serious adult question

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Hello Theresa,

Ok.... first you need to be 100% certain that what he is experiencing is the

result of diabetes. A doctor, in the exam room kind of conversation, if not

now.. then soon... with him!

There might be many other causes, which might NOT be diabetes, or have

anything to do with it, for once. Now, I say this with all candor and

seriousness, as a man... and a diabetic for decades, this is not a condition

(penis pain) which I am personally familiar with, nor heard of specifically.

Myself I am not phased even remotely by it, if it is diabetes related I too

would like to know.... and I am not offended in the least! Nor could I be...

I've seen and heard a lot in my time.... Now if it IS diabetes related it

sounds like some ~evil variation~ of the pretty standard neuropathy stuff.

Yes diabetes can & does effect erections to varying degrees , in many men. I

wish I had personal experience with that problem as you describe it, but I

do not. Occasional erection issues sure... as a man... erections do not

happen as frequently as I might like them to occur... At 15 years old, AIR,

or the color green might cause them to happen... now.... at 38 not quite

THAT frequently, (sic. unfortunately). >: >

As for what YOU can do.... context. " ..... sweetie..... are you 15years old.

... can you stay up all night partying, dancing.....acting crazy the way you

did then....? If you stay up ALL night long (doing whatever) can you go to

work the next day with NO effects for doing so....? " That type of

conversation.... Hes likely in a different head-space and definitely in a

different physical space now, than then..... likely.

If you are able to have that kind of conversation with him.... are ABLE to

be that kind of understanding... my view, my perspective is that.... you'll

have very few true problems with him. If it takes longer to arouse him....

FANTASTIC.... teach him what gets you going.

Anybody else....

Jeff