Guest guest Posted June 24, 2000 Report Share Posted June 24, 2000 In a message dated 6/23/00 4:19:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, MiniGastricBypass (AT) e writes: << im almost ready to dump that verbally abusive husband of mine. now that he sees me getting so much smaller, hes saying things like, remember i stayed with you when you were big. guess what i dont even want to hear that crap now. its too late!!!!! >> I have to tell you -- you are a better person than I. If my husband said that to me, I would say yeah well I stayed with you when you were ignorant and ugly (where I come from this is an internal thing-personality, being mean, etc.) and then walked out the door slamming it in his face and never looking back. Overweight people are just as worthy of love and quite capable of being incredibly beautiful inside and out (and I bet you are both!!!) :-) and the people who do not realize that are just missing out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2000 Report Share Posted June 24, 2000 Yeah !!! Right you are!!! joanne/ohio raventmb@... wrote: > In a message dated 6/23/00 4:19:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, > MiniGastricBypass (AT) e writes: > > << im almost ready to > dump that verbally abusive husband of mine. now that he sees me getting so > much smaller, hes saying things like, remember i stayed with you when you > were big. guess what i dont even want to hear that crap now. its too > late!!!!! >> > > I have to tell you -- you are a better person than I. If my husband said > that to me, I would say yeah well I stayed with you when you were ignorant > and ugly (where I come from this is an internal thing-personality, being > mean, etc.) and then walked out the door slamming it in his face and never > looking back. > > Overweight people are just as worthy of love and quite capable of being > incredibly beautiful inside and out (and I bet you are both!!!) :-) and the > people who do not realize that are just missing out. > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > TRAVEL FOR PENNIES ON THE DOLLAR! Get dozens of the best travel agents > competing for your business with our new FREE service. > http://click.egroups.com/1/5745/3/_/453517/_/961878974/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2000 Report Share Posted June 24, 2000 Yeah !!! Right you are!!! joanne/ohio raventmb@... wrote: > In a message dated 6/23/00 4:19:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, > MiniGastricBypass (AT) e writes: > > << im almost ready to > dump that verbally abusive husband of mine. now that he sees me getting so > much smaller, hes saying things like, remember i stayed with you when you > were big. guess what i dont even want to hear that crap now. its too > late!!!!! >> > > I have to tell you -- you are a better person than I. If my husband said > that to me, I would say yeah well I stayed with you when you were ignorant > and ugly (where I come from this is an internal thing-personality, being > mean, etc.) and then walked out the door slamming it in his face and never > looking back. > > Overweight people are just as worthy of love and quite capable of being > incredibly beautiful inside and out (and I bet you are both!!!) :-) and the > people who do not realize that are just missing out. > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > TRAVEL FOR PENNIES ON THE DOLLAR! Get dozens of the best travel agents > competing for your business with our new FREE service. > http://click.egroups.com/1/5745/3/_/453517/_/961878974/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 24, 2000 Report Share Posted June 24, 2000 Yeah !!! Right you are!!! joanne/ohio raventmb@... wrote: > In a message dated 6/23/00 4:19:24 PM Eastern Daylight Time, > MiniGastricBypass (AT) e writes: > > << im almost ready to > dump that verbally abusive husband of mine. now that he sees me getting so > much smaller, hes saying things like, remember i stayed with you when you > were big. guess what i dont even want to hear that crap now. its too > late!!!!! >> > > I have to tell you -- you are a better person than I. If my husband said > that to me, I would say yeah well I stayed with you when you were ignorant > and ugly (where I come from this is an internal thing-personality, being > mean, etc.) and then walked out the door slamming it in his face and never > looking back. > > Overweight people are just as worthy of love and quite capable of being > incredibly beautiful inside and out (and I bet you are both!!!) :-) and the > people who do not realize that are just missing out. > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > TRAVEL FOR PENNIES ON THE DOLLAR! Get dozens of the best travel agents > competing for your business with our new FREE service. > http://click.egroups.com/1/5745/3/_/453517/_/961878974/ > ------------------------------------------------------------------------ > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 21, 2001 Report Share Posted August 21, 2001 The thing that bugs me a LOT just happened... DH spoke to London to his (long serving and long suffering!) secretary and was all sugary sweet, kind and concerned that her workload while he was away shouldn't be too much. Off the phone he went back to being Old Groucho. GRRR. Yeshaya has 2 friends from London sleeping over in our house here, it reminds me so much of and , (Yeshaya being of course) I almost expect one of them to say " Hello Mrs. , how are you Mrs. ? " in that sickly sweet falsetto, whilst verbally stabbing me in the back when I leave the room. His GCSE results come out this week; I don't expect him to get the 5 C's he needs to get into the other school for 6th form. Miracles have happened I suppose, not that I think he deserves a miracle, the amount of work he's done. Sorry for sounding grouchy myself, I guess I just feel a bit used by everyone on this " holiday. " Ruthie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 Yeah but at least no-one grinds dirt into his newly mown grass, or takes the lighbulb out of its proper place and throws it on the floor for him to pick up again or pours the oil out for the hell of it and he doesn't have to change the tyre over and over and over again without anyone even noticing )) Having a bad day today with bloomin kids and their untidy/devilish ways! Roll on 6th September! Lesley ANT, tr BFC, Mother, Wife, Friend, Mender of Broken Hearts, Keeper of Secrets, Chauffeur, Cook, Maid, Writer. Overweight, Over thirty, Over here in Worthing.. " Believing Oneself to be perfect is often the sign of a delusional mind! " Star Trek. husbands > Its nice to know how similar they all are! > > Kate > Mum to 3 noisy kids > > P.S I cant remember the last time I changed a tyre,filled up the oil ,changed a lightbulb or cut the grass!!! > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 Yeah but at least no-one grinds dirt into his newly mown grass, or takes the lighbulb out of its proper place and throws it on the floor for him to pick up again or pours the oil out for the hell of it and he doesn't have to change the tyre over and over and over again without anyone even noticing )) Having a bad day today with bloomin kids and their untidy/devilish ways! Roll on 6th September! Lesley ANT, tr BFC, Mother, Wife, Friend, Mender of Broken Hearts, Keeper of Secrets, Chauffeur, Cook, Maid, Writer. Overweight, Over thirty, Over here in Worthing.. " Believing Oneself to be perfect is often the sign of a delusional mind! " Star Trek. husbands > Its nice to know how similar they all are! > > Kate > Mum to 3 noisy kids > > P.S I cant remember the last time I changed a tyre,filled up the oil ,changed a lightbulb or cut the grass!!! > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 wrote and I laughed and laughed Yeah but at least no-one grinds dirt into his newly mown grass, or takes the lighbulb out of its proper place and throws it on the floor for him to pick up again or pours the oil out for the hell of it and he doesn't have to change the tyre over and over and over again without anyone even noticing )) , it's called The Crap Shifting Treadmill and it only comes inexpilcably in female sizes, I'm quite small but my treadmill is still huge:)) Fiona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 wrote and I laughed and laughed Yeah but at least no-one grinds dirt into his newly mown grass, or takes the lighbulb out of its proper place and throws it on the floor for him to pick up again or pours the oil out for the hell of it and he doesn't have to change the tyre over and over and over again without anyone even noticing )) , it's called The Crap Shifting Treadmill and it only comes inexpilcably in female sizes, I'm quite small but my treadmill is still huge:)) Fiona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 wrote Roll on 6th September!>>>>>>>>> Lucky you ours don't go back until the 11th. That is because they broke up later than nearly everyone else. Trisha SAHM to 3 boys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 wrote Roll on 6th September!>>>>>>>>> Lucky you ours don't go back until the 11th. That is because they broke up later than nearly everyone else. Trisha SAHM to 3 boys Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 > P.S I cant remember the last time I changed a tyre,filled up the oil ,changed a lightbulb or cut the grass!!! I can!! ( - not to mention last time I fixed the PC, wired up our underfloor heating, and assembled our flat packed book shelves! ) (Oh well perhaps not the cut the grass part - though I did assemble the lawn mower for him so he could do it...!!) Karina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 > P.S I cant remember the last time I changed a tyre,filled up the oil ,changed a lightbulb or cut the grass!!! I can!! ( - not to mention last time I fixed the PC, wired up our underfloor heating, and assembled our flat packed book shelves! ) (Oh well perhaps not the cut the grass part - though I did assemble the lawn mower for him so he could do it...!!) Karina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 <<> P.S I cant remember the last time I changed a tyre,filled up the oil ,changed a lightbulb or cut the grass!!!>> erm.. lightbulbs in general house hold sorts under me appart from 2 where due to dodgy wiring you need 2 people to do it (so dh does the changing whilst I check that the fuses don't blow)... changed a tyre and filled the oil... erm is that not what garages are for??? neither dh nor I do that sort of thing ;o)... cut the grass normally something dh does but I do occasionally do it if I feel like it. It is a rather pleasant job I think ;o).. Lonnie Phoebe & Eloisa's mama & expecting a Christmas delivery... My therapist told me the way to achieve true inner peace is to finish what you start. So far today, I have finished 2 bags of chips and a Chocolate cake. I feel better already. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 > I can!! ( - not to mention last time I fixed the PC, wired up our > underfloor heating, and assembled our flat packed book shelves! ) > > (Oh well perhaps not the cut the grass part - though I did assemble > the lawn mower for him so he could do it...!!) > > Karina Honestly Karina we are doppelgangers!!!!(or our DH's are) Although I have mown the lawn recently! and DH is a gardener for a living! If I let DH drill a hole in the wall to put up a shelf, you can guarantee that five minutes later I will be doing it again after his shelf has fallen down! :-)) He has even given up trying now and he just hands me the drill! Put him near a computer and he would have a breakdown. But like all the rest he does have some good qualities, somewhere, I think! Kirsten Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 > I can!! ( - not to mention last time I fixed the PC, wired up our > underfloor heating, and assembled our flat packed book shelves! ) > > (Oh well perhaps not the cut the grass part - though I did assemble > the lawn mower for him so he could do it...!!) > > Karina Honestly Karina we are doppelgangers!!!!