Re: Fantasy Outfit (long)

[Guest guest]

What a cool moment for you. A memory to be treasured and a picture to be

relished. It is funny what we do after the tummy tuck isn't it? I am two

months out also. Hit 's Secret and got new panties and new bra's.

Then decided (must have been an insane moment) that I needed a really kick

butt outfit to wear to our Dog Club Christmas party. I ended up with a black

Velvet blouse with chiffon sleeve and a cleavage that was MADE for those

Secret Bra's! Then I got a shorter black velvet skirt with little

sparkles around the little lace on the hem (I would have normally worn

velvet pants, but the ones I had didn't fit and I couldn't find any that

did!). Wore black tights (ok I hate my knee scars) and little patten leather

flats. I definitely got LOADS of comments. This is NOT the conservative

outfit I would usually wear. And it was really pushing my comfort zone, but

was THRILLED and everyone said I looked GREAT. So, I guess it was

worth a little bit of personal discomfort (not used to wearing sexy stuff).

I think took a picture....if he did I will post it to the photo's

section.

Debbie &

in Gig Harbor

(170cm medial)

ladybostons@...

http://www.cafeshops.com/copsstore

http://www.marykay.com/debbiemcneice

-----Original Message-----

From: B.

Yesterday I found out that I am still an attractive and desirable woman.

B.

Open RNY 11/7/01 302 lbs

Tummy Tuck 10/16/03 147 lbs

12/13/03 140 lbs

[Guest guest]

So, share the picture.

Jac

Fantasy Outfit (long)

> Yesterday I found out that I am still an attractive and desirable woman.

> This may sound strange but I didn't really know. I am two years out from

my

> RNY and about 2 months out from my tummy tuck. I know that I wear a size

10

> top and size 6/8 pants now. I also know that at 38 years old I will never

> look like a Barbie doll or a movie star. I have gotten used to being

> " normal " most of the time.

>

> Yesterday, I visited a medivally-themed event and saw a booth offering

chain

> mail jewelry. I liked the jewelry but loved the chain mail link bikini

> modeled by a Barbie doll sitting on the display counter. When the guy

asked

> if I was interested in anything I saw, I laughed saying I wished I could

> wear the same outfit the Barbie was wearing. He looked at me and told me

> that he didn't see why I couldn't, then held up a " life-sized " version of

> the outfit and said it should fit fine. I laughed again at the little

scrap

> of woven metal he held and the idea that I could wear anything that small

> and sexy. Inside, however, I was intrigued with the idea.

>

> I have always read a lot of fantasy/sci-fi and this outfit was the

ultimate

> fantasy outfit for me. I admitted to him that idea of owning the outfit

> appealed to me but that I just couldn't afford it and what I really wanted

> was just a photo of me in it as a Christmas present for my husband. At

that

> point, a friend of the sellers volunteered that he was a photographer and

> would be willing to help me out and take a picture of me in it with his

> digital camera. The seller said that while he couldn't loan me the bottom

> piece, he would sell me just the bottom piece and loan me the top if he

> could have a copy of the picture for display. I warned them both up front

> that I was not attractive under my clothes and had lots of scars and other

> imperfections. Both insisted that helping me fulfill my fantasy would be

> their pleasure.

>

> I felt bad that the photographer was wasting his time on photographing a

> middle-aged woman who was showing almost every physical imperfection she

had

> in something meant more for a twenty-something hard body. The

> photographer's only reaction was I was crazy. He told me not to think of

my

> body as being in competition with Aphrodite, but that I should think of

> myself as Juno. He even joked that most men found Juno at least as

> attractive and a lot more desirable in many cases. He also said that

> photographing women in sexy outfits was not a hardship that most men would

> complain about in almost any case.

