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Hi Robin! Welcome to the group. With Tae Bo, I have lost somewhere around 30 to

40 lbs, gained muscle tone, and achieved better flexibility, stamina, and

endurance. But those are just the physical results. Tae Bo has also helped me

with my self-esteem and confidence, and even my spirituality. There's so much

more to Tae Bo than just losing weight. :)

It took me about a month, I guess, before I started seeing any real physical

results, but I loved Tae Bo from the very first workout. I've been doing it for

almost three years now, and have never gotten tired of it! I am a true Tae Bo

addict (as are most of the other members of this list LOL).

Good luck to you Robin, and I look forward to hearing more from you!

Moeser

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Hi everyone,

My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo yet

but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your life

and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results. I

think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my tapes :) Hope to

hear from you all!

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--- robquach@... wrote:

> Hi everyone,

> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of

> three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually

> started tae bo yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has

> changed your life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began

> to see results. I

> think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my

> tapes :) Hope to

> hear from you all!

Welcome Robin :o)!!!!!!

I've been doing Tae-Bo for almost 3 years now (it'll

be 3 in March) and I've lost about 75 pounds--trying

to lose a few more, but they're stubborn!!!!!! I

pretty much began seeing results right away. But

everyone is different, so don't get frustrated if you

don't see results right away. Some people took

several weeks or months.

Sandie, Tae and Bo who just saw a former Professor on

" Encounters of the Unexplained " :o)!!!!!!!

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" Believe. Believe in yourself. Believe in the one who believes in you. All

things are possible to she who believes. Blessings on your courage. "

--from " Hold That Thought " by Ban Breathnach

" I was always looking outside myself for strength and confidence, but it comes

from within. It is there all the time. "

--------- Freud

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> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results. I

> think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my tapes :)

Welcome, Robin! The rate of results appears to be related to how much you

exercised before taebo, your fitness level, your diet, and your age, among

other things. Since you just had a baby, my guess is that you will have

lots of success with taebo provided you eat reasonably. We have quite a few

women here who have been VERY successful losing baby weight. Try not be

inpatient, however, because taebo and fitness in general are life journeys.

Start on that journey NOW. You won't regret it.

Elena

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>Welcome, Robin! The rate of results appears to be related to how much you

>exercised before taebo, your fitness level, your diet, and your age, among

>other things. Since you just had a baby, my guess is that you will have

>lots of success with taebo provided you eat reasonably. We have quite a

>few

>women here who have been VERY successful losing baby weight. Try not be

>inpatient, however, because taebo and fitness in general are life journeys.

>Start on that journey NOW. You won't regret it.

>

>Elena

>

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I will keep you all posted on my

journey (once I start it!) I enjoy reading the posts and have begun reading

member profiles which are motivating also.

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>Welcome, Robin! The rate of results appears to be related to how much you

>exercised before taebo, your fitness level, your diet, and your age, among

>other things. Since you just had a baby, my guess is that you will have

>lots of success with taebo provided you eat reasonably. We have quite a

>few

>women here who have been VERY successful losing baby weight. Try not be

>inpatient, however, because taebo and fitness in general are life journeys.

>Start on that journey NOW. You won't regret it.

>

>Elena

>

Thanks for the words of encouragement. I will keep you all posted on my

journey (once I start it!) I enjoy reading the posts and have begun reading

member profiles which are motivating also.

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In a message dated 11/10/01 7:09:05 PM Eastern Standard Time,

robquach@... writes:

> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results

Hi Robin!! Welcome to the list! I have lost 90+ pounds with Tae Bo :) I began

to see results after about a month! Good luck and keep us posted on your

progress!!

:)

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Hi, Robin. My name is . Welcome to the group. I started doing Tae

Bo in September of 2000 after my best friend died of a heart attack at the

age of 27. She was born with a congenital heart deformation, but her obesity

only worsened the situation. Anyway, the day I left for her funeral, I saw

Blanks on QVC. I felt as if he was talking directly to me, and I knew

I needed to change my lifestyle. I ordered the tapes that day, and received

them 3 days after I returned home from the funeral. I've been hooked since.

