Guest guest Posted February 7, 2003 Report Share Posted February 7, 2003 Self protections mode. She has learned to survive from sudden sounds and such to just keep ears covered and has now been a part of her mechanism to adapt. I to also know many of us on spectrum when feared will cover ears instead of eyes, dont know why but do this self and have witnessed many others doing this too. If suddenly feared unable to process quickly enough will actually slap my face hard on both sides spontaneously without time to stop the impulsive need to cover ears but instead hit self. It is only one hit though as then my hands are already by my ears and so after the hit they stay there until my brain can process the incoming fear. Sondra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 , Olivia sleeps like a crazy woman, and can roll all over the place. Sometimes, I find her with her head at the foot of the bed! HRH sleeping > > > Questions for all those in casts: > > Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over > positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides? > > Thanks > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Siobhan had difficulty for the first 2-3 nights sleeping in her very first cast. The nurses came in every couple of hours and turned her. But since then, she has had no trouble at all.... Jacki > > Questions for all those in casts: > > Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over > positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides? > > Thanks > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Did she cry to be moved when sleeping? Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 I basically made up a bed on the floor of her room and slept alongside her for a couple of weeks. It may not have even been for that long, just felt like it. Every time she stirred I would stroke her and if it looked like she was trying to roll over, I'd help her and she would go straight back to sleep. It was probably tougher on me than her. As I said, it's not a problem at all now. <christinehrph@...> wrote: Did she cry to be moved when sleeping? Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 Great idea to sleep together... Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: I basically made up a bed on the floor of her room and slept alongside her for a couple of weeks. It may not have even been for that long, just felt like it. Every time she stirred I would stroke her and if it looked like she was trying to roll over, I'd help her and she would go straight back to sleep. It was probably tougher on me than her. As I said, it's not a problem at all now. <christinehrph@...> wrote: Did she cry to be moved when sleeping? Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 22, 2005 Report Share Posted January 22, 2005 I don't sleep with her very often, but if we have to stay in hospital I do, and if she wakes up after a bad dream I jump in with her. I'm not very big, so there's enough room in her bed for the two of us. Fortunately she seems to understand that it's just for special occasions and doesn't expect it all the time. <christinehrph@...> wrote: Great idea to sleep together... Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: I basically made up a bed on the floor of her room and slept alongside her for a couple of weeks. It may not have even been for that long, just felt like it. Every time she stirred I would stroke her and if it looked like she was trying to roll over, I'd help her and she would go straight back to sleep. It was probably tougher on me than her. As I said, it's not a problem at all now. <christinehrph@...> wrote: Did she cry to be moved when sleeping? Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 23, 2005 Report Share Posted January 23, 2005 Hi , It's Bert. Bummer about missing out on your casting. My daughter (no scoliosis) had her tonsils and adenoids out a couple of years ago when she was 7. It was an ugly couple of days but she recovered really quickly and it completely cured the constant runny nose etc. She also had grommets put in at the same time and could hear properly for the first time in years. we had no trouble with bleeding thank goodness, the only hiccup was she reacted to the codeine she was given for pain relief and kept vomitting before we worked out the problem. Bridget had no trouble rolling over in her cast at night. She had to get used to getting up from lying down by rolling over first and then getting up. Best of luck Bert and Bridget <christinehrph@...> wrote: Great idea to sleep together... Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: I basically made up a bed on the floor of her room and slept alongside her for a couple of weeks. It may not have even been for that long, just felt like it. Every time she stirred I would stroke her and if it looked like she was trying to roll over, I'd help her and she would go straight back to sleep. It was probably tougher on me than her. As I said, it's not a problem at all now. <christinehrph@...> wrote: Did she cry to be moved when sleeping? Hamer <mumtoerin@...> wrote: Hi struggled to sleep in her first cast for a couple of weeks while she got used to it. At this time she was in a cot, although was growing out of it and I don't know if this was a problem too. It was also quite hot for the UK, so that was also a problem. Shortly after I transferred her to a bed which gave her more room and she hasn't had a problem since. She can roll over fine now, and doesn't have a problem after each new cast is applied. christinehrph <christinehrph@...