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ine,

Now those are GREAT words of wisdom!!!

Hugs,

> Sometimes I think you are too hard on yourself. part of loving

yourself is giving yourself time outs to do nothing. Even the Lord

gave everyone a day off. ine

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Sometimes you do need to vent, get things out. Keeping things all in all the

time is not very healthy-that is where a therapist or support group comes in.

Alot of things I find unless to talk about but I will listen to a tape or read a

book that will deal with the issues otherwise I believe it eats at you and will

make you sick. I just got some tapes from Joyce Meyers my therapist gave me.

She is funny and deals with issues. Also Roy Masters is good. Read the Bible.

Divorce and death and tough issues to deal with. Be patient with yourself and

allow people in. Sometimes a good hug, loving comfort from somewhere safe is

much more healing. I've been through both. I think we need a little of

everything. But you have to allow a natural grief. Sometimes I would tell

people I don't feel like talking but just feel to be somewhere with people and

just be. Sometimes I used to call people to listen to them just to get away

from my problems. Keep in mind, no one has to be alone with their stuff. There

are support groups, therapy. Expecially if you have a car. ine

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Sometimes you do need to vent, get things out. Keeping things all in all the

time is not very healthy-that is where a therapist or support group comes in.

Alot of things I find unless to talk about but I will listen to a tape or read a

book that will deal with the issues otherwise I believe it eats at you and will

make you sick. I just got some tapes from Joyce Meyers my therapist gave me.

She is funny and deals with issues. Also Roy Masters is good. Read the Bible.

Divorce and death and tough issues to deal with. Be patient with yourself and

allow people in. Sometimes a good hug, loving comfort from somewhere safe is

much more healing. I've been through both. I think we need a little of

everything. But you have to allow a natural grief. Sometimes I would tell

people I don't feel like talking but just feel to be somewhere with people and

just be. Sometimes I used to call people to listen to them just to get away

from my problems. Keep in mind, no one has to be alone with their stuff. There

are support groups, therapy. Expecially if you have a car. ine

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Oh my goodness, I love Joyce Meyers, isn't she the best?

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Sometimes you do need to vent, get things out. Keeping things all in all the

time is not very healthy-that is where a therapist or support group comes in

Alot of things I find unless to talk about but I will listen to a tape or

read a book that will deal with the issues otherwise I believe it eats at

you and will make you sick. I just got some tapes from Joyce Meyers my

therapist gave me. She is funny and deals with issues. Also Roy Masters is

good. Read the Bible. Divorce and death and tough issues to deal with.

Be patient with yourself and allow people in. Sometimes a good hug, loving

comfort from somewhere safe is much more healing. I've been through both.

I think we need a little of everything. But you have to allow a natural

grief. Sometimes I would tell people I don't feel like talking but just

feel to be somewhere with people and just be. Sometimes I used to call

people to listen to them just to get away from my problems. Keep in mind,

no one has to be alone with their stuff. There are support groups, therapy.

Expecially if you have a car. ine

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Oh my goodness, I love Joyce Meyers, isn't she the best?

-- Re: Re: My prayers and love

Sometimes you do need to vent, get things out. Keeping things all in all the

time is not very healthy-that is where a therapist or support group comes in

Alot of things I find unless to talk about but I will listen to a tape or

read a book that will deal with the issues otherwise I believe it eats at

you and will make you sick. I just got some tapes from Joyce Meyers my

therapist gave me. She is funny and deals with issues. Also Roy Masters is

good. Read the Bible. Divorce and death and tough issues to deal with.

Be patient with yourself and allow people in. Sometimes a good hug, loving

comfort from somewhere safe is much more healing. I've been through both.

I think we need a little of everything. But you have to allow a natural

grief. Sometimes I would tell people I don't feel like talking but just

feel to be somewhere with people and just be. Sometimes I used to call

people to listen to them just to get away from my problems. Keep in mind,

no one has to be alone with their stuff. There are support groups, therapy.

Expecially if you have a car. ine

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As far as food, There are many Churches that give out free food. Where do you

live? Just keep in mind if you don't give your body a break, your body will

demand one. People wonder why they get sick. They over do themselves. You

keep yourself up at this pace because you are afaid. You need to reach out for

help. You can tell them just what you have told us in this email and they will

offer help. Is there a cheaper place you can move to? there is also alot of

help for the elderly. Don't take it on yourself all yourself. there are always

choices but we often don't see that. ine

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As far as food, There are many Churches that give out free food. Where do you

live? Just keep in mind if you don't give your body a break, your body will

demand one. People wonder why they get sick. They over do themselves. You

keep yourself up at this pace because you are afaid. You need to reach out for

help. You can tell them just what you have told us in this email and they will

offer help. Is there a cheaper place you can move to? there is also alot of

help for the elderly. Don't take it on yourself all yourself. there are always

choices but we often don't see that. ine

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ine, I have to laugh, I just turned 50 Oct. 5th, I don't think I would

qualify for the elderly discounts quite yet LOL In Minnesota, they take

down you social security numbers of everyone who live in the house. When

you get food from the churches, food shelves and so on, it is all logged

into a system that tells them if you are obtaining food from other sources

and then they will stop your sources immediately. You can only get food

once a month and only from one resource. Moving to a cheaper place is my

plan however, any suggestions on how to pay for the move-in costs? No one

will help, believe me I have checked all my resources out in this state and

I know I have exhausted every avenue possible. You need around 500.00 for

the damage deposit and 500.00 something for the rent then deposits to turn

on your phone, and electric. Now if I had all that, I could pay my rent

where I am living right? LOL See, they get you no matter what. No, I know

I will be living on the streets by next weekend or so and the snow is

starting to fall here this week too. Oh well, wish me luck, something may

turn up here within the next week who knows, you know how that goes. But if

you don't hear from me, well that is where I am, on the streets. Its not

like I haven't been there before. Take care...Nola

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As far as food, There are many Churches that give out free food. Where do

you live? Just keep in mind if you don't give your body a break, your body

will demand one. People wonder why they get sick. They over do themselves.

