Guest guest Posted May 16, 2009 Report Share Posted May 16, 2009 You're not alone! I have cried many times out of total frustration! I don't even have a DX yet. Not knowing what is causing my pain drives me bananas. Hopefully my neurologist will soon find the answer. I have to go get a radiograph of my neck. Hopefully that will show the cause. And treatment to get out of pain. Hugs, From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024@ yahoo. com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Thursday, May 14, 2009, 9:58 AM hi everbody i hope everbody is haveing a low pain day donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 2009 Report Share Posted May 16, 2009 hi lotacats is your cats all the pets you have rite now i love my pets i have so menny me and my wife have 4 horses 15 cats 3 dogs 2 checken houses one with big checkens i with bantem checkens thay are little checkens all of are dogs and cats are fixed and have there shots and we are on first name bases with the vet we are one of hes best customers wheh one of are pets get sick thay go to the vet just likew we would take take a kid to the doc are pets are are kids lotacats i hope you have a low pain weekend and enjoy your cats donnieKY From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024@ yahoo. com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Thursday, May 14, 2009, 9:58 AM hi everbody i hope everbody is haveing a low pain day donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 2009 Report Share Posted May 16, 2009 hi lotacats i hope you have a low pain day so you can get a good nites sleep donnieKY From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024@ yahoo. com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Thursday, May 14, 2009, 9:58 AM hi everbody i hope everbody is haveing a low pain day donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2009 Report Share Posted May 17, 2009 lotacats, sorry to hear that. i hope today was a low pain day. <3 Hannah Beth ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Saturday, May 16, 2009 12:43:39 PM Subject: Re: (unknown) I cried out last night just trying to turn over in bed....it felt like every bone in my hip/pelvic area was broken....and man but it hurt. I hardly ever cry outloud or yell if I can help it but it's been getting pretty bad with the lower back area. I guess it can't help but go downhill for the rest of my life now. Lotacats Express Chronic Pain Awareness http://www.cafepress.com/lotacatspix/5815010 Lotacatsfunpix. com http://www.lotacatsfunpix.com/ Deviantart http://lotacats05. deviantart. com/ From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024@ yahoo. com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Thursday, May 14, 2009, 9:58 AM hi everbody i hope everbody is haveing a low pain day donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2009 Report Share Posted May 17, 2009 hi lotacats it took allmost 3 years to find out what was rong with me and the one good thing i allmost never went with out a pain pill my right leg from the knee down would tern colers and swellup real big the docs knew i had a problem thay just didnot know what was rong so thay had no problem giveing me pain pills i donot know what i would have did with out them i never thout i would have to depend on a pill i hert so bad i donot thank i could handle the pain ir i dont take a pain pill i cant walk i am so wably i fall down i seen somenny docs it was allmost unreel i would tell the docs rite out i donot want nothing for pain i just want to find out why i hert i would take my shoe and sock off and pull my pants leg up and say why dose my leg swellup so big and tern colers after thay would watch my leg thay would say you have a problem we just donot know what is rong and most of the docs would get there script pad and say what helps the most i would tell them that was 7 or 8 years ago and loraset 10 or vicadons would help i cant say that now i got to big a tolerance belt up after i got diecnosed with rsd i could not find a doc to treat me most docs donot know what rsd is i finely found a pain managment that knew how to treat rsd what works on onr rsd person will not work on the next rsd is alot like what lotacats was so i know what she is going throuw donnieKY From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024@ yahoo. com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Thursday, May 14, 2009, 9:58 AM hi everbody i hope everbody is haveing a low pain day donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2009 Report Share Posted June 5, 2009 hi monica how is the sun all the time donnieKY From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024yahoo (DOT) com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Wednesday, June 3, 2009, 1:44 PM hi everbody i am not getting know emails i have only got 4 all day if enybody gets this give me a email please donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 6, 2009 Report Share Posted June 6, 2009 Hi Donnie, I really prefer cloudy days. I feel better on rainy, humid, cloudy days. When the sun is out in full force I stay inside. I try to get a little for Vitamin D. From: donnie Gibbs <donnie3024yahoo (DOT) com> Subject: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Wednesday, June 3, 2009, 1:44 PM hi everbody i am not getting know emails i have only got 4 all day if enybody gets this give me a email please donnieKY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2009 Report Share Posted June 7, 2009 what time dose it get dark there is there eny forest there donnieKY From: aloha.monica <aloha.monica@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Sunday, June 7, 2009, 12:02 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2009 Report Share Posted June 7, 2009 It gets dark around 7 PM. Earlier than the mainland. Yes lots of forrest. In fact I live in a rain forrest. It does rain here a lot so if rainy days make you ache more Hawaii probably wouldn't be a good place for you to live. Lots of humidity too. But like i said I don't miss winter time. When it snows during the winter on the mainland Hawaii gets rain. If anyone is interested I can send some pics to your email just let me know. Hugs to all, From: aloha.monica <aloha.monica@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Sunday, June 7, 2009, 12:02 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2009 Report Share Posted June 7, 2009 hi monica i would love to see some pics of you home it would be great donnieKY From: aloha.monica <aloha.monica@ yahoo.com> Subject: Re: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com