> wrote: Questions for all those in casts:Does anyone notice there children not being able to roll over positions in the casts whils sleeping Ex. From the back to sides?Thanks ALL-NEW Messenger - all new features - even more fun! __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 5, 2007 Report Share Posted May 5, 2007 If I was to bet, I would say anxiety is the real problem. But I don't know much about Chantix yet.Hillbilly Tim <knoxweb1@...> wrote: WELL THATS KOOL I JUST NEVER PAY ATTENTION,ANY IDEAS WHY IM NOT SLEEPING? COULD IT BE THE CHANTIX?danne <dannegrl2003 > wrote: NOPE NOT I..... I am just another member like you. Deb is the boss of crowd control.... dHillbilly Tim <knoxweb1 > wrote: just wonderingHillbilly Tim <knoxweb1 > wrote: im dont agree but its ok.i feel pot is the lesser of the evils then the pills.and as well more liver friendly,but the bottom line its illegal.so out with it life goes on.but no way will i let then turn me into a pill head,ive been up since 3am and cleaned everything that can be been 2 chucky cheese a b day party and still cant sleep.but no pills 4 me.i never smoke in or around him. but its done and ill just run with what i got. me and my personal jesus.danne <dannegrl2003 > wrote: Tim glad ya stopped. It is best for your son. Best of luck in court. hugs dHillbilly Tim <knoxweb1 > wrote: i found it but not herbs,click goals.my gi has no issues with the herbs i take during treatment.cept marijauna.she says no but its ok i had to quit i have court on june 14th to stop my ex from visatation,inless supervised.i refused the pills they offered in its place for neasua and pain and stress.this month i have quit smokin ciggs and the other just ta show my gi my nads are bigger lol. . SAVE LIVES BE AN ORGAN DONOR Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell?Check out new cars at Autos. Tim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell?Check out new cars at Autos. Tim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no timewith the Search movie showtime shortcut. SAVE LIVES BE AN ORGAN DONOR Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell?Check out new cars at Autos. Tim Parsons knoxville,tn 37931 865-588-2465 x107 work www.knoxville1.com No need to miss a message. Get email on-the-go with for Mobile. Get started. SAVE LIVES BE AN ORGAN DONOR Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell? Check out new cars at Autos. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 5, 2007 Report Share Posted May 5, 2007 Hi Guys, What is Chantix? I don't think I've ever heard of it but then again with my memory. . . . . SuZie & Sir SpYke the Sleepy - Her memory IS the pits folks, can't remember my rules from one day to the next!danne <dannegrl2003@...> wrote: If I was to bet, I would say anxiety is the real problem. But I don't know much about Chantix yet.Hillbilly Tim <knoxweb1 > wrote: WELL THATS KOOL I JUST NEVER PAY ATTENTION,ANY IDEAS WHY IM NOT SLEEPING? COULD IT BE THE CHANTIX? . Next time I'm coming back as a cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Aubrey, You are not alone. Although a similar behavior can be seen in young children with typical neuro development, I would say this is an autistic issue. You've done all the right things with social stories. A large issue for my son is the sense of control. He needs to feel that he can control his environment. Every time we change anything he is a huge part of it, selecting details so he feels control. Best of luck. > > Hello All, > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... > > > > Any advice?? > > Thanks, > Aubrey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 Hi Aubrey,Have you considered trying some things to calm his sensory system including rolling back on forth on a thera ball or providing deep touch from his feet to legs to arms to shoulders? Another option might be to put on some very calming music. You could make this into a routine every night so that he knows what to expect and will improve the transitioning. You might also get some good ideas from an OT re: how to introduce other calming activities.Hope this helps.Best, Lowy Lowy, M.A., CCC-SLPBodylink Speech TherapyNew York, N.Y.www.bodylinkspeechtherapy.com--- On Mon, 8/9/10, Zachy's Mom in Cali <citygirlinla@...> wrote:From: Zachy's Mom in Cali <citygirlinla@...>Subject: Re: Sleepingautism Date: Monday, August 9, 2010, 3:34 PM Aubrey, You are not alone. Although a similar behavior can be seen in young children with typical neuro development, I would say this is an autistic issue. You've done all the right things with social stories. A large issue for my son is the sense of control. He needs to feel that he can control his environment. Every time we change anything he is a huge part of it, selecting details so he feels control. Best of luck. > > Hello All, > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... > > > > Any advice?? > > Thanks, > Aubrey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2010 Report Share Posted August 9, 2010 I would lay in bed with Karac until he fell asleep for several years. I would put on the movie Aristocrats and he would fall asleep watching it. Eventually I could just put on the movie and he