Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 My DD was 9#4 oz when she was born at full term and I had her vaginal. I hardly had any stitches. My twins were 3#10 oz and 4 # 10 oz and they tore me apart and it took over an hour to sew me up. So I really don't think size matters much after that. I will say recovery from a vaginal is much, much better and ssoooo worth it afterwards. Don't forget too that the ultra sounds are not for sure right, they can go a pound either way but more so for the smaller size, when they put those x's on the machine if they are even a hair over it can add pounds or ounces to your baby, ssooooo I would go with a vaginal unless a c-section is needed. Also my friends daughter in law in Vermont had a 10#2oz girl " all natural " no meds at all, a few months after I had mine and she only had a couple stitches too So I pray for you that you have an easy delivery and labor and enjoy that beautiful miracle that is coming shortly HUGS, ROBIN, NY Age- 41 TTC#4 - OPEN RNY 10-18-02 378/246/170??? DR.EDWARD HIXSON SARANAC LAKE, NY Mom to: & 7 1/2 year twin boys and Madison age 4 1/2 yrs. Miscarraige August 2001 Miscarraige August 2003 Married to Pup: 15 years this Halloween : ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 -Wow Meredith sounds like you have a big baby there. Do you know why the baby is so big? I had a c-section with my son because he was in distress and I had a horrible experience with it. I ended up back in the hospital with an infection and it was really painful. I think it was worse than open rny. I haven't had a vaginal delivery, but I am hoping that this one is going to be. Most people that I know who had big babies had to have a c-section. You should discuss this with your Dr. I am sure he should know by now what he plans on doing. Whatever happens, it will all be worth it for that beautiful baby!! Good luck! Tammy -- In OSSG-pregnant , " Meredith " wrote: > My baby is on the large size. Ultrasound today showed her weighing > in at 9 lbs 4 oz. I'm just now 37 weeks. What do you think the pros > and cons of a c-section vs. vaginal are? I know it's different for > everyone but I would like some other viewpoints. I just don't know > if I want to go through a recovery from major surgery. It will make > it harder, but I will have help from my husband and family. The > doctor may take this out of my hands if she continues with her rate > of growth. > > Thanks! > Meredith > Baby > Edd 11-03-03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 Meredith, I have had 2 c-sections. My first was an emergency c-section. With the secound baby I was planning a vaginal birth (VBAC), but due to my cervix never thinning out, and having excess amniotic fluid I had a repeat c-section. When I have another baby I will definetly have a c-section. My philosphy is whatever way is safest for my baby and doesn't compromise their healthi s the way for me. Definetly the recovery time with a c-section is longer, but you also do not go thru labor. For me the recovery of c-sections was easier than an open RNY. But, the recovery form my RNY wasn't bad either. Listen to your OB, if he thinks that a c-section is for you, then maybe that is the way to go. Although, my friend delivered a 10lb baby that was 2.5 weeks early. When the US showed the baby measuring large, she was induced early, and vaginally delivered her daughter. Best wishes and Good luck! C-section vs. Vaginal > My baby is on the large size. Ultrasound today showed her weighing > in at 9 lbs 4 oz. I'm just now 37 weeks. What do you think the pros > and cons of a c-section vs. vaginal are? I know it's different for > everyone but I would like some other viewpoints. I just don't know > if I want to go through a recovery from major surgery. It will make > it harder, but I will have help from my husband and family. The > doctor may take this out of my hands if she continues with her rate > of growth. > > Thanks! > Meredith > Baby > Edd 11-03-03 > > > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 Hi Meredith, I had a baby that they thought was huge in the u/s, but ended up just being large 8,12 and 21 in. If there isn't a reasoe that a c/s is Needed, then induce and deliver vag. It's not talked about much, but labor is really important for both you and the baby... especialy for the baby. The hormones that are released help the baby adjust to the outside world, and the contractions help get the babys system going. If for some reason you agree with the drs that a c/s is Needed, if at all possible try to labor for a while first. I know it probably seems nuts to go thru that effort.. but it's really worth it. Unfortunetly I am not a medical professional, so plese get in touch with someone that can help explain this to you. A certified Nurse Midwife(CNM) would be a great person to talk with about this. BTW, my dd was induced at 36.5 weeks- labor was just 6 hrs from first contraction to delivery, and was a " natural " birth. To be honest I'm not crazy about inducing... but it has to be better then a c/s, if you are possitive about the date of your preg! All in all it wasn't bad. And I got a beautiful little girl! Yee! Make sure when you are working with the Lactation Consultant or nurses with feedings to let them know or remind them that your little bundle was a litte bit early, that might let