You keep yourself up at this pace because you are afaid. You need to reach

out for help. You can tell them just what you have told us in this email

and they will offer help. Is there a cheaper place you can move to? there

is also alot of help for the elderly. Don't take it on yourself all

yourself. there are always choices but we often don't see that. ine

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Nola,

Have you tried to get any gov't assistance at all for living or food? I

hated having to do it when my ex left, but there came a point it I had

no choice. I don't know all the requirements, but we were able to get

food stamps and insurance. It seems like you should be able to get

emergency assistance which is what I did at least for a few things.

Cole

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Nola,

Have you tried to get any gov't assistance at all for living or food? I

hated having to do it when my ex left, but there came a point it I had

no choice. I don't know all the requirements, but we were able to get

food stamps and insurance. It seems like you should be able to get

emergency assistance which is what I did at least for a few things.

Cole

Black Bridge Creations - Quality, Hand Crafted Originals

Black Bridge Farm - Icelandic Sheep & Fiber

<http://us.adserver.yahoo.com/l?M=194081.4074964.5287182.1261774/D=egrou

pmail/S=:HM/A=1732163/rand=631167002>

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Nola,

Have you tried to get any gov't assistance at all for living or food? I

hated having to do it when my ex left, but there came a point it I had

no choice. I don't know all the requirements, but we were able to get

food stamps and insurance. It seems like you should be able to get

emergency assistance which is what I did at least for a few things.

Cole

Black Bridge Creations - Quality, Hand Crafted Originals

Black Bridge Farm - Icelandic Sheep & Fiber

<http://us.adserver.yahoo.com/l?M=194081.4074964.5287182.1261774/D=egrou

pmail/S=:HM/A=1732163/rand=631167002>

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Hurray ine!! How very true your statement is! ine, you are a

marvel, just growing by leaps and bounds! I'm glad to know you! Thanks for

sharing this! Hugs, PJ

shreiman@... wrote:Sometimes I think you are too hard on yourself. part

of loving yourself is giving yourself time outs to do nothing. Even the Lord

gave everyone a day off. ine

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Do you know where there is a " The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints "

or Mormon Church? Where in Minnosota are you? Email me privately what your

address is. I'll look up one and see if I can get someone to come to your house

to help you! Shreiman@... Have you let relatives know what's

going on? ine

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Do you know where there is a " The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints "

or Mormon Church? Where in Minnosota are you? Email me privately what your

address is. I'll look up one and see if I can get someone to come to your house

to help you! Shreiman@... Have you let relatives know what's

going on? ine

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Do you know where there is a " The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints "

or Mormon Church? Where in Minnosota are you? Email me privately what your

address is. I'll look up one and see if I can get someone to come to your house

to help you! Shreiman@... Have you let relatives know what's

going on? ine

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ine, girl you are truly amazing today! My hat goes off to you!

I can remember a time not too long ago when you were needing more help and

comfort. And now, here you are giving so much back to another. Makes me almost

cry. Thank You!

Joyce Meyers is a good one to listen to, haven't heard of the other

one though. Sounds like you have a very good therapist who is helping more!

Have a great day, ine!! Many Hugs, PJ

shreiman@... wrote:

Sometimes you do need to vent, get things out. Keeping things all in all the

time is not very healthy-that is where a therapist or support group comes in.

Alot of things I find unless to talk about but I will listen to a tape or read a

book that will deal with the issues otherwise I believe it eats at you and will

make you sick. I just got some tapes from Joyce Meyers my therapist gave me.

She is funny and deals with issues. Also Roy Masters is good. Read the Bible.

Divorce and death and tough issues to deal with. Be patient with yourself and

allow people in. Sometimes a good hug, loving comfort from somewhere safe is

much more healing. I've been through both. I think we need a little of

everything. But you have to allow a natural grief. Sometimes I would tell

people I don't feel like talking but just feel to be somewhere with people and

just be. Sometimes I used to call people to listen to them just to get away

from my problems. Keep in mind, no one has to be alone

with their stuff. There are support groups, therapy. Expecially if you have a

car. ine

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ine, I have a couple of her books, and someone loaned me a tape at

one point that I really enjoyed, but I don't have it now. Is she on tv, or do

you have tapes, or what?

PJ

shreiman@... wrote:

Do you have a tape, watch her or what? ine

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ine, I have a couple of her books, and someone loaned me a tape at

one point that I really enjoyed, but I don't have it now. Is she on tv, or do

you have tapes, or what?

PJ

shreiman@... wrote:

Do you have a tape, watch her or what? ine

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ine, I have a couple of her books, and someone loaned me a tape at

one point that I really enjoyed, but I don't have it now. Is she on tv, or do

you have tapes, or what?

PJ

shreiman@... wrote:

Do you have a tape, watch her or what? ine

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I appreciate all your praise but let's focus on helping you. I've been very

fortunate and had people help me when I wasn't far from where you are at. I'm

just giving back. Where in Minn. do you live? ine

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I appreciate all your praise but let's focus on helping you. I've been very

fortunate and had people help me when I wasn't far from where you are at. I'm

just giving back. Where in Minn. do you live? ine

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I appreciate all your praise but let's focus on helping you. I've been very

fortunate and had people help me when I wasn't far from where you are at. I'm

just giving back. Where in Minn. do you live? ine

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