Date: Sunday, June 7, 2009, 12:02 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2009 Report Share Posted June 7, 2009 My friend Isla who I grew up & went to high school with on a beautiful island off the coast of Penobscot Bay in Maine, now lives in Hawaii -- and says it is breath-taking country. Would love to see photos of your domain & home. Aloha! E > > From: aloha.monica <aloha.monica@ yahoo.com> > Subject: Re: (unknown) > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com > Date: Sunday, June 7, 2009, 12:02 AM > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 Hello Donnie, Our power just came back on at 1:30 this morning, it went off around 6:30 last nite with the storms. My back has been acting up how have you been? Rod (unknown) > hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day > alanna,rod,monica,tommy,lotacats,date,jena,arin,nie,i hope you all have a > less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 Same here Donnie. It was good that I found this group of great people. The sad thing is what brought us together. But that's ok. I don't believe in concidencidences. Things are the way they are b/c that' the way they were planned And thanks, I had a really good night. i pray the rest of you do also. Nae ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Wednesday, June 10, 2009 10:56:59 PM Subject: (unknown) hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 Naean I thank God for this group everyday - even when I'm too down to post and can only read. It's so nice not to feel alone. Bless all of you. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry (unknown) hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 WOW!! I'm in Granbury - which is always confused w/Grand Prarie. The news on TV about Dallas isn't good. Did y'all get any damage. We only got some rain. Nae ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Thursday, June 11, 2009 6:06:45 PM Subject: Re: (unknown) We live in the Grand Prairie between Dallas and Fort Worth. Rod (unknown) > >> hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day >> alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all >> have a >> less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 11, 2009 Report Share Posted June 11, 2009 Yes there was damage here and there, I don't know how bad it was though. When we were out today we saw lots of downed trees and power lines. (unknown) >> >>> hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day >>> alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all >>> have a >>> less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie >>> >>> >>> >>> >>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 hi Alanna and Nae and all, I too am really grateful for this wonderful group of caring people. I can't always sit long enough to reply tho I want to but at least I can read through some of the posts as my back pain permits and know that I am definitely not alone! :-) gentle big hugs all around, and I hope you have somewhat of a comfortable day. take care everyone, Coleen ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Thursday, June 11, 2009 1:07:13 PM Subject: Re: (unknown) Naean I thank God for this group everyday - even when I'm too down to post and can only read. It's so nice not to feel alone. Bless all of you. Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry (unknown) hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 12, 2009 Report Share Posted June 12, 2009 Rod, Small world. I used to work right there on Ave. E East and worked at Nationwide Papers. Just outside of Grand Prairie. I loved it there. Moved back to Okla in Oct of 89 ~Tommie~ www.myspace.com/tommiejj PH, CFS, FMS, Diabetes, Sleep Apnea, Restless Leg Syndrome Don't waste energy second-guessing what you're missing or what can go awry. If you put enough energy into doubt, something will undoubtedly go wrong. Instead, focus on the positive possibilities with a hopeful attitude. (unknown) > >> hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day >> alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all >> have a >> less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie >> >> >> >> >> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2009 Report Share Posted June 14, 2009 Mornin' Alanna, I am hanging in there, Thanks for thinking of me, gentle hugs and take care, Coleen ________________________________ To: Hugs-N-Pain Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 4:34:20 PM Subject: Re: (unknown) Colleen, I hope you are doing well. Thank you, Alanna Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry (unknown) hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite you all are my pain freands donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 14, 2009 Report Share Posted June 14, 2009 Coleen, not being alone is the key words to me. My family thinks I live in constant depression therefore they won't communicate with me. My oldest daughter and I used to have conversations that lasted for hours. Now she won't even answer an email!! I have a 30 year old daughter that lives with me that at times I'd rather she didn't. She usually complains about having to help me do certain things. Like I got a heavy comforter stuck in the washing machine & couldn't pull it out b/c of my should being in a huge flare. There's always " comments " when any help is needed. And they talk about me being in a depression!?!? Soft hugs to all, Nae > > > hi Alanna and Nae and all, > > I too am really grateful for this wonderful group of caring people. > I can't always sit long enough to reply tho I want to but at least I > can read through some of the posts as my back pain permits and know > that I am definitely not alone! :-) > > gentle big hugs all around, and I hope you have somewhat of a > comfortable day. > > take care everyone, Coleen > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@.... com <awilgus%40wi.rr.com>> > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com <Hugs-N-Pain%40yahoogroups.com> > Sent: Thursday, June 11, 2009 1:07:13 PM > Subject: Re: (unknown) > > Naean > I thank God for this group everyday - even when I'm too down to post and > can only read. It's so nice not to feel alone. > Bless all of you. > Alanna > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry > > (unknown) > > hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, > tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite > you all are my pain freands donnie > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 15, 2009 Report Share Posted June 15, 2009 Family