Re: Second pregnancy-Struggling with moral issues.

[Guest guest]

,

You definately are not alone. It is a hard decision. When i became

pregnant with my third child (a surprise child) we still didn't have

a diagnoses for her sister . I don't think it would have

changed my mind. It is the hardest thing to take care of a sick

child, and then add on more children,and illness yourself, some days

it seems down right impossible.Then you wake up the next day and do

it again. Sometimes you love it and some times you want to run away.

I left and abusive husband this past yr. I am a sinlge mother. I

too, have CFS (probably mito) and and two other children (13 and

2.5) I wouldn't change anything (excpet maybe more money!). I have a

great support system in my mom and her friends. Great doctors for

and hospice services which help us to figure it all out when

it gets overwhelming- and it does.

You are not selfish no matter what you decide.It is your choice.We

are here for you and always remember, no matter what, you are not

alone!

I hope you get what you truly want.

Dawn