would fall asleep without me. I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... Any advice?? Sleeping Hello All, I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... Any advice?? Thanks, Aubrey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2010 Report Share Posted August 10, 2010 Our 6 year old AS son has slept with or near myself or my husband for the last couple of years. My husband and I no longer share a room because of his terrible snoring thats kinda when "moved in." I have been telling him the last couple of weeks that he was going to move back into his room before school started and last night was the first night. It was horrid! The same behaviors .... screaming, hysterical crying, hitting, throwing stuff in his room and when he was finally settling somewhat I laid down with him until he fell asleep. He also listens to Kidz Bop cd's. This morning we cut up one of his train magazines and we taped pics all over and he is much happier. It's a start! From: pkuenstler@... <pkuenstler@...>Subject: Re: Sleepingautism Date: Monday, August 9, 2010, 4:06 PM I would lay in bed with Karac until he fell asleep for several years. I would put on the movie Aristocrats and he would fall asleep watching it. Eventually I could just put on the movie and he would fall asleep without me. I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing...Any advice?? Sleeping Hello All, I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing...Any advice??Thanks, Aubrey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2010 Report Share Posted August 10, 2010 you'll get it done; it just takes time. hugs, Pat K Sleeping Hello All, I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... Any advice?? Thanks, Aubrey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 11, 2010 Report Share Posted August 11, 2010 That's a tough one because it is so ingrained in him that he has been sleeping with you all this time. Keeping to a routine will be important. Reassure him that you are just in the next room and that he is safe. Perhaps one of those clocks that have the gentle beach sounds, rain, etc. might help. My son on the autism spectrum did not have sleep anxiety issues but my daughter with learning disability did as a toddler. We did the same thing you did for nearly a year. We tried slowing leaving, laying with her, holding her until she fell asleep but she would always wake up when you put her down. We were all sleep deprived. After consulting a lot of books, it was time for tough love. We assured her she was safe and we were here for her. Once she went to bed, if she screamed and yelled for us, we would not engage in conversation except to say it's time for bed. This was extremely difficult for mom/dad sitting on the floor by the closed door while she cried for 40 minutes. We felt like the worst parents in the world. But after a week she settled down within 20 minutes and after two weeks she never complained and went right to bed. By then she realized the world would not end if she went to bed by herself and that mom and dad would not budge on the issue. I'm not sure if that will help your son the spectrum but it worked for our LD kid. It was really tough on all of us so I wish you the best of luck. Here are some links on helping special needs kids get a good night's sleep http://bit.ly/bhNMmj > > Hello All, > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... > > > > Any advice?? > > Thanks, > Aubrey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 12, 2010 Report Share Posted August 12, 2010 I " Ferberized " both of my children when they were young, one typical and one with autism. (Dr. Ferber is the one who popularized the let-them-cry-it-out approach.) It worked for a spell with my son who had autism, but a year later he started waking again and coming into our bed in the night. I wound up letting him because it was clearly an anxiety issue that he had no control over. Plus we all needed the sleep. (The Ferber approach worked great for my typical kid. I'm a proponent :-) We tried everything for my ASD kid, including a sound machine, routine, Ferber. I often slept in a chair in the hall to catch him on the way to our bedroom. Try that and holding a full time job! Two things... if you don't have a DAN! doctor, get one who will help you with supplements and even medication to help your child get to sleep. Sleep is crucial for both parents and children. It doesn't have to be a forever thing, but you could try something as basic as melatonin and lavendar scented or Epsom Salt baths or a drug like Clonidine (which we have used safely for years. He won't sleep without it.). After he becomes used to falling asleep in his bed, you could try stopping the medication or supplement and just rely on the routine and cuddly things. Or you could continue with the supplement/Rx if need be. That's my two cents. Good luck with it! > > > > Hello All, > > > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... > > > > > > > > Any advice?? > > > > Thanks, > > Aubrey > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 19, 2010 Report Share Posted August 19, 2010 My son slept with my husband or me until he was about 12. When my husband and I separated, I knew I couldn't carry all the responsiblity if I continued to be sleep-deprived. We made a big deal about putting a bed together in my son's room. Talked about it. Then I started