Re: Re: TO MEMBERS THAT HAVE RESPONDED TO AMEY...

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Gees, Amey. You started out by sending a post that even you mentioned might be found as troublesome by others.....Folks had a response to it. I don't think that that is unreasonable given that you stated your opinion and others have their own opinion as well. I frankly find the post below to be really sarcastic and unsupportive. You can't very well expect to post a strong opinion and not get at least some kind of reaction. Sincerely......Is there something that you're struggling with that you need to talk about? I'd be glad to listen....Honest. No offense to you meant by me, but please read what you're writing before you send it because you're really sounding pretty nasty. Barbaraamey73 wrote:

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER...

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Amey,

Now I will say what I have never said to you. I think you are an extremely inconsiderate nasty person, and I do not give a Damn what is wrong with you. Kick me out of this group, but Amey you are nothing more than a NASTY B---H!! You have thought from the first time a read your messages that you are better and know more than anyone else! Honey go back to school because you need help. If you want to run your mouth learn how to speak and spell!!!!! If you want to insult me come to my front door and I will gladly let you in! Don't you dare threaten my friends because you are ignorant! I will leave this group before I ever deal with such trash like yourself!!

Dawn

Dawnamey73 wrote:

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER...

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I just have one question for you. Who died and made you Queen

Lin

-- RE: TO MEMBERS THAT HAVE RESPONDED TO AMEY...

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER...

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Okay, some of the others have been overly tactful in dealing with this disrespectful post. I myself have been "lurking" and avoiding posting because this new "experimental" drug they have me on is pulling a Jeckyl/Hyde thing on me so I thought best to spare you all my craziness until I regain some sense of normalcy. Yeah, that's right experimental treatment.....sure, there's risk involved.....could it make me worse, absolutely.....does that mean I play it safe and hide from any risk, abandoning any chance I can get my hands on of finding some relief, NOT ON YOUR LIFE. Honey, leaving the house in the morning is a risk.....but then again, there are those of us who believe that actually "living" is worth that risk.

This is a support group....where we offer support, encouragement, companionship....in order to do these things we must communicate with one another; so if you didn't want people to respond (quite understandably) to such a speech as yours, then don't post it. I, unlike some others here, am in no way, shape, or form willing to give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. Remember Sadie, our friend from down under who was so emotionally overwhelmed by what the RSD was doing to her life that all she needed from us was support......she expressed thoughts that were downright suicidal and quite frankly scared me the last time she posted, and how did you respond Amey? You yelled at her for "incorrectly" posted......even in the state the poor thing was in, she posted back an apology to you......that was months ago, and she's never posted since.

Now, Dawn has some reaction to the drugs she's taking perhaps, or some other ailment attacking her that she doesn't know anything about yet......and I think we can all agree that she has enough on her plate as it is, without having to deal with something new.....and once again, your thoughtless, immature comments chase away someone who actually needs our support and fosters an ugly environment for the rest of us.

The people in this group are all here to support one another, not yell at one another.....please, do us all a favor and take your negativity elsewhere. If we all wanted to feel the way you make us feel.....well, then I guess we'd all be calling up all those long lost friends of ours who couldn't be bothered by our RSD-tinged lives....they're about as supportive as your brand of "caring" is.

I'm horribly sorry if I've offended any of the rest of you with this post. That's just been festering in me for many months now and while some things may be better left unsaid......I just felt enough is enough. I'll crawl back into my hole now until I'm feeling more social.....or at least less confrontational. Have a good night all. Tricia

(PS Cliff, if you read this through, I'm incredibly apologetic for my not being able to keep my opinions to myself; you caught me at a really touchy point the last time we spoke and that's simply no excuse for my behavior.....forgive me.)amey73 wrote:

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER...

[Guest guest]

Okay, some of the others have been overly tactful in dealing with this disrespectful post. I myself have been "lurking" and avoiding posting because this new "experimental" drug they have me on is pulling a Jeckyl/Hyde thing on me so I thought best to spare you all my craziness until I regain some sense of normalcy. Yeah, that's right experimental treatment.....sure, there's risk involved.....could it make me worse, absolutely.....does that mean I play it safe and hide from any risk, abandoning any chance I can get my hands on of finding some relief, NOT ON YOUR LIFE. Honey, leaving the house in the morning is a risk.....but then again, there are those of us who believe that actually "living" is worth that risk.

