Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Posted February 13, 2008 Hi all! Two days ago I experienced something I have never felt before and was worried would never happen. My husband and I had fear free sex. According to Rhonda, I was supposed to wait longer, but I was wanting to try it since so much of my pain was gone and I have so much more control with the PFDs. My husband wasn't planning on us going through with it, so it was all in my hands. I put lidocaine on the skin that was still tender, did my PFDs and it went beautifully! I had no pain, actually, I had pleasure. And the best part of all, there was no fear of pain or guilt. I could just enjoy it. I've never had that...I've always had pain and fear and this shows me that things can get better and will get better and that mentally I will not be frozen in this pain cycle even though it's always been there. I wish that we all can get there someday. Have a great day ladies. in IL Quote
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Posted February 13, 2008 That is fantastic, . I wish you the best! Hugs, Chelle Quote
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2008 Report Posted February 13, 2008 That is fantastic, . I wish you the best! Hugs, Chelle Quote
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