ANNOUNCEMENT: For anyone with a BP spouse

[Guest guest]

> That's great, but what about protecting us KOs from the psycho nadas

> we chose to get rid of for good and there supposed 'grandparental

> rights'? I've heard it said that the couple who pushed the whole

> grandparents right crap were bps too.

> Kerrie

I'm confused (again). What does this have to do with the book

'Splitting'?

fyi - the book has lots of good crossover info for KOs regardless if

you're divorcing a BP or not. Pertinent info regards protecting

yourself from BP encounters of all kinds. fwiw

tuning into RADIOHEAD,

sunsh

[Guest guest]

> That's great, but what about protecting us KOs from the psycho nadas

> we chose to get rid of for good and there supposed 'grandparental

> rights'? I've heard it said that the couple who pushed the whole

> grandparents right crap were bps too.

> Kerrie

I'm confused (again). What does this have to do with the book

'Splitting'?

fyi - the book has lots of good crossover info for KOs regardless if

you're divorcing a BP or not. Pertinent info regards protecting

yourself from BP encounters of all kinds. fwiw

tuning into RADIOHEAD,

sunsh

[Guest guest]

Unfortunately, since we have no legal contract with our nadas/fadas,

it is so much harder to get our rights protected. I don't think we

will ever see the day that there is some kind of testing done before

marriage/children.....but what about requiring future parents, or at

the time the child is born...having the parents sign some kind of

legal document stating what they are required to provide for their

children....something that we KOs can later sue them on? Just a

kernel of an idea....and probably a fantasy idea at that...but

wouldn't it be great if all children had more legal recourse than

they do now.

Sylvia

> > Announcement from Randi Kreger: For anyone with a BP spouse:

> >

> > <<

> > Since I began researching BPD 10 years or so again, a huge

> > problem has been how SOME SOME SOME blaming, rather viscous (and

> > very ill) undiagnosed BPs have used the law in distortion

> > campaigns that cost the non money, hurt or confused the

> > children, and created chaos. FOR THE FIRST TIME, WE HAVE A

> > RESOURCE FOR YOU. It's $55,000 worth of advice from a clinician

> > who is ALSO an attorney who specializes in divorcing exactly

> > this kind of BP.

> >

> > · There is only one catch. To get the most out of it, you need

> > to get it NOW if you're married to a BP, even if you know you

> > NEVER NEVER NEVER will EVER face a divorce. The booklet (150

> > pages, 8.5 x 11 " ) is titled SPLITTING: PROTECTING YOURSELF WHEN

> > DIVORCING A PURSUASIVE BLAMER. I may change the title so that

> > even people who want to stay will get it so they could be

> > prepared. Because even if YOU never want a divorce, your spouse

> > could want one tomorrow, even if today he or she says he/she

> > will not die without you.

> > · If you just know you're going to STAY in a relationship, the

> > booklet " Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and

> > Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality

> > Disorder " suggests ways you can STAY and still maintain your

> sanity.

> > · Since so many people are in the middle of the two (stay,

> > leave, whatever), for a week I'm going to try offering BOTH of

> > them for WHATEVER you and/or your spouse decides at a discount.

> > Kind of a preparation for SPLITTING or STAYING with your spouse.

> > Both together are normally $42, but if you get both between now

> > and the end of March (March 31) I'm chopping off $7 and reducing

> > it to $35. I'm interested in getting feedback from people NOT

> > considering a divorce.

> > · You're going to have to trust me on this. You can only get

> > either of the booklets (or the packet) by calling 888-35-SHELL.

> > Or writing bookch@a... I am telling them now, so give them a

> > few days to explain it to their nighttime answering service and

> > other operators. If the person you call doesn't know about it,

> > call during the day eastern time and talk to or Diane.

> >

> >

> > Randi Kreger

> > List owner, WelcomeToOz Lists

> > Coauthor, Stop Walking on Eggshells,

> > Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook,

> > Love and Loathing, Hope for Parents

> > www.BPDCentral.com

> >

> > >>

[Guest guest]

Unfortunately, since we have no legal contract with our nadas/fadas,

it is so much harder to get our rights protected. I don't think we

will ever see the day that there is some kind of testing done before

marriage/children.....but what about requiring future parents, or at

the time the child is born...having the parents sign some kind of

legal document stating what they are required to provide for their

children....something that we KOs can later sue them on? Just a

kernel of an idea....and probably a fantasy idea at that...but

wouldn't it be great if all children had more legal recourse than

they do now.