them notice any little things that might need a bit of help. It's better to see them early then try to deal with them later! ) Anyway, I hth's- Get some rest, try to walk when you can, and try to cherish these next few days. They are some of my favorite memories... getting so excited about the litte one to come! ~ ________________________________________________________________ The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 Meredith, In response to 's post. Labor is MUCH better for the baby. spent 3 nights in the NICU due to sluggish breathing. My OB saidd it was due to excess amniotic fluid and the fact that c-section babies don't get the excess pushed out of them, as vaginally delivered babies due while going thru the birth canal. Nonetheless, if you can have a vaginal delivery that is great, if it comes down to the point that for the baby/your health, your OB will discuss that with you. Although my son spent his first 3 nights in the NICU, he came home with me and is just fine! To: OSSG-pregnant > Sent: Thursday, October 09, 2003 5:35 PM Subject: Re: C-section vs. Vaginal > > Hi Meredith, > > I had a baby that they thought was huge in the u/s, but ended up just being large 8,12 and 21 in. If there isn't a reasoe that a c/s is Needed, then induce and deliver vag. It's not talked about much, but labor is really important for both you and the baby... especialy for the baby. The hormones that are released help the baby adjust to the outside world, and the contractions help get the babys system going. If for some reason you agree with the drs that a c/s is Needed, if at all possible try to labor for a while first. I know it probably seems nuts to go thru that effort.. but it's really worth it. > > Unfortunetly I am not a medical professional, so plese get in touch with someone that can help explain this to you. A certified Nurse Midwife(CNM) would be a great person to talk with about this. > > BTW, my dd was induced at 36.5 weeks- labor was just 6 hrs from first contraction to delivery, and was a " natural " birth. To be honest I'm not crazy about inducing... but it has to be better then a c/s, if you are possitive about the date of your preg! All in all it wasn't bad. And I got a beautiful little girl! Yee! > > Make sure when you are working with the Lactation Consultant or nurses with feedings to let them know or remind them that your little bundle was a litte bit early, that might let them notice any little things that might need a bit of help. It's better to see them early then try to deal with them later! ) > > Anyway, I hth's- Get some rest, try to walk when you can, and try to cherish these next few days. They are some of my favorite memories... getting so excited about the litte one to come! > > ~ > > ________________________________________________________________ > The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! > Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! > Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today! > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 , My son was born vaginally and spent 4 days in NICU with the same " wet lung " problem as your son. The doctor's said it is so uncommon for it to happen with a vaginal delivery. He was a big boy 9 lb 4 oz and as much pushing as it took, I couldn't believe there was that much fluid still in his lungs! Just thought I'd share my experience. Amber edd 6/12/03 wls 8/07/02 360-178 ds Noah 8/20/00 (on the Autism Spectrum but still perfect in my eyes) Re: C-section vs. Vaginal > > Hi Meredith, > > I had a baby that they thought was huge in the u/s, but ended up just being large 8,12 and 21 in. If there isn't a reasoe that a c/s is Needed, then induce and deliver vag. It's not talked about much, but labor is really important for both you and the baby... especialy for the baby. The hormones that are released help the baby adjust to the outside world, and the contractions help get the babys system going. If for some reason you agree with the drs that a c/s is Needed, if at all possible try to labor for a while first. I know it probably seems nuts to go thru that effort.. but it's really worth it. > > Unfortunetly I am not a medical professional, so plese get in touch with someone that can help explain this to you. A certified Nurse Midwife(CNM) would be a great person to talk with about this. > > BTW, my dd was induced at 36.5 weeks- labor was just 6 hrs from first contraction to delivery, and was a " natural " birth. To be honest I'm not crazy about inducing... but it has to be better then a c/s, if you are possitive about the date of your preg! All in all it wasn't bad. And I got a beautiful little girl! Yee! > > Make sure when you are working with the Lactation Consultant or nurses with feedings to let them know or remind them that your little bundle was a litte bit early, that might let them notice any little things that might need a bit of help. It's better to see them early then try to deal with them later! ) > > Anyway, I hth's- Get some rest, try to walk when you can, and try to cherish these next few days. They are some of my favorite memories... getting so excited about the litte one to come! > > ~ > > ________________________________________________________________ > The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! > Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! > Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today! > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 Amber, Well, I gues it can happen either way ( " wet lung " ). But my OB did say the same as your DR. with it being common for c-section babies. Wow, 9lb 4 oz is a big boy to deliver vaginally. Thanks for sharing Amber! Re: C-section vs. Vaginal > > > > > > Hi Meredith, > > > > I had a baby that they thought was huge in the u/s, but ended up just > being large 8,12 and 21 in. If there isn't a reasoe that a c/s is Needed, > then induce and deliver vag. It's not talked about much, but labor is > really important for both you and the baby... especialy for the baby. The > hormones that are released help the baby adjust to the outside world, and > the contractions help get the babys system going. If for some reason you > agree with the drs that a c/s is Needed, if at all possible try to labor for > a while first. I know it probably seems nuts to go thru that effort.. but > it's really worth it. > > > > Unfortunetly I am not a medical professional, so plese get in touch with > someone that can help explain this to you. A certified Nurse Midwife(CNM) > would be a great person to talk with about this. > > > > BTW, my dd was induced at 36.5 weeks- labor was just 6 hrs from first > contraction to delivery, and was a " natural " birth. To be honest I'm not > crazy about inducing... but it has to be better then a c/s, if you are > possitive about the date of your preg! All in all it wasn't bad. And I got > a beautiful little girl! Yee! > > > > Make sure when you are working with the Lactation Consultant or nurses > with feedings to let them know or remind them that your little bundle was a > litte bit early, that might let them notice any little things that might > need a bit of help. It's better to see them early then try to deal with > them later! ) > > > > Anyway, I hth's- Get some rest, try to walk when you can, and try to > cherish these next few days. They are some of my favorite memories... > getting so excited about the litte one to come! > > > > ~ > > > > ________________________________________________________________ > > The best thing to hit the internet in years - Juno SpeedBand! > > Surf the web up to FIVE TIMES FASTER! > > Only $14.95/ month - visit www.juno.com to sign up today! > > > > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 With my Daughter Born 9-12-03, I had an ultrasound the day just before they induced me.. ( I was almost 42 weeks, and Had low fluid around her) they told me she was about 8 pounds.... My labor never progressed, and I ended up having a c-section.. She was Born only weighing 6 lbs 15oz... SO ultrasound weights aren't always right on target!! ... Hannah Lee 9-12-03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 With my Daughter Born 9-12-03, I had an ultrasound the day just before they induced me.. ( I was almost 42 weeks, and Had low fluid around her) they told me she was about 8 pounds.... My labor never progressed, and I ended up having a c-section.. She was Born only weighing 6 lbs 15oz... SO ultrasound weights aren't always right on target!! ... Hannah Lee 9-12-03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 9, 2003 Report Share Posted October 9, 2003 " Wet lung " is most common in C-section births because the fluid is usually pushed out of the lungs as the baby travels down the birth canal during a vaginal delivery. Congratulations on your new baby. > Amber, > Well, I gues it can happen either way ( " wet lung " ). But my OB did say the > same as your DR. with it being common for c-section babies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2003 Report Share Posted October 12, 2003 Hi Meredith.. I read your message and wanted to write back.. GO FOR THE C-SECTION!! I healed faster than my bestfriend who went natural 4 days before me!! But then I got reading the great responses.. and it has even CHANGED my mind.. I will be going VBAC.. But just so you know... If you have to have an c-section, don't be afraid of recovery.. just follow the rules that we do with the RNY.. WALK, WALK, WALK.. I got out of my bed every few hours to go for a nice long walk with my baby in her bassinet to show her off.. and I really did myself a great thing.. I was healed in no time.. Also I agree with the other responses about the weight of the baby from and u/s.. sometimes they are right on the money.. other times they are REAL off.. My ultrasound said 3 horus before the birth, that she was 5lbs 3oz. She was 8lbs 2oz. So hopefully your baby is a little smaller, and makes it through the birth canal quickly and with no help! Best of luck! JenNY edd 5-14-2003 RNY 4-4-2003 > My baby is on the large size. Ultrasound today showed her weighing > in at 9 lbs 4 oz. I'm just now 37 weeks. What do you think the pros > and cons of a c-section vs. vaginal are? I know it's different for > everyone but I would like some other viewpoints. I just don't know > if I want to go through a recovery from major surgery. It will make > it harder, but I will have help from my husband and family. The > doctor may take this out of my hands if she continues with her rate > of growth. > > Thanks! > Meredith > Baby > Edd 11-03-03 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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