need help

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To be completely honest I got the answer from my gyno that I

wanted. He agreed to the myo, not to mention that he did not

disagree to any of this due to the fact that from my dio' to now he

has been out of town, and I came to him with enough info from you

ladies that I know what I was talking about. Can someone please tell

me how to deal with a husband that only wants to know when to be

there and when. Don't get me wrong. I know that he cares but I

almost think that he is dealing with what he has to handle with our

2 girls. Age 2 and 3. I am scared for myself, (with no one to turn

to since there are things to be done) my girls and my parents who

are learing through me ( thanks to the great wisdom that you share)

and the fact that fear is not an option. I by no means feel that I

have done the wrong thing, I am only 37 and have a long life to live

with or without fibroids. Right now I just need the strength that

he is (right now) giving our children (which they need, but need

some myself). I know that this is very hard on him because he does

not talk about things but at this point it is not helping me. I

love my babies more than life itself. Sorry this is so long just

having a moment).