Re: Heartbroken and so sad...

[Guest guest]

Hi,

I'm sorry this had to happen to you, especially when you're sick and will have

surgery soon.

I can tell you a lot of things that you already know as far as your boyfriend's

is concerned. I've read this on the list before. You are not alone or the first.

The women here can help you with the nervousness before your surgery. I'd like

to cheer you up, it would be better for your health but all I can say is that

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Maybe you'll just have to wait a little

while longer for your baby and a good husband. Life is filled with surprises.

Tell the women here what it is about your surgery that makes you most nervous

and maybe we can help ease your mind about this.

Ku

cathyatdeli cathyatdeli@...> wrote:

My boyfriend and I broke up on Sunday night..it has been such a sad

fews days...I am going to have a myo on June 25th and the doc said

TTC in 3 months..that is not going to happen now..and I am just so

blue at the moment and nervous.

Cathy

[Guest guest]

Cathy:

A Big Hug.

He was not the right one.

You don't want a mate that flees under stress.

Believe me, kids WILL cause stress.

Better he leave now than after.

Gather your friends around and

know you will get through this.

Get as many real life hugs too.

My myo was the best thing I have ever done

beside quitting smoking. I would do it again

many times if I had to in order to regain my

life and my options back.

Best wishes.

gigi

kukalaka wrote:

>Hi,

>

>I'm sorry this had to happen to you, especially when you're sick and will have

surgery soon.

>

>I can tell you a lot of things that you already know as far as your boyfriend's

is concerned. I've read this on the list before. You are not alone or the first.

>

>The women here can help you with the nervousness before your surgery. I'd like

to cheer you up, it would be better for your health but all I can say is that

I'm sorry to hear about your breakup. Maybe you'll just have to wait a little

while longer for your baby and a good husband. Life is filled with surprises.

>

>Tell the women here what it is about your surgery that makes you most nervous

and maybe we can help ease your mind about this.

>

>

>Ku

>

>cathyatdeli cathyatdeli@...> wrote:

>My boyfriend and I broke up on Sunday night..it has been such a sad

>fews days...I am going to have a myo on June 25th and the doc said

>TTC in 3 months..that is not going to happen now..and I am just so

>blue at the moment and nervous.

>Cathy

>

>

>

>

>MEETUP! with other local women who have Uterine Fibroids.

http://uterinefibroids.meetup.com

>

[Guest guest]

Cathy,

Please know that you are not alone in your distress. Actually, you should look

at this as a blessing that your boyfriend is gone because now God will bring to

you a better and stronger person in your life. This person will be everything

that you have ever wanted in a husband or boyfriend. Trust me on this because

me and an ex boyfriend split up years ago and it was verrrrrrrrrrrrrrrry bad as

bad can get. Years later I have found someone else and he is 100% better than

my ex could ever be. So you see I am glad I went through the bad time because

now I can truly appreciate the godsend that I have now.

Keep your chin up and have faith that everything will work out as GOD intended

it to.

By the way, my myo is tomorrow.

hopefull998

cathyatdeli cathyatdeli@...> wrote:

My boyfriend and I broke up on Sunday night..it has been such a sad

fews days...I am going to have a myo on June 25th and the doc said

TTC in 3 months..that is not going to happen now..and I am just so

blue at the moment and nervous.

Cathy

[Guest guest]

Hi Cathy

I really feel for your situation...and think that the best thing you

can do right now is to surround yourself with special people in your

life. A friend or two and family can make all the differene in the

world.

I do understand your fear...when I am scared, I think of something

that makes me laugh...like Inspector Clouseau in the Pink Panther

series or an ironic story...

See a silly, touching movie...like the woman who ends up marrying 3

men...not that she intended on doing this...one who provides her with

a home (he is a jerk otherwise), then the man who provides her with a

loving friendship and finally the one who provides her with great sex!

Your time shall come...(not necessarily marrying three men of course!)

in the meantime take good care of yourself...

Barb

> My boyfriend and I broke up on Sunday night..it has been such a sad

> fews days...I am going to have a myo on June 25th and the doc said

> TTC in 3 months..that is not going to happen now..and I am just so

> blue at the moment and nervous.

> Cathy