Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 You can have sex as long as you are not having any problems like spotting or bleeding or excessive pain. HUGS, ROBIN, NY Age- 41 Due Date- #4 July 27th, 2004 OPEN RNY 10-18-02 378/246/170??? DR.EDWARD HIXSON SARANAC LAKE, NY Mom to: & 7 1/2 year twin boys and Madison age 5 Miscarraige August 2001 Miscarraige August 2003 Married to Pup: 15 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 You can have sex as long as you are not having any problems like spotting or bleeding or excessive pain. HUGS, ROBIN, NY Age- 41 Due Date- #4 July 27th, 2004 OPEN RNY 10-18-02 378/246/170??? DR.EDWARD HIXSON SARANAC LAKE, NY Mom to: & 7 1/2 year twin boys and Madison age 5 Miscarraige August 2001 Miscarraige August 2003 Married to Pup: 15 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Rhonda, Tell your husband to take a hike! LOL I know how you feel.. I have not been " in the mood " for most of my pregnancy. I am exhausted and nauseous and generally not feeling very " frisky " . It is perfectly safe for us to have sex, but I have explained to my husband that it may be a while before I'm really " into it " again. There are other remedies... be creative ) My husband and I are just married, so I'm sure it's not his ideal way to start a marriage, but thankfully he is very receptive to the fact that sex just wouldn't be much fun if I felt that I was doing it as my " duty " instead of wanting to do it. It's hard for me to sympathize too much with men since I'm the one who is feeling so lousy and working so hard to have a healthy baby. I know this may not be a popular opinion, but I think you need to do what's best for YOU! Your husband loves you enough to create a baby with you and he will love you enough to understand your limitations while that baby is making you ill. This too shall pass.... hopefully sooner than later! Dee in Ohio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Hi Rhonda, I can defintely sympathize. With both of my pregnancies I didn't feel like having sex the entire time. I am sure soon you will feel better, as you enter your 2nd trimester. I am sure sex wouldn't hurt anything. But, I like you don't like to hae sex in the 1st trimester. It makes me nervous as well, even though my OB said it was fine. It's easy for me to say, but my philosophy was " if I didn't feel like having sex, I wouldn't. " Can you talk to your hubby about your fears/feelings? Open RNY 2-18-02 359/138 1-16-03 andra Marie (born still at 36 weeks gestation on 3-14-98 following a car accident) WHEN TO HAVE SEX > Hello, my name is Rhonda and I have been a lurker here for sometime, > I need some advice. > > My husband is pressuring me for sex. I'm currently 9 weeks along > and I have no desire what so ever to do so. Between the Morning > Sickness and the fatigue it kills me to go to work on a regular. I > had read somewhere that you should not have sex until after the 1st > trimester. Is this true? Has anyone else heard of this? I'm just > afraid of a miscarriage at this early in the game. My doctor visit > was a rush yesterday and I was not able to ask the doctor about it. > > I thank you all in advance for your feedback > > Rhonda > > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Hi Rhonda, I can defintely sympathize. With both of my pregnancies I didn't feel like having sex the entire time. I am sure soon you will feel better, as you enter your 2nd trimester. I am sure sex wouldn't hurt anything. But, I like you don't like to hae sex in the 1st trimester. It makes me nervous as well, even though my OB said it was fine. It's easy for me to say, but my philosophy was " if I didn't feel like having sex, I wouldn't. " Can you talk to your hubby about your fears/feelings? Open RNY 2-18-02 359/138 1-16-03 andra Marie (born still at 36 weeks gestation on 3-14-98 following a car accident) WHEN TO HAVE SEX > Hello, my name is Rhonda and I have been a lurker here for sometime, > I need some advice. > > My husband is pressuring me for sex. I'm currently 9 weeks along > and I have no desire what so ever to do so. Between the Morning > Sickness and the fatigue it kills me to go to work on a regular. I > had read somewhere that you should not have sex until after the 1st > trimester. Is this true? Has anyone else heard of this? I'm just > afraid of a miscarriage at this early in the game. My doctor visit > was a rush yesterday and I was not able to ask the doctor about it. > > I thank you all in advance for your feedback > > Rhonda > > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 > Hello, my name is Rhonda and I have been a lurker here for sometime, > I need some advice. > > My husband is pressuring me for sex. I'm currently 9 weeks along > and I have no desire what so ever to do so. Between the Morning > Sickness and the fatigue it kills me to go to work on a regular. I > had read somewhere that you should not have sex until after the 1st > trimester. Is this true? Has anyone else heard of this? I'm just > afraid of a miscarriage at this early in the game. My doctor visit > was a rush yesterday and I was not able to ask the doctor about it. > > I thank you all in advance for your feedback > > Rhonda Rhonda you can have sex whenever you are ready. you may try sitting down and talking to your husband about your feelings, letting him know your fears, and that you would like to take it slowly. Every woman is different, but for most, the sex is extremely good during pregnancy. take your time, and listen to your body. you will be fine. lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 > Hello, my name is Rhonda and I have been a lurker here for sometime, > I need some advice. > > My husband is pressuring me for sex. I'm currently 9 weeks along > and I have no desire what so ever to do so. Between the Morning > Sickness and the fatigue it kills me to go to work on a regular. I > had read somewhere that you should not have sex until after the 1st > trimester. Is this true? Has anyone else heard of this? I'm just > afraid of a miscarriage at this early in the game. My doctor visit > was a rush yesterday and I was not able to ask the doctor about it. > > I thank you all in advance for your feedback > > Rhonda Rhonda you can have sex whenever you are ready. you may try sitting down and talking to your husband about your feelings, letting him know your fears, and that you would like to take it slowly. Every woman is different, but for most, the sex is extremely good during pregnancy. take your time, and listen to your body. you will be fine. lea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 27, 2004 Report Share Posted January 27, 2004 Hey ya'll Maybe I am crazy but I am the one that wants to have the sex and my hubby is PETRIFIED to touch me sexwise............My doc says NO MORE SEX as of a MONTH ago.....GRRRRRRR! LOL I am in my 7th month twin boys and I am miserable!!!! Uncomfortable and stressed out! I know sex would help relieve that stress....But dont wanna risk anything too early... MY OB says to be creative....LOL Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Rhonda, Sex will not hurt the baby but if you are just not in the mood then tell your husband and hopefully he will understand since the most important thing at this point is the baby. Best wishes to you!! DE EDD#2 8/2/04 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Angie, I am having twins too. I am only in my 3rd month though. How much have you gained? My Doctor said that I will probably be on bed rest by 8 months, did yours say that? I am so nervous with twins. I am terrified that one will have something wrong like CP or Spina Bifida. Don't know why, just all the vitamins that we are supposed to be getting or something. I will feel like it is my fault! Well, just wanted to ask how you are doing at this stage. Thank you Tricia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 28, 2004 Report Share Posted January 28, 2004 Hey girl RELAX! you will be just fine! Yes you will prob have to be on mostly bed rest by the time your 7-8 months like me. The babies will be just fine ... I have gained approx 18 lbs so far my babies are right on track with normal weight and size as normal twins YOU will be fine !!!! Feel free to email me directly if you'd like ANgie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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