Guest guest Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 YOU KNOW I HAVE BEEN READING DIFFERENT POST OVER THE PAST WEEK. LOOKING AT WHAT DIFFEREDNT PEOPLES FAMILY AND FRIENDS FEEL ABOUT THE WLS. YOU KNOW THINKING THAT WE ARE JUST GOING TO START RUNNING WILD AND STUFF LIKE THAT. NOW I REALIZE THA IT HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I HAVE BEEN THIN OR ATLEAST ALOT SMALLER THAN I AM RIGHT NOW BUT WHY I DON'T THINK THAT ALL THIN PEOPLE RUN AROULD ACTING WILD AND FLIRTING WITH EVERYONE. I AM SAYING THIS BECAUSE ME AND MY HUSBAND WAS HAVING A DISCUSSION THE OTHER NIGHT ABOUT THE FACT THAT HE IS NOT A JEALOUS PERSON. IF I TOLD HIM THAT I WAS GOING TO A FRIENDS HOUSE TO VIST AND DID NOT COME HOME UNTIL 2 OR 3 IN THE MORNING HE WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT NOW ME ON THE OTHER HAND I WOULD HAVE A PROBLEM IF HE DID THAT. I AM NOT AN OVERLY JEALOUS PERSON HOWEVER I DO THINK THAT IS DISRESPECFUL. ANYWAY HE JUST HAS THIS NOTHING REALLY BOTHERS ME ATTITUDE AND I TOLD HIM THAT EVERY PERSON HAS A JEALOUS PART OF THEM ITS JUST A MATTER OF HOW THEY REACT TO THE SITUATION SOME PEOPLE BECOME STALKERS AND OBESSIVE AND OTHERS JUST SPEAK THEIR MIND.(I SPEAK MY MIND)THEN THIS SWEET MAN THAT I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO FOR 5 YEARS SAYS TOME WELL WHEN YOU LOSE THIS WEIGHT I AM NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH YOU YOU WILL NEVER BE AT HOME. SO I'M LIKE DO YOU THINK THAT THE ONLY REASON I AM AT HOME A LOT IS BECAUSE OF MY WEIGHT AND THAT NO ONE IS INTERESTED IN ME BECAUSE I AM FAT (I SAY I'M FAT HE SAYS FULL FIGURED. AND I STIL DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE DIFFEENCE BETWEENT THOSE 2 ARE)SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT WHY DO ME TEND TO THINK THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE OVER WEIGHT NO ONE WANTS YOU. MOW MY HUSBAND DID NOT COME OUT AND SAY IT BUT I KNOW THAT IS WHAT HE MENT IN SO MANY WORDS. NORA PRE-OP 10-28-03 MICHIGAN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 best of luck tomorrow on your consult, nola. have you got your list of ?s prepared? lori h. > I am a widow have been since Jan 95. someone told me the men will be crazy about me post op(esp If I dont loose the boobs LOL) I said if they werent after me before when fat dont need to come when I get skinny. Kinda like OHHHHHHHHH you won a millon in the lottery lets hook up DARLIN' I would say sorry about your luck you didnt want me poor LOL > Nola > 220 postop 110 ?????????????? > seeing surgeonTOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pray for me all Please > 5'2 " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 I am a widow have been since Jan 95. someone told me the men will be crazy about me post op(esp If I dont loose the boobs LOL) I said if they werent after me before when fat dont need to come when I get skinny. Kinda like OHHHHHHHHH you won a millon in the lottery lets hook up DARLIN' I would say sorry about your luck you didnt want me poor LOL Nola 220 postop 110 ?????????????? seeing surgeonTOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pray for me all Please 5'2 " LOSING WEIGHT YOU KNOW I HAVE BEEN READING DIFFERENT POST OVER THE PAST WEEK. LOOKING AT WHAT DIFFEREDNT PEOPLES FAMILY AND FRIENDS FEEL ABOUT THE WLS. YOU KNOW THINKING THAT WE ARE JUST GOING TO START RUNNING WILD AND STUFF LIKE THAT. NOW I REALIZE THA IT HAS BEEN AWHILE SINCE I HAVE BEEN THIN OR ATLEAST ALOT SMALLER THAN I AM RIGHT NOW BUT WHY I DON'T THINK THAT ALL THIN PEOPLE RUN AROULD ACTING WILD AND FLIRTING WITH EVERYONE. I AM SAYING THIS BECAUSE ME AND MY HUSBAND WAS HAVING A DISCUSSION THE OTHER NIGHT ABOUT THE FACT THAT HE IS NOT A JEALOUS PERSON. IF I TOLD HIM THAT I WAS GOING TO A FRIENDS HOUSE TO VIST AND DID NOT COME HOME UNTIL 2 OR 3 IN THE MORNING HE WOULD NOT HAVE A PROBLEM WITH THAT NOW ME ON THE OTHER HAND I WOULD HAVE A PROBLEM IF HE DID THAT. I AM NOT AN OVERLY JEALOUS PERSON HOWEVER I DO THINK THAT IS DISRESPECFUL. ANYWAY HE JUST HAS THIS NOTHING REALLY BOTHERS ME ATTITUDE AND I TOLD HIM THAT EVERY PERSON HAS A JEALOUS PART OF THEM ITS JUST A MATTER OF HOW THEY REACT TO THE SITUATION SOME PEOPLE BECOME STALKERS AND OBESSIVE AND OTHERS JUST SPEAK THEIR MIND.(I SPEAK MY MIND)THEN THIS SWEET MAN THAT I HAVE BEEN MARRIED TO FOR 5 YEARS SAYS TOME WELL WHEN YOU LOSE THIS WEIGHT I AM NOT GOING TO BE ABLE TO KEEP UP WITH YOU YOU WILL NEVER BE AT HOME. SO I'M LIKE DO YOU THINK THAT THE ONLY REASON I AM AT HOME A LOT IS BECAUSE OF MY WEIGHT AND THAT NO ONE IS INTERESTED IN ME BECAUSE I AM FAT (I SAY I'M FAT HE SAYS FULL FIGURED. AND I STIL DO NOT KNOW WHAT THE DIFFEENCE BETWEENT THOSE 2 ARE)SORRY THIS IS SO LONG BUT WHY DO ME TEND TO THINK THAT JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE OVER WEIGHT NO ONE WANTS YOU. MOW MY HUSBAND DID NOT COME OUT AND SAY IT BUT I KNOW THAT IS WHAT HE MENT IN SO MANY WORDS. NORA PRE-OP 10-28-03 MICHIGAN Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 thank you 4 note pad pages (3x5) full most of the questions I things I have learned here. this is wonderful!!!!!! I usually play alot of euchre or solitare. since I found this site havent had time to play games. Re: LOSING WEIGHT best of luck tomorrow on your consult, nola. have you got your list of ?s prepared? lori h. > I am a widow have been since Jan 95. someone told me the men will be crazy about me post op(esp If I dont loose the boobs LOL) I said if they werent after me before when fat dont need to come when I get skinny. Kinda like OHHHHHHHHH you won a millon in the lottery lets hook up DARLIN' I would say sorry about your luck you didnt want me poor LOL > Nola > 220 postop 110 ?????????????? > seeing surgeonTOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! pray for me all Please > 5'2 " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 22, 2003 Report Share Posted October 22, 2003 Nora, Hi my name is sheryl I also live in MI. where at in MI. do you live and who is going to do your surgery. I had LAP RNY 6-10-03. I was 288 to start and am now down to 198. 5ft10 in. I have more energy than ever. It does change your life a little bit. but all for the better. write me back. I live in eastpointe. I belong to a great local support group if your interested. take care and good luck. sheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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