(or our DH's are) Although I have mown the lawn recently! and DH is a gardener for a living! If I let DH drill a hole in the wall to put up a shelf, you can guarantee that five minutes later I will be doing it again after his shelf has fallen down! :-)) He has even given up trying now and he just hands me the drill! Put him near a computer and he would have a breakdown. But like all the rest he does have some good qualities, somewhere, I think! Kirsten Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2001 Report Share Posted August 22, 2001 > Honestly Karina we are doppelgangers!!!!(or our DH's are) > Although I have mown the lawn recently! and DH is a gardener for a > living! If I let DH drill a hole in the wall to put up a shelf, you > can guarantee that five minutes later I will be doing it again after > his shelf has fallen down! :-)) He has even given up trying now and > he just hands me the drill! > > Put him near a computer and he would have a breakdown. But like all > the rest he does have some good qualities, somewhere, I think! > > Kirsten ------- I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he goes anyway near it!!! :-) T _________________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 >I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he goes anyway near it!!! :-) T I got a cordless screwdriver for my birthday a couple of years ago - brilliant thing, makes flat pack furniture almost fun to put together - I suggested it to DH after I put tog DS2's bunk bed + under machrie desk and 'arm chair' together with a standard screwdriver and allen key! When it comes to drilling holes in wall though he makes a neater job than I do! And he can definately cut hedges straighter and neater than I can!!! Anyone passing our house will be able to tell that he went to Taiwan and left the hedge so long the gate wouldn't open far enough to get the car open - after a week I decided it was better to hack at the hedge than risk needing a paint job done on the car. Liz Goudie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 >I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he goes anyway near it!!! :-) T I got a cordless screwdriver for my birthday a couple of years ago - brilliant thing, makes flat pack furniture almost fun to put together - I suggested it to DH after I put tog DS2's bunk bed + under machrie desk and 'arm chair' together with a standard screwdriver and allen key! When it comes to drilling holes in wall though he makes a neater job than I do! And he can definately cut hedges straighter and neater than I can!!! Anyone passing our house will be able to tell that he went to Taiwan and left the hedge so long the gate wouldn't open far enough to get the car open - after a week I decided it was better to hack at the hedge than risk needing a paint job done on the car. Liz Goudie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 This is what I need. Not that I'm big on DIY, but when I need a screwdriver, tapemeasure, whatever - do you think I can find one? Nope. His tools are all over the place and even he doesn't know what's where. Seems things get left where they were used last. I even got a friend to my me screwdriver sets for Xmas last year and I noticed half of those have gone into the blackhole too. Todman Treasurer, Stansted Branch (R5) Mum to , 3½ > I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he > goes anyway near it!!! :-) > > T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 This is what I need. Not that I'm big on DIY, but when I need a screwdriver, tapemeasure, whatever - do you think I can find one? Nope. His tools are all over the place and even he doesn't know what's where. Seems things get left where they were used last. I even got a friend to my me screwdriver sets for Xmas last year and I noticed half of those have gone into the blackhole too. Todman Treasurer, Stansted Branch (R5) Mum to , 3½ > I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he > goes anyway near it!!! :-) > > T Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 > This is what I need. Not that I'm big on DIY, but when I need a > screwdriver, tapemeasure, whatever - do you think I can find one? > Nope. His tools are all over the place and even he doesn't know > what's where. DH has a metal toolbox which he keeps on his office floor for some reason - a fact i always forget because i stub my toes on it all the time!!! But at least all the main household tools are always in there. Caroline Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 wrote: > I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he > goes anyway near it!!! :-) Me too ... but funny enough every time I go to get something out of it it has often made it's way over to Gethyn's toolbox - hummmppphhh - does cause some arguments !!! Maybe I should ask for a locking one for my birthday Jenni (& Gethyn) 17yrs, Mari 3yrs (H/B), Babi Bach exp.09/2001 = 36wks+ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2001 Report Share Posted August 23, 2001 wrote: > I have my own toolbox, plus drill, sander etc etc, god help DH if he > goes anyway near it!!! :-) Me too ... but funny enough every time I go to get something out of it it has often made it's way over to Gethyn's toolbox - hummmppphhh - does cause some arguments !!! Maybe I should ask for a locking one for my birthday Jenni (& Gethyn) 17yrs, Mari 3yrs (H/B), Babi Bach exp.09/2001 = 36wks+ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 14, 2002 Report Share Posted July 14, 2002 I just thought I'd share about my husband.....He is totally supportive of anything that makes me feel better. We started dating a year before I started having problems and after we were married I started having more and more problems. Going from very healthy to not even being to stand up, in about a month I think helped him understand. He went to all of my doctors visits in the beginning because I couldn't even drive. He is very understanding, well, as understanding as one can get without having fibro and he helps out a lot around the home front along with the kids. ~ --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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