Re: So glad i have found/ e x

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Welcome e x.

I'm sure you will find good friends here.

The questions " why me? " , is one that most of us ask, asked or will ask in

the future, especially when times get rough. I have 3 kids and I can imagine

how hard it must be to have 5 and deal with lupus on top of that. Just do

your best. I go mad sometimes too. That's when I ask people for help. I'm

usually a pretty independent person, even my hubby jokes about it that I

don't really need him, but he knows when I start going nuts, he is the first

one that I will ask for help. And he better do it, too! I hope you are

surrounded by people who can help you. It is very important to have support.

Hope you enjoy yourself, and please write whenever you feel like it,

whether to ask questions, joke or complain and whine.

Mojo

So glad i have found

> Dear all,

>

> I am new to this - i only joined today. I was told recently that i

> have a connective tissue disease and currently am waiting for test to

> be done to find out which ctd it is. I am a 35yr old female from the

> uk. I am married with 5 children and when not off sick i work full

> time. I have gone through so many feelings recently anger, fear ,

> frustration and the why me? its been a rolar coaster to be honest. I

> really hope that we can become good friends - sometimes i think i'm

> going mad - i was a little nutty before i became ill lol. or so my

> children tell me! My problems began just after i had my youngest

> child in july '01 but it was only last year they told me my ovaries

> had gone into failure and my health has gone dow hill since - with

> flair ups reducing me to crawling up the stairs it was then i knew i

> had to get more help from my g.p. lol

>

> i have rattled on so i shall close for now

> take care all and look forward to chatting some more

>

> e x

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