Relocating

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Hello, I am new to the group and am desperately searching for

information. I have a 6 year old boy with Aspergers / PDD-NOS

(depending on which doctor you talk to) and we are relocating to the

Fort Worth area very soon. I need to find out which school districts

in the area have good programs for ASD students. Currently my son is

in a " Structured Learning " kindergarten class and goes to a " normal "

class for music, PE, library and field trips. Our move is going to

happen with very little notice so I need to make sure that we live in

an area that will have the best school options for my son (as well as

my 8 year old daughter). Any help you could offer would be

appreciated!

R.

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This may be a place to start, it is a parent information agency.

Parent Training and Information Projects

Janice and Meyer, Co-Directors

Partners Resource Network, Inc.

1090 Longfellow Drive, Suite B

Beaumont, TX 77706-4819

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_Partners Resource Network_ (http://www.partnerstx.org/)

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Thanks!

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> This may be a place to start, it is a parent information agency.

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> Parent Training and Information Projects

> Janice and Meyer, Co-Directors

> Partners Resource Network, Inc.

> 1090 Longfellow Drive, Suite B

> Beaumont, TX 77706-4819

> _path@..._ (mailto:path@...)

>

> _Partners Resource Network_ (http://www.partnerstx.org/)

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hi.Sherry,sorry to here about all the drama they are putting on you and your son,peace be with you and yours safe trip.hope to see you post soon.Angel Blessings,

From: Sherry Burford <aspiemomone@...>Subject: ( ) Relocating"SUPPORT GROUP" <Aspergers Treatment >Date: Monday, July 20, 2009, 8:41 AM

Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to

protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and

go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but wewill work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

[Guest guest]

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> So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because

anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my

son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just

believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried

sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that

my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but

we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area

but new house and all of that but we

> will work thru it.

I know it is not this simple, but I'm glad you're getting yourselves away from

this family. FWIW, I think you're doing the right thing and it will be for the

best.

[Guest guest]

Thank you Ruth i do too, it will be hard for me at first and even if the children say it wont be for them i know better, but the whole nut in a shell is it is the best solution. SherryFrom: r_woman2 <me2ruth@...> Sent: Monday, July 20, 2009 9:22:43 AMSubject: ( ) Re: Relocating

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> So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but we

> will work thru it.

I know it is not this simple, but I'm glad you're getting yourselves away from this family. FWIW, I think you're doing the right thing and it will be for the best.

[Guest guest]

Thank you , it means so much to know that i have you all for support, right now i really need it and just knowing that there is support here for me is just a wonderful feeling. sherryFrom: Raven <macmomma27@...> Sent: Monday, July 20, 2009 9:00:22 AMSubject: Re: ( ) Relocating

Hi.Sherry,sorry to here about all the drama they are putting on you and your son,peace be with you and yours safe trip.hope to see you post soon.Angel Blessings,

From: Sherry Burford <aspiemomone>Subject: ( ) Relocating"SUPPORT GROUP" <Aspergers Treatment>Date: Monday, July 20, 2009, 8:41 AM

Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to

protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and

go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but wewill work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

[Guest guest]

Sherry, you are a great mom. Sometimes you just have to do what is right for

your kids no matter what and some folks don't ever make that decision. Please

keep in touch and know we're thinking of you!!! I would do the same as you.

Miriam

>

>

> Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons

apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS

and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons.

Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to

teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling

said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of

doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he

is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even

though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says " Your family has not

been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and

closed "

> The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told

me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every

precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the

mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no

contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and

becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed

here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the

investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to

explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything

isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i

didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on

in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you.

he said they beg to come here to see josh ,

> i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am

sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you

and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand,

it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone

because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I

have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm

just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and

daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe

that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick

about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my

son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we

have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but

new house and all of that but we

> will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol

anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been

going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

>

[Guest guest]

> >

> >

> > Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons

apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS

and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons.

Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to

teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling

said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of

doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he

is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even

though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says " Your family has not

been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and

closed "

> > The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told

me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every

precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the

mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no

contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and

becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed

here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the

investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to

explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything

isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i

didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on

in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you.

he said they beg to come here to see josh ,

> > i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am

sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you

and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand,

it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone

because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I

have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm

just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and

daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe

that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick

about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my

son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we

have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but

new house and all of that but we

> > will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol

anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this

point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been

going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

> >

>I dont believe you would have done the same sherry left my three boys and me

one of my sons is also on the spectrum my name is bryan I feel the need to

explain, Sherry and I spoke Last night and she lead me to believe she wanted to

marry me and I have spent 1075.00 on a lawyer to have a hearing to keep my

custody and clear joshes name . In the meanwhile I left all in sherrys care. we

went homeless for the protection of her son. she grew colder and planned this

move without even courtisy of telling me. today I found her apartment

applications to N.C. I tried to question her and she flipped. she had things

packed and stored, she grabbed it and ran. This is a ongoing habbit of hers so

much so that she lost herdaughter by choice.for her to question my love for her

is unspeakable.First she never would have seen her own daughter graduate, let

alone how far josh has come is documented to my praise and understanding of our

boys disorder. now she is running again. Last year she ran while I was at work

then later called from N.C. with no food wanting to come home. I thought things

were good. I ve never raised my hand to her or her children.

I am not normally noisy but I found your email trying to find answers as to why

and for reason she is leaving. I my opinion to relocate josh is the reason she

cant stabilize his disorder it has been back and fourth all his life between Pa

and Nc. I love them so but untill she stops running josh will regress . Anyway I

am sorry to interupt but I felt compelled to bring the truth to you. Please pray

for them,and my sons too,none of this is fair. If you do speak to sherry tell

her the att. will have this stricken from record by summers end.by the papers

that I did put in.That news came today.

[Guest guest]

{{{Sherry}}} That is a brave decision but sounds like a good one. If this man still wants you, he needs to deal with his kids and his ex wife first anyway, something he isn't doing. You do have to consider your own kids first, that is not a bad thing. Hang in there!!

Roxanna

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." E. Burke

( ) Relocating

Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"

The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,

i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but we

will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

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[Guest guest]

Oh, wow...interesting to see the other side of the story. I hope you all can work this out. It sounds very stressful for everyone and you too.

Roxanna

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." E. Burke

( ) Re: Relocating

> >

> >

> > Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"

> > The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,

> > i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but we

> > will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

> >

>I dont believe you would have done the same sherry left my three boys and me one of my sons is also on the spectrum my name is bryan I feel the need to explain, Sherry and I spoke Last night and she lead me to believe she wanted to marry me and I have spent 1075.00 on a lawyer to have a hearing to keep my custody and clear joshes name . In the meanwhile I left all in sherrys care. we went homeless for the protection of her son. she grew colder and planned this move without even courtisy of telling me. today I found her apartment applications to N.C. I tried to question her and she flipped. she had things packed and stored, she grabbed it and ran. This is a ongoing habbit of hers so much so that she lost herdaughter by choice.for her to question my love for her is unspeakable.First she never would have seen her own daughter graduate, let alone how far josh has come is documented to my praise and understanding of our boys disorder. now she is running again. Last year she ran while I was at work then later called from N.C. with no food wanting to come home. I thought things were good. I ve never raised my hand to her or her children.

I am not normally noisy but I found your email trying to find answers as to why and for reason she is leaving. I my opinion to relocate josh is the reason she cant stabilize his disorder it has been back and fourth all his life between Pa and Nc. I love them so but untill she stops running josh will regress . Anyway I am sorry to interupt but I felt compelled to bring the truth to you. Please pray for them,and my sons too,none of this is fair. If you do speak to sherry tell her the att. will have this stricken from record by summers end.by the papers that I did put in.That news came today.

An Excellent Credit Score is 750. See Yours in Just 2 Easy Steps!