I started out using the tapes 3 days per week. I saw results within the

first 2 or 3 weeks. I injured my shoulder once and had to stop for about a

month. I gradually increased the number of days I worked out (right now 2

times per day because of the approaching Holiday season). A year later, I

have gone from 180lbs to 145lbs, and a size 20 to a size 6. But the greatest

change is in my overall attitude, self-esteem, and eating habits. I joined

eDiets to lose my last 20 pounds because I was tired of starving. It's

working for me! I'm an entirely different person!! Good luck! Please don't

get frustrated and give up if you don't get results right away. Listen to

what says on the tapes.....losing weight is last, so have fun and get

fit (or something like that).

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In a message dated 11/12/01 3:31:34 PM Pacific Standard Time,

Agaw12577@... writes:

> Hi Robin!! Welcome to the list! I have lost 90+ pounds with Tae Bo :) I

> began

> to see results after about a month! Good luck and keep us posted on your

> progress!!

> :)

>

>

>

Wow,!! That is awesome!!

LeAnn

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In a message dated 11/12/01 3:31:34 PM Pacific Standard Time,

Agaw12577@... writes:

> Hi Robin!! Welcome to the list! I have lost 90+ pounds with Tae Bo :) I

> began

> to see results after about a month! Good luck and keep us posted on your

> progress!!

> :)

>

>

>

Wow,!! That is awesome!!

LeAnn

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Thanks for sharing with me . That's great that you were able to

change your lifestyle like that. I also tried ediets and it worked great for

me. However, I'm currently breastfeeding right now so dieting is not a

priority for me. I have yet to start with Tae Bo. I think I'll have to get

up early because my two young ones keep me so busy during the day and

evening! You shall hear from me once I have something to brag about :)

>I started out using the tapes 3 days per week. I saw results within the

>first 2 or 3 weeks. I injured my shoulder once and had to stop for about a

>month. I gradually increased the number of days I worked out (right now 2

>times per day because of the approaching Holiday season). A year later, I

>have gone from 180lbs to 145lbs, and a size 20 to a size 6. But the

>greatest

>change is in my overall attitude, self-esteem, and eating habits. I joined

>eDiets to lose my last 20 pounds because I was tired of starving. It's

>working for me! I'm an entirely different person!! Good luck!

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Hi Robin! What a good idea to ask that question right off the bat

for motivation. To say quickly and shortly about me - I have been

doing Tae-Bo for nearly two years (in January). I lost around 30

pounds and gained a lot of muscle. Tae-Bo has changed everything

about me for the GOOD!! I encourage you to not give it up and stick

with it until you are addicted like the rest of us!!

Here are some photos of me

http://community.webshots.com/album/16456720LpxvHyMbED

Best of luck in your journey!!

Darcy ;)

> Hi everyone,

> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo

yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your

life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results.

I

> think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my tapes :) Hope

to

> hear from you all!

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Hi Robin! What a good idea to ask that question right off the bat

for motivation. To say quickly and shortly about me - I have been

doing Tae-Bo for nearly two years (in January). I lost around 30

pounds and gained a lot of muscle. Tae-Bo has changed everything

about me for the GOOD!! I encourage you to not give it up and stick

with it until you are addicted like the rest of us!!

Here are some photos of me

http://community.webshots.com/album/16456720LpxvHyMbED

Best of luck in your journey!!

Darcy ;)

> Hi everyone,

> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo

yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your

life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results.

I

> think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my tapes :) Hope

to

> hear from you all!

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Hi Robin! What a good idea to ask that question right off the bat

for motivation. To say quickly and shortly about me - I have been

doing Tae-Bo for nearly two years (in January). I lost around 30

pounds and gained a lot of muscle. Tae-Bo has changed everything

about me for the GOOD!! I encourage you to not give it up and stick

with it until you are addicted like the rest of us!!

Here are some photos of me

http://community.webshots.com/album/16456720LpxvHyMbED

Best of luck in your journey!!

Darcy ;)

> Hi everyone,

> My name is Robin and I am a 29 year old mother of three, with my

> youngest only three months old. I haven't actually started tae bo

yet

> but would really like you hear about how tae bo has changed your

life

> and how often you had to do tae bo before you began to see results.

I

> think this will motivate me to blow the dust off my tapes :) Hope

to

> hear from you all!