a soothing night-time routine which included no tv for at least an hour, a nice shower, and other calm activities. I sat outside of his room so I could redirect him if he came out. Always did everything in a very calm way... including the comforting when he was upset but matter-of-fact so he didn't get a pay-off from his behavior. It took persistence and perserverance because it was about a month before I didn't have to keep putting him back in bed. But now he loves his own bed. He still gets up during the night sometimes (he doesn't need much sleep) but he's been taught to stay in his room. I love being able to sleep again. It's difficult but well-worth the week or month or whatever to make it happen. There's a good section on sleeping in the book " A work in Progress " by McEachin and Leaf. Your situation sounds much more difficult. I wonder if he's scared at being alone? Maybe practice just hanging out on his bed during the day? How do you react to his negative behaviors? Jill > > Hello All, > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing... > > > > Any advice?? > > Thanks, > Aubrey > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 20, 2010 Report Share Posted August 20, 2010 we use a weighted blanket in the winter and our dog sleep in bed with our son. it helps alot. From: Jill <jgmangus@...>Subject: Re: Sleepingautism Date: Thursday, August 19, 2010, 4:05 PM My son slept with my husband or me until he was about 12. When my husband and I separated, I knew I couldn't carry all the responsiblity if I continued to be sleep-deprived. We made a big deal about putting a bed together in my son's room. Talked about it. Then I started a soothing night-time routine which included no tv for at least an hour, a nice shower, and other calm activities. I sat outside of his room so I could redirect him if he came out. Always did everything in a very calm way... including the comforting when he was upset but matter-of-fact so he didn't get a pay-off from his behavior.It took persistence and perserverance because it was about a month before I didn't have to keep putting him back in bed. But now he loves his own bed. He still gets up during the night sometimes (he doesn't need much sleep) but he's been taught to stay in his room.I love being able to sleep again. It's difficult but well-worth the week or month or whatever to make it happen.There's a good section on sleeping in the book "A work in Progress" by McEachin and Leaf.Your situation sounds much more difficult. I wonder if he's scared at being alone? Maybe practice just hanging out on his bed during the day? How do you react to his negative behaviors? Jill>> Hello All, > > I need a little advice, my son is 6 and autistic...my son has always slept with us as we only had a 1 bedroom, we recently moved and we now have a 2 bedroom and I have tried to get him to sleep in his own room. We have done social stories and read many books as well as a few cartoons about sleeping in his own room and he seems thrilled about it but when it is time for bed he panics (screaming, covering his ears, hitting himself, etc.). I have tried sitting on the floor in his room and slowly moving out, I have tried laying there until he goes to sleep (never went to sleep just laid there for hours) . I am at a loss...is this an autism issue and he is just not ready or is this something all kids do and I just have to let him deal with it on his own. At first I thought it was just a normal kid thing but he panics the same way he does when he has to get a haircut which I know is an autism thing...> > > > Any advice??> > Thanks, > Aubrey> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 Anyone notice that their downs child is sleepy alot? I read that some do not get the rem sleep that the body needs. Is there someone who knows more about this topic? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 is sleepier than both her typical sisters, and always has been. I guess I don't really worry about it since there have been no significant changes... as a baby/toddler she napped longer than they did, has always gone to bed earlier than they did at a similar age, and frequently falls asleep in the car. We've had her thyroid checked yearly since birth, and she's had her tonsils and adenoids removed to try and improve her mild sleep apnea. She does not sleep all that well, she talks in her sleep (we can hear her from our room) and is often awakened by " nightmares " that require her to come into our room and ask to sleep with us. So, I know she could get a much better night's sleep, just have not been able to make it happen. I've also felt that the low muscle tone plays a role as well... I've noticed that when doing things that require physical activity, she'll be more tired afterwards than a typical child would be.... really, almost everything she does requires more effort than her sisters (even schoolwork is tiring!) so I guess I've always just attributed her tiredness to that.. I would worry if my child became sleepier all of a sudden though. , mom to (15) (13 DS) and Sammy (11). On 8/17/2011 11:57 AM, kinde1 wrote: > > Anyone notice that their downs child is sleepy alot? I read that some > do not get the rem sleep that the body needs. Is there someone who > knows more about this topic? > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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