Re: RE:REPLY TO OTHERS....

[Guest guest]

Amey, In your first letter you came across nasty and extremely angry (this is not only my interpretation but others as well). In your second letter posted below you almost redeemed yourself til I saw your third letter which is just down right rude!

DID I SAY SOMEWHERE IN MY 1ST OR ANY POST THAT THERE WAS GOING TO BE A QUESTION AND ANSWER PEROID AFTER I SPOKE?? THE RAMBLER... This is a support group...that is not supportive...you have made judgements about almost all of us...but a support group is suposed to be non-judgemental. You have 40 or so people that post on here almost every day...I read almost every letter..and no one is boohooing or saying they are depressed because of tests they had to endure or how expensive it is...don't know where you get that. Most go on here to laugh...and forget the pain they have to endure everyday and if need be, vent to people who care for them and want to listen. If you don't want to listen to people vent on their worse days and be supportive to them when they are down then you have no place being here. I am usually nice to everyone...But you have over stepped every boundary for me. Dawn and I are good

friends and I will not let a rude witch...ooops mispelled that it was supposed to be a capital B...chase her off these posts because you are being an insentative wench. How dare you judge anyone on here?...How dare you say you are supportive and caring for anyone on here after this? I have 3 really, really good friends on here...and I read your post and know you attacked one in your first post...and now attacked another...and to attack them is to attack me personally. I hate petty fights...I hate childish games..and I really hate that you have brought them onto the posts. You are right in your first letter...you rarely post and only answer questions directed at you...well maybe you should have kept it that way. I come on the post..not to have stress...but to relieve some of it....but now I have been stressed for 2 days about the posts and havent even wanted to come on and read them. You say you care about everyone on here...but

obviously there is only one person you care for and it's you...you cared about getting your opinion across but no one else can express theirs...you cared about making your jabs...but didn't care about who that would affect....you cared about you and no one else. Amey, you may say you don't need a therapist or anyone professional to talk to...but MY OPINION is you do...you need to find out why you attack people without provocation...and why you are so damn self centered. Ginny

PS I apologize to the others in the group that they had to read this cause I am posting this in the group and not sending it to you privately. amey73 wrote:

HELLO EVERYONE,,,I WOULD LIKE TO CLARIFY A FEW THINGS BECAUSE APPERANTLY SOME OF YOU ARENT GETTING THE JIST OF WHAT I AM SAYING... IN FACT, THE PEOPLE THAT ARE GOING OFF THE HANDLE ISNT EVEN THE PEOPLE THAT THIS POST WAS TOWARDS. BUT, SINCE YOU HAVE ANSWERED IT I WILL LET YOU ALL KNOW THAT, I "DID NOT" SAY STOP LOOKING FOR A CURE OR LOSE HOPE IN "ANYTHING"!! IN FACT, I DEVOTE EVERY MINUTE OF EVERYDAY TO DOING RESEARCH ON THE INTERNET AND THE LIBRARY <WHEN> I CAN GET THERE! AND I HAVE FREINDS THAT WORK FOR HUGE COMPANIES THAT SPECIFICALLY DO "RESEARCH" FOR A LIVING... SO, THATS NOT WHAT I MEANT! I MEANT THAT, TO PLEASE DONT KEEP HACKING UP YER BODIES AND DOING RETARDED TESTS AND PROCEDURES THAT COST THOUSANDS OF DOLLARS THAT TELL THESE DR'S NO MORE THAN THEY ALREADY KNEW AND MAKE YOU FEEL WORSE THAN BEFORE. I

KEEP SEEING PEOPLE POST DAY AFTER DAY THAT THEY HAD THIS TEST AND THAT TEST AND THIS PROCEDURE AND THAT PROCEDURE AND ALL THESE CRAZY MEDS ONE DAY AND HOW EXPENSIVE IT WAS AND THAT THEY ARE SOOO DEPRESSED BECUASE THEY THOUGHT IT WOULD MAKE IT GO AWAY AND NOW ITS STILL HERE AND CRYING AND ALL UPSET. THEY DONT REALISE IT MAKES THE RSD WORSE! BEING ALL UPSET AND POKING YER BODY WITH NEEDLES AND SUCH.... OR CAN EVEN MAKE IT SPREAD ON SOME CIRCUMSTANCES. I WILL TELL YOU FOR SURE THAT I "DO NOT" SPEAK TO A SHRINK NOR NEED ONE.. I AM JUST SPEAKING MY OPINION AND THOUGHTS ON THIS MATTER. AND LIKE I SAID IF YOU DO NOT LIKE WHAT I HAVE TO SAY DELETE IT OR KEEP ON GOING PAST MY POST.. I HAVE NO NEED TO BE CALLED NAMES AND SCRUTINISED (SP?) FOR TRYING TO CARE FOR SOMEONE AND THERE HEALTH. I DO! HAVE HOPE AND I SEARCH DAY IN/OUT FOR WAYS TO HELP ALL OF US IN ANYWAY I CAN.. I HAVE EVEN SENT THE MESSAGES THRU FROM OTHER SITES

THAT MAY HELP PEOPLE BUT THEY WERE NOT PUT THRU TO HERE.... AND TO CLIFF, IM SORRY YOU HAVE CANCER. I WILL TELL YOU ALL THIS THO, EVERY NITE B4 I GO TO SLEEP I SAY A PRAYER FOR EVERYONE IN HERE AND EVERYONE I KNOW THAT IS SUFFERING WITH THIS HORRIBLE DISEASE. BUT, I DID IN NO WAY EXPECT TO BE CALLED A COO-COO IN ANYWAY. APPERANTLY YOU DID NOT READ OR UNDERSTAND WHAT I HAD WRITTEN OR YOU WOULDVE NOT REPLIED IN THE WAY THAT YOU'S HAVE. I THINK THE ONLY PERSON THAT UNDERSTANDS WHAT I AM SAYING IS PAM AND TANYA AND TONIA. I AM VERY GLAD THAT WE ARE MAKING GREAT STRIDES IN GETTING A HOLD ON THIS RSD! BUT, FACE IT!! WE ARE NEVER GUNNA BE HEARD OR PEOPLE LISTEN TO US UNTIL SOMEONE FAMOUS GETS IT! AND THATS HOW IT ALWAYS IS... WELL,, I HOPE THIS CLARIFIES THINGS FOR PEOPLE THAT DID NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT I HAVE SAID. TAKE CARE AND HAVE A GREAT HOLIDAY, AMEY ((THE RAMBLER)) P.S. ONE DAY THERE

WILL BE A CURE AND WE WILL ALL LOOK BACK ON ALL OF THESE POSTS AND LAUGH ONE DAY AND SAY "WHAT WE WERE ALL THINKING BACK THEN" COULDNT WE ALL JUST GET ALONG?? WELL BEHAVED WOMEN RARELY MAKE HISTORY.. (GREATEST LINE I EVER HEARD!)