/s heart is broken .. again

[Guest guest]

Hello everyone,

My sister got a very nasty email from Hanna asking that we leave her and

her baby alone.. I havent forced myself on Hanna, or seeing Logan.. I

dearly love my son and my granddaughter.. and I had once thought that Hanna

and I were getting along fine.

However, after and Hanna moved into their apt, it was like she turned

into someone else.. I am gonna miss seeing the baby grow up, but I think

under the present circumstances that it is best that I step out of the

picture totally.

I am gonna email my son and let him know that I still love him and will be

there for him, but I cant live up to his expectations or restrictions.. and I

wish for him , Hanna and Logan a very happy and peaceful life..

I know that I have to preserve myself and take care of my psyche as well...

Thanks for all the support in advance

Hugs,

from GA

open RNY 12/12/00

Revision 04/18/01

Revision 02/07/02

St wt.... 392

Cw.......187

Wt loss..-205

[Guest guest]

- I cannot believe something like this could happen with you and Hanna. I

must have missed something inbetween and I am sure you are not in the mood to

discuss what occured but know that God knows what happened and only he can

fix matters. You are a mother and she is a mother. She will learn what being

a mother is someday. In the interim, show your son that a mothers heart is

strong.

I love you and am here for you as God is.

Love, Joycie

Joyce Blavat

" People do not make a change until the pain of remaining the same is

greater than the pain of change. "

" And those who danced were thought insane by those who refused to hear the

music... "

" If you judge people, you have no time to love them. "

- Mother

" When God measures a man, He puts the tape around the heart instead of the

head. "

[Guest guest]

,

Nobody deserves to be treated like this, especially you who has been through

thick and thin with the baby's birth and all the problems with your health.

Give all these problems up to the good Lord and he will handle them for you

and make you a much better and stronger person for it. You will all be in

my prayers. Hope we can meet someday. I love reading your posts to

everyone, you are such an inspiration to me.

God Bless you and yours,

Bev L

camelady@...

-- /s heart is broken .. again

Hello everyone,

My sister got a very nasty email from Hanna asking that we leave her and

her baby alone.. I havent forced myself on Hanna, or seeing Logan.. I

dearly love my son and my granddaughter.. and I had once thought that Hanna

and I were getting along fine.

However, after and Hanna moved into their apt, it was like she

turned

into someone else.. I am gonna miss seeing the baby grow up, but I think

under the present circumstances that it is best that I step out of the

picture totally.

I am gonna email my son and let him know that I still love him and will be

there for him, but I cant live up to his expectations or restrictions.. and

I

wish for him , Hanna and Logan a very happy and peaceful life..

I know that I have to preserve myself and take care of my psyche as well..

Thanks for all the support in advance

Hugs,

from GA

open RNY 12/12/00

Revision 04/18/01

Revision 02/07/02

St wt.... 392

Cw.......187

Wt loss..-205

[Guest guest]

Dear Im so sorry this is happening to you. I will pray they

come around and realize how much thi s baby needs a loving

grandmother like you.

Debby R (wa)

>

>Reply-To: GastricBypass-InfoCentral

>To: <GastricBypass-InfoCentral >

>Subject: Re: /s heart is broken .. again

>Date: Sun, 16 Feb 2003 20:05:35 -0500 (Eastern Standard Time)

>

>,

>

>Nobody deserves to be treated like this, especially you who has been

>through

>thick and thin with the baby's birth and all the problems with your health.

> Give all these problems up to the good Lord and he will handle them for

>you

>and make you a much better and stronger person for it. You will all be in

>my prayers. Hope we can meet someday. I love reading your posts to

>everyone, you are such an inspiration to me.

>

>God Bless you and yours,

>

>Bev L

>camelady@...

>

>

>-- /s heart is broken .. again

>

>Hello everyone,

> My sister got a very nasty email from Hanna asking that we leave her and

>her baby alone.. I havent forced myself on Hanna, or seeing Logan.. I

>dearly love my son and my granddaughter.. and I had once thought that Hanna

>and I were getting along fine.

> However, after and Hanna moved into their apt, it was like she

>turned

>into someone else.. I am gonna miss seeing the baby grow up, but I think

>under the present circumstances that it is best that I step out of the

>picture totally.

> I am gonna email my son and let him know that I still love him and will

>be

>

>there for him, but I cant live up to his expectations or restrictions.. and

>I

>wish for him , Hanna and Logan a very happy and peaceful life..

> I know that I have to preserve myself and take care of my psyche as

>well..

>

>

>Thanks for all the support in advance

>Hugs,

>

> from GA

>open RNY 12/12/00

>Revision 04/18/01

>Revision 02/07/02

>St wt.... 392

>Cw.......187

>Wt loss..-205

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

! i`m so sorry ,and i will say been there ,done that ! with a couple

of our kidfs and it`s not fun ,but the day will come when you will see

your son and grandchildren, it`s like the first time you relized that

mom was right all those years ago ,and you had to say MOM you were

right, until then life will continue and you will store all of that Love

in you and give it to others , Ethel

Gigi8083@... wrote:

> Hello everyone,

> My sister got a very nasty email from Hanna asking that we leave her

> and

> her baby alone.. I havent forced myself on Hanna, or seeing

> Logan.. I

> dearly love my son and my granddaughter.. and I had once thought that

> Hanna

> and I were getting along fine.

> However, after and Hanna moved into their apt, it was like she

> turned

> into someone else.. I am gonna miss seeing the baby grow up, but I think

> under the present circumstances that it is best that I step out of the

> picture totally.

> I am gonna email my son and let him know that I still love him and

> will be

> there for him, but I cant live up to his expectations or

> restrictions.. and I

> wish for him , Hanna and Logan a very happy and peaceful life..

> I know that I have to preserve myself and take care of my psyche as

> well...

>

> Thanks for all the support in advance

> Hugs,

>

> from GA

> open RNY 12/12/00

> Revision 04/18/01

> Revision 02/07/02

> St wt.... 392

> Cw.......187

> Wt loss..-205

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

- I'm sorry about your family problems. I did not know you were having

them. Must've started when I was on vacation from the group. Maybe Hanna is

suffering from post-partum depression? I will pray that things work out

eventually. Take care, my friend.

Jeanne in WI

Age 39

Open RNY - 5/21/02

Dr. Chua

5'7 " - 314/220/150-175