Guest guest Posted February 19, 2004 Report Share Posted February 19, 2004 I too do not have enjoyable pregnancies. I am nauseous 24/7 throughout. When I am done with this pregnancy I will have been nauseous for over 2 years of my life. Let me tell you, I am so grateful for this gift. I never thought I'd ever get to feel the wonder and thrill of feeling the baby move inside me for the first time, ever again and see my belly move! I am so thrilled that I get to share this with my 2 kids, who are equally thrilled about a baby bro/sister. I never thought I'd hold a newborn of mine again and smell that newborn smell that belongs only to me. -- Those hands and tiny toes! I did not feel this way from day one, I had to go through all the emotions to get to this point. It sounds like you're at the beginning and overwhelmed with it all just as I was. I was also on my weight loss swing and really getting into losing it and had a goal to meet before going home and surprising the hell out of my family who does not even know I had it done. Now I've gained 6 pounds and it's freaking me out a bit. I know I am going to go home with a big belly and I'm working on that mentally. I keep telling myself it's for the baby be grateful. How can I not love this baby and be grateful when so many of my friends cannot concieve, yet would be the most awesome mothers if given a chance that I was given so easily?? I guess what it comes down to is everyone has their own issues to work through and you will get through yours too. Every pregnancy is different in it's own way. If I am to give you my opinion since you asked, I say give this baby a chance and work through your issues one day at a time! 9 months post op RNY -107 pounds 10 weeks pregnant with number 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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