>

> I knew I made the right choice as soon as I put the outfit on. I can't

> begin to tell you the pleasure I felt putting on something that I thought

> couldn't fit me but did and was the most exciting outfit I could image

> wearing. As expected, my open RNY scar was lightly visible as well as the

> more obvious pink/purple newly healed scar from my tummy tuck. My thighs

> sagged slightly and my breast just barely fit in the top and sagged a

little

> out the sides. It didn't matter. The outfit was magic. What was amazing

> to me was that as pleased as I was, both men, the photographer and the

> seller, looked at me in the outfit with admiration. Neither said or did

> anything inappropriate but both let me know they thought I was a highly

> desirable woman who had a VERY lucky husband. The picture is not the best

> quality photograph I have ever seen but I will treasure it always.

>

> B.

> Open RNY 11/7/01 302 lbs

> Tummy Tuck 10/16/03 147 lbs

> 12/13/03 140 lbs

>

>

>

>

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[Guest guest]

Jac's on track: your narrative was inspirational; now how about

posting the pic? --Steve

At 3:38 PM -0600 12/14/03, Jacque Holdaway wrote:

>So, share the picture.

>Jac

[Guest guest]

OMG i love this story

it is the best!!!

i am crying with joy for you

janice

Fantasy Outfit (long)

Yesterday I found out that I am still an attractive and desirable woman.

This may sound strange but I didn't really know. I am two years out from my

RNY and about 2 months out from my tummy tuck. I know that I wear a size 10

top and size 6/8 pants now. I also know that at 38 years old I will never

look like a Barbie doll or a movie star. I have gotten used to being

" normal " most of the time.

Yesterday, I visited a medivally-themed event and saw a booth offering chain

mail jewelry. I liked the jewelry but loved the chain mail link bikini

modeled by a Barbie doll sitting on the display counter. When the guy asked

if I was interested in anything I saw, I laughed saying I wished I could

wear the same outfit the Barbie was wearing. He looked at me and told me

that he didn't see why I couldn't, then held up a " life-sized " version of

the outfit and said it should fit fine. I laughed again at the little scrap

of woven metal he held and the idea that I could wear anything that small

and sexy. Inside, however, I was intrigued with the idea.

I have always read a lot of fantasy/sci-fi and this outfit was the ultimate

fantasy outfit for me. I admitted to him that idea of owning the outfit

appealed to me but that I just couldn't afford it and what I really wanted

was just a photo of me in it as a Christmas present for my husband. At that

point, a friend of the sellers volunteered that he was a photographer and

would be willing to help me out and take a picture of me in it with his

digital camera. The seller said that while he couldn't loan me the bottom

piece, he would sell me just the bottom piece and loan me the top if he

could have a copy of the picture for display. I warned them both up front

that I was not attractive under my clothes and had lots of scars and other

imperfections. Both insisted that helping me fulfill my fantasy would be

their pleasure.

I felt bad that the photographer was wasting his time on photographing a

middle-aged woman who was showing almost every physical imperfection she had

in something meant more for a twenty-something hard body. The

photographer's only reaction was I was crazy. He told me not to think of my

body as being in competition with Aphrodite, but that I should think of

myself as Juno. He even joked that most men found Juno at least as

attractive and a lot more desirable in many cases. He also said that

photographing women in sexy outfits was not a hardship that most men would

complain about in almost any case.

I knew I made the right choice as soon as I put the outfit on. I can't

begin to tell you the pleasure I felt putting on something that I thought

couldn't fit me but did and was the most exciting outfit I could image

wearing. As expected, my open RNY scar was lightly visible as well as the

more obvious pink/purple newly healed scar from my tummy tuck. My thighs

sagged slightly and my breast just barely fit in the top and sagged a little

out the sides. It didn't matter. The outfit was magic. What was amazing

to me was that as pleased as I was, both men, the photographer and the

seller, looked at me in the outfit with admiration. Neither said or did

anything inappropriate but both let me know they thought I was a highly

desirable woman who had a VERY lucky husband. The picture is not the best

quality photograph I have ever seen but I will treasure it always.

B.

Open RNY 11/7/01 302 lbs

Tummy Tuck 10/16/03 147 lbs

12/13/03 140 lbs

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