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In a message dated 11/12/01 7:54:07 PM Eastern Standard Time, zklp25@...

writes:

> ). A year later, I

> have gone from 180lbs to 145lbs, and a size 20 to a size 6. But the

> greatest

> change is in my overall attitude, self-esteem, and eating habits. I joined

>

> eDiets to lose my last 20 pounds because I was tired of starving. It's

> working for me! I'm an entirely different person!!

,

Thanks for sharing your story with us! Congratulations on all that you have

accomplished!!

:)

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In a message dated 11/13/01 3:38:27 AM Eastern Standard Time,

rmlrthomps@... writes:

> Wow,!! That is awesome!!

>

> LeAnn

Thanks LeAnn :) I still can't believe it myself. If you look up the word lazy

in the dictionary, you'll see my picture! That is what is so amazing about

Tae Bo. Even a lazy person like me can stick with it and lose weight! LOL!!

:)

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Hi Sharyn,

Welcome to our group. I'm sure that many of our

members have been where you are now and will share

their experiences with you as well. As I read your

post one idea came to mind that might be beneficial:

slow titration upward on medication. If you start

with low dosages of medications and very slowly work

up to a level at which efficacy occurs you may find

that your son is able to tolerate the medications far

more effectively. You may want to ask your doctors

about this and even use a liquid SSRI to facilitate

more graded increases than available in pill form

medications.

Take care.

Louis

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> Hello all,

> This group is something I've been searching for a

> long time. My son

> was diagnosed with OCD last May, when he was 8.

> I've had a terrible

> time finding someone that understands ocd and how it

> affects

> children. We are going through a tough time right

> now. For unknown

> reasons, the medications seem to build up in his

> system over time

> (this last round after 10 weeks with no problem) and

> cause reactions

> similar to an overdose. (visual and auditory

> hallucinations,

> worsening ocd symptoms and diarrhea) As soon as he

> has 24 hours off

> the meds, he gets better. The downfall - he can't

> control the ocd

> without the help of the meds. aaargh! We have tried

> generic and

> brand name Luvox and Paxil. In November we finally

> found a wonderful

> psychiatrist and therapist. I just wish we could

> find something that

> will help him stabilize. Is it always going to be

> this

> frustrating? -Sharyn

>

>

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Sharyn,

I am so glad you found this group. I just found this group myself a few weeks

ago, and have found it very informational. My daughter is 6 and was diagnosed

this fall with OCD and Tourettes Syndrome. She is currently trying Zoloft. She

started on a low dose and is slowly increasing her dosage a little at a time.

She's only been on the medicine since Dec. 2 and I'm sure it will take awhile to

see any improvement. From what I understand it takes several weeks before you

can see any results from the medicines. So it maybe spring before we see a big

difference in her OC behavior. What types of OC behavior does your son exhibit?

Does his teachers at school understand? That's what we are currently dealing

with—the teachers. If you have suggestions, please let me know.

—Indiana

sevans265 wrote: Hello all,

This group is something I've been searching for a long time. My son

was diagnosed with OCD last May, when he was 8. I've had a terrible

time finding someone that understands ocd and how it affects

children. We are going through a tough time right now. For unknown

reasons, the medications seem to build up in his system over time

(this last round after 10 weeks with no problem) and cause reactions

similar to an overdose. (visual and auditory hallucinations,

worsening ocd symptoms and diarrhea) As soon as he has 24 hours off

the meds, he gets better. The downfall - he can't control the ocd

without the help of the meds. aaargh! We have tried generic and

brand name Luvox and Paxil. In November we finally found a wonderful

psychiatrist and therapist. I just wish we could find something that

will help him stabilize. Is it always going to be this

frustrating? -Sharyn

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Hi Sharyn, welcome to the group. I don't think there is anything more

distressing than the initial efforts at finding the right medication and the

right dose for a particular child. It is such a slow process at a time when

we parents and the child are desperate for relief and to pass through the

crisis phase. No, it will not always be this bad and this frustrating! My

daughter (eight in a few days, not quite 6 when she experienced an overnight

onset of OCD symptoms) tried three different SSRIs (which took almost a

year) before we hit on the " right " one for her, and she began to improve.

One suggestion that may help, is to titer up very very slowly on a med--this

allows your child to acclimate to the drug and perhaps side-step any side

effects.