[Guest guest]

sorry you feel that way, i spent 1075.00 and the man was told she wanted to marry him then she just ran away to N.cfor the second time to us without even talking to me about all the things she said to you folks, she has done this with two husbans and even her oldest daughter and as i said this is her second time to me,she did not even tell joshs dad so i disagree with you this is a cowardly act. I have been fighting my exwife and my sons are three times more disciplined than josh will ever be i too have a son on the spec.but i do not use that to excuse his actions i try to teach him to eccept accountability,and understand his position and become a good man. i do agree that she should think of her kids first all of them even the one she left here again after not seeing her for 10 yrs till i set

it up for her to see her again,so i have done my part and some. so in closing i would like to say that mans name is bryan and i gave my all to show my love to her to be abandoned AGAINFrom: Roxanna <MadIdeas@...> Sent: Tuesday, July 21, 2009 11:12:46 AMSubject: Re: ( ) Relocating

{{{Sherry}}} That is a brave decision but sounds like a good one. If this man still wants you, he needs to deal with his kids and his ex wife first anyway, something he isn't doing. You do have to consider your own kids first, that is not a bad thing. Hang in there!!

Roxanna

"The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing." E. Burke

( ) Relocating

Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"

The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh

,

i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but

we

will work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry

An Excellent Credit Score is 750. See Yours in Just 2 Easy Steps!

[Guest guest]

>

> Hey everyone just to let all know we made the move to NC and i am relieved but

bad news my exboyfriend went into my email account and pulled all  my emails up

and thus could have replied to anyone of you in a negative fashion, if this

happened i do apologize, however i will be fixing this problem by either setting

new account or changing password maybe both. sorry to all you guys. Sherry

Congrats, Sherry. Glad you got yourself and your family out of that situation.

[Guest guest]

Hi,

For somebody to go into somebody else email is not acceptable. I am just guessing that he is not over with you yet. He does not sound right at all.....

I congratulate you for the brave decision of living him.

Good luck and keep in touch

( ) Relocating Hey you guys, do you remember me telling you guys that my boyfriends 3 sons apparently told their mother that my son was touching them and she went to CYS and then the court to have order placed that my son couldnt be around her sons. Well CYS completed the investigation and had me take him to two sessions to teach him inappropiate and appropiate touches. The woman who did the counseling said this child is not capable of doing the things that they are accusing him of doing, I dont believe he was a threat then and i certainly dont believe that he is a threat now. Any way the court order stands, the judge wont over rule even though they lied to get it.Cys sent me a letter that says "Your family has not been accepted for Ongoing Services. The referral has been screened out and closed"The investigating caseworker told me to follow what ever women services told me, she said he is okay to be around children but she would take every precaution to protect him from the 3 that originally accused because if the mother is like she seems to be she wont quit. We have a court order that says no contact, yet my boyfriend continues to allow his sons to be around my son and becomes quite upset with me because i dont like it at all. He said he stayed here with me when he could have losts his sons completely while the investigation was going on, the least i could do was stand up for him, i try to explain that i am scared for my son and he becomes enraged and said everything isnt always about joshua why do you always make everything about him? i said i didnt know i was, but your sons and your exwife are the reason this is going on in the first place, your sons want you all to your self and now they have you. he said they beg to come here to see josh ,i said well i dont know, all i know is this is all a bunch of bs and i am sick of it, if you really want this to work why wont you take what i gave you and go into court and have the judge remove this order, why do you let it stand, it is ripping this family apart, and now i am terrified to leave my son alone because they still try to say that he is doing things, he isnt, . So anyway I have decided that as much as i may think i love this man (because anymore i'm just not sure what that type of love is) that i have to protect my son and daughter so i am going south again all my family is there and i just believe that is where we need to go, my son wants to leave now as he is worried sick about being here. But i cant leave until the end of this month. I know that my son will have to go thru an adjustment period again because it is a move but we have lived there for a big part of his life so he is familar with the area but new house and all of that but wewill work thru it. and as they say life gives you lemons make lemonade.lol anyway I will let you all know how the move goes.I know that getting to this point has been H**l and i need to bring peace to my family again this has been going on for too long . So i go from here. Sherry________________________________An Excellent Credit Score is 750. See Yours in Just 2 Easy Steps!