Obesity in a mate

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With me it isn't a matter of more attractive. I " see " my hubby as fat now,

and I didn't before I lost all my weight. *I* was the fat one...so the

focus was not on him. I don't care about his looks, I worry about his

health. I'd love to see him LOOK better too...but when you really love

someone, it isn't about looks but who the person is in the heart...that

secret person. I just want to keep him with me for as long as I can. So

would love him to be thinner.

Regards~

Jacque

would you rather have a mate twice as attractive as you? why? would your

answer be different pre/post op?

janice

" My cat knows the song in my heart and purrs it to me when my memory fails me. "