Does the therapist do Cognitive Behavior Therapy with your son, specifically

Exposure and Response Prevention? This is the only type of therapy that has

been shown to produce a lasting reduction in OCD symptoms. This type of

therapy can actually reduce your son's symptom level to the point that

medications are not needed--or perhaps he will only need a lower dose.

Lower dose=fewer, less troublesome side effects.

OCD does wax and wane, but far less dramatically when properly treated.

Write again and let us know how things are going.

Take care,

Kathy R. in Indiana

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> This group is something I've been searching for a long time. My son

> was diagnosed with OCD last May, when he was 8. I've had a terrible

> time finding someone that understands ocd and how it affects

> children. We are going through a tough time right now. For unknown

> reasons, the medications seem to build up in his system over time

> (this last round after 10 weeks with no problem) and cause reactions

> similar to an overdose. (visual and auditory hallucinations,

> worsening ocd symptoms and diarrhea) As soon as he has 24 hours off

> the meds, he gets better. The downfall - he can't control the ocd

> without the help of the meds. aaargh! We have tried generic and

> brand name Luvox and Paxil. In November we finally found a wonderful

> psychiatrist and therapist. I just wish we could find something that

> will help him stabilize. Is it always going to be this

> frustrating? -Sharyn

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We have been very fortunate with my son's teachers. It was because

of his teacher that we began an 18 month process that led us to ocd.

My son also has mild tourettes (hand clenching, facial grimacing). He

started to have problems at school that did not make sense. He is a

very bright child that remembers facts like you wouldn't believe. He

loved to be read to, but was having trouble learning to read. His

social skills were very awkward. He knew how to complete addition

before he started kindergarten, but he couldn't do the larger numbers-

he kept losing his place. Because of his excellent behavior and

mostly good grades they were hesitant to start having him tested.

This is where I learned lesson number 1 - speak firmly and don't take

no for an answer. The best way to handle the school is to know their

system. Ask questions, know what the process is and then use it to

your advantage. Know what your state regulations are. The other way

I dealt with them is by educating myself first, and then printing it

out and giving it to the school. One book I read " Teaching the

Tiger " was excellent. It was written specifically for teaching

children with OCD, Tourettes and ADHD. I then wrote a list of

teaching techniques and told the school to use them. I also hand

picked my child's teacher. I speak to her every Friday afternoon.

She doesn't freak out about his symptoms. Communication is the key!

Good Luck!

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Hi Sharyn, How much of each medication is your Dr. prescribing? I know that

Kathy R. mentioned using a tin amount to start and then very gradually

increasing the dose in an effort to minimize side effects. We have experienced

similar problems with our son who started on Prozac when he was 4 turning 5 and

several times since then whenever we have had to increase his medication. If

you need help in locating a therapist in your area who treats OCD in Children,

the OC Foundation is a wonderful place to start. Their we address is

www.ocfoundation.org. They will happily send you a listing of therapists in

your area. Generally OCD is treated not just with medication, but with

cognitive behavior therapy and exposure response therapy. I realize that may

not be possible until your son is somewhat stabilized with his medication

though. Several times we have had to suspend treatment until my son's

medication has been straightened out. Keep posting to the list and you will

find not only the understanding you crave, but also lots and lots of information

to help you in your struggle with this disease! The list has the expertise of

2 PhD psychologists who specialize in the treatment of children with OCD and

also a Psychiatrist who is a Pharmacologist specializing in the treatment of OCD

in Children. You may pose questions to them by placing the words " Ask Dr .

Chansky; Ask Dr. Wagner; or Ask Dr. Geller, in the subject line of your post and

the list owner will forward your questions along to them. Best wishes, in

Southeastern PA

sevans265 wrote: Hello all,

This group is something I've been searching for a long time. My son

was diagnosed with OCD last May, when he was 8. I've had a terrible

time finding someone that understands ocd and how it affects

children. We are going through a tough time right now. For unknown

reasons, the medications seem to build up in his system over time

(this last round after 10 weeks with no problem) and cause reactions

similar to an overdose. (visual and auditory hallucinations,

worsening ocd symptoms and diarrhea) As soon as he has 24 hours off

the meds, he gets better. The downfall - he can't control the ocd

without the help of the meds. aaargh! We have tried generic and

brand name Luvox and Paxil. In November we finally found a wonderful

psychiatrist and therapist. I just wish we could find something that

will help him stabilize. Is it always going to be this

frustrating? -Sharyn

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Hi 's mom! How great that everything has worked out so well as

for finding the right therapy, treatment and all for her. And

congrats on the pill as none of my 3 (boys, twins 13 and one 16) can

yet swallow pills. I recently tried bribing one ($ they love) but he

just couldn't do it. Oh well...

