Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I say get your surgery done. You might not get another chance. You can always get another job. Listen to your hubby. Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I say get your surgery done. You might not get another chance. You can always get another job. Listen to your hubby. Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I say get your surgery done. You might not get another chance. You can always get another job. Listen to your hubby. Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our insurance changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able to have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Your boss cannnot tell you you can't have surgery if your dr has stated that is it necessary. It is not up to your boss when you are having surgery. Call your HR at you job. bmuscial wrote: I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our insurance changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able to have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Mortgage rates as low as 4.625% - $150,000 loan for $579 a month. Intro-*Terms Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Your boss cannnot tell you you can't have surgery if your dr has stated that is it necessary. It is not up to your boss when you are having surgery. Call your HR at you job. bmuscial wrote: I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our insurance changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able to have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Mortgage rates as low as 4.625% - $150,000 loan for $579 a month. Intro-*Terms Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Your boss cannnot tell you you can't have surgery if your dr has stated that is it necessary. It is not up to your boss when you are having surgery. Call your HR at you job. bmuscial wrote: I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our insurance changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able to have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. --------------------------------- Sponsored Link Mortgage rates as low as 4.625% - $150,000 loan for $579 a month. Intro-*Terms Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Your boss can not tell you to reschedule surgery for her convience. Your surgery is cruial to your life. I would talk to her one more time and tell her, Nov. 28th is when your doctor has you scheduled and your insurance will not pay if you don't have it now. You really don't have to say anything to her except I have surgery scheduled and advise of the time you need off. If she still gives you a problem. Then go talk to her boss or like said, the HR Dept. and don't quit. If they fire you over this. You can drawn your unemployment and sue the ---- at of them. Just my opinion. Hope it all works out for you. Keep us posted. I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our insurance > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able to > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > > > > > --------------------------------- > Sponsored Link > > Mortgage rates as low as 4.625% - $150,000 loan for $579 a month. Intro-*Terms > > Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I say have the surgery and tell your boss that you have scheduled it and that you are sprry that it is not a good time for her. Sincerely, Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I say have the surgery and tell your boss that you have scheduled it and that you are sprry that it is not a good time for her. Sincerely, Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Don't quit - you need the insurance. If you scheduled with enough notice - you should go to your HR Department. See if you can get your doctor to defend your decision... wrote: I would check to see if you qualify for FMLA. That is a government thing and if your employer employees up to so many employees with in a 75 mile radius, guess what? You can take FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) and there is NOTHING your boss can say or do about it......they can't even fire you for taking it or they will be in BIG trouble. I have a feeling that they know the insurance will not cover the surgery after the first of they year and they are STALLING on you. RUN, RUN, RUN to the hospital and tell your boss to stick it. First thing Monday moring though, find out and MAKE SURE your employer does fall under the FMLA regulations, this does NOT matter what state you are in, this is a federal thing thanks to the first BUSH president. Go for it!!!!!! Hope this helps, H. > > > > I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our > insurance > > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able > to > > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > __________________________________________________ Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Don't quit - you need the insurance. If you scheduled with enough notice - you should go to your HR Department. See if you can get your doctor to defend your decision... wrote: I would check to see if you qualify for FMLA. That is a government thing and if your employer employees up to so many employees with in a 75 mile radius, guess what? You can take FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) and there is NOTHING your boss can say or do about it......they can't even fire you for taking it or they will be in BIG trouble. I have a feeling that they know the insurance will not cover the surgery after the first of they year and they are STALLING on you. RUN, RUN, RUN to the hospital and tell your boss to stick it. First thing Monday moring though, find out and MAKE SURE your employer does fall under the FMLA regulations, this does NOT matter what state you are in, this is a federal thing thanks to the first BUSH president. Go for it!!!!!! Hope this helps, H. > > > > I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our > insurance > > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able > to > > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > __________________________________________________ Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 Don't quit - you need the insurance. If you scheduled with enough notice - you should go to your HR Department. See if you can get your doctor to defend your decision... wrote: I would check to see if you qualify for FMLA. That is a government thing and if your employer employees up to so many employees with in a 75 mile radius, guess what? You can take FMLA (Family Medical Leave Act) and there is NOTHING your boss can say or do about it......they can't even fire you for taking it or they will be in BIG trouble. I have a feeling that they know the insurance will not cover the surgery after the first of they year and they are STALLING on you. RUN, RUN, RUN to the hospital and tell your boss to stick it. First thing Monday moring though, find out and MAKE SURE your employer does fall under the FMLA regulations, this does NOT matter what state you are in, this is a federal thing thanks to the first BUSH president. Go for it!!!!!! Hope this helps, H. > > > > I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our > insurance > > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able > to > > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > __________________________________________________ Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I think we already had some postings on FMLA and employers/bosses forbidding or tryint to interfere with surgery dates. I think it came down to an issue of giving suffecient notice to the employer (30 days). I can understand that concern here over complications and insurance not being available for them in this case except that those same complications could occur two months after surgery on the 28th too. Mike in GR > > > > > > I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > > > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > > > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > > > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > > > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > > > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our > > insurance > > > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > > > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able > > to > > > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > > > > Quote
Guest guest Posted November 19, 2006 Report Posted November 19, 2006 I think we already had some postings on FMLA and employers/bosses forbidding or tryint to interfere with surgery dates. I think it came down to an issue of giving suffecient notice to the employer (30 days). I can understand that concern here over complications and insurance not being available for them in this case except that those same complications could occur two months after surgery on the 28th too. Mike in GR > > > > > > I am new to this forum and i just wanted to say hello. I am suspose > > > to be having surgery on the 28th but my boss said that it wasn't > > > convient for her for me to be off at that time and i will have to > > > reschedule. Ok problem. My husband wants me to just tell her ok and > > > work up until my surgery and then quit the night before. Also the > > > next time i can have my surgery is dec 19 and then jan 1 our > > insurance > > > changes and it doesn't cover my surgery any more. So my husband is > > > afarid that something may happen on the 19 and then i won't be able > > to > > > have my surgery at all. I don't know what to do. > > > > > > Quote
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