This is a support group....where we offer support, encouragement, companionship....in order to do these things we must communicate with one another; so if you didn't want people to respond (quite understandably) to such a speech as yours, then don't post it. I, unlike some others here, am in no way, shape, or form willing to give you the benefit of the doubt any longer. Remember Sadie, our friend from down under who was so emotionally overwhelmed by what the RSD was doing to her life that all she needed from us was support......she expressed thoughts that were downright suicidal and quite frankly scared me the last time she posted, and how did you respond Amey? You yelled at her for "incorrectly" posted......even in the state the poor thing was in, she posted back an apology to you......that was months ago, and she's never posted since.

Now, Dawn has some reaction to the drugs she's taking perhaps, or some other ailment attacking her that she doesn't know anything about yet......and I think we can all agree that she has enough on her plate as it is, without having to deal with something new.....and once again, your thoughtless, immature comments chase away someone who actually needs our support and fosters an ugly environment for the rest of us.

The people in this group are all here to support one another, not yell at one another.....please, do us all a favor and take your negativity elsewhere. If we all wanted to feel the way you make us feel.....well, then I guess we'd all be calling up all those long lost friends of ours who couldn't be bothered by our RSD-tinged lives....they're about as supportive as your brand of "caring" is.

I'm horribly sorry if I've offended any of the rest of you with this post. That's just been festering in me for many months now and while some things may be better left unsaid......I just felt enough is enough. I'll crawl back into my hole now until I'm feeling more social.....or at least less confrontational. Have a good night all. Tricia

(PS Cliff, if you read this through, I'm incredibly apologetic for my not being able to keep my opinions to myself; you caught me at a really touchy point the last time we spoke and that's simply no excuse for my behavior.....forgive me.)amey73 wrote:

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER...

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I'm horribly sorry if I've offended any of the rest of you with this post. That's just been festering in me for many months now and while some things may be better left unsaid......I just felt enough is enough. I'll crawl back into my hole now until I'm feeling more social.....or at least less confrontational. Have a good night all. Tricia

(PS Cliff, if you read this through, I'm incredibly apologetic for my not being able to keep my opinions to myself; you caught me at a really touchy point the last time we spoke and that's simply no excuse for my behavior.....forgive me.)

Tricia,

Here is what I think of your Post so I am sure that you know that you didn't offend me.

Take care, and let's hope that she will take all that anger someplace else.

However you have every right to post an opinion .

So take care and I hope you have a good pain day.

Lin

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I'm horribly sorry if I've offended any of the rest of you with this post. That's just been festering in me for many months now and while some things may be better left unsaid......I just felt enough is enough. I'll crawl back into my hole now until I'm feeling more social.....or at least less confrontational. Have a good night all. Tricia

(PS Cliff, if you read this through, I'm incredibly apologetic for my not being able to keep my opinions to myself; you caught me at a really touchy point the last time we spoke and that's simply no excuse for my behavior.....forgive me.)

Tricia,

Here is what I think of your Post so I am sure that you know that you didn't offend me.

Take care, and let's hope that she will take all that anger someplace else.

However you have every right to post an opinion .

So take care and I hope you have a good pain day.

Lin

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[Guest guest]

I'm horribly sorry if I've offended any of the rest of you with this post. That's just been festering in me for many months now and while some things may be better left unsaid......I just felt enough is enough. I'll crawl back into my hole now until I'm feeling more social.....or at least less confrontational. Have a good night all. Tricia

(PS Cliff, if you read this through, I'm incredibly apologetic for my not being able to keep my opinions to myself; you caught me at a really touchy point the last time we spoke and that's simply no excuse for my behavior.....forgive me.)

Tricia,

Here is what I think of your Post so I am sure that you know that you didn't offend me.

Take care, and let's hope that she will take all that anger someplace else.

However you have every right to post an opinion .

So take care and I hope you have a good pain day.

Lin

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Most of us on here are adults and should act as such...we should learn to keep our personal opinions to ourselves if they run the risk of intentionally hurting anothers feelings and shame on those who go about intetionally hurting others.I could go on forever but I won't as it doesnt change past words or anger or hurt but hopefully it will touch the hearts of those who write/speak before they think and understand the impact our words make on others.LoveDonna

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