Re: week 3

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I'm so sorry she is being so insensitive!! I might be wrong BUT do

you think she is scared? Do you think she might be worried that you

will leave her once you lose the weight? It isn't a good excuse for

her to be so destructive BUT it might be the reason. I would ask her

and tell you love her and want her but if she doesn't stop this

behavior that you are going to have to leave. You need to get

healthier for you. You want a better healthier life and you want her

in it but not is she isn't going to support you. Try writing her a

letter. This way she has to sit and read it all before she responds

and you get all you feelings out on paper and don't lose what you

want to say to her if she interrupts you. Hang in there and I would

find a way out if she dosen't change.

HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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> Good Morning evrybody. Hope everyone is doing well.I am about to go

> into week 3 and I am stuck already at 284I cannot seem to break

that

> barrier. Even the obstacles seem to become greater as far as my

> girlfriend and her eating choices. I thought when I confronted her

> on this she understood my situation about it not being the actual

> food that triggers my eating but the smell but I was wrong. She

> still goes out for s and brings it home and eats in front of

> me. Now she wants to go to her sisters in Detroit for the weekend

> and that is just one big food and drink fest that I am not ready to

> handle. I have just about had enough of this garbage. I have been

> looking for places to rent so I can get out of there because I feel

> if I stay I am setting myself up for failure. But if I move I will

> also put in a transfer to move back home to North Carolina. I tried

> to find someone last night to talk with because I was having issues

> with snackingafter her s dinner but could not find no one

> online. E ven went to the support group in yahoo chat what a joke

> that was. I am bound and determined to win this battle with food

but

> sometimes it would be nice to have someone just to say it getting

> kinda hard can we talk just to take my mind off of food. Once I get

> back to work it wont be so bad because everybody there supports

what

> I have done and they are even going to mae sure I get my lunche and

> drinks on time. But the girlfriend is the big issue, she is

> triggering the impulses to by doing what she is doing. Not to

> mention I had to quit smoking but she continues to smoke so that is

> just one more thing on my plate that I dont need to deal with. As

> you can tell I am getting pretty fed up.

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