Guest guest Posted September 21, 2004 Report Share Posted September 21, 2004 Hi Jan, Sorry to hear about Duane's situation but I would like to send this message to you. I cannot say he does or does not have O2/respiratory problems but from YEARS in resp. therapy before becoming a nurse I can say, nothing is quite as frightening as thinking/feeling you are suffocating. From your recent posts his condition is very fragile, he has lost most of his ability to move, much less have an active meaningful life...he is scared, and probably fears that if he totally relaxes he will stop breathing and die. Honestly, he might. He may not have an oxygen problem but one of lacking strength to deep breathe and expand his chest...we all sigh when our bodies need a little more air, Duane's need is just more exxagerated. This is terribly hard on you to watch but you will somehow find the strength to pull him through, we all do, it is part of human nature to help those we love. The #1 most important thing you can do during one of his attacks is remain calm...holding him, rubbing his chest or shoulders will help soothe his need and reassure him he is not alone. Prayers for both of you, Debra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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