Sylvia

> > Announcement from Randi Kreger: For anyone with a BP spouse:

> >

> > <<

> > Since I began researching BPD 10 years or so again, a huge

> > problem has been how SOME SOME SOME blaming, rather viscous (and

> > very ill) undiagnosed BPs have used the law in distortion

> > campaigns that cost the non money, hurt or confused the

> > children, and created chaos. FOR THE FIRST TIME, WE HAVE A

> > RESOURCE FOR YOU. It's $55,000 worth of advice from a clinician

> > who is ALSO an attorney who specializes in divorcing exactly

> > this kind of BP.

> >

> > · There is only one catch. To get the most out of it, you need

> > to get it NOW if you're married to a BP, even if you know you

> > NEVER NEVER NEVER will EVER face a divorce. The booklet (150

> > pages, 8.5 x 11 " ) is titled SPLITTING: PROTECTING YOURSELF WHEN

> > DIVORCING A PURSUASIVE BLAMER. I may change the title so that

> > even people who want to stay will get it so they could be

> > prepared. Because even if YOU never want a divorce, your spouse

> > could want one tomorrow, even if today he or she says he/she

> > will not die without you.

> > · If you just know you're going to STAY in a relationship, the

> > booklet " Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and

> > Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality

> > Disorder " suggests ways you can STAY and still maintain your

> sanity.

> > · Since so many people are in the middle of the two (stay,

> > leave, whatever), for a week I'm going to try offering BOTH of

> > them for WHATEVER you and/or your spouse decides at a discount.

> > Kind of a preparation for SPLITTING or STAYING with your spouse.

> > Both together are normally $42, but if you get both between now

> > and the end of March (March 31) I'm chopping off $7 and reducing

> > it to $35. I'm interested in getting feedback from people NOT

> > considering a divorce.

> > · You're going to have to trust me on this. You can only get

> > either of the booklets (or the packet) by calling 888-35-SHELL.

> > Or writing bookch@a... I am telling them now, so give them a

> > few days to explain it to their nighttime answering service and

> > other operators. If the person you call doesn't know about it,

> > call during the day eastern time and talk to or Diane.

> >

> >

> > Randi Kreger

> > List owner, WelcomeToOz Lists

> > Coauthor, Stop Walking on Eggshells,

> > Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook,

> > Love and Loathing, Hope for Parents

> > www.BPDCentral.com

> >

> > >>

[Guest guest]

Announcement from Randi Kreger: For anyone with a BP spouse:

<<

Since I began researching BPD 10 years or so again, a huge

problem has been how SOME SOME SOME blaming, rather viscous (and

very ill) undiagnosed BPs have used the law in distortion

campaigns that cost the non money, hurt or confused the

children, and created chaos. FOR THE FIRST TIME, WE HAVE A

RESOURCE FOR YOU. It's $55,000 worth of advice from a clinician

who is ALSO an attorney who specializes in divorcing exactly

this kind of BP.

· There is only one catch. To get the most out of it, you need

to get it NOW if you're married to a BP, even if you know you

NEVER NEVER NEVER will EVER face a divorce. The booklet (150

pages, 8.5 x 11 " ) is titled SPLITTING: PROTECTING YOURSELF WHEN

DIVORCING A PURSUASIVE BLAMER. I may change the title so that

even people who want to stay will get it so they could be

prepared. Because even if YOU never want a divorce, your spouse

could want one tomorrow, even if today he or she says he/she

will not die without you.

· If you just know you're going to STAY in a relationship, the

booklet " Love and Loathing: Protecting Your Mental Health and

Legal Rights When Your Partner Has Borderline Personality

Disorder " suggests ways you can STAY and still maintain your sanity.

· Since so many people are in the middle of the two (stay,

leave, whatever), I'm going to try offering BOTH of them for

WHATEVER you and/or your spouse decides at a discount. Kind of a

preparation for SPLITTING or STAYING with your spouse. Both

together are normally $42, but if you get both between now

and April 15th I'm chopping off $7 and reducing it to $35. I'm

interested in getting feedback from people NOT considering a

divorce.

· You're going to have to trust me on this. You can only get

either of the booklets (or the packet) by calling 888-35-SHELL.

Or writing bookch@.... I am telling them now, so give them a

few days to explain it to their nighttime answering service and

other operators. If the person you call doesn't know about it,

call during the day eastern time and talk to or Diane.

Randi Kreger

List owner, WelcomeToOz Lists

Coauthor, Stop Walking on Eggshells,

Stop Walking on Eggshells Workbook,

Love and Loathing, Hope for Parents

www.BPDCentral.com

>>