I have a 13 y/o son with OCD, diagnosed at 11.5. He's a twin and has

an older brother 16. Since they'd always thought of

as " different " or odd (he's not athletic, more of a couch potato, was

delayed in motor skill, plus says some off-the-wall stuff at times)

the OCD was just another " " thing in a way. But, yeah, he

does take more attention at times, especially with schoolwork as I

have to write a lot of it for him - so I've heard the " you don't have

time to help ME! " bit.

Just a thought, don't know what you've said to your son, but if he

ever watches Nickelodeon is he familiar with Marc Summers who did the

Double Dare show? At any rate, here's a link to his site regarding

his OCD, which is actually similar to 's. It might have some

info or a way of explaining it to your 11 y/o.

http://www.viryours.com/ms/

Hope to hear from you again!

> My daughter is eight and was diagnosed in september with OCD. We

> always new something wasn't right, she is particular in every thing

> that she does. But last year it started to get alot worse, to the

> point where she wouldn't leave the house, play with friends or have

> anyone over. She would also have to rearrange her bedroom almost

> daily and this had to be done following written directions (a list)

> that she had made. Needless to say, we began a downward spiral.

>

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Hi 's mom! How great that everything has worked out so well as

for finding the right therapy, treatment and all for her. And

congrats on the pill as none of my 3 (boys, twins 13 and one 16) can

yet swallow pills. I recently tried bribing one ($ they love) but he

just couldn't do it. Oh well...

I have a 13 y/o son with OCD, diagnosed at 11.5. He's a twin and has

an older brother 16. Since they'd always thought of

as " different " or odd (he's not athletic, more of a couch potato, was

delayed in motor skill, plus says some off-the-wall stuff at times)

the OCD was just another " " thing in a way. But, yeah, he

does take more attention at times, especially with schoolwork as I

have to write a lot of it for him - so I've heard the " you don't have

time to help ME! " bit.

Just a thought, don't know what you've said to your son, but if he

ever watches Nickelodeon is he familiar with Marc Summers who did the

Double Dare show? At any rate, here's a link to his site regarding

his OCD, which is actually similar to 's. It might have some

info or a way of explaining it to your 11 y/o.

http://www.viryours.com/ms/

Hope to hear from you again!

> My daughter is eight and was diagnosed in september with OCD. We

> always new something wasn't right, she is particular in every thing

> that she does. But last year it started to get alot worse, to the

> point where she wouldn't leave the house, play with friends or have

> anyone over. She would also have to rearrange her bedroom almost

> daily and this had to be done following written directions (a list)

> that she had made. Needless to say, we began a downward spiral.

>

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Hi 's mom! How great that everything has worked out so well as

for finding the right therapy, treatment and all for her. And

congrats on the pill as none of my 3 (boys, twins 13 and one 16) can

yet swallow pills. I recently tried bribing one ($ they love) but he

just couldn't do it. Oh well...

I have a 13 y/o son with OCD, diagnosed at 11.5. He's a twin and has

an older brother 16. Since they'd always thought of

as " different " or odd (he's not athletic, more of a couch potato, was

delayed in motor skill, plus says some off-the-wall stuff at times)

the OCD was just another " " thing in a way. But, yeah, he

does take more attention at times, especially with schoolwork as I

have to write a lot of it for him - so I've heard the " you don't have

time to help ME! " bit.

Just a thought, don't know what you've said to your son, but if he

ever watches Nickelodeon is he familiar with Marc Summers who did the

Double Dare show? At any rate, here's a link to his site regarding

his OCD, which is actually similar to 's. It might have some

info or a way of explaining it to your 11 y/o.

http://www.viryours.com/ms/

Hope to hear from you again!

