Can't ejaculate

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Hey Phil,

This is Cal1923:

I will check into the info that you sent on the Doctor's site but

I would like to ask you a few questions first. You abbreviated some

of your letter. I have been on the pump for 14 years. I started

having trouble when I was 40 and have not had good sex until I tried

the pump. Wouldn't you know it I had to have a woman doctor

recommend that. My male doctors never told me about it. After

getting on the pump at 68 we started have wonderful sex again for a a

few years.

When I was 40 doctors didn't even mention testosterone and I never

was advised to have it checked. Wet noodle for many years and never

satisfied my wife until the pump. Anyway after a few years I got to

the point where I couldn't ejaculate. I faked it with my wife for

a long time until she got wise. Now she doesn't want to try as I

don't get the full pleasure. The only way that I can go is by oral

sex or watching videos, which I abhore doing. This is just to give

you a little background first of my problems. I too have been on

testosterone for around 25 years. First the patch. Didn't do much

good except to help depression and give me more energy. I am an

exercise man. Home bicycle three times a week and do abs for the

stomach muscles. I don't know much about the items that you

mentioned in your letter. You went 10 years with very bad ED. What

is ED? I know what T is. I go to the VA for all medications so I

don't have a lot of money to spend on medications Phil. They are

the ones that put me on the patch and finally shots of T every two

weeks. They helped me out for some time until this last 3 years

which are without fulfillment. Most people think I am much younger

than I am because of the T and my exercise I guess.

I am on a lot of medications to fill you in on that. I take

colesterol medication so my lipids are not a problem as the Dr.

mentioned in her letter. My doctors have never checked my Estradiol

at all and haven't mentioned it, but after reading several articles

I can see where they are a problem and I wonder if that is mine.

Pills don't work fo me either. You mentioned you got your DR., after

a big fight to test your Estradiol. I guess I should ask

my Dr. at the VA if they would cover that test and also cover the

Arimidex. Is that expensive or do you get help on prescription

drug? That is my big problem. I am retired on a fixed income;

all things go up but my salary. I checked out the links that you

had in your e-mail. Just joined this group, I hope you will receive

this ok. I will also print out the page that you sent me and ask

my VA doctor if she can help me out there, but I doublt the VA

will approve it. Do you have your wife to give you the shots of

Depo? Also is the 100 IU's of HCG pills? Are they expensive?

My testes are really smaller than they have ever been too and I

have been concerned about that too, even my wife noticed that.

Right now my libido is ok but can't finish the job. My feeling

of well being was good until they said it was too high and lowered

me for 6 months, now they are increasing it again. I do get a

high dosage because I am dead without it. I am going to ask my

doctor this week if they will check my Estradiol. I hope you are in

this group so you can help me further,

as I really miss sex. It is a true bond between a husband and

wife I know and she really enjoys the bonding too. I sometimes wonder

if the fact that she had a radical mastecomy and a large stomach

now that bothers my mentally.

Thanks Phil hope you get this message.

Cal1923