Guest guest Report post Posted October 6, 2000 WoW !!! what a great story, .. and congratulations to you for surviving the downward spiral your life was on... You make it sound do-able for me. I haven't an abusesive husband, but I don't take very good care of 'me'. Everyone else is first in my life, and at 53 I'm afraid they are all going to be surprised to see a very new me! Trudy Strong pre-op (but counting down) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites