Guest guest Report post Posted January 23, 2004 I think most of us suffer from some distorted emotions about our bodies, how can we not. My current bf (of almost a year now ) is a ballet dancer and has the most beautiful body. I was apprehensive about my hanging skin, the scars the whole works, especially in light of his perfection but he is not centerd about bodies except if they work or not and has made me feel like everything about me is very special, every wrinkle, scar and line. Having been married twice to non-obese men and not having my obesity be an issue for them (it sure was for me) I guess I've learned it's not about looks but about how you feel about each other. Move on in life, hope for the best. Don't let this bump become a stop sign CAT Dr. W /Alvarado 2/2002 235/104 5'2 " Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites