Guest guest Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 Blake, Wow, reading about your situation it's like I could have been writing much of it myself. I'm 32 and should have had this done as a teenager, but I didn't do it because I was too scared. My upper jaw was also too narrow before the surgery (as well as too long), and I had a cross-bite which made my midline quite off and I always thought of myself as looking " crooked " too. My husband and I would joke about his crooked wife. I also didn't have much of a chin. Before starting with braces my bite came together fine, though aesthetics-wise it was far from beautiful. I had a consultation with my orthodontist who recommended braces with surgery as a way of putting everything in the right place and averting possible TMJ problems in the future. I've hated almost every photo ever taken of me, especially when I'm smiling. I did have the surgery primarily for cosmetic reasons, though there were a number of functional benefits I wanted as well (being able to close my lips more easily - which hasn't happened so far, being able to breathe more easily through my nose - which has, and avoiding future TMJ problems). I'm only 3 weeks post-op and still in the " What the hell...? " phase, and afraid that I'll be stuck with the problems I knew there was a chance the surgery could cause (my surgeon said there was a 2% chance it could make things worse), but I'm optimistic and hope for great results after I'm finished recovering. It's a long process, though, and frustrating! It's difficult just waiting and wondering when you'll feel " normal " again. Appearance-wise, I'm already happy with the results. Best of luck with your surgery in June, and may everything go smoothly and your results be wonderful! Beth > Hello.. > > My upper jaw is too narrow, and my lower jaw is off center by about 5 > mm. When I look straight ahead in a mirror, I can adjust my face to > look normal, and I wear a goatee to hide my off-center lower jaw. > In pictures, especially when they are taken when I'm not aware, I > look horrible (well, at least, to me.) > > My dentist told me that having Orthognatic surgery will give me great > benefits down the road, because of the uneven pressure being applied > to my TM joints, I'll eventually have problems -- and unlike hip and > knee replacements, there are no replacements for TMJ. > > However, I'm 30, and I have a good job with good benefits, and when I > got out of braces when I was 16, I was told I'd need surgery > eventually. At that time, my parents couldn't afford it. But now, I > am coverered, and I'm going to get it done. > > I don't have the problems with my teeth not meeting (well, recently I > do, because lets face it, pre-surgical braces really mess with your > bite as the ortho gets ready for the surgery), but I'm not in pain > right now, and I can eat, etc. etc. This, for me, is being done for > cosmetic reasons, with the added benefits of improved jaw function -- > but obviously my OS worded it differently to get it approved of > course. > > I just figure this is a pretty mellow time in my life. I work at a > pretty stress-free job, I get to live and work downtown Orlando, I > walk to work, I'm planning on going back to school next Fall in > Atlanta for Physician's Assistant, and I figure, this is something > that I have the time, and feeling that I want to get done. > > I'm a little vain. I care how I look. I have a crooked face. Every > study of beauty says that symmetry is what makes us beautful. > Although my friends don't see anything wrong with how I look until I > tell them, I know that subconsiously, they do see it. I know I do. > > I'm aware of the risks -- numbness, etc. But I personally know of at > least 3 people who've had this done, and a week after the surgery, > they thought " What the hell did I do to myself?? " . A year later, > they'd do it again. > > I'm sorry to hear about the people who've had terrible results with > this surgery, but according to the literature I've read on the > subject, those people seem to be in the minority, as unfortunate as > that is. Maybe a year from now, I'll feel as bad as they do. But > right now, I'm excited about the new appearance, and like my Dentist > said, I'll have the rest of my life to enjoy the new benefits of > Orthognatic surgery. > > I wish everyone luck out there, and I hope you do the same for me. > My surgical date is this June, and I can't wait! > > -Blake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 Blake, Looks like we'll be surgery buds. I'm scheduled for June 22nd. What's your date? Dammit > Hello.. > > My upper jaw is too narrow, and my lower jaw is off center by about 5 > mm. When I look straight ahead in a mirror, I can adjust my face to > look normal, and I wear a goatee to hide my off-center lower jaw. > In pictures, especially when they are taken when I'm not aware, I > look horrible (well, at least, to me.) > > My dentist told me that having Orthognatic surgery will give me great > benefits down the road, because of the uneven pressure being applied > to my TM joints, I'll eventually have problems -- and unlike hip and > knee replacements, there are no replacements for TMJ. > > However, I'm 30, and I have a good job with good benefits, and when I > got out of braces when I was 16, I was told I'd need surgery > eventually. At that time, my parents couldn't afford it. But now, I > am coverered, and I'm going to get it done. > > I don't have the problems with my teeth not meeting (well, recently I > do, because lets face it, pre-surgical braces really mess with your > bite as the ortho gets ready for the surgery), but I'm not in pain > right now, and I can eat, etc. etc. This, for me, is being done for > cosmetic reasons, with the added benefits of improved jaw function -- > but obviously my OS worded it differently to get it approved of > course. > > I just figure this is a pretty mellow time in my life. I work at a > pretty stress-free job, I get to live and work downtown Orlando, I > walk to work, I'm planning on going back to school next Fall in > Atlanta for Physician's Assistant, and I figure, this is something > that I have the time, and feeling that I want to get done. > > I'm a little vain. I care how I look. I have a crooked face. Every > study of beauty says that symmetry is what makes us beautful. > Although my friends don't see anything wrong with how I look until I > tell them, I know that subconsiously, they do see it. I know I do. > > I'm aware of the risks -- numbness, etc. But I personally know of at > least 3 people who've had this done, and a week after the surgery, > they thought " What the hell did I do to myself?? " . A year later, > they'd do it again. > > I'm sorry to hear about the people who've had terrible results with > this surgery, but according to the literature I've read on the > subject, those people seem to be in the minority, as unfortunate as > that is. Maybe a year from now, I'll feel as bad as they do. But > right now, I'm excited about the new appearance, and like my Dentist > said, I'll have the rest of my life to enjoy the new benefits of > Orthognatic surgery. > > I wish everyone luck out there, and I hope you do the same for me. > My surgical date is this June, and I can't wait! > > -Blake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 Blake, Looks like we'll be surgery buds. I'm scheduled for June 22nd. What's your date? Dammit > Hello.. > > My upper jaw is too narrow, and my lower jaw is off center by about 5 > mm. When I look straight ahead in a mirror, I can adjust my face to > look normal, and I wear a goatee to hide my off-center lower jaw. > In pictures, especially when they are taken when I'm not aware, I > look horrible (well, at least, to me.) > > My dentist told me that having Orthognatic surgery will give me great > benefits down the road, because of the uneven pressure being applied > to my TM joints, I'll eventually have problems -- and unlike hip and > knee replacements, there are no replacements for TMJ. > > However, I'm 30, and I have a good job with good benefits, and when I > got out of braces when I was 16, I was told I'd need surgery > eventually. At that time, my parents couldn't afford it. But now, I > am coverered, and I'm going to get it done. > > I don't have the problems with my teeth not meeting (well, recently I > do, because lets face it, pre-surgical braces really mess with your > bite as the ortho gets ready for the surgery), but I'm not in pain > right now, and I can eat, etc. etc. This, for me, is being done for > cosmetic reasons, with the added benefits of improved jaw function -- > but obviously my OS worded it differently to get it approved of > course. > > I just figure this is a pretty mellow time in my life. I work at a > pretty stress-free job, I get to live and work downtown Orlando, I > walk to work, I'm planning on going back to school next Fall in > Atlanta for Physician's Assistant, and I figure, this is something > that I have the time, and feeling that I want to get done. > > I'm a little vain. I care how I look. I have a crooked face. Every > study of beauty says that symmetry is what makes us beautful. > Although my friends don't see anything wrong with how I look until I > tell them, I know that subconsiously, they do see it. I know I do. > > I'm aware of the risks -- numbness, etc. But I personally know of at > least 3 people who've had this done, and a week after the surgery, > they thought " What the hell did I do to myself?? " . A year later, > they'd do it again. > > I'm sorry to hear about the people who've had terrible results with > this surgery, but according to the literature I've read on the > subject, those people seem to be in the minority, as unfortunate as > that is. Maybe a year from now, I'll feel as bad as they do. But > right now, I'm excited about the new appearance, and like my Dentist > said, I'll have the rest of my life to enjoy the new benefits of > Orthognatic surgery. > > I wish everyone luck out there, and I hope you do the same for me. > My surgical date is this June, and I can't wait! > > -Blake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 19, 2004 Report Share Posted March 19, 2004 Blake, Looks like we'll be surgery buds. I'm scheduled for June 22nd. What's your date? Dammit > Hello.. > > My upper jaw is too narrow, and my lower jaw is off center by about 5 > mm. When I look straight ahead in a mirror, I can adjust my face to > look normal, and I wear a goatee to hide my off-center lower jaw. > In pictures, especially when they are taken when I'm not aware, I > look horrible (well, at least, to me.) > > My dentist told me that having Orthognatic surgery will give me great > benefits down the road, because of the uneven pressure being applied > to my TM joints, I'll eventually have problems -- and unlike hip and > knee replacements, there are no replacements for TMJ. > > However, I'm 30, and I have a good job with good benefits, and when I > got out of braces when I was 16, I was told I'd need surgery > eventually. At that time, my parents couldn't afford it. But now, I > am coverered, and I'm going to get it done. > > I don't have the problems with my teeth not meeting (well, recently I > do, because lets face it, pre-surgical braces really mess with your > bite as the ortho gets ready for the surgery), but I'm not in pain > right now, and I can eat, etc. etc. This, for me, is being done for > cosmetic reasons, with the added benefits of improved jaw function -- > but obviously my OS worded it differently to get it approved of > course. > > I just figure this is a pretty mellow time in my life. I work at a > pretty stress-free job, I get to live and work downtown Orlando, I > walk to work, I'm planning on going back to school next Fall in > Atlanta for Physician's Assistant, and I figure, this is something > that I have the time, and feeling that I want to get done. > > I'm a little vain. I care how I look. I have a crooked face. Every > study of beauty says that symmetry is what makes us beautful. > Although my friends don't see anything wrong with how I look until I > tell them, I know that subconsiously, they do see it. I know I do. > > I'm aware of the risks -- numbness, etc. But I personally know of at > least 3 people who've had this done, and a week after the surgery, > they thought " What the hell did I do to myself?? " . A year later, > they'd do it again. > > I'm sorry to hear about the people who've had terrible results with > this surgery, but according to the literature I've read on the > subject, those people seem to be in the minority, as unfortunate as > that is. Maybe a year from now, I'll feel as bad as they do. But > right now, I'm excited about the new appearance, and like my Dentist > said, I'll have the rest of my life to enjoy the new benefits of > Orthognatic surgery. > > I wish everyone luck out there, and I hope you do the same for me. > My surgical date is this June, and I can't wait! > > -Blake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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