Wish I had some answers for you not only for your health problems but you husband too. I will keep you in my prayers.

Hugs

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what would you do?

Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?

Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.

so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also.

I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

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April 2, 2007

Kate, first of all, there are NO stupid questions. I wish I had answers for you..as for not getting all the pee out, have you tried sitting forward on your pelvis? Might help force it out.

I'm so sorry your hubby is an insensitive boob. Maybe being pulled over would be a good thing, as long as he doesn't have an accident and kill or harm soneone...that would be terrible...have you changed the deed over to just your name? So you don't lose your home?

You know as long as I have a roof, you have one, too.

Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com

-- what would you do?

Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?

Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.

so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also.

I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

April 2, 2007

{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done. And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here. x0x0x0 Shirley katelloydkidz@... wrote: Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an

exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what? Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis. so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of

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April 2, 2007

Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased

to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy

[aishirls@...] wrote:

{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband.

When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then

sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm

done.

And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS

will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown

flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.

x0x0x0

Shirley

katelloydkidz@... wrote:

Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the

hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the

Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on'

today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my

urine out. I do have a few straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but

am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I

feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually

constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can

WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I

going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in

the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?

Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the

street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English

knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the

time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I

shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have

Multiple Sclerosis.

so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he came

home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also.

I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate

Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com

awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for

an MS Bike Tour!

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April 2, 2007

More hugs for you Kate! x0x0x0 ShirleyAkiba wrote: Kate...it is not a harsh thing for you to wish, it might be just the wake-up call he needs--- I'm sorry you missed Seder. I'll think of you, maybe even set a place for you, at ours. Love to you sis...you take care! Peace and Blessings~*~ Akiba ~*~Pragmatic Visionary & Eternal Optimist! http://yodamamma.blogspot.com/ http://www.solay-twinflames.com -- Re: what would you do? Thanks Cassy. I just feel so down and depressed. I know he is angry that I didn't come with him to Passover. Our friends each year invite us and the kids; we've been going for about 20 yrs or so. I really don't feel well, and feel like pneumonia is hitting again. Or just plain fatigue and depression . I know now he is going to drink like a fish tonight. Sometimes, God forgive me, I wish he'd get pulled over or caught at the wheel, and get arrested. Maybe it would be a wake-up

call for him. I don't know. Thanks kate Re: what would you do?To: MSersLife > Kate,so sorry your not feeln well.Maybe you should cath or > try,if you think it would help.Well,im glad you shouted to them > that your not old and you have ms.I dont know what to say about > your hubby.I always use my cane or walker to go out.Sometimes > people ask what is wrong with me,I dont even know so what can I > say? did you ask your hubby why he said that? Does he admit to > you about drinking?Or do you call him on it? I know what it is > like to live with an alcoholic,its hard.I dont think there is > any way to make it better unless he stops drinking and gets > help.He has a good thing with having you and the kids,I hope he > realizes

that before its to late.I will be praying for you Kate. > hugz,cassy> > [katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net] wrote:> Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the > hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to > stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on > and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary > fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a > few straight! cath ki ts--so I might try my hand at it, but am > nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at > the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of > pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't > really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-> up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to > be able to avoid my body going into an

exacerbation? Or once it > is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid > questions or what?> Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was > across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, > with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing > that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, > and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the > street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have > Multiple Sclerosis.> so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking > problem; he came home drunk again last night; but in denial > about my MS also. > I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, kate> > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com> awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many > recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!>

> > > Please visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!

April 2, 2007

It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee. Guess what? I poop too....lolol Sorry I'm giddy due to court results. Shirleycassandra workmn wrote: Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big

hugzz,cassy[aishirlssbcglobal (DOT) net] wrote:{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband. When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm done.And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.x0x0x0Shirleykatelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) net wrote:Hi, I'm not feeling so hot lately. Few things. I still have the hives/rash that began the other day. The covering neuro said to stop the Cymbalta. So I did. The female priapism continues on and off. It is mostly 'on' today; the oragel is only a temporary fix. Now I'm beginning to not get all my urine out. I do have a few

straight cath kits--so I might try my hand at it, but am nervous. When the urologist showed me, I only peeked a bit at the demo. I feel as if I'm coming down with another round of pneumonia. What actually constitutes a flare? It seems I don't really have a firm grasp on that? And can WE circumvent a flare-up? Like, if I get the pee out of me with a cath, am I going to be able to avoid my body going into an exacerbation? Or once it is in the throes of it, is it too late? Are these, like stupid questions or what?Walking up the street today from a neighbors; my husband was across the street at another neighbors. The man, who is Spanish, with some English knowledge asked my husband if I was ok, seeing that I use my cane now all the time. He leans towards the man, and says, oh...she is just getting old....I shouted across the street and said in Spanish-I am not an old woman, I have Multiple Sclerosis.so now, my husband is not just in denial of his drinking problem; he

came home drunk again last night; but in denial about my MS also. I'm going to go rest. blessings to all, katePlease visit: http://www.bicycleman.com awesome guy, fantastic site. All types of bicyles, many recumbents; perfect for an MS Bike Tour!begin:vcardn:Rothschild;katefn:Kate Rothschildtel;cell:tel;home:914 762-8734tel;work:914 332-1943url:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/org:http://www.allinonebusiness.net;Recharge Your Chiurl:http://www.phil413.isagenix.com/adr:;;;Ossining;NY;10562;USAemail;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) netemail;home;internet:katelloydkidzoptonline (DOT) nettitle:Associate and moving UP!version:2.1end:vcard

April 2, 2007

I went thru a couple expensive testing at the urologist. It tests for that. I was okay but she said if I have problems to take this flomax. Usually for guys for prostrate but works toget out everything. Also to drink more water and keep taking my cranberry pills. I know what you are talking about and it is most likely from certain nerves not working right. I had to sit in a chair hooked up to electrodes and a catherder and they fill it up and see how much comes out. The test before they wanted to know how much I cuold go after I did no have to. It was not painful just yucky. NOt sure if your urologist has the chair to do the testing, but maybe that would find the problem. Good luck and hope you feel better! Know you have a great family here on mslifers! marianne2

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April 2, 2007

lol.I poo too.lol.And you have every right to be happy,im very happy for you

to! hugz,cassy

[aishirls@...] wrote:

It helps me tremendously too. Don't be embarred. It's a fact of life we pee.

Guess what? I poop too....lolol

Sorry I'm giddy due to court results.

Shirley

cassandra workmn wrote:

Im glad you shared this Shirley,I do this it helps alot! I was kinda

embarased to say anything,wasnt sure how to explain it.big hugzz,cassy

[aishirls@...] wrote:

{{{Kate}}} for your MS and husband.

When you pee do you lean forward to try to get more urine out? I do that then

sit up straight and then lean over again. I do that, slowly, until I think I'm

done.

And there are no stupid questions! Each person is different on how their MS will

effect them. So I wouldn't dare try to guess if you'll have a full blown flare

or not. I wish I could so I could help everyone here.