> My daughter is eight and was diagnosed in september with OCD. We

> always new something wasn't right, she is particular in every thing

> that she does. But last year it started to get alot worse, to the

> point where she wouldn't leave the house, play with friends or have

> anyone over. She would also have to rearrange her bedroom almost

> daily and this had to be done following written directions (a list)

> that she had made. Needless to say, we began a downward spiral.

>

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Tana:

Just wanted to say " welcome " . My son, Luke, also 8 years old, has OCD and ADD.

We have seen signs in him of OCD as early as age three or four. Luke has tried

a couple of different meds for his OCD. Currently, he takes 200 mg daily of

Luvox. Between that and some of the tips I've received from this group and

other of my own research, he is doing pretty well right now. We are going to be

meeting with a therapist for the first time late this month, and I'm really

looking forward to that support.

Luke has not really dealt as much with contamination, number, hoarding, etc.

issues. He is a " worrier " like you describe . In fact, whenever I hear

him describe his OCD to someone that is the first thing he says, " I worry about

things and say sorry too much " . I didn't know OCD came in this " form " , but boy

does it!

Are you aware of the online OCD support group for kids? Luke is a part of this

group, which I think is great. If he gets even part of the support I've

received by being in this particular group, I will really be pleased for him.

Also, I want him to learn to reach out to others for help when needed, and also

to give any support he can. I can't tell you the instructions exactly for

joining the group because I'm somewhat internet illiterate!!

Kathy - if you get this e-mail, could you post the steps for joining the OCD

kids support group. I know a therapist posted to this group asking about how to

refer her clients to the OCD kids group and I don't know if she ever received a

response. Also, our school counselor as well as Luke's therapist has asked me

to get her this info.

Good luck to you and your family, Tana. Keep us posted on how things are going

for you all.

Warmly,

in Missouri (Luke's mom)

P.S. I too am a believer in the " no accident " school of thought!

New to the group

Hi,

I am a mother of 4 great children, one of whom has just been

diagnosed with OCD. He is 8 years old and and started his first

struggle about 4 weeks ago. Essentially, he thinks he is dying

and has obsessive thoughts about what might be wrong with

him. He asks body-related questions constantly, e.g., " Why do

we have creases on our hands? How fast is your heart

supposed to beat? What if I have a brain tumor? How do you

know I'm not allergic to ____? " We have basically put the

question asking on extinction, and he does fairly well at home.

At school, however, there is an aid in the classroom that feels it

is cruel *not* to answer his questions and " reassure " him, so

we have had problems with her adding to it. Fortunately, she is

getting a " talking to " today from the school counselor about what

she should and should not do/say. We have also read the OC

Flea story with , and although he doesn't want people to

quit answering his questions, he does admit to understanding it

is not in his best interest.

I am a private practice, pediatirc speech pathologist and I work

with children with autism, brain injuries, etc. really gets

hung up on the problems the therapy kids have. I have always

been selective about information that I share with my own kids,

but he latches onto any disorder I happen to mention and will

obsess about it. He'll tell me he thinks he has a brain injury

because he couldn't think of the right word, or he couldn't

understand something someone said to him.

has always been quiet, contemplative and reserved but

he was fairly social with his friends and enjoyed school and his

sports activities. These days, just getting him out of the house is

a major ordeal. We have had more tears in the house (from me

too!) over the past month than in the previous years combined, I

think! I keep telling my husband that I feel like our once easy-to-

raise son has been reduced to a bowl of mush. I hate feeling

that way and watching him struggle so much. The worst thing

that happened this week was that one of 's best friends

said to me, " worries about EVERYTHING all the time

now! What's wrong with him?! "

Gulp.

My friend, a counselor, made the diagnosis and we are now

trying to set up an appointment with a child pyschiatrist to

explore meds/treatment options. I have another child with

ADHD and one with some sensory integration issues, so I feel

*somewhat* equiped to deal with some of the challenges ahead

of me, but the whole OCD idea is pretty out of my league. We

are also in the process of adopting a baby girl from China, and

she will likely present us with some challenges too, LOL!

Some days, I feel like my kids are my best clients! (For those of

similar religious persuasion, I do not feel it is an accident that I

have the training I do and the children that I do.)

I look forward to learning from all of you and to making some

new friends. My apologies for such a long intro.

Tana

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Welcome Tana ... I've found much support here and I know you will too. Good

luck.

glenda in NC

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