members get weird mostly because they feel " powerless " . They can't fix it or make it better and so get very frustrated. Depression is very difficult for families because they can't really help...they try and are very clumsy and use such terms as " snap out of it " ....like it's possible we can. Or the pain they cannot " fix " ...that will never get better. Again they feel powerless and in their frustration lash out in weird ways like it's our fault or our decision to make. Their experience with pain always has light at the end of tunnel....we don't have that and so can't relate. Family counceling is really important here. Pain and depression are very linked. We...the painers are powerless to make them happy....they are powerless to make us happy....and so it goes. It's that word... " Powerless " . Us painers need to make realistic goals of ourselves to help move forward which helps situational depression a lot and families need to feel empowered when they help take part in it and not make unrealistic expectations of the painer and we need to make realistic expectations of the powerless family member. A good councelor can help with the reality and help empower both. Lotacats Twitter_follow me http://twitter.com/LotacatsFunPix Express Chronic Pain Awareness http://www.cafepress.com/lotacatspix/5815010 Lotacatsfunpix.com http://www.lotacatsfunpix.com/ Deviantart http://lotacats05.deviantart.com/ > > > > > > > hi Alanna and Nae and all, > > > > I too am really grateful for this wonderful group of caring people. > > I can't always sit long enough to reply tho I want to but at least I > > can read through some of the posts as my back pain permits and know > > that I am definitely not alone! :-) > > > > gentle big hugs all around, and I hope you have somewhat of a > > comfortable day. > > > > take care everyone, Coleen > > > > ____________ _________ _________ __ > > From: Alanna Wilgus <awilgus@... <awilgus%40wi. rr>. com <awilgus%40wi. > rr.com>> > > To: Hugs-N-Pain@ yahoogroups. com <Hugs-N-Pain% 40yahoogroups. com> > > Sent: Thursday, June 11, 2009 1:07:13 PM > > Subject: Re: (unknown) > > > > Naean > > I thank God for this group everyday - even when I'm too down to post and > > can only read. It's so nice not to feel alone. > > Bless all of you. > > Alanna > > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry > > > > (unknown) > > > > hi my pain freands i hope you all had a less pain day alanna,rod,monica, > > tommy,lotacats, date,jena, arin,nie, i hope you all have a less pain nite > > you all are my pain freands donnie > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2009 Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 Donnie, You are very right about that, but sometimes when people do not understand something they become ignorant and mean and very selfish. We are the one with the pain not are families, we have to be strong for ourselves because they are not going to come around. Anytime sooner because they don't want to understand Maybe you need to let her read or messages, that might help her????? If you need to talk we are all here for you. Love and Hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel Re: (unknown) all most all of are famileys thank we are fakeing it and we are lazy donnie > > > hi everbody i hope you all are haveing lower pain donnie > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 17, 2009 Report Share Posted June 17, 2009 What is radio frequency ablation? Love and hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel Re: (unknown) all most all of are famileys thank we are fakeing it and we are lazy donnie > > > hi everbody i hope you all are haveing lower pain donnie > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 Donnie I am so sorry that you are having to live in hell,is the farm yours or hers? Why do not you tell the brother to move out and if she does not like it she can go with him? I know what you are going threw been there and going threw it again. I don't know what Tn laws are but Sc go to the lawyer and file for separation on the grounds of abuse. Do you have any children? Love and Big Hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel (unknown) hi everbody i have come to the conclusen that i am not going to spend the sest of my live by my self i am soing to find me a mate to spend he sest of my live with a mate that undrestands me and i will unduerstand the what doyou all thank about that that is one way of finding happyness what do you all thand about what donnie i am waiting for feedback lets here it donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 18, 2009 Report Share Posted June 18, 2009 hi denise i have neen marid 20 years my wife thanks i am fakeing she wants me here so she dosne lose none of the farm if i have eny sergerys she will not come to the hospital to see me i am all alone she trys to make me clean house when i cant see kusses me like a dog i have to sleep on a couch and it is killing mei would leve now if i had a place to go h w her brother stays with us he kussed me like a ddog over a pincal i didnot get it to hem fast enuf the only reson she wants me here bis the money i give her at least once a month she verbal abuses me tells me i am a drug addic tand i am useless and know body would want me i just donot know what to do thay bitch about my ty every nite i am damed if i do damed if i dont donnie \ Subject: Re: (unknown) To: Hugs-N-Pain Date: Thursday, June 18, 2009, 3:55 PM Donnie, How long have you been married? Did you have chronic pain when you married her? Or it happened later? what you have said in the past about your wife it sounds like she does not understand what you are going threw. Donnie how old are you? Reason I am asking are you willing to start all over? You are right having a mate. That understands and loves you makes life a lot better happiness is something we all deserves. You do what you think you must if you are that miserable where you are at then go for it . I support 100%.if that really matters. Hope I was some help I know what you are going threw. Love a big hugs Sent from my BlackBerry Smartphone provided by Alltel (unknown) hi everbody i have come to the conclusen that i am not going to spend the sest of my live by my self i am soing to find me a mate to spend he sest of my live with a mate that undrestands me and i will unduerstand the what doyou all thank about that that is one way of finding happyness what do you all thand about what donnie i am waiting for feedback lets here it donnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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